Search by Name

Search by Name

Harriet LODDER Obituary

LODDER

Harriet (nee Aeschbach) passed away November 2, 2011. She was 82. She is survived by her caring husband, Robert Andrew Lodder, Sr., her devoted children, Linda, Robert Jr., and LeeAnn, and her beloved grandchildren, Andrew, Laura and Lucinda. A life-long resident of Cincinnati, she was born April 24, 1929, to Adolph and Emma (Heitkamp) Aeschbach. Despite losing her mother at age seven and growing up in poverty, Harriet rose above early adversity with the support of a strong and loving extended family, whose religious life was centered at St. Peter's Evangelical and Reformed Church (now St. Peter's United Church of Christ) in Pleasant Ridge. She demonstrated a passionate commitment to education and social causes throughout her life. She graduated from Withrow High School in 1947, second in her class, editor of the yearbook, and member of Dux Femina Honor Society. The first in her family to attend college, she was a member of Alpha Chi Omega sorority, and graduated Phi Beta Kappa from the University of Cincinnati, with a Bachelor's degree in Social Work. Fresh out of college, she tackled a challenging job with Children's Protective Services. In 1953, she married Robert Lodder, and joined him in launching Lodder Photography in Pleasant Ridge, working side by side with him to build the business for many years. As her children began to attend school, she worked tirelessly to support and strengthen the school system, serving as PTA president, and organizing events that raised funds to build a library at Pleasant Ridge Elementary School. She also joined the forefront of efforts to establish equality and racial integration in the public schools. As for her own children, there was not a place she wouldn't take them, or a program for which she wouldn't sign them up, if she felt it would expand their horizons or teach them something new. Harriet's love of learning extended to an interest in history, particularly in the history told through antiques. She became an expert in the subject, working for more than 30 years with her dear friends, Betty and Aaron Tumen, in their business, Brass Eagle Antiques in Pleasant Ridge. She was also a long-time devoted member of Pleasant Ridge Presbyterian Church. With her expertise in antiques, she ran a vibrant antiques and collectibles booth at the church's annual bazaar for many years, raising thousands of dollars for charity. After her children were grown, Harriet pursued post-graduate work at Xavier University. Her intelligence, liveliness, generosity and sense of humor will be missed by her loving circle of family and friends. Visitation, a community gathering to celebrate Harriet's life, will be held on Tuesday, November 8, 2011 from 6-8 pm at Pleasant Ridge Presbyterian Church, 5950 Montgomery Road. A memorial service will be held at the church on Wednesday, November 9 at 10 am. Donations in Harriet's memory may be made to Pleasant Ridge Presbyterian Church. Email condolences may be sent via www.vorhisandryan.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Cincinnati Enquirer on Nov. 6, 2011.

Memories and Condolences
for Harriet LODDER

Sponsored by Linda LodderBeckert.

Not sure what to say?





3 Entries

Carol Burnett

November 9, 2011

Dear Bob, Linda, Rob, and LeeAnn,

We send our condolences to you. Harriet will be greatly missed by her church family. She will always be a part of the bazaar.

We are sorry that we are out of town and unable to attend the service today. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Harriet was a good friend and will be sadly missed.

Carol and Fred Burnett

Rakesh Dadhania

November 8, 2011

I feel so sorry and express my condolences to her. I ready the details and it is very encouraging and heartfelt. I can now understand and realize how Rob Lodder (his son) could feel the sorrow in his life by this event.

I wish and pray to God for her soul to be in piece. I express my deep condolences to his entire family.

Rakesh Dadhania- Bangalore, India

Steve Lindstrom

November 7, 2011

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Showing 1 - 3 of 3 results

Make a Donation
in Harriet LODDER's name

Memorial Events
for Harriet LODDER

To offer your sympathy during this difficult time, you can now have memorial trees planted in a National Forest in memory of your loved one.

How to support Harriet's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor Harriet LODDER's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more