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Valerie Eliot Obituary

LONDON (AP) — Valerie Eliot, the widow of T.S. Eliot and zealous guardian of the poet's literary legacy for almost half a century, has died. She was 86.

In a statement Sunday, the Eliot estate said Valerie Eliot died two days before at her London home after a short illness.

Born Valerie Fletcher in Leeds, northern England, on Aug. 17, 1926, Eliot was the second wife of the U.S.-born Nobel literature laureate. She met him at London publisher Faber & Faber, where he was a director and she a star-struck secretary who had been a fan of his work since her teenage years.

"I felt I knew him as a person" from his poems, she told The Independent newspaper in 1994, "and evidently I did."

The poet's first marriage, to the mercurial Vivienne Haigh-Wood, had been unhappy; she died in an asylum in 1947.

He and Valerie wed in 1957, and friends described the marriage as a happy one despite the almost 40-year gap in their ages.

Valerie Eliot later recalled that their routine included evenings at home eating cheese and playing Scrabble and trips to the theater.

"He obviously needed a happy marriage," she later said. "He wouldn't die until he'd had it."

After T.S. Eliot's death in 1965, Valerie became his executor, editing his poems and letters for publication and steadfastly refusing to cooperate with would-be biographers, in keeping with the poet's last wishes.

She did, however, welcome the unlikely idea of a stage musical based on a volume of Eliot's whimsical verses, "Old Possum's Book of Practical Cats." It became the Andrew Lloyd Webber musical "Cats," a global hit that brought in huge sums for the Eliot estate.

Valerie Eliot used some of the windfall to set up a literary charity, Old Possum's Practical Trust. She also funded the T.S. Eliot Prize, an annual award for poetry.

She oversaw publication of a much-praised facsimile edition of T.S. Eliot's modernist masterpiece "The Waste Land" — whose bleakness was thought by some to have been influenced by his first marriage — and edited multiple volumes of letters that gave scholars new insights into the intensely private poet.

The latter was a long and unfinished project — the third volume of letters, published earlier this year, reaches only to 1927.

Valerie Eliot rarely gave interviews, but did speak to The Independent in 1994 on the release of the movie "Tom and Viv," which portrayed the poet's first wife as an adventurous spirit neglected by an unfeeling husband. Valerie defended T.S. Eliot against the allegation of neglect in his first marriage.

"Tom tried very hard and for a very long time to make a go of it, and he's never given credit for that, is he?" she said.

A death notice in the Daily Telegraph newspaper said there would be a private funeral at St. Stephen's Church, where the Eliots both had worshipped, near their home in west London.


JILL LAWLESS,Associated Press


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Published by Boston Herald on Nov. 12, 2012.

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R

March 30, 2014

Please accept my sincere condolences on the death of your dear love one. “And no resident will say: I am sick…” Isa 33. In this time of a loss of someone special in our lives be comforted to know God cares and will help us endure through his love with comfort and peace. We miss this talented person whom many no doubt respected and admired.

December 3, 2012

Hugh and Joy Spencr-Palmer send their condolences to the family of Mrs Valerie Eliot in their loss

Deborah E

November 21, 2012

I wish to express condolences to the Eliot family during this difficult time. Psalm 46:9,10

November 20, 2012

MAY THE GOD OF MERCY EXTEND HIS BLESSING TO THE ELIOT FAMILY........

November 17, 2012

My condolences to the family and friends of Ms. Eliot. May our heavenly Father comfort and strengthen you during this time.

November 15, 2012

May our Lord Jesus Christ himself and God our Father, who loved us and gave everlasting comfort and good hope by means of undeserved kindness comfort your hearts and make you firm in every good deed and word.

DJ

November 14, 2012

My sincere Condolences to the Eliot Family. May the hearer of all Prayer,be of comfort and his loving-kindess comfort you during your grief. Psalm 65;2

Pat

November 14, 2012

May you find comfort and treasure the memories of your loved one. I send my sincere condolences. (Romans15:4)

November 13, 2012

Thinking and praying for the family at this difficult time. May your precious memories and love help to carry you through this grievous time. PS.46:1

Bev. (John 6:40)

November 13, 2012

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Cheryl Bean

November 13, 2012

Prayers for the family.

November 13, 2012

Throw your burden and sorrow upon God himself,
And he himself will sustain you.
Never will he allow the righteous one to totter.

November 13, 2012

My condolences to the family. May you be
comforted by PSALMS 9:9,10.

Sheila Gordon

November 13, 2012

I am praying for the family today and asking Jehovah God to reassure your heart of how very much He cares about all you are going through. May you rest in peace Mrs. Eliot and we hope to see you again in Jehovah's new world.

a robinson

November 13, 2012

in the loss of your love one with sympathy and caring may GOD give the family peace and comfort.jonh5:28

Thomas Stearns

November 13, 2012

Thanks for bringing happiness to a great poet. I owe my education to T.S. Eliot.

T. P.

November 12, 2012

Dear Eliot Family, please accept my warmest sympathies. Very soon all the hurt and pain death causes us will be gone. As God has promised us, "Death will be no more." And "There is going to be a resurrection."

November 12, 2012

To the the family of Valerie Eliot - May God give you peace and comfort through his word and the Lord Jesus Christ during this time of sorrow, I know that she will be missed by many.

T.S. ELIOT SOCIETY h/q in St. Louis, MO

November 12, 2012

To the FAMILY and CLOSE FRIENDS of
Mrs. VALERIE ELIOT:
Please know of our deepest sympathy of the passing of VALERIE, consort of the late great THOMAS STEARNS ELIOT. We who are members of the T.S. ELIOT SOCIETY (headquartered in his hometown of St. Louis, Missouri, U.S.A.) will recall with appreciation and respect her treasured guardianship of the late great writer's literary heritage. May she rest in peace!

Sincerely,
T.S. ELIOT SOCIETY
St. Louis, Missouri, U.S.A.

G. Johnson

November 12, 2012

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

leroy kitch

November 12, 2012

Rest in Peace

Bob Barlow

November 12, 2012

My deepest condolences. Mrs. Elliott was an important woman for keeping her husband's memory and work alive these many years since his death.

becca

November 12, 2012

"Let us go then, you and I, when the evening is spread out against the sky".....
Together again to conjure up poetry with the angels. Bless you both!

Graham Fletcher

November 12, 2012

My favourite aunt, my uncle's leaping delight.

November 12, 2012

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.

November 12, 2012

Rest in peace ~

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