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1939

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2023

SUSAN RUTSTEIN Obituary

RUTSTEIN, Susan (Singer) Beloved wife, mother and grandmother; tenacious lawyer Passed away, on August 24, 2023. She had suffered for the last few years from dementia. Susan was born in New York but grew up in Natick, the only daughter of Irving and Adelle (Schwartz) Singer. She attended Syracuse and Boston University and taught English at Natick Junior High before her marriage in 1961 to Sheldon Rutstein. The couple adopted two children, Michael and Robin. Sheldon worked 37 years with Raytheon, for part of that time at their facility in Goleta, California, where Susan and Sheldon made many lifelong friends. In 1975, they moved back to Massachusetts, settling in Sudbury. They enjoyed active memberships at the Wightman Tennis Center in Weston and later at the Belmont Country Club. They also had vacation homes at Cranberry Knoll in Dennis, MA and later, at Boca West in Boca Raton. Susan is remembered as a beautiful woman, a devoted wife, mother, grandmother to Emma, Jake, Meg and Ella; and great-grandmother to Mojave. After returning to school in her forties, she was a tenacious lawyer specializing in real estate, family law and union representation. After retiring from the bar, she enjoyed playing bridge and attained Gold Life Master status. A widow since 2014, Susan leaves behind her two children, four grandchildren, great-grandson; and her brother, Steven. A Memorial Gathering is scheduled for Tuesday, September 5, at the Weston Community Center, 20 Alphabet Lane, from 1:00 to 3:30. In lieu of flowers, we suggest donations to the Alzheimer's Association, www.alz.org

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Published by Boston Globe from Aug. 30 to Aug. 31, 2023.

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Stan Werlin

August 31, 2023

She wore motorcycle jackets in 7th grade English class in 1962 at Wilson Junior High and was by far the youngest, prettiest teacher any of us had ever had!

Eileen and Harris Sandler

August 30, 2023

Harris and Eileen Sandler will remember the many good times we shared with Susan and Shelly. We met when we were newly weds and remained friends for many years, sharing family celebrations. It was an honor to know both of them. Susan was beautiful inside and out!

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1:00 p.m. - 3:30 p.m.

Weston Community Center

20 Alphabet Lane, MA

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