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DAME, Stephen J., II Of Tewksbury, died Oct. 9. He was the beloved son of Stephen J. and Karen (Goveia) Dame. Brother of Christopher R. Dame of Tewksbury. Grandson of Manuel and Martha (Lisitano) Goveia of FL, Claire (White) Dame of Revere, and the late Chester Dame. Nephew of Thomas and Geraldine Dame of Cambridge, Robert and Margaret Dame of VA, Timothy and Carolyn Dame of Saugus, Philip and Marilyn Goveia of Melrose and Jayniene McCarthy of Swampscott. Also survived by several great aunts and great uncles; cousins; and dear friends throughout the Merrimack Valley. His Funeral will be held on Tuesday, October 14, at 9 AM from the Tewksbury Funeral Home, corner of Dewey and Main Sts., (Route 38), TEWKSBURY CENTER, phone (800 in MA or 978) 851 2950. His Funeral Mass will be celebrated Tuesday at 10 AM in St. William's Church, 1351 Main St., (Route 38), Tewksbury. Interment will be private. Visiting hours on Monday from 4-8 PM in the Funeral Home. In lieu of flowers, contributions to the Stephen Dame Scholarship Fund, c/o Lowell Five, 1775 Main Street, Tewksbury, MA 01876 will be appreciated. tewksburyfuneralhome.com.

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Published by Boston Globe on Oct. 12, 2008.

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Joseph Rogier

January 4, 2009

Chris And Family,

I give you my greatest sympathies and condolences. I cannot imagine what you are going through. I went to school wawith Chris and I did know Steve. He was such a bright young lad. Very respectful and kind. I pray for you and your family chris. God be with you in time of need.

Godbless all of you.

Nancy Fudge

October 29, 2008

Karen,
It's been said that we're not supposed to out-live our children. I can't imagine what you're going through now but may you find comfort in your memories of your son. You're in my thoughts and prayers.

Kara Papa

October 27, 2008

Dear the Dame family,
I just want you to know that you will never be alone. You have so many people who are hear to listen and help you out in any way they can. I will continue to pray that Steve will give you the strength to get from day to day. He was really a remarkable boy, and you should be proud to have brought someone so great into this world. Steve and I grew so close, although we never knew eachother face to face; we talked about everything and we were always laughing. I miss him so much; and I really enjoy talking to Rollie and Matt because they help bring a little bit of Steve back. They're little pieces of him. Keep these boys close to your heart; and keep your heads up, Stephen is up there watching over all of us, keeping us safe. If you ever need anything, feel free to contact me.

Linda Davarich

October 25, 2008

Steve,
I just found out today that you lost your oldest son, Stephen. I still remember how excited you and Karen were to become parents. A lot of time has passed and we lost touch but I cannot put into words how sad and shocked I am. I wish I could have come to give my condolences in person. I didn't see Stephen grow up but I am sure he was the kindest and most respectful boy because he had great parents. My thoughts and prayers are with you,Karen and Christopher.

Ben Norcross

October 23, 2008

I never met Stephen but I too go to Suffolk and when i heard this i was in disbelief. I'm sure if i had met him I bet we would have been friends. All my condolences go out to the Dame family on their great loss

Paulette Boyle

October 22, 2008

To the Dame Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time of sorrow. Stephen was a wonderful young man. Always polite and quiet during our CCD classes. May you find comfort in his memories.
Sincerely, Paulette & Leandra Boyle

David DeRoche

October 17, 2008

My family and I would like to express our deepest sympathies and condolences to the Dame Family and Stephen's closest friends. Stephen was a good person and he will certainly be missed.

Arleen Perrotti-Harris

October 16, 2008

Dear Karen, Steve & Christopher, It saddened me to learn of Steven's passing. We remember fondly the cookout at your home when Elvis fell into the pool and Steven helped him to safety. I remember how nice both of your sons were that day. We are so sorry for your loss and wish you comfort knowing you will see him again one day. Love Arleen, Bill & Elvis

Mark Sanford

October 16, 2008

I had the very good fortune of teaching Stephen in my English class this fall at Suffolk University. Stephen offered me great comfort the day before my surgery, which was the last time I spoke with him. He struck me as an exceedingly polite, gracious, and kind young man. As a student, he was highly motivated, disciplined, and fiercely intelligent. We spoke about hockey frequently, and he told me that he was looking forward to be skating again after his own surgery. His fellow students expressed their great sadness and dismay over such a monumental loss. He was a big reason why I enjoy teaching so much this term. I will miss him dearly, and wish his family and friends all comfort and love, now and forever. I am so very sorry.

Nick McNally

October 16, 2008

I played hockey with stephen , it was so much funn , i miss him . He was a awsome and good kid to be friend with. He will always be in our hearts and memories.

Jennifer Melle

October 15, 2008

My deepest and sincerest condolences go out to all of the Dame family. I will keep all of you in my thoughts and prayers.

October 15, 2008

In loving memory of a wonderful student. Stephen will be surely missed.

richard griffin

October 15, 2008

Steve
So sorry to hear. Please pass my sorrow to your Mom also. I just found out. Your cousin Richard Griffin

Ashley Hofmann

October 14, 2008

Steve was a truly special person who throughout his life touched so many people. He will always be known as a loving, caring, outgoing person who left a lasting impression. We love and miss you so much!

Jennifer Cherubino

October 14, 2008

To the Dame Family : Words cannot describe how deeply sorry I am for your loss. My prayers will be with all of you during this difficult time.

Steve, I am truly blessed to have known such an amazing person as yourself. You will always be in my heart and forever missed. I know one day I will see you again. I was with Dan Williams the other day and we just cried & laughed about the times we shared when Nicole Pondelli would have those dance parties. You were such a smart and talented person, and always gave me strength & hope when I needed it the most. I will always cherish those memories. I just ask that you watch over all of us.

Love, Jennifer Cherubino & Robert Cherubino

Noel Jordan

October 14, 2008

Stephen and Karen,
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts are with you in this difficult time.
Noel & Ingrid

Belinda DiSilvio

October 14, 2008

Steve , Karen, and Chris -

My thoughts and prayers are with you all. I am so very sorry for your loss.

Belinda , Jack and James

Christine Cremin

October 14, 2008

Dear Dame Family,

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief. Stephen was a fine young man and will be greatly missed.

Fondly,
Christine Cremin

Naomi Garvey

October 14, 2008

To Steve and Family,
Words seem inadequate to express how sorry I am. You are in my thoughts and prayers. My heart goes out to you in your time of sorrow.

Norm Simonton

October 14, 2008

Steve, and Karen my deepest sympathies go out to you and your family

Amy Abbott

October 13, 2008

Steve,
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this most difficult time.

jeff newhouse

October 13, 2008

Karen. i'm so sorry and sad to hear the loss of your son Steve. my prayers and thoughts are with you and your families.

Chris Kosta

October 13, 2008

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well-lived.

Elizabeth Simonton,Crivello

October 13, 2008

Stephen, Will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. So very sorry for your loss. Hold close his memories.

Marina Carifio

October 13, 2008

To the Dame family,
I'm so sorry for your loss, Steve is an amazing kid & will always be in our hearts.

Steve,
To all of us down here it's easy to see how many people love you & care about you, I only wish that you could've seen it as well. Everyone's walking around in a daze lost without you, not knowing what to do with themselves becuase you've had such an impact on so many peoples lives. & Don't you think for a second that your not loved or missed. I was on your facebook the other day & just cried because of the nice things people were writing, you really are an amazing kid with amazing friends who love you & miss you more than anything.
We all love you so much Steve, watch over everyone, esp. your friends & family because they need it most.
Rest easy angel. You'll always be in my thoughts & prayers.

John Mar

October 13, 2008

Steve,

So sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts go out to you and your family. John Mar & Family

Karen Ayer

October 13, 2008

Steve, Karen, and Chris
There are no words to express how truly sorry I am for the pain that your family is feeling now. All of you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Fran Connell

October 13, 2008

To Steve and Family,
My deepest sympathy to you all. May God watch over you and Bless you with loving memories and grant Stephen eternal life.

Doug and Deb Simonton

October 13, 2008

Steve, Karen and Christopher,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time

Kara Papa

October 13, 2008

Stephen, you were always there for me when I needed you most; and I'm so greatful that I had the chance to have you in my life. You will always hold a place in my heart. I love & miss you.

frank nigrelli

October 13, 2008

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Jay, Gloria, Michael Titcomb

October 13, 2008

My son played hockey this fall with Stephen. We learned of his passing this morning, and were shocked. May God watch over your family and Stephen at this difficulty time.

patrick corbett

October 13, 2008

Stephen,Karen,Chris, on behalf of Alicia,Elizabeth,Rachael and myself let us try and express our deepest sympathy in this most unbelievable of times for you, our thoughts are with you God Bless You All . Patrick J. Corbett,and family

Mary St. George

October 13, 2008

My is breaking for all of you. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

A Tewksbury Family

October 13, 2008

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, ""I welcome you.""

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......""My day was not in vain.""
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008

jacqueline placona

October 13, 2008

As a friend of two of Stephen's great-aunts, I have heard wonderful stories of this remarkable young man. The heartbreak will spur you on to positive actions, I am sure. The love you feel for Stephen cannot be a source of anything negative. The energy of sympathetic friends will be a comfort in some small way. Jackie Placona

The Viola's

October 13, 2008

You were a great hockey player and a great kid. We will miss you..

Deborah Smith

October 12, 2008

Dear
Stephen, Karen and Chris,
Sending my sympathy and prayers for all of you. I will always remember
Stephen as a handsome, quiet, respectful young man the years he spent
here at St. Andrew. May you find comfort in your faith and peace in
your many beautiful memories. Debbie Smith

Louisa Slaght

October 12, 2008

Our love reaches out across the miles. My memories of all of us as children will forever be a concrete part of who I am! I am so so sorry for you loss and am thinking of you so much. i wish I could be there for you! Love to all of you. Louisa and Rick

Lyndsay Verrill

October 12, 2008

Steve we all miss you so much. you were always there for all of us. we love you so much. watch over us.

Debbie Christensen

October 12, 2008

Words cannot expess the sadness I feel for Karen, Steve, and Christopher. You will always be in my prayers.
Cousin Debbie

Alyssa Finn

October 12, 2008

Everyones thoughts and prayers are with the Dame family at this difficult time. Steve was an amazing person and will be missed and loved forever.

Love always: Alyssa Finn, Sam Mullen, Mike Hood, and Emily Johnson

Karen White

October 12, 2008

We are so sorry, words cannot express our sadness, our prayers go out to you and your family,
Karen Donnie Tyler Camden and Gary

Bob DeMattia

October 12, 2008

I did not know Stephen but my son did. My prayers are with Stephen and his family. God Be with You.

MaryAnn Deshler

October 12, 2008

Our heartfelt thoughts and prayers are with the Dame Family at this most difficult time.

Steve will forever be in our hearts.

Richie, MaryAnn, Nicole and Jonathan Deshler

Nicole Frawley

October 12, 2008

stephen, everyone misses you so much you don't even know. i miss you so much. you were an amazing person and an amazing friend.you'll always have a piece of my heart. i love you best friend..

Suzanne DeCarolis

October 12, 2008

Our Thoughts and Prayers go out to the Dame Family.


Geddes Drive families

Joe Conte

October 12, 2008

Steve and Karen - my thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.

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