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Grey Ferris Obituary

Grey Flowers Ferris, 62, farmer, former State Senator and long time advocate for public education in Mississippi, died at his home outside Vicksburg on Friday, June 13, 2008, following a long illness. According to friends and family members, it would be impossible to understand Grey Ferris or his rise to public prominence without understanding his background, his deep roots in Mississippi culture, his devotion to family and his relationship to the family farm. From the living room of Grey and Jann Ferris' hilltop home on the farm in southern Warren County, you can look out over rolling green hills dotted with lakes and ponds where the Ferris cattle drink and where friends, neighbors and family members have been coming to fish for generations. The surrounding woodlands provide a thriving ecosystem for deer, wild turkeys, squirrels, bobcats, foxes, and abundance of birds and other wild animals. The family home site is thickly planted with azaleas, wisteria, roses, lilies, sweet olive, camellias and irises. This is the place where Grey Ferris and his four siblings grew up under the close and loving care of their mother, Shelby Flowers Ferris, and their father, William Reynolds Ferris. Grey Ferris always claimed that it was from his mother and father, one a master gardener, the other a master farmer, that he inherited his love of the land and his devotion to farming. His mother was quick to return the kind words, calling her son"... as dear to me as life itself. I cannot imagine this world without Grey in it. He's given his life to his family and this farm." This is the place where Grey Ferris and his wife Jann, an acclaimed artist and educator, raised their three children, Lylen Ferris, a naturopathic physician physician practicing in Portland, Oregon; Jason Ferris, a Presbyterian minister now living and working in New York City, and Jessica Shelby Ferris, a gifted young artist who passed away in 1999. In the closing weeks and days of Grey Ferris' life, his family was with him around the clock, and his wife Jann almost never left his side, caring for him constantly and compressing thirty-eight years of devotion and love into his final hours. This is also the place that Grey Ferris often referred to as"... a kind of paradise, as close to heaven on earth as any place I can imagine." "If it's a paradise, and I think it is," said Grey's brother Bill, a Professor of History at the University of North Carolina," it's because Grey worked ten to twelve hours a day, seven days a week, to cultivate, protect and preserve it. He was a great steward of the land." This is the place where Grey Ferris worked side by side with his employees to plant more than 50,000 bulbs in the last years of his life. "When you see those flowers, all those daffodils in bloom," said Grey's sister, Hester Magnuson, who lives and works in Austin, Texas, "it's impossible not to think of Grey. I think it's fair to say his spirit lives in every inch of ground on this farm. It's really his legacy to us. His gift." "There is nothing in the world more wonderful," Grey Ferris once said, "than being able to step outside your door and find fresh flowers to cut." At the time , he said this,Grey Ferris was sitting in a wheelchair at River Region Medical Center waiting for an invasive pulmonary procedure designed to improve his labored breathing, which had been greatly impaired by his long battle with metastatic lung cancer, a battle which finally took his life, but never robbed him of his spirit, never diminished his love of the land nor prevented him from meeting his commitments and responsibilities. "Grey faced his illness and death in a way that was very direct and brave," said his sister Shelby Fitzpatrick, a master jeweler who lives in England, "and his willingness to confront reality and face the truth without ever losing his spirit, was very moving to all of us." "He taught us how to live by the way he died," said his sister Martha Ferris, an artist who lives and works on the family farm. "He showed us what it means to live life to the fullest and then leave it without fear. He wasn't just a good man, he was also a great one." These sentiments were echoed by Lylen Ferris, who on her father's final birthday read from a letter she had written him: "You have been an amazing father! Your generosity knows no bounds. You have always given of yourself, but of course the greatest gift you've given me, given all of us, is the love of this farm and a love of family. I know that your love will sustain me for the rest of my life." Former Mississippi Secretary of State and long time family friend Dick Molpus put both the public and personal dimension of Grey Ferris' life into perspective when he said: Professionally, Grey Ferris was a stunningly effective, strong and noble public servant. Personally, he was a decent, kind and gentle soul. His tireless work to ensure that every child in Mississippi had the skills to succeed, regardless of their race or economic status, secures his place in our state's history. I, along with many others, will miss his friendship, and all of us who call ourselves Mississippians are greatly diminished by the passing of this good man." Shortly before Grey Ferris died, his son Jason, speaking from the pulpit of the First Presbyterian Church in Vicksburg, praised his father for his public spirit, his uncommon decency and his exceptional honesty, calling him a politician unafraid to say those three fearful words: "I don' t know." After his father's death, Jason said: "My father was a born leader. He led with compassion and humility and had a gift for bringing together disparate parties to get things done. Dad always put the needs of others before his own, and he had a special sensitivity for anyone who had been denied the opportunities given to him. He was a planter statesman of the highest order and there will never be another like him." Another close friend, Jimmy Gouras, spoke for many when he described Grey Ferris as "...the most honorable, the gentlest, the kindest person you could ever meet. Grey was the kind of man we all wanted to be when we grew up." Grey Ferris always viewed his childhood as idyllic, and he once wrote: "Our parents instilled in all of us a deep respect for the land, an appreciation for the rich racial diversity of our region, and abiding love of education." Ferris attended public schools in Warren County and Vicksburg before finishing his secondary education at Brooks School in North Andover, Mass. Upon graduation from Brooks, he was awarded the Faculty Prize, which is presented to the student who contributes most to improving the welfare of the school. He was especially proud of the role he played in encouraging the recruitment and acceptance of the school's first minority student. Ferris graduated from Tulane School of Law. As an undergraduate, he served as President of the Student Body. It was also at Tulane that Grey Ferris met his future wife, Jann Terral, and the two of them were wed in New Orleans on June 6, 1970. Following graduation from law school, Grey Ferris returned to Vicksburg to practice with the law firm of Dent, Ward, Martin and Terry. While he thoroughly enjoyed the practice of law, he decided to return to the farm when his father's health began to fail. Ferris considered public service a privilege and served on the boards of the Vicksburg Art Association, the Mercy Regional Medical Center, the Soil and Water Conservation Commission, the Mississippi School Board Association and the William Winter Institute for Racial Reconciliation. He was a Deacon of the First Presbyterian Church. Ferris' greatest passion - beyond his family and farm - was a commitment to improve public education. He was elected to the first board for the Vicksburg Warren School District and worked tirelessly to consolidate two districts into one. According to Kermit Harness, former principal of Vicksburg High School, who worked closely with Grey Ferris on the consolidation, "Grey was the anchor, he was the one who held everything together. He was always fair and kind, and he took everyone's needs into consideration." Grey Ferris' passionate commitment to public education, along with his love of the arts, was shared by his wife Jann, herself an accomplished artist. The two of them worked together closely year after year to develop ideas and programs designed to make the arts a vital part of the school curriculum in Mississippi. They even found time to teach courses together in art appreciation to elementary school students in Warren County. After serving six years as Chairman of the Vicksburg Warren School Board, Ferris was elected to the Mississippi State Senate and served tow terms. During his second term he was Chairman of the Senate Education Committee, and he committed himself to reforming educational opportunities in rural and underfunded areas of Mississippi. He worked closely with librarians to create the MAGNOLIA project, which provided local libraries with an online database containing thousands of reference materials. For the first time schools, even in the most remote areas of Mississippi, had access to unlimited resource materials. Ferris was especially proud of his efforts to create and pass the Adequate Education Act. He and Senator Hob Bryan were the lead authors of this measure, which changed the funding formula for public education and channeled additional, desperately needed state resources into the poorest, most undeserved districts of Mississippi. Jere Nash, co-author of MISSISSIPPI POLITICS, said of the Adequate Education Act: " No piece of legislation has helped and will continue to help Mississippi's children students more than that bill." As a citizen and a public servant, Grey Ferris devoted his life to strengthening Warren County, Vicksburg and Mississippi through improved education and healthcare. Ferris' compassion and love for his family, his friends and the land he worked were beyond measure, and he left this world a far better place than he found it. "Grey has been my partner and my love since I was eighteen years old," said his wife, Jann. "His enormous spirit lives on and will continue to guide our family in the years to come." Grey Ferris was preceded in death by his daughter, Jessica Shelby Ferris, and father, William Reynolds Ferris. Survivors include his wife, Jann Terral Ferris; daughter, Lylen Terral Ferris and her husband Michael Swierczuk of Portland, Oregon; son, Jason Reynolds Ferris and his wife Rebecca Marshall Ferris of New York, New York; grandchildren, Nathan Shelby Swierczuk and Ruby Grace Swierczuk of Portland, Oregon; his mother Shelby Flowers Ferris; brother, William Reynolds Ferris, Jr. and his wife, Marcie Cohen Ferris of Chapel Hill, North Carolina; sisters, Shelby Ferris Fitzpatrick and her husband Peter Fitzpatrick of Sturry, England; Hester Ferris Magnuson and her husband James Magnuson of Austin, Texas; and Martha Ferris and her husband Kos Kostmayer of Vicksburg, Mississippi. Memorials may be made to the Shelby Ferris Art Therapy Endowment, payable to UMMC, Office of Development, 2500 N. State Street, Jackson, MS 39216. Please write "In Memory of Grey Ferris" on the memo line of the check. Contributions may also be made to the William Winter Institute for Racial Reconciliation, The University of Mississippi, University, MS 38677. Services will be held at 2:00 p.m. Tuesday at First Presbyterian Church in Vicksburg. Visitation will be at 11:00 a.m., until the the hour of service at the church. Private burial will be in the family cemetery.
Published by Clarion Ledger on Jun. 16, 2008.

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John Jordan

June 24, 2008

Grey was a true friend to the public school children of Mississippi. What a leader and a friend.

Carol King

June 19, 2008

Peace to you and your family, Jann. Ray and I send our thoughts, prayers and love. Carol King

Erin Olsen Peters

June 19, 2008

Dear Ferris Family,

I'm so sad to hear of your loss. Please know you are all in my thoughts & prayers in this very difficult time in your lives. I will keep you on the top of my prayer list.

Jason, your Dad was an amazing man who did so much for our home state of MS. His legacy will live on for many years to come. You are in my thoughts.

May God bless you and keep you,
Erin Olsen Peters
formerly of Vicksburg, MS

Medric Faulkner

June 19, 2008

Grey was one of the smartest and most caring people I ever met. When he made a speech it reached your soul.

Kawmi Fisher

June 18, 2008

Grey Ferris was a great person who loved my mother and my family so much. He was a caring & loving man who will be greatly missed.

God Bless
The Fisher Family

Vaughan Massie

June 16, 2008

Grey- you were like a second father to me growing up. There are too many amazing memories of childhood trips to the farm to recall just one. Jann, Lylen, and Jason- we love you like family and know the sadness in your heart. We share your loss and love you like family.

Vaughan

PS Grey- Thanks for finding my football!! When I see you again I will again hug your neck just as I did that day.

Lucretia (Lou) Dudley and Charles Peyton

June 16, 2008

We are so sorry to hear of the passing of Grey Ferris. Our thoughts and prayers are with the family.
We are acquainted with the Ferris family through Ruby Peyton and Eugene Dudley from many years ago...Ruby was Charles's mother and Eugene Dudley was my father...

Rives & Kathleen Hand Carter

June 16, 2008

Our hearts join yours in your sorrow! The Hand and Ferris families have been friends for several generations. My special thoughts go to Jann and Bill because I knew you best.

Caroline Birchett

June 16, 2008

You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Cynthia Moore

June 16, 2008

I am sorry to hear of the loss of Mr. Grey Ferris. I had the honor of meeting him while on the campaign trail for Lt. Governor in 1999. He was a special human being and a special Mississippian. My prayers are with his family and friends.

Kathleen Stept

June 16, 2008

Grey's loss reverberates so far and so profoundly. Jann, you are in my prayers. Together, you and Grey brightened so many lives!

Doc and Carol Ann Oakman

June 16, 2008

Jann and family, you are all in our prayers. We are so thankful for the precious memories of Grey that we hold dear. His example for life and love will be cherished by us all.

Nancy & Ray Bardwell

June 16, 2008

So, sorry for your loss. Our deepest sympathy.

Beverly Schoel

June 16, 2008

Dearest Aunt Shelby, Billy, Hester, Martha, and Shelby,
Who would have thought Grey would be the first of the cousins to leave us. His death leaves a void in the family, but also so many wonderful memories. He was so like Uncle Bill.
Bill joins me in sending much love. Boo

Bev Schoel

June 16, 2008

Jann,
I know you will miss your best friend. What a man and how much he also meant to so many. I'm thinking of you and the children. I love you. Boo

Evelyn S Garner Araujo

June 16, 2008

Jann & family,

I met and came to appreciate Grey when he served in the State Senate. I treasured it when Grey dropped by my office and the Legislature was not in session. His hands were those of a working farmer -- nails cut close, calloused, washed -- who loved and worked his own land. He planted corn just to give it to those who worked the farm with him and to the less fortunate. Grey was always a Giver.

One day after Grey had left the Senate, I pulled up to a stop light in Jackson only to see Grey in the next lane. His pickup bed was filled to capacity with sacks of flower bulbs. Clearly Grey cherished the beauty of gardens as well as crop farming. We had just a few seconds before the light turned green, but a few seconds with Grey was always enough to lift my spirits and give me great encouragement.

Jann, Grey was a fan of you and your children and took great delight in your successes. He was so pleased when you displayed the artwork of your students at the Capital. Lylen, I recall the day your dad shared with me your future career in naturopathic medicine. He was clearly touched you had found your passion. Jason, your father ministered to so many. How fitting you are a minister. Shelby, in your death your father yearned for a stronger relationship with you. Clearly Grey considered his greatest moments to be the greatest moments in the lives of you four.

Martha, my sons attend McWillie Elementary where the rotunda includes some of your artwork, as does the cafeteria. Your artwork will remind me of my dear friend who knew art was a gift to the world equal to his public service.

Bill, when Grey introduced us I said something about "Grey, you have an incredible family. Every Ferris I meet is more interesting than the ones I've met." Grey knew he was the first Ferris I met, and yet his smile was filled with affection for all his siblings and their spouses. He knew each of you are tremendous individuals with incredible gifts you share generously with humankind.

I am a better person for having known Grey; for sharing his passions for public education, family, public service, and for MS, her people, her art & her land; for chatting with him about local and national issues; and for having met each of you. Thank you for sharing Grey with us.

Grey, you lived life well and fully. Godspeed to you.

Evelyn

Martha Harper Hamilton

June 16, 2008

What a sad day -- but such a wonderful legacy he leaves. I remember visiting that wonderful farm as a young girl. Grey was always a favorite of all who knew him. My heartfelt sympathies to his family.

Bill Bexley

June 16, 2008

To all of Grey's family:

I treasure my personal and professional relationship with Grey beyond description. He was a true leader doing so in a quiet, unassuming way. He will be missed by many but leaves so much to those of us who remain.


Love,
Bill Bexley, III

John Larson

June 16, 2008

I will miss you my life long friend. God be with you and your family. Johnny

James and Nell Pace

June 16, 2008

Jann, Our deepest sympathy is with you and the family at this sad time.

Jay Wiener

June 16, 2008

I feel deeply for all of you.

You have my sympathy.

Love, Jay

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