Barbara J. Becker
1935-2010 BENNINGTON Mrs. Barbara Jean Becker, 74, a resident of Willow Road in Bennington, died Thursday, Feb. 4, 2010, at her residence surrounded by her family.
Born in Bennington, April 6, 1935, daughter of Gilbert and Hazel Stratton Mattison, Barbara received her early education at the White Chapel School and was a 1953 graduate of Bennington High School.
She married Rolland L. Becker July 4, 1953, at Saint Peters Episcopal Church in Bennington.
Barbara was employed as a battery inspector at the Union Carbide Corporation from which she retired in 1993.
Barbara was a member of the Shaftsbury United Methodist Church where she was a historian and a member of the United Methodist Women where she served as vice president for four years. She was a former member of the Shaftsbury Grange and had volunteered as a Gray Lady at the Southwestern Vermont Medical Center. Her home, family, and helping others was her main interest.
She leaves her husband, Rolland L. Becker, of Bennington; yhree sons, Kevin L. Becker of Bennington, Clifford R. Becker and his wife, Susan, of Hoosick Falls, N.Y., and Craig M. Becker and his wife, Patti, of Bennington; three grandchildren, Marie Becker, Jason Becker and Todd Becker, all of Bennington; two great-grandchildren, MacKenzie Becker and Evan Becker, both of Bennington; three brothers, Gilbert Mattison Jr. and Bev Flynn of Bennington, Andrew Mattison and his wife, Patricia, of Shaftsbury; and a sister, Deborah Giroux and her husband, Keith, of Bennington, and several nieces, nephews and cousins. She also leaves two very special friends, Dot Blodgett and Pat Becker, both of Bennington.
She was predeceased by a brother, Herbert Mattison, and a nephew, Stephen Mattison.
FUNERAL NOTICE: The funeral will be held from the Shaftsbury United Methodist Church on Monday, Feb. 8, at 2 p.m. The burial will take place in the family lot in White Chapel Cemetery in Bennington. Friends may call at the Shaftsbury Methodist Church on Monday from 1 p.m. until the time of the service.
If friends desire contributions may be made to the Southwestern Vermont Regional Cancer Center through the office of THE MAHAR AND SON FUNERAL HOME, 628 Main St., Bennington, VT.
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Paul & Joyce Watson
February 13, 2010
Dear Roland and Debbie,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Barbara was such a "special" person and it was an honor to know her. Our deepest sympathy to you and your family.
Paul & Joyce Watson
February 10, 2010
I AM SO SORRY TO HEAR OF YOUR LOSS. BARBARA WILL BE SORELY MISSED BY ALL THOSE WHO NEW AND LOVED HER. SHE WAS SUCH A SWEET AND GENTLE LADY. PLEASE ACCEPT MY CONDOLENCES. GALE CROSS WISHER
Pam Hollister Ketzner
February 10, 2010
To Craig and family,
I remember one summer when I was visiting, Bobbie invited my son and I to go swimming in the big pool at her house, we had so much fun. I will think of her wonderful smile, and her kindness when she was a Gray lady at the hospital. Mostly, I thank Bobbie for you Craig, you are my sister Patti's love of her life, Roland and she did good by you. Peace to your whole family. Love you.
Tim & Jo-ann Burke
February 9, 2010
To Deb and Barbara's entire family. We are so sorry to hear of your loss of Barb. Hopefully she has gone on to a better place where their is no pain or suffering anymore and that you find comfort in your memories of her knowing she is with God in a special place for special people like Barb
Becchi Lane Oesterle
February 8, 2010
I was so sorry to hear of Barb's passing. Whenever I visit my parents, I go to church with my Aunt, Pat Becker, and we would often pick up Barb on the way. She was always such a friendly, bubbly person and I know will be missed by all of you. My thoughts & prayers are with you.
Dawne Gibbs
February 8, 2010
Andy and Trish I am so sorry to hear of Bobbie's passing. It's never easy to lose a loved one, but knowing she is no longer suffering and in pain hopefully will bring some peace to your loss. My sympathies are with all your family.
Rest in peace Bobbie
Tom & Marilyn Watson
February 8, 2010
Roland and family,
Our deepest sympathy and prayers go out to you.
Jeff Blodgett
February 7, 2010
Cliff
Sorry to hear about your mom. May she rest in peace and I know god will welcome her with open arms. May god bless you, your father, brothers and all your family.
Your friend Jeff
Chris Harvey
February 7, 2010
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
Art and Betty Paulin
February 6, 2010
To all of Barbara's family.we would like to let you know how much we will always think of Barbara.She was a very special person and she will be deeply missed by both of us, Her passing leaves a big hole in our Church family
February 6, 2010
To Rolland and family,
we are sorry for your loss we will all miss aunt bobbie she was a wonderful person, our thoughts are with you all.
Josie,Laurie and Myles
Wendy Bahan
February 6, 2010
Craig, Your mom was a wonderful lady. I got to know her while she was going through her treatments. She was a true fighter. My thoughts are with you and your family.
February 5, 2010
Roland and
Roland and Family Sorry to here of Barbara,s passing We knew she been sick for a while. Living here in Florida we don,t hear two much God bless.
George & Shirley Freeman
February 5, 2010
Roland and family,I was so sorry to hear of Barbara passing.She wa a wonderful person.She's going to be missed by everyone.My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.Take care.Janet Murray
February 5, 2010
Roland and family,I'am so sorry of barbara's passing,she was a wonderful person and i like many others are going to miss her very much.Take care. Janet Murray
Nancy and Larry Aldrich
February 5, 2010
To all Becker Family, I worked with Barbara at Eveready. What a happy person and so much fun. She will be missed by all. Nancy and Larry Aldrich.
Mary Jean Watters
February 5, 2010
To Roland and the Becker family.Iwish to send my condolences.Barbara was a wonderful lady.She will be missed so very much.
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