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Andrew Byron Mohebbi

1983 - 2014

BORN

1983

DIED

2014

Andrew Mohebbi Obituary

Andrew, our beloved son, brother, nephew, cousin and friend took his own life on December 26, 2014. He was just 31 years old. He is survived by his father and mother, Kathy and Hadi Mohebbi, and brother, Matthew, and extended family and friends, whose lives he touched in his own special way. Andrew suffered from Bipolar Disorder and Social Anxiety. Mental illness is insidious- it distorts memory and perception, leaving one feeling hopeless and alone. Andrew, a kind and creative man, grew discouraged, his diseases taking control of his bright spirit. Despite the best efforts of his supportive family and friends, and the best therapy and treatment available, he simply could not see a future for himself. He will be remembered for his wit, generosity, thoughtfulness, empathy and especially, his adventurous nature. Whether skydiving in New Zealand, exploring Europe with his brother, traveling solo across the United States by motorcycle, traversing the Trans-America Trail, riding through the Copper Canyon, enjoying the ocean, climbing volcanos in Guatemala or summiting Mount Kilimanjaro all with friends, Andrew lived with such energy and joy, inspiring everyone around him. When he wasn't out exploring, Andrew thrived as an entrepreneur, building successful online communities that served millions of users. His need to help others was particularly evident in his company, Social Anxiety Support, wherein he rallied sufferers and mental health professionals to work towards a shared goal of providing better resources for the mental health community. He saw the needs of others and worked endlessly to identify solutions to help address them. Still, he could not do this for himself. We make this commitment to Andrew, his memory and to those who battle mental illness: we will continue to share his story, to help break down the mental health stigmas he hated and to help improve the understanding and treatment of these diseases. We pray our dearest Andrew has found peace, and that he remains in touch with all of his passions. With all our love, now and forever, your family and friends. ------ A celebration of Andrew's life will be held on January 31st at 11am in the Squalicum Boathouse (2600 Harbor Loop) in Bellingham. In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made in his name to organizations that were dear to him and where he often volunteered: the National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI) Greater Seattle or the San Francisco Food Bank. To share stories and pictures of Andrew, please visit http://andrew.mohebbi.com or email [email protected] ------ Suicide is the 11th leading cause of death in the nation and 3rd leading cause of death in the nation's youth, claiming twice as many lives each year as HIV/AIDS. If you or someone you know is having thoughts of suicide it should be taken seriously and professional help should be found as soon as possible.

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Published by Bellingham Herald from Jan. 16 to Feb. 14, 2015.

Memories and Condolences
for Andrew Mohebbi

65 Entries

Julia Ban

January 10, 2024

Still so sorry for his passing. Thanks for sharing his story and troubles with mental health. He is loved and missed by all.
Julia Ban

Peter Woods

January 10, 2023

Still miss seeing Andrew´s amazing Streets Of San Francisco motorcycle pics. He had a great talent for catching everyday riders, and making them look Vibrant & Cool.
His pics were part of what convinced me to take another ride across the USA & have a great adventure.
Thanks for the inspiration.
- Peter Woods

Rudy

November 26, 2022

Drew and I met quite randomly in San Francisco back in 2007, before he was due to move up to Washington. During that short period, he was so generous and willing to become fast friends. We kept in touch even after he had moved, and hung out in Seattle in late 2009. Shortly thereafter, our communication stalled, and aside from a brief email in 2013, we lost touch.

Random memories prompted me to look him up online this Thanksgiving, and I was stunned to happen upon his obituary, so many years after the fact. I can't begin to express how crestfallen I am to learn about what he struggled with, and cannot fathom how this has hit his family and friends. Been thinking of him ever since.

Drew allowed me to photograph him (a hobby of mine) while he was still in San Francisco. Adding my favorite shot from our shoot that afternoon in Berkeley, along with my belated and sincere condolences.

V L

April 7, 2015

Andrew was the first person I spoke to the first morning I was at the hospital, and I was struck by his open demeanor, compassion, and kindness during a distressing time for me--and what must have been a hard time for him as well, although he bore it well. He spent time answering questions and telling me about himself, his motorcycle adventures and his diagnosis. His empathy was there every day, and I wish so much that he and I had a chance to hang out. We emailed back and forth a little bit after I left UCSF as an inpatient. He stayed on for a while before going somewhere in the South Bay to continue treatment. He said to me at the time that when he got back on his feet that he'd like to go hiking sometime. Even though I spent only a few short days with him, I felt that he helped me very much. I only just heard about his death, and I will think of Andrew.

Bill Bandelin

March 27, 2015

To My Old Friend Hadi And Family..
Your eulogy for Andrew was beautiful Hadi. Hopefully it will give hope and inspiration to others who may be going through the same dilemma. I am so sorry for you and your family and I know that no matter what I say or how I say it, nothing can ease your pain. Only time can do that. I also lost a brother and best friend from back in High School days to this bipolar disease.. Although Andrew was a troubled soul, know that for his short time with us, he did live his life to the fullest. I love you Hadi and my thoughts and prayers will always be with you and your family. Thank you for the time I spent with you and the rest of our FedEx crew. I miss you all.

Andrew 2012 San Francisco

Ken Goldman

March 6, 2015

Mark Bailey

March 6, 2015

So sorry to hear about the tragic loss of your son Andrew, my thoughts are with you all at this sad time.

From a grateful Social Anxiety Support user.

Liz and Steve wright

February 15, 2015

Dear Kathy and Hadi,
Although we didn't know Andrew personally, we are so sorry about his death and the heartache you are going through. Thank you for sharing the highlights of his remarkable short life and providing an opportunity to honor his memory.
With sympathy and love, Liz and Steve Wright

Courtenay Chadwell-Gatz

February 13, 2015

Dear Kathy, Hadi, and Matthew,
We just learned of Andrew's passing an hour ago and are still in shock. He was such a bright, brilliant star in the lives of all who knew him; he accomplished so much in his short life and had so much promise. We cannot imagine what you have been going through. This is a wonderful testament to his life -- thank you for doing this. Please know that our thoughts and love are with you all. -- Courtenay, Henning and Christoph

Carol Stewart

February 13, 2015

Dear Hadi, Kathy, and Matthew, I am so sorry for your loss. Losing a child is hard to endure. You are in my thoughts and prayers. May God go with you.

February 13, 2015

Hadi, Kathy and Mathew
Dale and I are so sorry for your loss our prayers are with you.
Mike and Dale Miller

Dawn Hanson

February 12, 2015

Hadi, We so sorry to hear about the loss of your son. My condolences to you and your family. Todd lived in Fairhaven when your sons were young and he remembers seeing you riding around with them on your bikes. Andrew's obituary was beauitful. Thinking of you and your family.. Todd and Dawn Hanson.

February 12, 2015

Haddi ; I was so sorry to just read of your sons death,words cannot express the loss of a child it just is not the natural order of life. Buck and I will pray for you and your family, I do not know if you remember me but I used to live in Custer and worked a Comtec, we now live in West Virginia. Please accept our heartfelt condolences. Cathy and Buck Barb

Peter Woods

February 11, 2015

I was shocked and saddened to hear about Andrew. He was my favourite Motorcycle Photographer/writer. So talented, and always had time to give aspiring artists countless tips. Missed by many.

February 10, 2015

Kath - I have no words to say how very sorry I am for your loss.
Lyn Doan Rogers

February 9, 2015

My most sincere condolences to you and your family Kathy, Andrew will be missed by the whole community, words cannot do justice to what he accomplished and what your love to him gave Andrew the outpouring of inspiration and care he spent on others. My love and thoughts to you always - Elizabeth Olsen, formerly Bellingham, now Waverly Nebraska

Deborah McLean

January 31, 2015

Kathy, Hadi, Matthew and Family

I've been struggling to find words to comfort you with the loss of your dear Andrew. Kathy & Hadi you are such lovely people. My heart aches knowing the pain you and your family must be feeling.
Although I didn't know Andrew he is in my thoughts. I was moved by his obituary what a wonderful tribute to Andrew's life. Cherish your memories of Andrew and take comfort in the lives he touched.

Cathy Brooking

January 29, 2015

Kathy, Hadi, and Matt,
The love and respect you have for Andrew shines so clearly. I cannot imagine how you must miss him. May you find support and love in each other to guide you on.

Terri Pauli Cruikshank

January 29, 2015

I hope these wonderful expressions somehow help in this deeply painful time. This obituary is such a eloquent tribute to Andrew's life. I'm so sorry for your loss.

Kelly

January 26, 2015

So hard to know what to say, very sorry for your loss of Andrew. Thank you for writing the beautiful tribute on his life.

Shaw

January 26, 2015

Hadi, Kathy, Matt –
I cannot begin to comprehend the crushing depth of your anguish.. I'll always remember Andrew as the little bro goofing around with us in the basement during our marathon MegaMan/Prodigy sessions. May he rest in peace as his spirit lives on.

January 24, 2015

So sorry, my condolences for you and family.
Your in my prayers and my heart.
So many fun moments with our families
Always your friend, Dimitra(D)

January 23, 2015

We are very sorry to hear of your loss and extend our sincere condolences to you and your family.

Anton and Marianne Karuza

Colleen Marie

January 23, 2015

Thank you for the beautiful and honest tribute to Andrew. Blessings be upon you.

Jan Jung

January 22, 2015

I cannot find the words to tell you how saddened I am by your loss and how moved I was by seeing Andrew's photo and reading your wonderful and important tribute. You are in our hearts.

Sharon Trent

January 22, 2015

I've never met you, but I know what it's like to have a son with mental illness. Thank you for your lovely testament. I was so moved that I copied the obituary, removed all identifying information and his name, and shared it with my facebook friends. Many of them have responded with the same admiration and sympathy I feel. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

January 22, 2015

May the God of all comfort grant you peace at this difficult time.

Reza & Simin Fathi

January 21, 2015

Dear Mohebbi Family
Please accept our sincere and from the bottom of heart condolences. Dear Drew was the closest and best friend of our beloved son Ashkan, who you may know took his own life in August 2009 at age of 23. Dear Drew was like our second son to the family and our already broken heart shattered by the news. After dear Ashkan's departure any time he came to visit he was trying to comfort us and create some happy moments for us despite his own grief of losing his best friend. We will never forget his generous kindness, compassion, and empathy to our family. His love and his sweet memories will be engraved in our heart forever. Our hearts and prayers are with you in this difficult time of sorrow.

Michael at the Falls of Iguazu in Brazil

Kay James

January 20, 2015

I read Andrew's obituary in the San Francisco Chronicle, and I want to express my admiration for your courage in being able to state that your son died from suicide. I lost my own son, Michael James Bishop, on March 28, 2011 when he jumped to his death from the Golden Gate Bridge in San Francisco. He was just 28 years old. There is probably little that can be worse than losing a child to suicide. And, if more people like you came forth without fear of the stigma to talk about suicide, we might be able to help all those suffering who are considering such an act. The pain for those left behind is almost unbearable.

January 20, 2015

We are so saddened by your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Jim and Kerry Thompson

January 20, 2015

I wrote your name in the sand but the waves washed it away. I wrote your name in the sky, but the wind blew it away. I wrote your name in my heart and that's where it will stay, always. Our wonderful Andrew was kind, caring and brilliant and the dear son of great parents. Andrew will be so missed, always. Susan, Doug and Ty

Sandra Finney

January 19, 2015

What a beautiful tribute to a long suffering, struggling young man. As the mother of a son who also suffers from Bipolar illness I am surprised and thrilled that you as his loved ones don't appear to feel shame in the mental illness that enveloped Andrew but an cherish the beautiful elements of his life. I am sharing the obit with friends in Atlanta who are very active in NAMI.

January 19, 2015

Dear Hadi, Kathy and Matthew,
I am grieved by the passing of Andrew.
He was very dear to our family and especially to Travis. Andrew was a remarkable person and was fulfilling many of his dreams. Your writing about Andrew and explaining about mental illness has made a huge impact of many lives. It was very important to hear about this. My thoughts are with you and all of Andrew's friends. It has been a privilege to know him.

Sandie Koplowitz

January 18, 2015

We remember Andrew fondly. He was a great friend to Mike during their school years. What a special kid he was...fun-loving, smart, kind and always so polite. We are very sorry for your loss and are thinking of your family during this difficult time. Andrew's obituary was very moving and we thank you for sharing his difficult journey with us. Our love goes out to your family from the Koplowitz Family

January 18, 2015

Dear Kathy, Hadi and Matthew,
What a beautiful tribute to such a beautiful person. I know you are so proud of Andrew and loved him so much. You all are so loving and courageous to share as you have and I am sure Andrew knew that love too. I also feel certain that he is truly alive and peaceful back to his source, -- and that is LOVE.
Take good care of yourselves, and know that we are praying for your peace in this and we love you.

~Nancy, Gil, Allie, Jake and Andrew

nicole nelsen

January 18, 2015

I am so sad by this loss. He was such a brilliant and bright guy. I will remember his eyes and bending-over-laugh always. My heart hurts for the pain he must have been feeling from these mental illnesses and I send so much love to his family who loved him so much.

David Imhof R.N.

January 18, 2015

He was one of so many young bright stars that fought valiantly, yet lost the battle. May he rest in eternal peace, and may his family nurture their love by memories of his life and spirit

Terri Kuntz

January 18, 2015

Thoughts and love to your family.

January 18, 2015

As a mother whose son also committed suicide, I commend you for having the courage to bring bipolar disorder, mental illness and suicide to light. You are so very right: we DO indeed need to be able to talk about it and seek help for it without the social stigma it has historically incurred.
My heart goes out to you and your family as you wind your way through the healing process.
May God bring you the Peace which only He can give. You are in my prayers.
RS

Julia Bakken (Ban)

January 17, 2015

To the Mohebbi family,
I am so sorry for your awful loss. My younger sister Miriam Ban graduated with him from Sehome. I knew who he was. I also went to Sehome too. Prayers and love to the parents and family! May he rest in peace.

January 17, 2015

Dear Hadi and Kathy, All my love to you at this sad time. The obituary was a wonderful tribute to your lovely son. Sharon Olsen

bird of paradise

Ranny Mann

January 17, 2015

WOW, what a credible and complete story you gave to ALL of us, about Andrew's true life experiences... Having parents like Hadi and Kathy that encouraged, allowed, trusted and educated their boys, the desire to experience so many cool things that many kids these days, might never get to attempt. Hadi, your positive energy, character and zest for life, impacted both of your boys as well as the daily lives of so many other people around you! It is apparent to me now, that your positive nature may have been an attempt to lift Drew's spirits, to keep him engaged and to make him feel good about himself and others, when he might not have been feeling that otherwise. That is very commendable Hadi and I don't believe words could describe the efforts that you, Kathy & Matthew must have endured in this often difficult trek of life. I'm looking forward to seeing you guys again soon, and I will cherish that moment when it arrives!

your old friend,

Ranny

January 17, 2015

Kathy and Hadi and all of Matthew's family and friends. Our heartfelt condolences on your loss. He never had the pleasure of meeting Matthew although enjoyed your happy stories of his adventures. We know he was well loved. Eileen Evry and Parviz Jalinoussi

Stan and Carol Heimburger

January 17, 2015

Hadi, Kathy and Matt,
We wish you our deepest sympathy for the loss of Andrew. The world has lost one of its brightest stars and we are truly privileged to have known and loved Andrew! Please let us know if there is anything that we can do to help you. You mean a lot to us!

January 17, 2015

I am so sorry to hear about this tragic event and great loss for your family. I hope the words below helps during this difficult time.

Richard L. Marcus

A Joy Forever New
by: Unknown

Please don't sing sad songs for me,
Forget your grief and fears,
For I am in a perfect place,
Away from pain and tears.
I'm far away from hunger
And hurt and want and pride,
I have a place in Heaven
With the Master at my side
My life on earth was very good,
As earthly lives can go,
But Paradise is so much more
Than anyone can know.
My heart is filled with happiness
And sweet rejoicing, too.
To walk with God is perfect peace,
A joy forever new.

Gayel Milam

January 17, 2015

Dearest Kathy and family...I was very saddened to hear of your loss. Words escape me as I believe the death of a child is unthinkable. My heart hurts for you and you are in my thoughts.

Karen McDaniel

January 16, 2015

Dearest Kathy & Hadi, my deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family. I never had the pleasure of meeting Andrew & I wish I had...through all the stories you have shared Kathy...I always felt such admiration towards his amazing strength, caring heart, talent, perseverance, and dedication towards helping others. Not to mention, his adventurous spirit! Please know that your son truly made a difference in this world and he made it a better place. His legacy continues with the work he accomplished. Peace to Andrew and his family.

Lane Brinson

January 16, 2015

Hadi, Kathy & Matthew,
Maren, Hannah and I are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our throughts and prayers are with you and Andrew.

January 16, 2015

Kathy, Hadi and Matthew- So very, very sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts are with you at this incredibly difficult time. Karen Josephson and Carole Torion.

January 16, 2015

What a beautiful tribute! Your sons life has already reached such a wide audience, and in his death you honor his journey and life further. Thank you for sharing it.

January 16, 2015

Hadi and Kathy, Marlene and I send our deepest thoughts and prayers to you and family....Stay Strong....Mike&Marlene Dyck

January 16, 2015

Andrew, you gentle soul, how I've thought of you over the years. I pray you have found quiet and peace. To the Mohebbi family, my love and prayers to you all. Thank you for gifting us all with such an honorable soul!

Melissa Virta-Stoner

January 16, 2015

I'm so sad to hear this news. Andrew was an amazing person whom I always deeply respected and loved. All my love to your family.

January 16, 2015

So Sorry For your Loss . My prayers go out to you.

Tina Loudon

January 16, 2015

Kathy, Hadi & Matthew - I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. Thoughts and prayers are with you. Tina (Litzsinger) Loudon

Benita Bowen

January 16, 2015

My very sincere condolences for your loss, as well as my thanks as a peer and former NAMI workshop leader, for your honest, brave and beautiful obituary. We must demand better services and treatment for our heroic family and friends living with these horrible chronic diseases!

marknancy majors

January 16, 2015

sending love and light......

Claire Evans

January 16, 2015

May the love and support of your many family and friends hold and protect you as you lay to rest your precious Drew. We so love you, the Evans family.

Kandy Schwartz

January 16, 2015

Kathy and Hadi,
Words are hard to find to say about this very sad loss of your son Andrew. I will pray for you and your whole family. My heart breaks for you. I love you Kath and hope that you will be okay. Kandy

January 16, 2015

As a Mom who knows the path of watching our children battle for peace, I send you my deepest condolences and my greatest thanks for speaking out. WE as a family, community and country must bring this conversation to the table. I pray for peace and healing for you all.

Beverly

January 16, 2015

You do not know me. I did not know your beautiful son but I am sad for all of you. Please accept my sincere sympathy. I will pray to my God Jehovah that you will have peace.

Nancy Monacelli (Harper)

January 16, 2015

Hadi and Kathy -
I was heartbroken to hear this news this morning. As a mom of a son who has struggled with mental illness his entire life, I identify with your pain. Thank you for your courage in sharing Andrew's struggles. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Nancy

Rhonda Enright

January 16, 2015

Hadi and Kathy,
My heart breaks for you and your family. My prayers are with you. Thank you for sharing this beautiful tribute of Andrews life. I pray it will help so many lives.
My constant prayers,
Rhonda (at Dr Hoofnagle's office)

jennifer Sellereit

January 16, 2015

We all loved him. He was a wonderful nephew cousin and friend. I know he is with th angels now. He is missed. Our lives are changed forever without him. Jennifer Sellereit

January 16, 2015

Kathy and Hadi~ I am so deeply sadden by this news. May you find comfort in all the wonderful memories and accomplishments in Andrew's life. He was truly an amazing young man. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Darlene Saarheim

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