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Charles Deffenbaugh Obituary

Charles Jennings Joseph "C.J." Deffenbaugh

CHILLICOTHE: Charles Jennings Joseph "C.J." Deffenbaugh, 28, of Chillicothe, died unexpectedly at 10:22 p.m. Wednesday, January 1, 2014 at his residence.

He was born April 23, 1985, at St. Ann's Hospital in Westerville, OH, to Stephen M. and Leah Wright Deffenbaugh of Chillicothe who survive.

Also surviving are a great uncle and aunt, Richard and Charlotte Barthelmes, of Marion; a great aunt, Mary Ann Strausbaugh, of Chillicothe; uncles and aunts, Joe and Sonia Deffenbaugh, of Chillicothe, Woody and Dianna Wright, of Wellston, Lori Bentley, of Jackson and Elaine and John Basaraba, of DeBary, FL; cousins, Adam Deffenbaugh, Heather Cunningham, Chris and Beau Wright, Patricia Davis, Kim Cann, Mandee Blankenship, Melissa Wright and Josh Bentley; loved cousins, Morgan and Paige Wright. He was predeceased by his grandparents, Ralph and Betty Deffenbaugh and Paul and Beatrice Wright; and an uncle, Rick "Roodle" Wright.

C.J. was a graduate of Chillicothe High School and Pickaway Ross Joint Vocational School. He had also attended classes at OUC. C.J. was a member of St. Mary's Catholic Church. He loved working for Easter Seals, loved his co-workers and was a compassionate caregiver. C.J. had also worked as an E.M.T. and Firefighter. He was an avid bodybuilder and had competed in several NOBA Competitions. C.J. was also involved in kickboxing and mixed martial arts at the Chillicothe Academy of Mixed Martial Arts. He loved animals especially his 2 cats, Razor and Baby. C.J. was loved by his family and will be greatly missed.

Funeral services will be held 1 p.m. Tuesday, January 7, 2014 in the WARE FUNERAL HOME. Burial will follow in Grandview Cemetery. Friends may call at Ware's from 6 to 8 p.m. Monday.

Memorial contributions may be made to Easter Seals, 1855 Western Avenue, Chillicothe, Ohio 45601 or to the Ross County Humane Society, 2308A Lick Run Road, Chillicothe, Ohio 45601.

You may sign his online register at www.warefh.com

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Chillicothe Gazette on Jan. 4, 2014.

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Kim

October 9, 2022

Thinking about you today, love you

January 31, 2014

I miss my friend...

mallory stewart

January 18, 2014

cj you were an amazing cousin! i will always keep our memories close to my heart! i will miss you dearly til we meet again! rest in peace,i love you!

January 15, 2014

I didn't know about your son, I am so sorry to hear of his passing
Linda & Jerry Kerns

Ian McKenzie

January 14, 2014

Although we had fell out of contact for the last few, I had the pleasure of knowing CJ for about 15 years. I am without at words upon hearing of his passing. Wish I had the chance to talk to him one more time. See you again some day buddy, nothing but good memories!

January 9, 2014

I'm so sorry about your loss, our thoughts are with you. Steve & Lisa Coppel

Karen Wiginton

January 8, 2014

So sorry to hear this, praying for you.

January 7, 2014

Thinking of you and missing you.

Janet King

January 7, 2014

Steve and Leah, our hearts break for you, our deepest sympathy
Janet & Jerry King. & Andrew

Nina {Lovensheimer} Dickison

January 7, 2014

My heart goes out to you and family.

January 7, 2014

You will always live in our hearts and prayers.

Max Potter

January 7, 2014

So very sorry for your loss.

Lori Larabee

January 7, 2014

So very sorry about your loss. I will be praying...

Jeff & Angie Doles

January 7, 2014

Steve and Leah,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this very difficult time. May God give you some comfort to help you endure this unimaginable time.

Tracy Quillen

January 6, 2014

Leah, I am so very sorry. My heart aches for you. Please know that you and Steve are in my prayers.

January 6, 2014

Steve,just saw where your son had passed,so sorry for you and your family.I didn't know him,but way too young!

Traci Canter

January 6, 2014

So sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.

January 6, 2014

We will never forget you. I will cherish the time I had with you. Although it is hard that we had to lose you, Heaven has gained a wonderful angel. God Bless The Deffenbaugh family.
<3

Ryan and Rachel and Family Elliott

January 6, 2014

Leah and Steve you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Anna Spriggs- Barthelmes

January 6, 2014

Steve & Leah, I'm so sorry. No words can express my sincere condelences. My heart goes out to both of you. Your in my prayers.

January 6, 2014

Steve & Leah, Not enough words to express my sincere condolences. My heart goes out to both of you. Your in my prayers.

January 5, 2014

Your in my prayer's an thought's.
Charlotte an Carson

Diana Kerrison

January 5, 2014

My heart goes out to you and your family during this difficult time. God Bless.

January 5, 2014

Leah and Steve, No words to ease your pain. I am so very sorry for your loss. Love and prayers to you and your family.
Melissa Beckley Pippin

January 5, 2014

Steve and Leah,
Can not imagine our surprise after just seeing you to hear such devastating news. You have our sympathy in this trying time.
Tom and Susan

Kelley Blankenship

January 5, 2014

My sincere condolences. Many prayers

hannah anthony

January 5, 2014

Fly high CJ

Becky Tinch

January 5, 2014

I have known the loss of a child and it is definitely not the usual pathway that you should experience as a parent. It has been helpful to remember all the good memories that enriched your family life. May you gain strength in your faith. You are in my prayers and thoughts. Being a retired Pediatric nurse, I rarely understand this type of loss, but my faith prevails.

Michelle & Noah Spetnagel

January 5, 2014

Steve & Leah,
We are very sorry to hear of CJ's passing. Our hearts go out to your family in this tragic time. CJ was a great person, we both knew him for many years and we will never forget him! RIP

Rick & Chris Kluth

January 5, 2014

Leah and Steve Were so sorry for your loss.
Are prayers are with you.
I

Rick/Chris Kluth

January 5, 2014

Leah and Steve Were so sorry for your loss.
Are prayers are with you.

Brian Long

January 5, 2014

So very sorry to hear about CJ we hung out back when i was in junior high thru high school he was a good guy and he will be missed.

Lisa Stocklin

January 4, 2014

Leah and Steve, even though there are no words to ease the pain and sorrow, may the many wonderful memories make it a better tomorrow! Thoughts and prayers are being sent to you and your family members to bring easier days ahead! God Bless!

Veronica Winks

January 4, 2014

I am praying for God's peace for you through so much pain.

Cathy and Ricky Fairrow

January 4, 2014

Steve and Leah we are so sorry to hear about CJ. Our hearts ache for you both. We are very sad and shocked. You are in our prayers. God Bless you.

Shelly Mcdonald

January 4, 2014

Steve & Leah I'm so sorry about the passing of your son you all are in my thoughts and prayers

Heather Duncan

January 4, 2014

Steve and Leah, I dont know what to say. May God bless you both and get you through this.

Dana Juniper

January 4, 2014

Leah & Steve, I'm so very sorry, to hear of CJ's death. I have no words, but know my prayer is for peace and love and memories to fill your heart. God Bless

Gayle Hatfield

January 4, 2014

Steve,

I didn't know your son, but he had to be wonderful and sensitive like you. I see you in his picture. I will be praying for you and your loved ones. I am so sorry you have to go through this.

Gayle Larabee Hatfield

Mark Dickey

January 4, 2014

Cj was a good guy he will be greatly miss by everyone that new him

tom hartley

January 4, 2014

So Sorry for your loss....Tom

Cris and Deedee Nelson

January 4, 2014

Steve and Leah, one can never Imagine going through what u two are having to deal with. May God be with you both at this time. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

otto barr

January 4, 2014

Leah you and your family are in my prayers.

tami phillips

January 4, 2014

I'm so sorry for your loss Steve and Leah, prayers to you and your family.

Joshua Brown

January 4, 2014

CJ was a good guy. He will be missed by all, but he is in a better place.

Melanie McGuire

January 4, 2014

Stephen my thought and prayers are with you and you family.

Candy Simpson

January 4, 2014

I can't tell you how sorry I am. I didn't know him but he sounds like he was a wonderful young man. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Dave Smith

January 4, 2014

Steve and Leah, there are no words to express the sorrow I feel for you. I pray for comfort for you and your family in this awful time.

Renee Wolfe

January 4, 2014

Steve and Leah, I am so sorry for your loss. My heart aches for you. Know that my prayers are with you.
Love,
Renee

Karen Jenkins

January 4, 2014

Leah, I can't even begin to imagine how much your heart is breaking. I am so, so sorry for all you and your husband are going through. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Please know that your "Med-Ox" family is here for you and we love you so very much. If you need us for anything, we are just a phone call away.

Joey Manna

January 4, 2014

Heaven is a much better place now. CJ will be missed by all and we were all blessed to have known him. So very sorry for your loss.

Kim Thornton

January 4, 2014

Leah, I'm so very sorry for your loss.You and your family are in my prayers.

Tina Steel McKee

January 4, 2014

Thinking of you and sending prayers for You and Your Family.

Georganna Scott

January 3, 2014

Leah,
I am so very sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers.

Chris &Peg Barber

January 3, 2014

Leah I am so sorry, I have no words to say only know that we are thinking of you and your family. Sending prayers & hugs
to you.

Kathie Wright Simmons

January 3, 2014

Leah and family...My heart weeps for you, and my Prayers are for GOD's Comfort and Peace...so much here on this earth...we do not understand...But we just need to Trust GOD...HE WILL GIVE YOU ALL STRENGTH...I LOVE you...
Continued Prayers,
Kathie Wright Simmons

January 3, 2014

LEAH, I AM VERY SORRY FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. PRAY FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY
DENNIS DUPREE

Diana (peanut) Conley-Fenwick

January 3, 2014

Leah so sorry for your loss . You and your family are in my prayers.

Kim Cann

January 3, 2014

Will always love you C.J

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