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Robert MERTENS Obituary
Died peacefully on July 14, 2022, at his home after a long battle with cancer. He was surrounded by loved ones. Cherished husband of 33 years of Patricia (née Milliron) Mertens; proud father of Jennifer Mertens Jones, Elizabeth Mertens, Brian Mertens and John Mertens; grandfather of Stacey Jones; dear brother of Deborah (Michael) Kiel, Todd (Laurie Ann) Mertens, Trish Sherron, and the late Michael Mertens; much loved brother-in-law of Kathleen (Timothy) McAvey, Christine (Thomas) Veith, Margaret Milliron, Robert Milliron, Elizabeth Porter, James Milliron and Jeffrey Milliron; also survived by several nieces, nephews, great-nieces and great-nephews; son of the late Doris and Robert B. Mertens. A Celebration of Life will be held on Tuesday, July 19, 2022, from 4-8 PM at the Terrace at Delaware Park, 199 Lincoln Pkwy. (Tribute at 5 PM). Bob was employed as a Deputy Sheriff Officer for the Erie County Sheriff's office until his retirement in 2010. Prior to joining the Sheriff's Department, he owned several service stations in Buffalo and Amherst. He continued working in private security after retirement. Bob served his country in the U.S. Navy from 1969-1971. Bob enjoyed his bourbon, cigars, and the company of family and many good friends. Flowers gratefully declined. Donations to Hospice & Palliative Care, Buffalo, 225 Como Park Blvd., Buffalo, NY 14227 or Buffalo Olmsted Parks Conservancy (Tree fund), 84 Parkside Ave., Buffalo, NY 14214.
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Joe Iannello
July 21, 2022
TO: Bob's wife, family and friends;
I offer my sincere thoughts, prayers, love and sympathy for the loss of a wonderful man. Bob and I shared many days working together throughout our career together. "Big Bob" was a kind hearted person with a gracious laugh and friendly smile. You could always count on Bob to be present to assist with any issue that needed addressing within the courts. Even though Bob suffered with his own personal medical issues, he was there for me when I was in the hospital experiencing my own critical medical problems. Bob always had a positive word of encouragement, even when the medical reports were serious. I will truly miss him and I know in my heart that he is in the presence of the Lord our God in heaven. May God bless Bob, his wife, family and friends. Sincerely, Joe
Lance and Cheryl Mauro
July 19, 2022
Dear Patty,
So very sorry to hear about the passing of such a great man. Please accept our sincerest condolences and let us know if you need anything.
Fair weather and following seas to our shipmate.
Sincerely, Lance and Cheryl
Mike Ruggiero
July 18, 2022
To the family of Bob, I'm very sorry for your loss. I worked with Bob for many years at the holding center, and Buffalo city court. He was a good guy, May God Bless.
James Tuppen
July 18, 2022
so sorry to read of Bob's passing - my sincere condolences to his big, loving family
Darlene Knutsen
July 17, 2022
You will be missed by all your fellow Deputies! RIP
Nely Flatow
July 17, 2022
Patty, I´m so sorry for your loss. Bob was certainly a lovely man. George and I were just reminiscing today about how Bob took charge at Becky and George´s wedding venue and rescued her Jimmy Choos wedding shoes after we had all been told that they weren´t left behind. It was his commanding presence that got them back. God bless his soul, much love to you and your family.
dan barry
July 17, 2022
wonderful guy--in or out of the uniform----no fear of conflict-----but able to calm combatants without violence---he is and has been missed
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