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Steven Meyer Obituary
This obituary was originally published in the Buffalo News.
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for Steven Meyer
Sponsored by Pudgie's Grade School Gang.
1987 at 10 year high school reunion, with Dana Satler Hankins, jeff Newman & Pedro Alvarez
April 2, 2010
Summer of 2007 with Monticello friends Shelton Kimmons and the source of much laughter during high school, Jack Pilchman
July 22, 2008
Daniel & Mark Schiffrin
January 27, 2008
We are extreamly saddened to hear of the loss of our childhood friend.Our thoughts are with you.
Michelle Kowalick
January 8, 2008
Sheryl and Gabby, We are so sorry and saddened to hear of Steve's passing. He was a true gentleman. I admired his enthusiasm for life! We know he is tap dancing in heaven!!
Michael, Michelle, Michaela and Kaelan Kowalick
Stuart Snyder
December 26, 2007
The news of Pudge's passing is shocking and very sad. I remember Pudge well from all of my great times in Monticello especially hanging out at the Meyer house with Danny, Pudge and friends. He had a great love for life and sense of humor. My heart goes out to his entire family.
Barbara, Danny & Pudge, May 2006
December 19, 2007
Shari (Mason) Dalconzo
December 11, 2007
Although we have not seen each other for a long time, I can see his face and hear his voice so clearly. A face that featured a broad smile and laughing eyes. A voice that spoke softly, infused with wit and charm. It is with tremendous sadness that I write this, hearing of Pudgy's passing and wishing it were not so. As a childhood friend, I send thoughts and prayers to you, his family. May you hold onto the wonder that is his legacy. I hope you find a small comfort in knowing that he was loved and so well thought of by so many for so many years. It is rare, as he was.
Warren Epstein
December 4, 2007
Pudgy was one of my earliest, best elementary school buddies. I remember his mom making us grilled cheese sandwiches while we played on the sidewalk.My thoughts go out to his family ... and to all of us from the '77 class who've lost way too many, way too soon.
Nathan Henry
December 3, 2007
To you Sheryl, Gaby and the Meyer-Rosenbaum families
My sincere condolences on the passing of my friend & confidante, Pudge. I'm glad to have known him during my time rooming with him at the University of Buffalo's Governor's Complex. I will always cherish his gift for gab, his counsel, our evenings watching the Three Stooges and Benny Hill and that infamous laugh. It would light up the room and warms my heart. May God keep you in His tender care during your time of loss. Nate The Skate
Pudge with Jeff N. and Val Slayton at Gabrielle's Bat Mitzvah, 2006
December 3, 2007
Albert Coven
November 28, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with Pudgie's family.
Cousin Tracy's bat mitzvah
November 27, 2007
Cousin Tracy's bat mitzvah
November 27, 2007
Gabrielle's bat mitzvah weekend - cousins
November 27, 2007
Gabrielle's bat mitzvah weekend with family
November 27, 2007
Gabrielle's bat mitzvah weekend - Aunt Mary
November 27, 2007
Gabrielle's bat mitzvah weekend
November 27, 2007
Randi Mednick-Pollina
November 26, 2007
My thoughts and prayers go out to your families. My memories go back to our young teens when I met Pudgy at the Raleigh Hotel in the Catskills. We kept in touch through the years and every summer. We reconnected when he came to Buffalo for Law school. He was such a friendly, funny and thoughtful friend. I am sad we lost touch over the years. My loss to have not met his adoring wife and daughter and to have not maintained our friendship. My memories of Pudgy will remain in my heart. May you find the strength and support from your loving family and friends.
G-d Bless, Randi Mednick-Pollina
George Gandy
November 26, 2007
...what can i say about one of the bestest friends I could've had coming through the 'cello...my heart is heavy and I am sad, but I am oooohhh so grateful to have know such a wonderful friend, such a loving father, son, and most importantly someone i could call brother...thanks Pudge for the memories, even the recent ones at the re-union...I pray for all that are heavy and burden, keep your heads up and watch the honeymooners and smile because I know that's what he would've wanted...Mr. Meyers remember the 62 car pile up, Danny, band man...Mrs. Steven Meyer, I have not met you but Pudgy told me and showed me pics...thanks for bringing him joy...and giving him a wonderful and beautiful daughter, he was the proud father at the re-union and I'll cherish the moments we've shared...you will be in my prayers...gg
Darlene Mason Edelman
November 26, 2007
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief. I was so shocked and sorry to hear of Pudgy's passing. Not only did I go thru grade school with him I also had the pleasure of attending SUNY B college with him. He really was a wonderful person and will be sorely missed. My sincere and deepest sympathy to all the family and friends whose heart and soul he has touched.
Gabrielle probably caught this one
November 26, 2007
1976 Interact Pancake Breakfast - he ate more pancakes than he served!
November 26, 2007
1977 - with Pedro in class - an ode to short shorts
November 26, 2007
1977 - brown nosing with Gary Monaco
November 26, 2007
Lisa Newman Alter
November 25, 2007
I don't have any childhood memories which don't include Pudgy. He was an older brother to me and Steve. Just a day older than Jeff and attached to him at the hip. I walked down the aisle at Jeff's wedding with Pudgy on my arm.
Only someone as funny as Pudgy would maintain a life long nickname after a dog on the Merv Griffin Show. He was always laughing or making us laugh to the point of a small miracle George Carlin style - through the nose and mouth.
My heart goes out Sheryl and Gabby and I hope it'll be soon that when thinking about him they laugh and smile instead of cry.
A rare photo of the Mambo King and the Queen of Keys (Ellyn) - yes, he could really dance!!!
November 24, 2007
Pudge, George & Jeff at the reunion
November 24, 2007
Pudge with Phyllis - notice him not wanting his beverage in the picture!
November 24, 2007
Pudge and Jennie at the reunion
November 24, 2007
Barry Levinson
November 22, 2007
I was shocked today to learn that Pudgie passed away. I grew up playing tennis with him for hours at DeHoyas Park. Though I have not seen him in years I wish to offer his family my condolences.
Brian Macker
November 22, 2007
Steve was a great guy and I am saddened for your loss. I must say that I was always impressed with Steve in all areas of his life and the way he took care of himself. This was totally unexpected and I was shocked at this event. It is just wrong that you should be deprived of him so prematurely.
I will keep him in my memories and hope you the best in getting through these terrible times.
Jeff Engel
November 21, 2007
This is so shocking, so sudden. Pudge was very special to me these past 30 some odd years. Such strong memories. I will never, ever forget him, and he as a permanent place in my heart. I loved him like a brother, and will miss him greatly.
Debbie La Grutta
November 21, 2007
To Pudgy's family and friends.
It is sad and shocking to lose someone that was so full of love and life. Memories of our class reunion have now become so special. Our prayers are with all of you at this difficult time. Life is so precious. Peace to all.
Debbie (Hyde) La Grutta and children
pedro, jeff, pudge: Best friends and brothers
November 21, 2007
happy Pudge, fishin'
November 21, 2007
Jim Greenlees
November 21, 2007
Words can't adequately express the sadness I felt when I found out. I knew and worked with Pudge throughout our years in Hinman College at SUNY-B. We couldn't make the reunion this past fall, but you always think there will be time.
Rest well, Pudge.
Marcelina Benedicto
November 21, 2007
Dear Sheryl, Gaby, Ray, Barbara and Danny,
Please accept my family's deepest sympathy on the loss of your loved one, Steve.
May the love of your family and friends carry you through this difficult time.
Al Vos
November 20, 2007
From Hinman College at Binghamton University, condolences to Pudge's family. What a shock! Unbelievable! Less than two months ago Pudge was here at Hinman's Homecoming, mceeing the festive banquet at which we celebrated 40 years of Hinman history, meeting and greeting old friends from college days in Hinman, and making new friends. Those of us who came to Hinman later, and who hadn't known him--we learned just how much Hinman meant to him, and we appreciated how ready he was to give back, and to lead us in a celebration Hinman's history. We are grateful for his contributions. As Faculty Master of Hinman College, on behalf of many other Hinmanites: "Thank you, Pudge." Rest in peace.
Sandi Strauss
November 20, 2007
Dear Sheryl and Gabby,
Words cannot express my sadness and I am here for you both at any time. I will miss Steve very much.
Peter Allen Weinmann
November 20, 2007
I am deeply saddened by your inexplicable loss. I knew Steve both from working with him and through the community, and at all times he was such a pleasure to be with. My memories of him bring a warm feeling to my heart.
My deepest condolences.
Peter Allen Weinmann
Brian Finder
November 20, 2007
I am Very sorry for your loss, May peace be with your family. There really are no words for this.
Sincerly Brian Finder
Brian Finder
November 20, 2007
I am Very sorry for your loss, May peace be with your family. There really ae no words for this.
Sincerly Brian Finder
Terry Pugliese (Kindergarten Buddy School 81)
November 20, 2007
Sheryl, words could never express my sympathy for you and Gabby. what a horrible tragedy, my heart goes out to the both of you. I only wish I could have been at the memorial,but know I was there in spirit. Please sheryl if there is anything I could do to ease your pain, please dont hesitate to call, thats what friends are for.....
jessi-ann Rosenbaum
November 20, 2007
Words can not convey the sincere sadness I felt at hearing of Pudge's passing. How blessed so many of us were to spend what little time we did with him this summer at our reunion. His genuine concern as to how we all were doing, questions about our families and how they were, and his "remember whens" left so many of us feeling like it was just yesterday when we all attended classes together. The memories will last forever.
I hope knowing how he touched so many people in all walks of life, and how he brought smiles and laughter to all who knew him will give his family and friends strength and comfort as they grieve. May the memories of the laughter, the love and the good time spent together, and the love he had for his family and friends help you all find peace thru this difficult time and may his memory live on forever all of us who knew him.
My deepest sympathies.
Lisa LaMonte Giovenco
November 20, 2007
Dear Sheryl and Gabby,
We were so sorry to hear the tragic news about Steve. We have fond memories of all of you especially summer ones. Please know that we are here for you and that Steve will be missed by all.
Love,
Lisa, Tony, Rachael & Gabriella
Sue Bunce (nee Szabo)
November 20, 2007
"Friends make an imprint on your soul" - Springsteen. No doubt. Mine will come with sound as I hear Pudge's laugh. My heart goes out to family and friends.
Gary Pavlick
November 20, 2007
Ray, Barbara, and Danny,
I am so saddened for your loss of a son and brother. All of your family were such great neighbors in Monticello and I am really taken by his passing. Pudgie was such a nice guy and my thoughts are with you. To Sheryl and Gabrielle - it is so nice to read all the terrific things being said about your husband and father. Remembering Pudgie only from when he was still in High School, I can see where he turned out to be exactly as everyone has described him. My deepest sympathies and I wish the best to all of you in the coming months.
valerie czaja
November 20, 2007
To Sheryl, Gaby, Ray, Danny and Bebe, it is with a heavy heart that I send you my love and sympathy. When my family arrived in Monticell I was in the 8th grade it was a little frightening until I become friends with Pudge, Jeff,Cande,Ellyn,Barri, and several others. From that moment on until recently at the 30th reunion,Pudge always made me laugh, smile and always feel that no matter how terrible things might be at that time, laugh with it and it will make the pain a little easier. While that will take a while to feel that way, please know Pudge was one of the most sweetest, genuine people who talked about his family with such pride, love and admiration. At some point in time, that might be a comfort. If there is anything I can do, please don't hesitate to call. When I look up at the sky, I know the brightest star, will be looking down on me. Much love Valerie Czaja
Bonnie Schwarz(Hantman)
November 20, 2007
I was very shocked and saddened to hear this news. I also have known Steven "Pudgie" most of my life. Although we weren't very close he is still in my childhood memories and will always be. He was a great guy. I send my deepest condolences.
Michele Roberts
November 20, 2007
My heart goes out to Gabby and her mom Sheryl. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I could tell that Gabby was greatly loved by her father, after meeting him for the first time here at school for her Spanish class. He would be pleased at her accomplishments as both student and peer to her friends.
My deepest sympathy,
Sra Roberts, East HS
Dee Johnson
November 20, 2007
My deepest sympathy to Steven's family and friends. I'm glad I got to hang out with him at the reunion in July...what a cool guy he was...
Sincerely & with saddest...
Dee Johnson (formerly Washington)
cande murphy(braught)
November 20, 2007
It is with a heavy heart I erxpress my condolecences to the Meyer family.Pudge wa a remarkable man. I feel lucky to have known him and especially fortunate to have re-connected at the 3oth reunion. Though i never had the pleasure of meeting his wife and daughter...I feel like i do know them through the love and pictures and stories(of course)from Pudge. My deepest sympathy and prayers to all...cande
Ed Coven
November 19, 2007
How shocking to lose a close childhood friend. Pudgie will always exist in the reflections on my youth. My deepest condolences to Sheryl and Gabrielle, Ray, Danny, Barbara, and to all his family and friends who knew and loved him.
Ellen Kier (nee Newman)
November 19, 2007
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you
Pudge and Sheryl at the 20th reunion
November 19, 2007
Brenda Bellomo
November 19, 2007
Sheryl and Gaby we were so socked to hear the sad news about Steve. he was a wonderful neighbor and friend. He will be missed by many. It was a pleasure to know him.Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Anthony, Brenda Bellomo and family
Rich & Erin Lorino
November 19, 2007
Pudge's wit and humor will forever warm our hearts. We will always remember him with a smile.With great sympathy and condolences,we send our love.
Wendy (Okun) Haydel
November 19, 2007
I am so sorry to hear of Pudgy's death. I grew up right across the street from him. We played stick ball in the bank parking lot. Although I had not seen him since I left Monticello, I have often thought of him and it always puts a smile on my face.Sending love and positive vibrations to Ray, Bebe, Danny and Pudgys wife and children. He will be missed.
Linda Allen-Jaycox
November 19, 2007
Your family is in our prayers. May God be with you during these hard times.
Glenn Horton
November 19, 2007
My deepest symapthy to Steven's family and friends. It was a blessing to spend a few moments this summer with him duing our class reunion.Stay strong.
Randall Clark
November 19, 2007
It is always saddening to hear of losing a cherished loved one. I only knew "Pudge" for a very short time but the memories I had of him were of a kind and passionate young man. His love of life was apparent in his smile everyday and especially when he talked about his family during our 30yr reunion this past summer. He will be greatly missed not just today but many years to come
Karen Manny
November 19, 2007
Sheryl and Gabby - Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficut time. We are so very sorry for your loss. Steve was a remarkable man and he will be missed by one and all. David, Karen & Jacob Manny
INGRID JACKSON
November 19, 2007
Please accept my sincere condolences. Steve was always very pleasant and sincere whenever we met and in the way he handled the cases we worked on together as opposing attorneys. I will always remember his friendly and warm smile.
Ingrid Jackson.
Barbara Victor
November 19, 2007
I was so shocked and saddened to hear about Pudge's passing. I just saw him at the reunion...his big and sincere smile. I never remember him not being happy or smiling. He was someone who always gave someone else the biggest gift, a smile of their own. I have known Pudge my whole life and will miss him. I am so sorry for your loss. I know he has left you with so many memories that will in time, bring many smiles to your faces. He also left with you a great sense of family. With my sincerest condolences.
Always,
Barb
Jonathan Weinstein
November 19, 2007
Extremely sad news to drum up lost memories of playing hours of tennis with Pudgie & Jeff as the little guy hanging with the big boys. Although I was a few years behind, neither took pity on me, and that surely helped my game. My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of sorrow. I hope as the days pass, you'll be able to celebrate his life to help ease the mourning of your loss...
Robert Berman
November 19, 2007
There are no words to say that can ease the pain of such a loss. My deepest sympathy to the family. Too Danny, I understand. God bless.
Danny and Jamie Moore
November 19, 2007
Our deepest sympathies for the Meyer family.Steven could light up a room with his charm and wit.
Kathleen Payne
November 19, 2007
Our hopes and prayers are with the Meyer family. God bless and good luck.
Monti High Impromptu Reunion, 1982, Roarke's - Pudgie, Barri, Danny, Pedro, Ellyn
Jessica and Rick Rankin (nee Sturm)
November 19, 2007
Mere words cannot possibly convey my deepest shock and grief over the suddden loss of our lifelong friend. My heart goes out to Steven's cherished Gabby and Sheryl, and I hope they take comfort in the fact that Pudgie (he once admonished me to NEVER call him Steven - and that was two months ago!) was adored from DC to CA, FL to NY, and everywhere in between. Most recently, five of us swapped way too many e-mails joking, "singing" camp songs, reminiscing about elementary school pranks, day camp, high school craziness, and laughing about our many years of antics. He never failed to cause ripples of laughter, and his one-liner wit was delightful. As busy and devoted as he was to his wife and beautiful daughter, he still took time out to dish with his old friends. Danny, my heart is so heavy with sadness and shock, and my grief-filled thoughts are also with you, Barbara, and your father. Pudgie was one of a kind -- I just wish I could do something to help alleviate the unbelievable pain you're all experiencing. Pudgie touched the lives of so many people, briefly or for life, and we are all blessed to have known him. Pudgie Meyer will be missed and never, ever, forgotten. With the greatest of sadness for your entire family, you all have my and my husband's deepest condolences.
Kathy Kreiter
November 19, 2007
What a sad time for the Meyer family. Growing up, Steve was always a brilliant guy with a terrific sense of humor. I was happy to reconnect with him at our reunion this past summer, and my heart and prayers are with all who loved & cared about him. Peace.
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Ellyn Solis
November 19, 2007
My heart is breaking for the whole family. Pudge was my first hero when I was just six years old and I feel lucky to have known him. The last time I saw him at our High School reunion in July, I had the great good fortune to hear his jokes, dance with him and feel the love that he had for all of his friends. He glowed when talking about his beautiful daughter Gabrielle. I will especially miss his memory of our younger days: school, camp and other events that only he could explain with vivid, almost total recall. The man quite simply was a mensch. My Love and sympathy go to his wife and daughter and also to "brother" Jeff N., brother Danny, sister Bebe and his dad, Ray. Tears in Heaven indeed. Love, Ellyn Solis
Monticello High School 30th Reunion July 07
Stephanie Cooper-Kubina
November 19, 2007
I went to Monticello High School with Steve (Pudgy) and he was funny, warm hearted and the nicest person. I'm shocked to hear the news and my heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
Rita (Wagner) Montemagno
November 19, 2007
Rest in peace, Pudge. Sincere condolences,
Jeff Pavlick
November 19, 2007
Meyer Family,
I grew up next door to Pudgy in Monticello and have a lot of good memories on Park Ave. He was always a very kind and good person and I am very saddened of your loss. I know he will be missed by many people.
Peace be with everyone!
Jeff Pavlick
Benjamin Drayton
November 19, 2007
To the Meyer family,
I'd like to express my deepest and most sincere condolences at this troubling time.
Pudge will be greatly missed.
Resa Wallach
November 19, 2007
My sincerest condolences to Steven's whole family What a sad very sad day.
I will truely miss him.
Resa (Levin)and Family.
Jeff Siegel
November 19, 2007
Our condolences & sympathy to Steven's family.
Linda Cook
November 19, 2007
I was so shocked and saddened to hear of Steve's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you, Gabby and Sheryl. I know what a wonderful man and father he was. He always had that twinkle in his eye whenever he would talk about either of you. I'll always remember his great smile and easy-going manner. He will live on in our hearts.
Ken Thomasula
November 19, 2007
Sheryl, Gabby, Judy, Susie Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Phyllis Raynor Surrett
November 19, 2007
My condolences to the Meyer family and friends. I am so happy I had the chance to see him this summer at our 30th High School Reunion.
Pudge had the most infectious smile and the kind of sweet, sweet spirit you only hear about.
Christopher J. Belling
November 19, 2007
Steve was truly one of the good guys. He was a skilled and dedicated prosecutor, always willing to help. But more, he was a loving father and husband who loved music and Gabrielle's interest in it. My condolences to the families. He will be missed.
Wilson Family
November 18, 2007
Meyer Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Sincere Sympathy
Jennifer and Aaron Drake
November 18, 2007
We are deeply saddened by your loss. Our thoughts and prayers go out to the entire Meyer family, especially to Sheryl and Gabrielle. Steve was a kind man and will be missed. We are here to help in any way we can.
Tammi Gould
November 18, 2007
Sheryl and Gabrielle:
Tracey, Tom and I are in shock. We can't believe the news. He was such a family man and so into being a Dad. Please don't hesitate to call us if you need anything at all. We love and miss you. We are so so sorry. Love, The Goulds
Eddie M
November 18, 2007
Pudgy:
I will miss you and our tennis days. Peace be with you and your family.
Mickey and Dan Epter
November 18, 2007
Our thoughts are with you at this time. Your family and friends are there to help you through these trying days.
Sam Scinta
November 18, 2007
My sincerest condolences to Stevens wife Sheryl and daughter Gabrielle and to the entire Meyer and Rosenbaum families.
I will miss him
Donna Bogan
November 18, 2007
Sheryl abd Gabby: We are so sorry to hear about Steven, that was such a shock. Please if there is anything we can do, please let us know. Donna, Bruce Gabby and Ashley Bogan
David S. Kelly
November 18, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with you. I will always remember Steve as a wise and thoughtful man who loved his family and enjoyed his time with you all. I will miss him greatly.
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