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Michael McKay Obituary

Michael J. McKay III, age 46 ''Uncle Boots'' beloved son of Patricia A., nee Schergen and the late Michael J. Jr. (Ret. Detective C.P.D.); loving fiance of Kristen Milewski; dear brother of Dennis B., Kevin C. (Cindy), Mary Pat, Timothy J. (Kathleen) and Colleen (Dan) Langner; fond uncle of Kevin II, Brittany, the late Jessica, Kaitlin, Scott, Megan, Daniel, Michael T. McKay and John ''Jack'', Corey and Ryan Langner; loving nephew and cousin to many. Funeral Thursday, 9:30 a.m. from Kolbus Funeral Home, 6841-57 W. Higgins Ave., to St. Monica Church. Mass 10 a.m. Interment Maryhill Cemetery. Visitation Wednesday, 4 to 9 p.m. 20 year employee of W.W. Grainger Company. 773-774-3232.

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Published by Chicago Tribune from Sep. 24 to Sep. 25, 2002.

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Judy Carter (Boll)

October 7, 2002

I just found out about Mike. I was so sorry to hear of his passing. I knew him for many years at Grainger, but also through Mary Pat at Billy Haj's. I will keep your family in my prayers.

Janie Jasin

October 2, 2002

This loss has been in progress for a long time and yet it is all so soon for the heart and the endless hope we always have as mothers. Your grief will be bearable only because you know he was not able to live on this earth and survive. Pain, sadness and anguish are so close to the mother of Jesus who stood at the foot of the cross unable to help her son. My heart is with you even tho we knew each other for few hours in a land where balmy breezes blew and Jack won my heart with Corey while we put our hands in the holes of the tree with glee. Love and thoughts of life's healing breezes for you! Janie

Irene & Pete Fiorella

October 1, 2002

Rest In Peace Michael,

Phyllis Kelly

September 25, 2002

Dear Pat,

Our prayers are with you and your family. May the thought that your son is at peace and in a better place bring you comfort.



Phyllis and Dave Kelly

John & Geralyn McKay

September 25, 2002

Dear Aunt Pat and Family,

We are so sorry for your loss. Please know that our prayers have been with you all this past year and continue to be with you during this difficult time. Peace and love.

Janet Dow

September 24, 2002

Michael is now in the loving arms of our Father in Heaven, borne there on the prayers of his loved ones and family. My heart and my prayers go out to his family who has stayed by his side for so long through his illness.



And especially to his mother Patricia McKay, who is surely the mother written of in songs and poems. No one has been more dedicated to her family through all its trials and tribulations. My heart goes out to her and her family and my wishes for good health and strength.



"Come unto me all ye who labor and are heavy laden and I will give you rest."

Patrick Ruehrdanz

September 24, 2002

I'm very sorry for your family's loss. I worked with Mike at Grainger many years ago on his shift, and became very good friends with him at the time. Through all his troubles, I knew him as a kind-hearted man, who didn't want to hurt anybody, and would give me the shirt off his back. I pray God comforts your family at this time of need. Prayfully. Patrick Ruehrdanz (proud alum of Mike's "fighting 3-11 shift")

Mary Pat Mayworm

September 24, 2002

Pat, Mom and I send our heartfelt sympathy and love to you and your family as you navigate through this final phase of Michael's illness. I know how difficult this year has been and I'm honored that you let me help ease your burden a little. Michael is in a wonderful place and at peace and I know that gives you peace. MP

marylyn ahlfeld

September 24, 2002

Dear Pat and family, Your dearest husband Mike has his arms around your darling son Mike. I pray that you have peace and I know you and your children will comfort one another. Love and prayers, Marylyn Ahlfeld

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