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Melissa Loretto
June 23, 2024
This man Dr Small was a wonderful Dr. If it wasn't for him and Paula I wouldn't be here!! Because of him Im still staying strong!! Dancing in the sky Dr Small xoxoxoxo you helped so many people! you were extra special and understanding and kind and mindful!! I just want to say thank you
Dr. John Timmins
August 3, 2023
Like most, I occasionally find myself reminiscing of days gone by and certain individuals come to mind. I was saddened to see that Tom (Dr. Small) passed last year. We played against each other for a few seasons in the Tonawanda News Baseball League, circa 1970. I vividly recall his talent on the mound and love for the game. Although this sentiment is belated, heartfelt condolences to his family, friends and patients. I´m sorry for your loss.
With my sincere sympathy,
Dr. John Timmins
Los Angeles
Jennifer
June 18, 2023
I miss you terribly rest in peace GiGi
Rachel B
June 16, 2023
To the world, he was one person. To so many of us, he changed our world forever. Even when he was busy if you needed him he was there to lend an ear, and listened without judgment. Full of compassion, wisdom and genuine empathy. Gone but never forgotten <3
John Barcelona
June 16, 2023
Tom, it's a year today since we lost you, and hardly a day goes by where I don't miss you being a phone call away. Though you left us in good hands, I sincerely doubt there is anybody left on this planet that can fill your shoes in an overall sense. Though you were a great doctor, there are hundreds of great doctors. It was about you, as much as it was ever about medicine. I so hoped I would have your consultation through my cancer treatment. You always knew something that all the other doctors wouldn't tell you. I felt a bit of panic when I was told you were retiring. But I was sure you would still take my phone call. Then we lost you all together, and that felt devastating. It still does. I feel convinced that you were the last of a dying breed, and at the top of the heap. You may be gone from the Earth, but you live on inside of so many of us. Godspeed my friend...
Jeffrey R. Kuntz. DDS
April 4, 2023
Dr. Tom, I knew you and your father all though high school. The highest of standards were instilled in you at an early age. Excelling as a three sport athlete and scholastically in the upper echelons throughout your Tonawanda years, inspired myself and others behind you. Always humble and encouraging, you were the example to be followed. It was my privilege to have known you and I will certainly miss following your exemplary life´s journey. Thank you for leading by example and for your kind words over many years. God bless you and your family. Signed with deep respect and admiration. Jeff Kuntz, DDS THS Class of 1967,
Jessica Giuliano
March 29, 2023
Dear Dr. Small,
I knew you as my next door neighbor, and the father of one of my closest, best and life long friends (Katie). You have always been a calm, kind and understanding soul (even when Katie and I caused a lot of trouble!) and you were good enough to treat me as my doctor for a multitude of aliments (not many other doctors could treat. Never judging or making me feel anything but comfortable and cared about.) You were not just a great doctor, I know u were a great dad (as I have witnessed and Katie has concurred). We will miss you Tom. Please look over us in Heaven as u looked after us in life. You are missed and loved by everyone who knew you.
Ps.
Please give my mom a guided tour of heaven, and I will be there to consol Katie (as I she is for me as well)
Ashley Hoffmeister
July 13, 2022
I have barely any words, I´m in shock. Dr. Small was the best doctor. I knew all the years I was seeing him how lucky I was. There aren´t many doctors out there like him, he genuinely cared about every single one of his patients and wanted the best for them. It wasn´t about money to him, it was about helping to change someone´s life for the better. He will be missed,I´ll always remember him. My heart goes out to his family, I am so very sorry for your loss
Gigi
July 8, 2022
Miss you very much Dr small much love to you and your family. I was listening to your voicemails today and made me cry and laugh so that's good rest in peace gigi
Molly Gold
July 7, 2022
I worked with Tom small over 30 years ago at an Brylin hospital. In that time I witnessed his caring heart reaching out to many patients. Years later he helped my own son in the same way I will ever forever be in his gratitude
Anna
July 1, 2022
Cuz- there´s never enough time. You were the first to have a vision of me as an acupuncturist. That is one of the greatest gifts I will ever receive. It is an honor to carry out your legacy in our family name. It is a joy to read about how many lives you touched. I know you´ll be looking over me and my work forever, I only wish we had more time together. Love you always.
Lou Dellapenta
June 29, 2022
Thanks to both you and Marty for being a great role model to me growing up. Till we meet again Doc
Chris
June 29, 2022
Sorry for your loss. I've been going to Meridian Medicine for about 14 years. Dr. Small was an incredible doctor and person. I believe without a doubt he saved my life. I was sad to hear was retiring. I'm even saddened more to learn of his passing. My thoughts are your family.
Adam Parsons
June 29, 2022
Red
I still can´t believe you´re no longer with us. You left us too soon. My sincere condolences to the family and many many patients and friends. He impacted so many lives in miraculous ways. Was a great Physician but an even better friend. Rest easy bud luv ya!
-GB
Ps- Remember no tens.
John Barcelona
June 28, 2022
I am in shock. Tom was my doctor, but he was also my friend. Since he was retiring I am guessing he was sick, but never told any of us. I will miss him very much. There is no other doctor like Tom because he was our friend. He cared deeply about everybody, and always had an answer to your problem. I feel profound sadness, but very grateful to have been his patient and friend
Helen McKeough
June 26, 2022
Rest in peace, Tom.
My sympathy to the family.
Martha Masich Olka and family
June 25, 2022
Tom I would like to thank you for taking care of my Gigi in our family's time of need . You and your family has been a great part of our life's since going to school with Brad to your dad being my guidance counselor and your mom helping with the deliveries of my babies,and you being my primary for many years. You will always hold a special place in our hearts and be dearly missed. I would like your family to know what a great person you were to my daughter and our family thank you.
Harold and Diane Van Slyke
June 24, 2022
We are deeply saddened to hear the passing of Tom. "Those we love don´t go away, they walk beside us every day....unseen, unheard, but always near, still loved still missed, and very dear."
Katy, Mike, Ryan and Marty.... May your memories of him be eternal.
Gigi
June 24, 2022
Dr Small I am going to miss laughing g with you all these years. So many good memories with you. You were like a second father to me I will always hold you dear to my heart. You saved my life when I was in great need if it and I thank you and your family from the bottom of my heart.,and will never forget you. Soar with the eagles Dr small and rest in peace
Adam C
June 23, 2022
I´m gonna miss you Doc. You were/are a true, one-of-a-kind genius. As caring and compassionate as they come. Rest easy Dr Small. This world is an empty place without you.
Christie Semrau
June 23, 2022
Dr. Small, you changed the lives of so many and touched even more. Thank you for treating patients dealing with substance use disorder as patients and not as less than. I hope and pray that you are resting in peace and that your family gets the love and support from God and each other that they need right now.
Rachel Brubaker
June 23, 2022
Sending my most sincere condolences to your family. I have known Tom for over a decade, he essentially saved my life and helped me to become the person I am today. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. Gone but never forgotten.
Ryan Lindemuth
June 23, 2022
Although words seem so inadequate at this time of sorrow, may you find comfort in knowing that others care and are thinking of you all at this difficult time. Dr. Small will be greatly missed. May he Rest In Peace.
Nora McLaughlin
June 23, 2022
To Tom´s extended family I offer simple words for peace and comfort. Find a memory of joy and hold on to it tightly with a smile.
Penni Nelson Naylor
June 23, 2022
Sincere condolences to the family. I am so sorry for your loss. I remember Dr Small from many years ago when he lived upstairs from us and as a great physician over the years. Prayers
Jonhall
June 22, 2022
Docthanksforyourgreatcare. Todocsfamilysorryforyourlossthanksforsharinghimwithme
Laurie M Dibenedetto
June 22, 2022
What a great Dr he was. His manyvhats as a kind caring and wonderful man and Doctor. He will be missed by many.
Laurie M Dibenedetto
June 22, 2022
I remember Dr.Small many moons ago ar DeGraff memorial hospital then watched as he expanded his medical knowledge into expanded his many different hats as a great physician. He shall be missed.
Arica Blackmon
June 22, 2022
Dr small you truly saved my life. You were also the closest thing to a father I've ever had, over the last 12 years. This just doesn't make sense to me. I'm thinking of you and your family. I love you doc xoxo
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