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Robert Ray Obituary

Robert D. Ray, age 60, of London, England, formerly of Chicago, passed away March 5, 2014. Husband of Catherine Ray (nee Hottinger); loving father of Robert (Nicole) Ray, Martin (Veronica Kirn) Ray, and Brian Ray; joyful grandfather of London, Lucca, and Leonie Ray; brother of Patsy (Bill) Ray-Wheeler, Brian (Elizabeth) Ray, and Denise Ray. Bob was the CEO of CME Europe, a friend and mentor to many, an inspiration to all who came in contact with him, and most importantly, his spirit and legacy will live on forever around the world. Visitation Friday, March 14, 2014, 4:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. at Donnellan Family Funeral Home, 10045 Skokie Blvd. at Old Orchard Rd., Skokie, IL 60077. Memorial Mass Saturday, 11:30 a.m. at Our Lady of Perpetual Help Church, 1775 Grove St., Glenview, IL 60025. Interment Private. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to the American Diabetes Association, P.O. Box 11454, Alexandria, VA 22312. Info: 847-675-1990 or www.donnellanfuneral.com.

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Published by Chicago Tribune on Mar. 12, 2014.

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Patricia Ray

March 5, 2025

Always missing you...

Patricia Ray

March 5, 2024

10 long years..

Patricia Ray

March 5, 2023

Always missing you...

Patsy

Patsy

March 5, 2022

Always missing you...

Danny Turano

January 16, 2020

Not a cloud in the sky :)
I miss you, Bob

Edward McCartin

April 22, 2014

Bob was my friend and colleague for over 30 years. We first met at the Chicago Mercantile Exchange in 1983 and were in contact on a daily basis. Bob was a consummate gentleman and professional marked with great intelligence and wit. There are so many of us who feel a void in our lives with his passing.

Bill Anderson

March 19, 2014

Bob, we love you and will always remember you and our great times at Caledonia and Dubuque. Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. "Scoop", "Gov", Bob, you are the best! "Andy" Anderson

March 18, 2014

Cathy and family, my sincere condolences to all of you. Although I have not seen Bob in awhile I still remember the fun times and laughs we always had at Loras back in the day. He will be missed.
Jay Farrell

Lyally & Bob-Cartier Cup, Guards Polo Club 2010

Cathy Lyall

March 17, 2014

Bob was a wonderful boss, a brilliant mentor, a father figure, a brother in arms and a best friend. He was smart, creative, irreverent, quick with a witty riposte, well read, endlessly curious, kind and generous, a true gentleman and just so so much fun. The world is a poorer place without Bob Ray in it! I miss him so much.

Julie Carruthers

March 17, 2014

Bob certainly made an impact on the few times I met him.He was a wonderful and warm man and I am only sorry I never got to know him better. RIP Bob.

Billy Murray

March 17, 2014

A man to look up to and someone I was proud to call my friend. Rest in peace Bob.

Colleen M

March 17, 2014

Bob was a great mentor and colleague to many. Our most sincere condolences to the Ray family.

Emma Davey

March 17, 2014

Bob brought great light and energy to the City in his time here. A well loved and respected man. We miss him very, very much.

Darren Anthony

March 17, 2014

Bob hired me 10 years ago and I'm still at the firm. He didn't know it at the time but he saved my life. I considered him a surrogate father even though he didn't know that either. RIP big man. I bet u got St Peter drunk and had a few words with the big man up there.

March 16, 2014

Bob was one of the best. My condolences and love to the Ray family.
Marge W.
Chicago, IL

Joe and Susan Gressel

March 15, 2014

Such fond, funny memories. Although he's gone from our lives, I would imagine it has been wonderful for him to see his dad again. He's no doubt proud of the man he became. Our prayers are with his entire family.

March 14, 2014

Bob was one of the good guys- He was like a good "Quarterback in the huddle" We will miss you Pal - D. James

Maria Sakarellou

March 14, 2014

In memory of Bob. May he rest in peace.

Kim Vercoe

March 14, 2014

I have known Bob since the days at the CBOT. Bob was always the center of a gathering. People were deeply impressed by his smile and quick wit. He was a true professional, an energetic leader and a friendly and caring gentleman. Bob will be greatly missed.

Jin Chang

March 14, 2014

I got to know Bob working at CME. He had great ways to motivate and encourage people. He will be greatly missed. My sincere condolences to the family.

Anne Schankin

March 14, 2014

What an unexpected departure and great loss!
I worked for Bob's team off and on for almost 7 years now, and witnessed first hand the impact he had on CME, heard so many stories of those who traveled with him, and every so often saw his smiley face appear in our Chicago office.
Bob will be missed! Certain that he is now in the fullness of joy of God's loving embrace, I pray for consolation and strength for his family in this time of sorrow.

Debbie Pious

March 14, 2014

I've known Bob from when he first came to CME (before he left heading over to CBOT and them back with CME after the merger). We travelled a lot together. He was fun, funny and very smart. He never changed. He will definitely be missed. My prayers are with his family and other friends.

Adi Agrawal

March 14, 2014

Bob we will miss you - I feel so grateful for having known you.

Barbara Schmidt-Bailey

March 14, 2014

I can't imagine there could be a better ambassador for CME than Bob was! Such an incredible professional, genuinely caring & friendly to all he met. I feel grateful to have worked with him & will miss his smile & quick wit. My heartfelt condolences for your loss.

Ginger Szala

March 14, 2014

I've known Bob for almost 30 years. He was one of my best sources in covering the derivatives industry, but more importantly, he was one of the best people, and always had time to answer questions as well as make you laugh. Almost every memory I have of Bob includes mirth. My condolences to the family. Bob truly was an original and will be missed by all.

Andy Lowenthal

March 14, 2014

I got to know Bob through our work together at the SFOA. I know Bob touched many of our lives and was one of the most repsected people in our industry. He will be missed.

March 14, 2014

So very sorry to hear of Bob's passing. I loved working with him at the CBOT. My memories of Bob make me smile.
Cindy Williams

Rick J

March 14, 2014

In remembrance of a great man, leader and special person

Mark Blundell

March 14, 2014

Bob was one of the most naturally gracious men I have ever worked with.
He was always friendly, and always gave the impression that he was giving you his undivided attention. A rare set of skills in the exchange world...

March 14, 2014

Happy Birthday Dear Bob

Paul MacGregor

March 14, 2014

Bob was a terrific leader and ambassador for the futures industry. He will be sorely missed.

March 13, 2014

We were so sorry to hear about Bob's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Nancy and Lou Gatta

Roberta Paffaro

March 13, 2014

My sincere feelings to Bob´s Family. He was a great man and so friendly and welcoming when I joined CME Group.
We will miss you!

Robert Osmanski

March 13, 2014

Very Sad news-Bob was a true professional and often spoke of his family. He would always find the time to meet when I was in London. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

The Osmanski Family

Chuck Farra

March 13, 2014

Bob, it has been an honor and a pleasure to work with you and to have you as a friend for the past 12 years. You have left us too soon and we will greatly miss you, but will carry on as you would have wanted us to do.

Kieran Gartlan

March 13, 2014

A very kind gentleman are the best words to describe Bob. I once admired his cuff links and he offered them to me. May he Rest in Peace.

Ingrid Malfi Gray

March 13, 2014

Bob, what a great pleasure to have worked together. Your incredible wit, your ever present joie de vivre and great care for others were only a few of your many qualities. You will be sorely missed. Rest in peace our dear friend - Ingrid & David

CBOT meets Mao - in Beijing at the Forbidden City

Theon Katsis

March 13, 2014

Comrade Bob - in Beijing at the Forbidden City

Theon Katsis

March 13, 2014

K. W.

March 12, 2014

Dear Ray family,
So sorry for your loss. May the God of comfort continue to be with you at this difficult time.

My Dad. Thanks for being so wonderful and kind. Love forever, Bobby

Robert Ray

March 12, 2014

Susan Wall

March 12, 2014

Bob was a true gentleman and so friendly and welcoming when I joined CME Group. He will be sadly missed here, he was the heart of the London office. Rest in peace Bob.

kevin collins

March 12, 2014

Bob , it was a pleasure working with you .A true gentleman and friend . We have lost a wonderful human being .You are sorely missed .

Bob Ray, No 5 racecar driver, Nov 2012

Sandra Ro

March 12, 2014

Bob Ray and CME London gang at The Docklands Raceway, London, Nov 2012

Sandra Ro

March 12, 2014

March 12, 2014

An amazing person, a real character and a very special human being

March 12, 2014

In fond memory of a real Gentleman – thank you Bob for all of the help you gave me.

We will miss you

David D.

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