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RICHARD SCOBIE

1934 - 2023

RICHARD SCOBIE obituary, 1934-2023, Waltham, MA

BORN

1934

DIED

2023

RICHARD SCOBIE Obituary

SCOBIE, Richard UUSC Executive Director and Social Work Activist Richard Spencer "Dick" Scobie, Ph. D., 88, of Waltham, formerly of Wellesley and Newton, died from complications of congestive heart failure on February 1, 2023. Born in 1934, in Detroit, Michigan, he was the only child of the late LaReine (Kreis) and Howard K. Scobie. Dick is survived by his wife of over 64 years, Cynthia (Jill) Hirst Scobie, by three sons, and three daughters: Kenneth Scobie (Frances Mellen), Kevin Scobie, Megan Scobie (Jack Carberry), Allison Scobie-Carroll (Amy Scobie-Carroll), Bradford Scobie (Chase Tyler), Rachel Scobie (James Wendell), as well as George Lloyd (Juliana Pires). He was "Papi" (grandfather) to Matthew Sacchi (Emily Johnson), Annmarie Harkins (Matthew Harkins), Elizabeth and Patrick Carberry, Griffin Lloyd, Henry Tyler-Scobie, and Annabelle Tyler-Scobie. He was also "Papi" (great-grandfather) to Amelia and Lila Harkins, and Maisie Sacchi. He leaves behind beloved cousins, Russell Kreis (Barbara Kreis), Susie Kreis, Nancy Kreis Newman (Steve Newman), Sandy Gibson, Chrystal Kreis Mooreland (Harry Thomas), LaReine Andres, Suzie Read (Reggie Read), and Martha Hirst. He is also survived by his sister-in-law, Annmary Hirst Petter; niece, Jennifer Petter (Catherine Geiger); nephews, Steven Petter (Randi Petter), Timothy Petter (Lyssa Petter), and Mark Petter (Tina Jarvis); nieces, Jennifer Hirst Fredenburg and Charlene Hirst Wark; and seven great-nieces, and six great-nephews. His extended family also included Suzi, John, and Max Ater, Liz, John, and Kristina Sacchi, and Kelly Donahue Petter. He was predeceased by his brothers-in-law, J. Harrison Petter and Michael H. Hirst; as well by his cousin, William Kreis, M.D. When Dick was nine, his father became the chief fundraiser for the United Way in Philadelphia, so the family moved to Havertown, PA. A graduate of Haverford Township High School, Dick attended Dartmouth College where he joined Phi Sigma Kappa fraternity, becoming president, and played trumpet with the Barbary Coast jazz band (so Kenton). The most important event of his college years was playing a pivotal role in getting his fraternity, whose norms and bylaws were racist and anti-Semitic, to separate from the national fraternity; thus was Phi Tau brought into existence. Next, he attended the University of Pittsburgh School of Social Work, earning his MSW in June 1958, the same month in which he married his college sweetheart, Jill (Hirst) Scobie. That fall he entered the Army as a 2nd Lieutenant, a three and a half-year commitment, spent at Fort Hood, Texas. Dick, Jill and their three children relocated to Boston for Dick's first job at the United Community Services. Approximately two years later, he moved on to his next professional endeavor, working on integrating public housing developments for the Boston Housing Authority. Hungry for international experience, Dick, Jill, and their now four children moved to Buenos Aires where Dick worked for USAID, assisting in housing development. Returning to Boston with five children in 1969, Dick undertook his doctoral studies to obtain his Ph.D. in 1972 from Brandeis (the Florence Heller School for Advanced Studies in Social Welfare). Child number six was born the day after he was awarded the aforementioned degree. And his wife gave him his first bagpipe as his graduation gift. In April of 1972, Dick got his "dream" job as the Executive Director of the Unitarian Universalist Service Committee. Under his direction, the UUSC worked to advance justice by defending human rights and promoting humane solutions to social problems both worldwide (El Salvador, Nicaragua, Haiti, Sudan, Eritrea, India, the Philippines, Chiapas, etc.) and domestically, focusing on issues of child welfare and mass incarceration. He understood that a small organization like the Service Committee would have more impact on the world stage if it focused on issues rather than projects, through grassroots action across the United States, policy advocacy in Washington D.C., and direct support of program partners abroad. An example of the leveraging of its influence occurred in the late '70s: UUSC organized congressional fact-finding delegations to Central America to counter U.S. foreign policy which supported repressive elements in Nicaragua and El Salvador. International programs also supported local organizations devoted to women's health and reproductive rights, human rights, and sustainable development that benefits the poor. Partnerships were developed with about 30 UU congregations wherein participants agreed to either work on issues around Central America or to volunteer their support for the Promise the Children Advocacy Network. All in all, he hoped to define UUSC as a human rights organization and to develop programs that either directly tried to change policy or helped to empower other people to address problems or injustice and work for social change. He was an organizer, an administrator, and an activist, yet in addition to wanting to "save" the world, he also wanted to savor it. While he was still working he camped with his family, camped at "Man Camp," played his pipes with the Clan Sutherland, sang with the Potluck Singers and Mustard Seed Singers, played and sang with the Recent, Decent Few, reveled in his family's myriad of activities, attended the Ferry Beach (U-U) Family and Friends Conference, was a member of the Church of the Wider Fellowship, the Greater Boston Independent Worship Group, and the Wellesley Friends Meeting (Quaker). In his retirement, he played and sang with Woodwork, took up watercolor painting, continued his years of wonderful reading and discussing with the Pierian Springers book group, camped some more, played trumpet with the Two Tones, occasionally sailed, was an enthusiastic member of the Ferry Beach/Family and Friends writers group, read endless enormous tomes, volunteered with and, for three years, was the President of WATCH (Waltham Association To Create Housing), played with the WATCH Jazz Group, and rode out the pandemic with the Film Critics Zoom Circle, which included his wife, two of his daughters, and three of his grandchildren. He made so many good friends and sustained relationships from every era and activity of his life. In 1998, he was awarded the degree of Doctor of Humane Letters by Meadville Theological School Of Lombard College (AKA Meadville/Lombard), and in 2000 he was the recipient of the Lifetime Achievement award, given by the Massachusetts Chapter of the National Association of Social Workers. Dick was so grateful for all the love and support he received across the years from family and friends. And he was also very mindful of the the excellent medical care he received during the 29 years when he became ill intermittently with non-Hodgkin's lymphoma and CLL. Thank you, Dr. Barker, Dr. Vishnofsky, Dr. Goldberg, Dr. Kumar, Dr. Ray, all the wonderful nurses at the Harvard Vanguard Kenmore Oncology unit and Angela Ashby, Katherine Rice-Latham, and Andrea Ciciarelli for decades of care. But most hearty, thank you to Dr. Roberta Falke and RN Pam MacDonald. Gracias a la Vida, que nos ha dado tanto! Thanks be to Life, which has given us so much! On Saturday, May 6, 2023, at 2:00 P.M., there will be a celebration of Dick's life at the Unitarian Universalist Society of Wellesley Hills, 309 Washington Street (Rte. 16), Wellesley Hills, MA 02481, followed by a reception. In lieu of flowers, consider contributing to the Richard S. Scobie Endowment Fund at the UUSC, 689 Massachusetts Avenue, Cambridge, MA 02139-3302, to Ferry Beach Conference Center, 5 Boardwalk Drive, Saco, Maine 04072, to Wellesley Friends Meeting, 26 Benvenue Street, Wellesley, MA 02482, or to WATCH, 24 Crescent Street, Suite 20, Waltham, MA 02453.

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Maureen Power

February 21, 2024

Remembering Dick, his big smile and his gentle humor and the ways he was supportive to so many. At the Heller, we always knew when he hit a dissertation writer's block because he would go out back and play the bagpipes. RIP Dick. Miss you still Maureen Power

Douglas Potter Walker

October 22, 2023

To Jill and the men and women of the Scobie clan. I'm late to this sad news, but glad to have a chance to rewmember a wonderful friend. Dick was possibly the nicest person I've ever worked with. Nice isn't really a suffient adjative to descrie, but he was a tyruly nice and gentle friend. I served as a consultant to Dick and UUSC long ago. Dick was a good and thoughtful listener, but who spoke his mind. There was simply nothing about Dick aboutg which I could be critical. He had a high tolerance for the ambiguities of running an organization like UUSC. His staff was made up of dedicated activists, often active for on behalf of thri own causes, and in conflict with the larger objectives of the organization. Keeping this group of high energy individuals moving towards a common goal was where Dick shined. He had emmense patience for the conflicts that are inevitable with a highly charged staff. My monthly meetings with Dick in Boston included dinner with Dick and Jill. In Jill, Dick was forftunate in having a true soul mate. I've rarely seen two people who were so magically linked. Jill, like Dick, is an issue oriented individual witha full life od pursuits and issuies towhich she's dedicated. They were a match in every sense of the word. I still have the Scobie's Christmas letters, which kept me in touch with their busy lives. I'm a year older than Dick and, if I make it to January, I'll be 91. In the years since our active relationship, i often think about how I would have benefitted to have spent time with Dick, discussing the course of life and generally enjoying his wisdom and insights. He wasa fine man with an understandable wide range of admirers. He contributed much tothe lives and causes of many, and I am the betterman for having known him.

Dustin

May 6, 2023

One of my favorite parts of Ferry Beach, throughout all the years that we went there, was Dick Scobie playing the bagpipes. It is, to this day, a vivid memory , both visually and sonically, that I will carry with me forever. The sound of those pipes always meant something to me, from the first time I heard them when I was a boy on The Beach until this very day. The pipes hold a special place in the long and proud tradition of law enforcement in this country, but they hold a particularly special place in my heart that connects my childhood with my present chosen profession as well as my historical lineage that speaks to me from beyond the grave and through history. However, my first introduction to those pipes will always and forever be through Dick Scobie and he will never be forgotten. He will live forever among a long tradition of warrior poets and I, as I have no doubt countless others that he has touched throughout the years, will be forever grateful. While I mourn his passing, I celebrate the gifts that he bestowed while he was among us.

Jay Dunn

May 5, 2023

To a child meeting the Scobies for the first time in Buenos Aires, my memories of Dick were always in association with good, with that mischievous twinkle in his eye, with the big smile that surrounded Jill and embraced all those in his presence. To my parents, Jack and Patti Dunn, the Scobies were dear friends abroad, made early in their careers, friends for life no matter where we lived. We grew up hearing of their growing family, and the wonderful rainbow of contributions made by their children. Over the years, as I grew to understand what his work meant, what I remember best about Dick Scobie is the warmth, the humor and the easy conviviality he showed to everyone. Even in ill health, there were never complaints, just enjoyment of the present, with the energy we loved and will always miss. We've learned a lot. Blessings to all. Jay, Emily and Winnie Dunn (the kids) and with love from Jack and Patti Dunn

Blair Goudey

May 4, 2023

Jill and family, I met Dick in a Cancer Support group we were Lymphoma survivors at the Wellness Center in Newton. Our group was unique with strong focus on music. Dick with his guitar,bagpipes and vocals was definitely a leader. Dick was a great guy and certainly lived a full life...Blair Goudey

Anne Nash

March 8, 2023

Such a special budy since Jr. High. Always fun to be with and helping to meet the many needs of the world. How he will be missed.

Roberta Falke

March 6, 2023

Jill and Family, I am so sorry for your loss. He was a remarkable man, an honor for us to be involved in his care. And fun too! Thank you very much for the kind mention of his care team at Harvard Vanguard.

Susan Hirst Read

March 6, 2023

The way he smiled, his thoughtfulness of us as he listened, his example of the necessity for justice (he advanced it, indeed), his gifts of music and art, his love for family ~ he worked hard at life's peaks and valleys. We wish him now a restful peace. We will think of you always, Dick, with great love.
~ cousin Susan ("Suzie") Hirst Read

Gretchen Frasier

March 6, 2023

Dear Jill,
Stan kindly called me last night to share the news and his memories of Dick's death. My heart goes out to you and the kids. Together the two of you touched the lives of lots of us and I stand with your friends and family as as you say good-bye and begin gathering in the many Dick Stories.
Gretchen Frasier

France O´Brien

March 1, 2023

In loving memory of a wonderful person. May your memories lift your spirits and give you joy. I will miss His love of playing his bagpipe´s at the beach. Blessings

Don O'Clair

March 1, 2023

Truly a privilege to have known Dick Scobie. He will be missed, I'm sure.

Richard DeGrasse

February 28, 2023

Oh my God Meagan I wish I had Time with your dad ! But he raised the most absolutely beautiful human ever in you !! So sorry for yourself ,family and the world! Love Richard,Rachel and Raquel

Dick George 101st Airborne Division

February 28, 2023

Requiescat in pace amica meus! Ave at que vale!

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