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Barbara E. Harkness

1937 - 2022

Barbara E. Harkness obituary, 1937-2022, Epsom, NH

BORN

1937

DIED

2022

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1217 Suncook Valley Hwy

Epsom, New Hampshire

Barbara Harkness Obituary

Barbara E. Harkness

Epsom, NH — Barbara Ellen Harkness of Epsom NH, died peacefully after a brief bout of pneumonia with family members at her side on Friday, August 26, 2022, at Concord Hospital.

Barbara was born, September 26, 1937 in New Haven, CT. She was the daughter of Swedish immigrants Abel Sigfried Leavstrom and Ellen Virginia Wahlstrom-Leavstrom. She was the youngest of five, though she was often found taking care of others. Although the family home that was built by her father was small for the size of her family; it was filled with love and compassion. Her family has close ties to her family in Sweden as her father was a first-generation immigrant and her mother was a second-generation immigrant. Without realizing, she grew up next door to her soon to be lover's great uncle. She graduated as an honor student from East Haven High School where she was a lead soprano in the school chorus. Barbara worked for the State of NH in many positions until retirement. She was proud of her work with the Department of Justice and was awarded a plaque of recognition from the FBI.

She and her husband Harvey, of nearly 62 years bought their dream home in Epsom in 1966. Together they spent the next 56 years tirelessly updating the home and working the land and turning the property into what they envisioned it could be.

Barbara was an avid reader, loved gardening, watching the birds at her bird feeders, and was in fact a lover of all animals. She loved to sing classical, musical theatre and sang for the church choir at New Rye Congregational Church. She also sang for many years in the Suncook Valley Chorale, the Joyful Blend, variety shows in Epsom, and the Messiah in Concord during Christmas time. Barbara and Harvey loved to go see various performances, their favorite being at the Ogunquit Theatre in Maine. Barbara and Harvey were lifelong learners, they went on various trips to learn about world history, cultural diversity and overall knowledge. Of all of their trips, Barbara's favorite was their trip to Sweden where she got to meet her family and explore her family history at first hand. Their last trip to Florida was one they cherished and often told of all the sights they got to see and experiences they had together.

She was predeceased by her parents, brothers Carl E. Leavstrom, Norman F. Leavstrom, Gerald S. Leavstrom and a sister Ruth V. Leavstrom.

She leaves behind her husband, Harvey F. Harkness Jr., sons; Tim Harkness of Lakeland Florida, Jon Harkness and his wife Carol of Chichester, her grandchildren, Sarah Harkness of Chichester and Jack Harkness of Cleveland Ohio along with many nephews & nieces.

She was loved by everyone who knew her and will be sorely missed by all.

A Funeral Service will be held on Tuesday, September 6, 2022 at 11AM at New Rye Congregational Church on New Rye Road in Epsom. At the request of the family masks are encouraged but not required. Interment will follow at New Rye Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in her memory to New Rye Congregational Church, PO Box 217, Epsom, NH 03234. The Roan Family Funeral Home – Still Oaks Chapel is assisting the family with arrangements. To share a memory or offer a condolence please visit www.roanfamilyfuneral.com

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Published by Concord Monitor on Sep. 1, 2022.

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R ERIC BLOOMFIELD

August 26, 2023

Krista and I miss Barbara, and, again, condolences to Harvey and family

Deborah Brink

September 16, 2022

Barbara was a light in the world, and a wonderful presence in the DMV when we worked together. My deepest condolences to the family on your loss.

Becky Smith

September 5, 2022

Dear Harvey and family,

Oh that voice!!! Barbara´s beautiful soprano voice will always be with me. As the former director of the Suncook Valley Chorale and Joyful Blend, my musical experience was always enriched by her solos and ensemble singing.

She was a dear friend with whom a shared our love of music for 25 years will never be forgotten.

Love,
Becky

Debbie Reeves

September 3, 2022

Harvey, Tim, John, Carol, Sarah and Jack- so sorry to hear of Barbara's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Gloria Reeves

September 2, 2022

Harvey, Jonathan & Tim, so sorry to hear of Barbara´s passing. My thoughts & prayers are with all of you. I just saw Barbara at Old Home Day we were talking about the families.

Denny Doucette

September 2, 2022

Dear Harvey, I'm so sorry to learn of Barbara's passing. She was a special person with a heavenly voice that I and so many others enjoyed listening to and singing with. She will be missed dearly. Love and condolences to you and the family.

Charlene Towle Vallee

September 2, 2022

Jon and family, sorry to hear about the loss of your mother. Thinking of you today.

r eric bloomfield

August 31, 2022

What a woman, what a pleasure to have her and her great hubby to come to dinner that would last till the wee hours.
We will miss her

Roy Hamer

August 31, 2022

I am saddened by the news of your mother's death. Even though I never met your parents I can honestly say that a mother's love is special and universal. It can never be replaced. I will say a prayer for you and your family. Take care, my good friend.

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