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Dennis Marble
October 7, 2024
Sally, I don't know if you'll ever see this as it's been years since David's passing. If you do, maybe you'll remember sitting with Barb and me in "the spa" at Colby. Robin was a baby, and I remember all of us laughing as she tried to drink some kind of soda which bubbled up and made her gasp followed by her laughing and demanding more. I hope the years have been kind... Dennis
Judith L. Osterman
September 4, 2023
I have just been reading some of Dr. Stratman's work via
his friend John Spritzler. He was a brilliant man, and I'm so sorry that he died at such a relatively young age and before I had an opportunity to meet him.
Ken Stevens
April 3, 2020
A couple of years ago an artist with whom I had worked closely, David Barr, died. He had left his house and grounds with extensive sculptures to be developed into an arts and cultural center. I was asked to inventory his studio, certainly a melancholy task. One of the first items I saw was a burnished brass wall relief in the shape of a disk. Etched in the metal was a sort of curved inverted v shape with the apex of the v at zero degrees. It was inscribed with the following:
To what
Shall I compare the world?
It is like the wake
Vanishing behind a boat
That has rowed away at dawn.
Our life in this world --
to what shall I compare it?
It's like an echo
resounding through the mountains
and off into the empty sky.
Ryokan (1758-1831) (translated by Steven Carter)
I am thinking of the wake and the echo. Yes, they will eventually fade. Before they do they will continue to rebound and ricochet for all who look and listen. Here is to Davids waves and words.
Ken Stevens
March 29, 2019
Somehow a poem just seems right not.
You are standing at the edge of the woods
at twilight
when something begins
to sing, like a waterfall
pouring down
through the leaves. It is
the thrush.
And you are just
sinking down into your thoughts,
taking in
the sweetness of itthose chords,
those pursed twirlswhen you hear
out of the same twilight
the wildest red outcry. It pitches itself
forward, it flails and scabs
all the surrounding space with such authority
you cant tell
whether it is crying out on the
scarp of victory, with its hooked foot
dabbed into some creature that now
with snapped spine
lies on the earthor whether
it is such a struck body itself, saying
goodbye.
The thrush
is silent then, or perhaps
has flown away.
The dark grows darker.
The moon,
in its shining white blouse,
rises.
And whatever that wild cry was
it will always remain a mystery
you have to go home now and live with,
sometimes with the ease of music, and sometimes in silence,
for the rest of your life.
Betsy Jacoway
November 25, 2016
Sally, I am just starting my Christmas cards and went online looking for an address for you and Dave. I am shocked and saddened to read this news, and I am filled with memories of our happy times in Chapel Hill. It seems ages ago since we visited in your lovely home in 1989 - guess it has been! I hope you get this note and know that you will be in my thoughts and prayers. xoxo Betsy
E. Nicholas Genovese
September 30, 2014
Dear Sally,
Chuck McClain just informed me of Dave's passing. I have happy memories of Dave from Xavier, where we enjoyed the fellowship of writing in the Mermaid Tavern and the Athenaeum. The last time I saw Chuck and Karl in San Francisco, Karl mentioned Dave with fondness and respect, as he did every time I visited. Dave lived an exceptional life, a truly worthy life, and I grieve for its shortness and his suffering at the end. My condolences to you and those who loved him.
Nick Genovese
April 27, 2014
Sally - It's been a long time since we've been in touch, but I wanted you to know that last night at dinner with Tom Nutt powell and Bonnie Randall we were remembering our friendship with you and David when we were all young. I'm so sorry for your loss. He had a good run. Be in touch if it would help.
fondly, Anne
April 21, 2014
Sally--Barbara Sweney just told me today about David's passing. I was so sorry to hear earlier about his illness as it brought back memories of Ed, now so long ago, so I can well imagine what you and your family have been through. I will hold in my heart the last time I saw you both together at the Sweneys' 50th anniversary party in 2011, looking well and happy and young as ever, and remember as well as the lively youthful times we shared at Colby.
Love and thoughts, Susie Kenney
April 16, 2014
A glimpse of laughter, a moment of song, the sense of life and living. It all goes on with David, then and now. I am thankful for a future that will encompass reflection on the times of inspiration, friendship
and joy inspired by Sally and David Stratman.
Ken Stevens
April 8, 2014
Sally I was very sorry to hear that David lost his battle. He will be missed by all of us from Xavier high. Please pass on my condolences to his sister. David and I were childhood friends and were together most weekends.
Bob Wedemeyet
April 7, 2014
Sally,
So sorry to hear about David, you will miss him so. WE all shared some fun times,it's so long ago now. HE was truly a unique individual, they don't make them like that anymore!
I don't envy you starting your widowhood journey, it's so quiet, I think that was hardest for me. GIVe me a call if you want a change of scene. I always welcome company in Marblehead or Maine.
April 2, 2014
Sally, Bridget had called me last night to tell me of David's passing. I was very sad. I have such good memories of Christmas Eve at the Motz househld. I adored David. I offer the deepest condolences for your loss. Erin
April 2, 2014
Dear Sally, I worked with you at Massport many years ago and fondly remember your conversations about Dave and your young children. I always thought what a great family you had. I was surprised and saddened to see that Dave had died and I send you my sincere sympathy for your loss. Thinking of you and your family. Donna Hickey
Sandra lowney cafe
April 2, 2014
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
March 31, 2014
Quik wit, and his smile.
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