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KEVIN MIKA Obituary

Kevin J. Mika, 45, of Island Lake and formerly of Deerfield, passed away Feb. 5, 2011. Cherished father of Tyler and Chad; loving son of Hessie and the late Raymond; dear brother of Anita; loving boyfriend of Marie Geschke. A visitation will be held Wednesday, Feb. 9 from 4 to 8 p.m. at Kelley & Spalding Funeral Home, 1787 Deerfield Rd., Highland Park, IL, where a funeral service will be held on Thursday, Feb. 10 at 10 a.m. Interment Ascension Cemetery, Libertyville, IL. For info and/or directions please call Kelley & Spalding Funeral Home at (847) 831-4260 or www.kelleyspaldingfuneralhome.com

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Published by Chicago Tribune on Feb. 6, 2011.

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January 9, 2012

Marie, Not a regular human being is so true. As you well know, Kevin was more than an exceptional person. You must also be, to have been so special to him. A loyal friend, he was always there with encouraging words and support, NEVER cruel or unkind to ANYONE. (well, with the exception of Cun Cho, but they were kids, and it was all in fun! She reportedly changed to CONNIE Cho due to Kevin and the "gang"- pehaps a positive influence after all?) Cheerfully going out of his way to help injured animals, or stranded motorists, he never minded his own inconvenience. We lost touch, but it was always good to know he was out there, making the world a better place.
The Lord was smiling on him the day he met you. He was truly blessed to find and have you, and I am heartbroken for your terrible loss. I know he will always be with you, watching over you so will not be alone. Please keep in touch with Hessie and Anita, they must also be lost without him. Remember to be strong~ his love for you will always burn bright. The best thing that ever happened to him (besides the Boys, of course) is YOU. Remember that.
Peace in 2012, and again, THANK YOU for being his everything.

Marie

January 1, 2012

Can it really be 2012 already? Almost 11 months since you were called to be an angel...and yet it seems like just yesterday. You are missed more than you can imagine, life goes on but it is just not the same without you. You have a piece of my heart...our love is in both our hearts...where it will always stay. XOXO

Marie

December 25, 2011

Merry Christmas baby....I know you are looking down from heaven and smiling at all the twinkling Christmas lights. You loved Christmas so much...and our last Christmas together was the best..the tree with your favorite ornaments and LOTS of lights..the stockings I made to hang on the fireplace..the house was decorated just like you had always wanted...warm and cozy..Tyler and Chad making breakfast for you..opening gifts (you loved that part the most)
This year is our saddest ever..our first Christmas without you...I woke up this morning without you by my side and all I could do was wish you a Merry Christmas in my heart. I miss you SO much...XOXOXO

Chad Mika

December 21, 2011

i LOVE YOU DAD

Marie

November 24, 2011

My love..SO much has changed for all of us this year, how can it be Thanksgiving Day already...even though the months seem to have flown by, there are still days when time seems to stand still. There is not a day that goes by that I don't think about you. I miss you every day, we all do. Life is just not the same, it never will be, but I know you are with me in my heart and soul, and for that I am forever grateful. Happy Thanksgiving baby, give my mom a hug for me...xoxo

Chad Mika

November 22, 2011

My dad was a good dad,he did everything he could for me and i didn't recognize it. I Thank all of you that Gave you time to write on this wall and he will always be remembered,not on the outside but in you heart. remember my dad as not a regular human being,but a valued human being. Many people have posted that i don't even know and it makes me happy. the last words i ever said to him in person was I LOVE YOU!!!!

Lila Bonk

June 22, 2011

I can't believe what I am reading. Wow, I am truly sorry to read about Kevin. My thoughts and prayers are with you Marie and all of Kevin's family. I am so very sorry for your loss.

Marie

May 19, 2011

Happy Birthday my love! Our lives are NOT the same without your smiling face...although I know you are smiling from up above...we are going to Outback to celebrate your birthday just like you always did......LOVE YOU and MISS YOU SOOO MUCH! XOXO

Megan Lahey

March 16, 2011

Dear Hessie and Anita
I am so sorry to hear of Kevin's passing. He was such a wonderful person and had always had a special place in my heart. I remember us hanging out at Big Boys drinking coffee for hours with Billy, the late night plow runs, and the trip to Florida to deliver trailers. Kevin was instrumental in convincing me to go to college and I will always be grateful to him for that. He loved his friends and family with all his heart and I know that continues even after he is gone. Dearest Kev...you will be missed
much love, "mugsy"

Marie

March 5, 2011

It's been one month today since you left my side, my love. The pain and sadness of losing you is still just as fresh as it was that day. I am only comforted by knowing your spirit is with me. I miss you more than ever baby....xoxoxo

Keith Dart

February 15, 2011

"Shine on, you crazy diamond..."

Marie

February 14, 2011

Happy Valentine's Day baby.....xoxoxo

Marie Geschke

February 10, 2011

My dearest Kevin...even though my heart is broken right now, I know that you are with me to help it heal. We had such a great future mapped out for us, but God needed you and called you home. I know there is a plan for all of us...we just don't always understand what it is at the time. You and I had a love built on trust, respect and admiration. Our life was blessed in so many ways because of it. I will forever be grateful that God brought us together and we found true happiness even if for a short time. I have never loved anyone the way I loved you baby...There are no goodbyes...only see you later! So until we meet again my love...I will carry you in my heart and leave my love notes here for you......XOXOXOXO Marie

Jeannie

February 10, 2011

Although I have not seen Kevin since 1987, I am happy to see he had such a lovely family. I remember him coming into Denny's after plowing for coffee, this would be from the days of KAP. He would come in with Billy and sometimes it would be Andy or Paul with him. He was taken way too young, but he will always remain in your hearts. I am very sorry for your loss and my thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

February 10, 2011

Dear Marie,
I can't tell you how sorry I am for you. I know in my heart how much you loved him. I do know what it is like to find your soul mate in life and I don't know what I will ever do without mine. Please know that I love you very much and will always be there for you. I wish we would have more time to get to know him. My heart goes out to his son's and family as you and our family knows how hard it is to say goodbye to the ones we love. We will always carry their love in our hearts. May god comfort you now and always.

Love Always Your Baby Sister Ginny

February 10, 2011

Dear Marie,Chad,Tyler and Kevin's Mom,
I am so sorry for your loss.
Love Your Sister Ginny

Marie Geschke

February 10, 2011

In Love and Light xoxo

mom

February 9, 2011

Tyler and Chad,
I'm so sorry that you have lost so such a wounderful dad and friend. Your dad loved you both so much and was very proud of the two of you. I know that your dad's greatest achivment as mine was the day you both were born. And we both have watched you grow into two wounderful sons and compasionate people. I know your dad will always be with you and will be when you drive a car for the first time, when you both graduate from high school and then from collage and when you get married and when you each get to experience the birth of your own children he will always be there with you. Your dad was a great man and the two of you in so many ways will always remind me of him. We both love you so much!
Love,
Mom

Leah Christiansen

February 9, 2011

You were always such a nice person to deal with at work and there are few people out there like you. My thoughts and prayers are with your family and friends. You will be missed.

Chad...Dad..Tyler 2009

Marie Geschke

February 9, 2011

ken galan

February 9, 2011

My condolences to all the family, I just want to say kevin was great to work with and a great person.

Tiffany Honaker

February 8, 2011

To my family. I'm leaving for basic training tomorrow morning so I won't be able to attend the funeral. I deeply apologize. I'm going to miss Kevin he was always so funny. To my cousins Tyler Chad Anita and aunt Hessie I'm sorry for your loss and I love you all very much. Keep your heads up at time like this and stay strong. I'll come and visit when I'm done with training. Love you, tiffany

Samantha Monahan

February 8, 2011

To Tyler and Chad,
- My Deepest sympathy to you both and your Family. As I only knew your Dad threw Boy Scout meetings. I could see and so could everyone else the Love you both shared with your Dad.
If you need anything please just ask.
Samantha Monahan (Alan’s Mom, Troop 76)

Vicki Tjardes

February 8, 2011

Tyler, Chad, and Marie: My thoughts and prayers go out to all of you and the entire Mika family.

beverly conroy

February 8, 2011

I didnt know Kevin personally, But I do know if he loved Marie he musta been a terrific man, Im sorry for the loss for his family and maries family, my prayers are with you, wish I was xoxo

Bob Weigand

February 8, 2011

Mrs. Mika, Anita and all of Kevin's family: I am deeply saddened to hear of Kevin's passing. We spent hours together in his room listening to records, building models and laughing. It seems like it was yesterday when Kevin and I painted the house on Rago one summer. Kevin was a dear friend to me in my childhood. I am thankful that we had a chance to reconnect in the last year.

Pat Andriani

February 8, 2011

My most heartfelt condolences Anita and Mom i cant's be there with you in this time but Iam in spirit love to both of you

Pat andriani

February 8, 2011

Anita&Mom my heart felt condolences there aren't any words i can say to help youi wish there were just remember it will get easier but never forgotten and its ok to cry i do every day

Happy 45th Birthday Kev

Marie Geschke

February 8, 2011

Cake for...ME???? :-)

Marie Geschke

February 8, 2011

Kev's 45th Birthday with sis Anita

Marie Geschke

February 8, 2011

Kev's 45th Birthday with Mom

Marie Geschke

February 8, 2011

Fathers Day 2010

Marie Geschke

February 8, 2011

I AM the #1 Dad! 2010

Marie Geschke

February 8, 2011

Chad Mika

February 7, 2011

Dad I love you and I will forever remember you in my prayer and heart I love you and please rest in peace one day our family will reunite and even more love will come to you

Your youngest son

Sara

February 7, 2011

Marie,
No words can come close to expressing my sincere condolences. In the years I have known you, I have never seen you more happy and in love than you have been since you met Kevin. Please celebrate in your love and rejoice that although the time was too short, the two of you shared a love that most people don't find in an entire lifetime.

Tom & Barb Holm

February 7, 2011

Marie,
There are no magic words to make your pain go away or I would have said them, but the love you and Kevin shared (even in it wasn't long enough) was more than some people could only dream about.

February 7, 2011

Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Phyllis Trent and Dana Tostanoski (Elmira, NY)

Elida

February 7, 2011

Marie
You are in my thoughts and prayers

Phillip Honaker

February 7, 2011

I still remember going to your house after right after you had your tonsils taken out when we were just kids and the time I crashed your mini-bike into the picnic table in your backyard.
The night I slept on your living room floor many years ago was spent talking about what we wanted to be when we grew up and though we never mentioned being a good husband, a good father or a good son that night these things are more important than the way envisioned ourselves in the future.
You achieved more than you had hoped for in your time here Kevin.

So long cousin.

Sgt. J.R. Matta, Retired

February 7, 2011

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

always smiling for me!

Marie Geschke

February 7, 2011

February 6, 2011

My prayers are with you Tyler and Chad.
A Friend

February 6, 2011

Tyler, Chad, Hessie, and Anita....Many memories we have shared over the years with Kevin. You are all in my thoughts and prayers, and forever in my heart. Kevin was a great husband, wonderful father, and loving son and was taken away much too soon, but he will always be with you. May the memories of Kevin comfort you always. Although, he may not be with us, I will always be here for all of you.

Love always,
Tammi J. Mika

Tammi J. Mika

February 6, 2011

Tyler, Chad, Hessie, and Anita....Many memories we have shared over the years with Kevin. You are all in my thoughts and prayers, and forever in my heart. Kevin was a great husband, wonderful father, and loving son and was taken away much too soon, but he will always be with you. May the memories of Kevin comfort you always. Although, he may not be with us, I will always be here for all of you.

Love always,

Laurie Lamarz

February 6, 2011

Tyler, Chad & Tammi,
Our hearts & prayers are with you all. No one knows when we will be called home and our loved one will no longer be here. I remember so many good times for all of you with Kevin. I'm sure the boys births were the best highlight of his life. Just know that we are all here for you and if you need us, just call.

Aunt Laurie, Amanda, Tony & Christopher

February 6, 2011

My prayers go out to you.

Eric Pomeroy

February 6, 2011

I will miss you at work my dear friend Kevin. You always put a smile on my face when you came to the shop. Those early morning snow routes will not be the same without you. Your sons were truly blessed to have a great man like you as their father. Rest in peace dear friend.

Lynn Rathunde

February 6, 2011

Marie, Don and I are so very sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Marie Geschke

February 6, 2011

My dearest love......My heart is breaking knowing that our time together was not as long as we had planned...so many dreams and plans for our future...SO much LOVE for each other...a love will be with me always. I MISS YOU!!!! I know you are with me in my heart...LUBB XOXOXO

Father's Day 2009

Marie Geschke

February 6, 2011

My awesome boyfriend! LUBB xoxoxo

Marie Geschke

February 6, 2011

Tyler, Grandma Mika, Chad, Marie, Kevin 2009

Marie Geschke

February 6, 2011

Kevin....Billy's wedding

Marie Geschke

February 6, 2011

Jennifer Hintz

February 6, 2011

Dear Tyler, Chad & Tammi
Our thoughts and prayers are with you, we are here if you need anything. May God comfort you in this difficult time. Love your cousins, Jen, Glenn, Haley and Ashley

The Mika Family 2005

February 6, 2011

February 6, 2011

Dearest Tyler and Chad,
Although your father only walked this earth a short time, he will live on in the hearts of those he touched forever.You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Love,
Your Aunt Mickey

Jen Hintz

February 6, 2011

Dear Tyler, Chad and Tammi
You are in our thoughts and prayers. We are here for you if you need anything. Please know that God is with you always. Love, your cousins, Jen, Glenn, Haley & Ashley

Martha Kapnick

February 6, 2011

Take comfort knowing Kevin will be looking out for you now. My love to you.

Billy Braus

February 6, 2011

Marie, I'm so very, very sorry for your loss. This is so very painful to me but I know it pales to what you and the rest of the family is going through. My heart is bleeding for all of you. I was so blessed with his friendship and even though we were distanced a few times over the years, when we would finally meet up again it was as if we had never been apart and we took up as if it had been only yesterday since we last had seen each other. Whether we were plowing, towing, fixing the trucks, driving to all four sides of this country, doing a remodel job, or just hanging out, it was usually always an adventure and I assure you never dull. He was a great person to always be with. This past year we spoke of all of you. His hopes, dreams, concerns. He loved all of you. Don't ever forget that. May God be with all of you and give you strength and comfort in these hard times. And remember, as he always was for us, at the very least my family and I are just a phone call away.

With love and sympathy to all of you,
Billy, Renatta, and Linda Braus

Cheryl Phillips

February 6, 2011

I was a childhood friend of Anita and Kevin. Antia, please remember Kevin will always be with you in your heart. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Love, Cheryl Kapnick Phillips

February 6, 2011

Marie, My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of great loss. No words can make the pain any easier, though. Just know that you have friends who are here for you. Sherri Smith

February 6, 2011

Marie my prayers go out to you and your family.May God keep you in your time of need and always.Beverly Tolbert.

Marie Geschke

February 6, 2011

I love you Kevin.......I know you are watching us and that you are in good company........I know someday the tears will slow down.......but for now they just don't have an off switch! LUBB xoxoxo

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