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James Arkins Obituary
Mar 30, 1940 - Jan 21, 2025
Of Amherst, passed away suddenly. James served in the US Army and was a proud paratrooper. After his military service, he dedicated many years to educating young minds as a middle school teacher and later completed his career with the US Government. James was known for his culinary skills, particularly his delicious turkey, which became a family favorite. He was the loving husband of Sharon Arkins (nee Haseley) for 30 years. James was a devoted father to Kathleen Diane (James) King and Joan Arkins, and a caring stepfather to Matthew (Danielle) Wendt. He was the son of the late James and Lorraine Arkins and is survived by his siblings, Joseph, Diane and AnnMarie. James was also a proud dog dad to his beloved pets, Herbie and Henry. Services were held privately. In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests that Memorial Donations be made to St. Mark Lutheran Church, 1135 Oliver Street, North Tonawanda, NY 14120.
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JANET A TOWER
January 29, 2025
So sorry for your loss, Sharon and family. Jim and the memories you have will always be in your heart.
Cheryl McGurn
January 28, 2025
Think about the 30 years you had with a great guy.
Carin Barron
January 28, 2025
My deepest condolences to Sharon and family on the loss of James
Sharon Goretti
January 28, 2025
May family, and sweet memories comfort you, Sharon.
Leslie Thompson
January 28, 2025
Deepest condolences Sharon and family
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