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mom and dad
September 30, 2008
Son, One year ago today was the saddest day of our lives. We recieved the call that you had been killed. We have grieved for you every day and will continue to do so until we join you at the end of our lives. Not hearing your voice or seeing you has been very hard.
Know that we will love you and your beautiful daughter forever, whether near or far. She is part of all of us and always will be.
Tammy Helms
September 29, 2008
Bubba, the past year has been difficult to say the least. Words cannot express how much we miss and love you everyday. You will always be in our hearts. Love, Sis, Keith, and Justin
September 29, 2008
Buster, Laloy, Tammy and family,
just know that you are all in my prayers today - god bless
Bonita
March 21, 2008
Eric and Family,
i would like to wish all of you a Happy Easter, you are all in my prayers.....i miss you eric....
February 14, 2008
ERIC,
HAPPY VALENTINES DAY BUDDY, YOU ARE GREATLY MISSED.....XOXO
February 14, 2008
ERIC,
HAPPY VALENTINES DAY
MISSING YOU, B
Sarah Hill
February 13, 2008
Eric,
You will be missed so much. Your smiles and your jokes will remain forever etched in my heart. Give my babygirl a hug for me up there. I will see you guys oneday, when my journey is complete as well.
Sarah
Bonita
January 30, 2008
Buster, Laloy, Tammy & Family,
just wanted to let you know I think about you guys all the time....as I do Eric , my prayers are with you all every moment, I keep his picture up at my desk at work, and talk to him often..again, I am so sorry for your loss - the lord works in mysterious ways - i am still trying to understand this one...
take care,
love Bonita
Tammy Helms
December 25, 2007
Eric,
It is hard to believe that there was a time that the only thing we worried about at Christmas was what was under the Christmas tree.
Now as an adult, my thoughts have changed.... Even though you are gone, and life is a little more complicated now. There is still a simple truth; you will always be my brother and I will always love you.
I know you are spending this Christmas with Jesus, but a part of you remains here with me. A brother and a sister share a bond like no other. Memories of growing up together, family traditions, holidays, vacations and so much more. On this Christmas Day and every other day throughout the year, you are in my thoughts and dreams.
I love you and miss you,
Tammy
December 24, 2007
To my brother,
As the years have gone by, I have truly begun to learn what really matters in life. Years don't matter, differences don't matter, LOVE matters. And on this Christmas Eve and ever other day throughout the year - I just want you to know that you mean so much to me and you always will.
Love,
Tammy
December 21, 2007
Mr & Mrs. Tanner,
I just recently learned that Eric is gone. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this most difficult time. May God keep you close.
December 13, 2007
just was thinking about you eric - as i do EVERYDAY - missing you soooo much - B
Diana Price
December 2, 2007
Dear Buster & family,.
I have been thinking of you all in the past months. I did not know Eric, but I consider you a friend, Buster,even though I do not know you that well, only from the VFW. I lost my mom and my husband within the past 3 years and I live with that heartbreak every day of my life. I can't imagine the grief that comes with losing one's own child. May God bless you and your family. You have many friends who will help you through this.
November 16, 2007
my grief is like a river, i have to let it flow, but i myself determine just where the banks will go...some days the current takes me in waves of guilt and pain, but there are always quiet pools where i can rest again....i crash on rocks of anger; my faith seems faint indeed, but there are other swimmers who know that what i need ..are loving hands to hold me when the waters are too swift, and someone kind to listen when i just seem to drift..GRIEF'S RIVER IS A PROCESS OF RELINQUISHING THE PAST. BY SWIMMING IN HOPE'S CHANNELS, I'LL REACH THE SHORE AT LAST.......B
Dee Slagle
November 8, 2007
To, Buster,Laloy,Tammy,& Family,
It's taken me sometime to write this. It seems everytime I start I stop.Eric was just like a son to me.He was so full of life.I guess in his forty years he touched alot of peoples hearts. I know I was blessed to have known him.There are so many memories I will forever hold in my heart.He loved his family & friends very much and once you knew him you were never the same.I wish I could take the pain away but I can only pray.The Lord never promised the cross would not get heavy,but he is always there to help you carry it.I can see Eric now running all over Heaven just as hyper as ever,and the Lord saying slow down (Son).We know all of you are hurting now, but Just remember Eric is just a step ahead of us,(as always).The joy of knowing the Lord is knowing he only loans his children for a season and he will return for them.I am praying for all of you and I can,t even imagine what you are going through.Please lean on God and know that he doesn't make mistakes and you will see Eric again one day.I always say I would have rather loved and lost than to have never loved at all.I pray God will wrap all of you in his arms and keep you safe until you see him again.
We love all of you,
Dee,Jeremy,Jami, & Gracee
Dee Slagle
November 8, 2007
To Carrie,Shelby,And my sweet baby Amber.
I see you girls everyday and I know the void that is now in your lives.I wish I could take the hurt away from you but only God and time will do that.You girls and Eric were like my family.I can't believe how much I miss him.I'd give anything in this world for just one more day. I guess that's why he loved that song Don't blink,how very real it is now. I know I'll see him again one day.But until then I'll trade all my big hugs and Mama Dee's for all your little hugs and I love you Mama Dee. You girls are in my prayers and I'm always here for you.Thank you for being in my life and understanding we're all hurting and missing him terribly.
I love yall (Mama Dee)
October 23, 2007
- - - each day gets harder to let you go eric - but i am trying because i know i will see you again - know that you are loved so much - B
LaLoy and Buster Tanner
October 22, 2007
Well son it has been three weeks this past Saturday since your Dad and I got the dreaded call no parents want to get saying your child has been hurt or God forbid killed. I know a part of our heart and soul died with you. This is the hardest thing we have ever had to endure. We miss you and think of you every single minute of every single day!
They say God doesn't give you more than you can handle. Well I'm here to tell you this may be more than we can handle. The initial shock and pain was bad, but knowing you are not on earth with us to see, talk to, and share things with is unbearable.
We know life on earth was not always easy for you and we would have done anything to keep you safe and happy, but that was not possible.
We never know what God's plan is and why some go home to him so early and sudden. We had you for forty years, which was not nearly enough, but we are grateful for every minute and know we will see you again some day. Until we meet again in the hereafter, know that you were loved more than you could ever imagine, and will be missed forever, as long as your mother, father, and sister breathe a breath of air and then some.
Miriam Jordan-Moore
October 15, 2007
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts are with you and your family.
Erma Brown and Miriam Moore
October 11, 2007
Eric - Days may come and go - but i think of you every moment - rest in peace my friend - i will see you again some day - B
Stephanie (Hamilton) Beachum
October 9, 2007
I went to Independence with Eric and just heard the news today of his passing. My prayers are with you and your family in this time of grief. Please know that he loved his family and friends and I have heard nothing but wonderful things regarding the way he lived and loved. Our deepest sympathies are with your family.
Steve Hahn
October 8, 2007
I grew up with Eric and the rest of the first generation of Quailridge Kids.
Although I moved to Florida the year he graduated from high school, it feels like just yesterday that we were playing baseball(we were teammates on the Mint Hill team at least one year - found the team picture), riding bikes or just envying him with his classic Camaro (esp. when he zoomed passed me on the way home from The Big I)
I'm so sorry for your loss.
Marie Winslow Boon
October 8, 2007
I just heard the sad news today! I'm so sorry for your loss. I've been friends with Eric since Jr. high school. I was new to the area and he took me under his wing. Every day when I got off the bus he would be waiting for me on his dirtbike.(We lived in the same neighborhood) We continued to be friends and I kept in touch with him through my husband, when he would call to place cement orders with Eric. He was a wonderful and loving person and will be missed by all. Love and prayers to his family.
Judie (Frazier) Walters
October 5, 2007
My heartfelt sympathy and prayers go out to the Tanner family. I am so very sorry for your loss.
A lifetime friend.
Eric's Custom Cycle
October 5, 2007
To a good friend and buddy he would give you the shirt off his back if it was needed. Always confided in me as his only mechanic on his Harley-Davidson Fatboy sometimes very difficult trying to get him to understand what needed to be done. But with patients he always understood I rode with him and worked with him at Sunbelt Rentals-Concord He was a super guy me and Eric were a lot alike hyper,heart of gold ,But did'nt take kindly to being pushed around he'll be greatly missed by all the Ballard family and as a very valued customer at Eric's Custom Cycle. We are very sorry for your loss to Carrie and all the children.
Sherry Preddy
October 4, 2007
Carrie,
I haven't seen you or Shelby in a long time and I never got to meet Eric or Amber but you have always stayed close in my heart. Life has a way of taking you in all different directions and we forget what matters most - Family and Friends. You and I where great friends and had wonderful times together....I wish I could hug you until this pain passes - please know that you are a strong woman and you have two beautiful daugthers that love you very much. If you or the girls need anything, myself and Ally will be there. We love you then and always will. You and the family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Sherry B. & Ally Preddy
Charles, Shelley, Brooke & Laney Green
October 3, 2007
You will be missed, your smile, happy go attitude, and your willingness to help others. Thank you for helping us with Barbara & Sid. We will be praying for your journey to the Lord, and your family.
Tammy Tanner Helms
October 3, 2007
Hey bubba, it's me....it's your little sister. Saturday 09/29/07 at 5:31am, I got the worst news of my life. I got a call from mom and dad telling me that you were gone. I can't believe it. It just does not seem real. I know that in time, mom, dad, me, Keith and Justin will come to terms with this and we will begin the road to recovery and mending our broken hearts. Leaving you at Sunset Memory Gardens was the hardest thing we have ever had to do. But I know that we will visit you and talk to you and go on loving you every day of our lives.
In addition to our memories, we have a piece of you left in your beautiful daughter Amber, and we will continue loving her and watching her grow over the years.
So today, we are trying to wake up and take a deep breath and find our own way to move forward. I ask that you please watch over mom and dad and help me, to help them be strong.
All our love, today, tomorrow and forever more........
Michael Conley, sr
October 3, 2007
My name is Deputy Conley. I have known eric for years. eric was a great Sheriffs Deputy. My heart goes out to the family. GOD-BLESS.
Tracey and Bill Cole
October 3, 2007
Tanner family, I'm so sorry for your loss. Eric was a sweet, kind, fun loving person. He will be missed very much. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Jeff Maner
October 3, 2007
Family. I am so sorry for our loss of Eric. God bless you all.
Nikki Blackburn
October 3, 2007
Eric will be missed so much. I will always have wonderful memories and I will never forget him. Carrie, I am truly here for you and the girls any time you need me, and always will be. To the entire family, I am so sorry and shocked, but am also extremely fortunate that Eric touched my life in his own wonderful way. He will never be forgotten and will always be loved, and know that we all will see him again one day. God Bless you all.
Brian CHANCE
October 3, 2007
Carrie and Kids,My thoughts and prayers are with you in these hard times .I am so sorry for your lose.All the funny things he used to do at CSC are always going to be pleasant memories.
Alana Home
October 2, 2007
Eric, I just want to say goodbye old friend. Even though we had not spoken for a long time, I always condidered you a friend. Growing up wouldn't have been the same without you. Thank you for all the wonderful memories.
Buster, LaLoy & Tammy, I racked my brain trying to find the right words, but I'm not sure if there are any at a time like this, so, I'll just write what I feel. Your family has always been there for me & my family and I just want you to know that I'm here for you now. I love y'all very much and you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Ronnie and Ginger Lowe
October 2, 2007
Dear Buster and Laloy,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May God be with you all.
Terri (Chambers) Hammer
October 2, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with the entire family. I am saddened by the sudden loss of such a wonderful person. I was a class mate of Eric's all through school and haven't seen him in many years. This news made me wish I could have seen him again to catch up. It appears that he has a wonderful family and friends and was loved by all. May god bless you all.
Patricia Hilton
October 2, 2007
While, I haven't seen Eric in quite some time, I was very saddened when I heard the news. I went to high school with Eric and he was also a good friend of my brother. May God bless you and be with you during this difficult time.
Donna Osburn-Szekely
October 2, 2007
Carrie & Family - I only just found out about Eric. I never had the chance to meet him, but have heard and even read great things about him on this guest book. I am deeply sorry for your loss and you will be in my prayers. God Bless You Carrie..and The Tanner Family...
Jessie Bradley Cline
October 2, 2007
Buster,
I was saddened to learn of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in your time of sorrow.
Rodney and Tina McAninch
October 2, 2007
Carrie and family, My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Christine Roberts
October 2, 2007
I am truly sorry for the loss of Eric. I will pray for you all.
Michelle Sundquist
October 2, 2007
Dear Carrie,
Even though we have not been in recent contact, you and Eric have not been far in our thoughts. We remember all of the good times we had hanging out with you and Eric for the short time we lived in Charlotte. You will be in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
Jeff and Michelle Sundquist
Judy Smith Sanders
October 2, 2007
Buster and LaLoy, I just got the news about Eric. I am so sorry. It was just a couple of months ago he and I spoke on the internet. I know this must be the hardest thing to face. He and Tammy were such a joy to me when I baby sat them when we all lived on QuailRidge. He was a great friend to me and I have tons of great memories of him and your family. Just know I am praying for you and your family to comfort you through this tough time.
Taunia Meadows
October 2, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with your family at this time. Eric had been in all of my classes at Sunbelt in the past year , I don't know if I have ever meet a nicer person. May the Lord help you though this time.
Sandra Young
October 2, 2007
To all of Eric's survivors - may God be with each and every one of you. I actually first met Eric when he was a student on my school bus route. We then ran in to each other when he started working at the same place as I. We were on a bowling league together also. No matter where or when I saw Eric I knew to always expect a great big hug! I will miss him dearly!
DEBBIE WELLS
October 2, 2007
I worked with Eric at Metromont in the late 80's and early 90's. He was such a wonderful young man. He could always bring a smile to my face. I talked to him when he was still at Concrete Supply. I am so sorry for your loss and I know this is an unbearable loss of all you. My thoughts are with you all and may God Bless
Lorraine Colclough - Roberson
October 2, 2007
Although it's been quite some time since I've seen Eric, I will never forget how friendly he was, he always had a smile. My thoughts and prayers go out to all of you in this time of lose.
Paula Walker/Trull
October 2, 2007
Dearest Carrie,
I've only the pleasure to meet you and Eric once or twice. But the love that is extended through Diane,Jessica & Dean tells all. My prayer is that your lost will bring you closer to the Lord. That you will feel His love and have only precious memories of your life with Eric.
Love in Christ,
Paula Walker Trull
Sara Home (childhood friend)
October 1, 2007
Eric-I have known you a lifetime, yet it has been a lifetime since we last spoke. You and your enitre family played a big part in my youth, all the family beach trips, the neighborhood tag games with everyone, the silly things the four of us did as kids. We grew up, went our seperate ways and moved on. I was truly blessed to have been a part of your life. There will always happy thoughts and fond memories. To Mr. & Mrs Tanner (my second parents) and my "little" sister Tammy, you all are in my thoughts and prayers always. I love you.
Michael and Lisa Brumfield
October 1, 2007
Dear Carrie and Family,
I was a friend of Eric's since high school. After learning of his unfortunate accident, I had to pause myself, and I considered the love I have for my own family. I am sure Eric had as much. He was given a life to live and I am sure he would not have wanted it to be any other way, with you and your family. May time heal your grief and life begin anew with him always in your heart and thoughts. The last time I met with him years ago, I could see how proud he was to be your husband and happy he was to be with you. May God bless you and your family through your loss.
Judy Lankford
October 1, 2007
Dear LaLoy and Buck,
I was so sorry to hear of your son's death. Pearl Lankford called me tonight and told me the shocking and sad news. May God sustain you during this sad time and give you strength day by day. I will keep all of you in my thoughts and prayers.
Judy Lankford (Harding High friend)
J.B. Wright III
October 1, 2007
Buster and Family, I am so sorry for your loss. Words can never express how much sorrow I feel for you!
J.B.
Waine Pepper
October 1, 2007
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Lynda Dunn
October 1, 2007
Buster & Laloy,
We are so sorry for your loss. Please know that you're in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.
Lynda & Jimmy Dunn
Deputy Sheriff Laurence Thomas
October 1, 2007
Eric you are a good friend,and was a pleasure to know such a man. My heart goes out to your family at this time. I hope God will ease this time for them, because you and they are in our prayers.
derek glenn
October 1, 2007
You will be missed my brother!
David Stansberry
October 1, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with all of your family.Eric loved life and it showed with his smile and joy.I worked with him at the sheriff's dept.and we had some great times.
The Hanocks
October 1, 2007
Buster, Laloy, and Tammy
It is with sorrow and sympothy that we are sending our condolenses. Eric was able to touch all of our lives, as well as everyone he's ever met, and he will truly be missed. To his wife and children, we are deeply sorry for your loss. My God bless you in this time of sorrow.
Laura Allen
October 1, 2007
Tammy -
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
Stephanie Haigler
October 1, 2007
Tammy,
I am so sorry for your loss. The bond of a brother and sister can never be broken. He will live on in your heart forever. You are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
Metrolina Bail Bond Association
October 1, 2007
In this your time of great loss and sorrow, all of our members would like to extend our deepest regrets and offer our thoughts and prayers to the family.
Marc Chandler
October 1, 2007
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. My prayers will be with you and the children during this time of sorrow.
Felicia McAdoo
October 1, 2007
Buster and Family,
I am deeply saddened by the loss of Eric. Eric was one of the nicest people that I've ever known. To know him was to call him a friend. My thougts and prayers are with you.
Steve & Teresa Ross
October 1, 2007
Carrie,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Know that we're here if you need us.
Victor Bell
October 1, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with the family in this time of sorrow. Eric was a friend and great co-worker.
L. H. Pagan
October 1, 2007
I worked with Eric at the Sheriff's Office in the old jail. He was always the one who could make me laugh when my days got rough. You did a great job teaching your son how to be a wounderful person. My life was made better because, he was in it.
Jane,Neil,Andrew and Abby Cole
October 1, 2007
We are so sorry to hear about your loss.Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Everyone at Turner-Baxter
October 1, 2007
Our thoughts and prays are with all of you in your time of need.
Carmel Ruckart
October 1, 2007
Laloy and Buster, I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayes will be with you during this difficult time in your life. Please let me know if there is anything I can do for you.
Keri, My thoughts and prayers are also with you and your daughters. If I can do anything for you, please let me know.
Cherise Elder
October 1, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Amber and Shelby in this time of intense sorrow. We pray God's peace will wash over you like a warm healing breeze.
Todd & Cherise Elder
Amanda's sister & brother-in-law
Donna Tarlton
October 1, 2007
Dear Buster and Family,
I have known Eric for fifteen years. He always had a warm smile and a zest in everything he did. I remember one of the last times I spoke with him and he was so happy and proud to have a daughter. She truly was his light. He beamed when he spoke of her or when he would show you her picture. May god be with you at this time and help you through the times ahead. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Debbie Trull
October 1, 2007
My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
Deputy Chip Christenbury
October 1, 2007
Buster, No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Ken and Sue (Patera) Baker
October 1, 2007
Our prayers are with your family at this time.
Shannon
October 1, 2007
Carrie,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your girls.
Bruce Funderburgh
October 1, 2007
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
Charlie Latham
October 1, 2007
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help at this time.
Pam & Jerry Surratt
October 1, 2007
Uncle Buster & Aunt Laloy,
We can not begin to comprehend the deep pain that you are experiencing over the loss of Eric. We look for the right words that will somehow bring you comfort and yet, none seem to be adequate. You are in our thougts and prayers and we love you.
April Simmons Liner
October 1, 2007
Your family will be in our thoughts and prayers.
October 1, 2007
OUR DEEPEST SYMPATHY TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY, YOU ALL ARE IN OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS. PATSY MCMANUS, AND ROZ GIVENS (RHONDA'S BUDDIES AT CAROLINA ASTHMA & ALLERGY CENTER
Katherine Jackson
October 1, 2007
I am deeply saddened to hear of the loss of a true friend. My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this time. Eric, your smiling face will forever be engraved in my memories.
Chris & Laura Helms
October 1, 2007
You will always live in our hearts and memories of all the good times we shared. Love ya brother, Chris and Laura Helms
Steve Runnion
October 1, 2007
Dear LaLoy, Buster & Tammy:
We know there are no words.
We just want you to know how
much we love you and grieve with
you.
Steve, Lynn, Jessica & Jordan
Bobbie Ivester
October 1, 2007
LaLoy Buck my heart aches for you & your family. We have been so close for so many years and it seems like a nightmare. God will not put more on you than you can stand, therefore, we will keep you in our prayers. Bobbie Ivester & Family
Rhonda Williams
October 1, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Dusty Spake
October 1, 2007
My prayers are with the family, he is in a much better place than we all are. But he will be missed and never forgotten.
Steve & Lorie Horton
October 1, 2007
Eric you will be missed by everyone. You were a great Farther,Husband,and friend and you meant the world to everyone.You will always stay in our hearts and never be forgotton.
Love always,Steve & Lorie Horton
Shelly Hinson
October 1, 2007
Buster and LaLoy,
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. God Bless you.
Shelly Hinson
Meck. Co. ABC Board
LARRY ELMS
October 1, 2007
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Bubba Baer
October 1, 2007
A very enthusiastic and outgoing person. He will be sorely missed by all of his co workers.
james dunbar
October 1, 2007
you will be missed my brother....
Ronnie Rockett Jr.
October 1, 2007
I would like to send my deepest sympathies to Carrie, Amber , Shelby and all of Eric's family.
T Legrand
October 1, 2007
Your family is in my thoughts and prayers. May the LORD keep you during your time of bereavement. I worked with Eric at the Sheriff's Dept., it was a blessing to have known him
Hilda Beck (Houck)
October 1, 2007
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Tammy Eakins
October 1, 2007
Words cannot express how deeply sorry we are for your loss. We can only imagine the emptiness you must be feeling. Please know that we are always here for you.
We love you guys,
Robin, Tammy, Madison, Ryan & Alex Eakins
Pat,Tony and Blake hinson
October 1, 2007
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Concrete Supply
Keith Abluton
October 1, 2007
Eric was a really good friend of mine for well over 30 years. I have so many great memories with him. Seeing Eric always put a smile on my face and I know Eric will be greatly missed by myself and many others. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends at this very dificult time.
Brandy Acker
October 1, 2007
Uncle Buster, I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Debbie Trull
October 1, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
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