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Mary Howe Obituary

Mary A. Howe

1929-2015 HINSDALE, NH Mary A. Howe passed away January 26, 2015 in the comfort of her home after a special day spent surrounded by her family and close friends. She was born October 23, 1929 Mary Alice Smith in Crogan, N.Y. to Jess and Nellie (Green) Smith. Mary moved to New Hampshire with her family in 1938 making their home in Ashuelot, she attended schools in Ashuelot and Winchester. On June 26, 1948 she married Clarence E. Howe Jr. who predeceased her in 1998. Mary worked in many Brattleboro area restaurants including The Country Kitchen, The Stone Fence Inn and Jad's, where many lasting friendships were formed. Mary was a devoted member of Red Sox Nation enjoying many games with family and friends, she loved Neil Diamond and Sweet Caroline before it became the Red Sox National Anthem. She enjoyed hosting many Superbowl parties and was looking forward to this year's. Mary loved to travel and her favorite places were NYC, Hampton Beach, N.H., and Lake George, N.Y. Most of all she loved the time spent with her grandchildren and great grandchildren attending their school functions and sporting events. She will be remembered by many as Gramma Mary and Aunt Mary. She was a Communicant of Mary Queen of Peace in Hinsdale, and a member of the V.F.W and American Legion woman's auxiliary. Mary is survived by her children, John Howe and Hope of Winchester, N.H., Kathy Boudreau and her husband, Arthur, Kyle Cassavaugh and her husband, Scott, both of Hinsdale, N.H., Jim Howe and his wife, Pam of Westminster, Vt.; her grandchildren who resided with her Samantha Howe, Gerald Howe, Trevor Hobbs and Aaron Young; 11 grandchildren, 11 great-grandchildren; her sister, Martha Zuverino of Hinsdale; several nieces, nephews and cousins. She was by her husband of 49 years and her parents; six brothers, Kenneth, Bernard, Donald, Edward, William, Paul; and her sister, Ruth Smith. FUNERAL NOTICE: A Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Saturday, February 7, 2015 at Mary Queen of Peace in Hinsdale at 10 a.m. Private Burial will take place in the spring. Contributions may be made in Mary's memory to the Brattleboro Reformer Christmas Stocking.

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Published by Brattleboro Reformer on Jan. 29, 2015.

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Lori and Tom Staib

February 17, 2015

Mary was an amazing woman. I had the pleasure of being her neighbor for years. She helped my husband and I find our place to rent at Breezy Knoll and had a welcome home party set up for us when we brought Sarah home from the hospital. She had the biggest heart. Our heartfelt sympathy to your family.

Patti Chotain Kasal

February 3, 2015

I am so sorry for the loss of your Mom. Mary was such a vital outgoing woman. Kyle and Kathy have her lovely personality. I'm so happy I was able to put a smile on her face during the holidays! Love you all!

February 2, 2015

Jacqualyn Howe

January 30, 2015

Kyle and Jessica...May God heal all of you in this time of need.. Hugs and prayers....

Sue Hammock

January 29, 2015

To all the Howe's, I'm very sorry for your loss, although I only met Mary a few times she made a lasting impression of her love for her family and friends. RIP Grandma Mary!

Chelsea Smith

January 29, 2015

We will all miss Aunt Mary greatly. Not only was she a lively, funny, caring and devoted woman but someone anyone could count on. She will be missed by so many but we are all very blessed by the legacy she left. Love you and Rest easy Aunt Mary.

January 29, 2015

Kyle, Scott and family,
You were very lucky to have her close to you for all those years. She will be missed by many and memories of her will last forever.
Janet and Kevin Verdon

Jean Companion

January 29, 2015

So sorry to here of "Grandma Mary's" passing. She was a sweet lady & always smiling! Rest in peace! Thinking of the entire Howe family & am sorry for your loss!

January 29, 2015

We are so sorry to hear of Mary's passing. She was always so much fun. Sending love & comfort to all of you.
Neal & Dawn Titus

Sue Mayotte

January 29, 2015

Mary was such a wonderful woman. I am so very sorry for the family's loss. Words are not enough.

Alice Haskins

January 29, 2015

My heart breaks as I read this, I worked with this wonderful lady at Jads Family Restaurant for many years. Mary was one on the kindest women I have ever known, always there to greet you with a hug. Rest in Peace Mary.

Samantha Howe

January 29, 2015

we will miss u gram we love u lots thank u for being there for me. Love Samantha,Tory and Logen

Samantha Howe

January 29, 2015

gram will be missed by alot of us we love u. Tory, samantha and logen

January 29, 2015

Mary was a wonderful, vibrant woman whose loss will be felt by many. Our thoughts and prayers are with her entire family, hugs to you all Steven and Ann Diorio

January 29, 2015

So sorry to the whole Howe Family for your loss. She was such an amazing woman. RIP Mary! Desiree and Keith Chase

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