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Peter Arnold Obituary

PEMBROKE – Peter W. Arnold, 60, of Pembroke, New Hampshire, left us way too suddenly on October 31, 2018, following a lifetime of love and friendship to all who had the pleasure of his company. Born in Worcester, MA, he is the son of Ruth B. Arnold and the late Robert B. Arnold.

Peter leaves behind his best friend and love of many years, Kimberly Yarlott, and his children and their partners, Christopher Arnold and fiancée Alexandra Tillson-Raymond of Concord, NH, and daughter Brittany and her husband Greg Frank of Longmont, CO.

Growing up in the restaurant business with his family's Weeks Family Restaurants, Peter excelled at developing strong customer relationships which then carried over into his years of service with Shaw's and Hannaford supermarkets. With Hannaford of Bedford, Peter was instrumental in the implementation of their variety of cook-to-order food concepts, that began at this store and is now the standard for all future locations.

Peter was an expert skier, schussing slopes from Oregon to the Alps. He was smitten by the Beatles at a very early age and always retained a love for their music to this day. One highlight was catching Paul McCartney's concert at Fenway Park. He also loved his 1970 MGB, and traveled with Kim throughout New England for shows and rallies with his MG Club.

Peter became actively involved in the Concord Cold Weather Shelter, again developing strong friendships with those less fortunate and often having cribbage games with the guests. Kim inspired Peter's reading habits with their monthly book club meetings. An excellent cook, Peter loved to entertain their group of friends when it was their night to host.

His home with Kim was landscaped beautifully with his gardens and lawns becoming bigger every year.

Peter would dare you to find a weed in his neatly manicured lawn and he cut fun cross country trails in the woods for the winter enjoyment of his home.

Peter was the consummate uncle and great uncle to all his nieces and nephews and now, to their children. Scrapbooks of photos always show babies cuddled in his arms or, as they grew up, how to play a variety of games. Family was his passion and his hugs were all enveloping upon both seeing you and when he was leaving.

Peter leaves his mother Ruth B. Arnold of Northport, FL, and his two big brothers, Bobby and his wife Heidi Arnold of Bow and Tom and his wife Tootie Arnold of Concord. The nephews, nieces and friends that all meant so much to Peter would fill pages.

A service will be held at South Congregational Church in Concord on Tuesday, Nov. 6 at 1 p.m., followed by a reception at the Concord Country Club.

In lieu of flowers, Peter would be pleased to have donations made in his name to the Concord Coalition To End Homelessness, 238 North Main Street, Concord, NH, 03301.

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Published by Concord Monitor on Nov. 4, 2018.

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Margaret Goodrich

October 29, 2021

I still think of you alot! I still wish you knew how truly loved you were! Until we meet again

Margaret Goodrich

October 31, 2020

Peta! We all still think and remember you daily! The kitchen just isn't the kitchen without you! I hope you found peace in heaven! We miss you, and wish things were different! Until we meet again. Love always Minnie

October 29, 2020

Still missing you two years later Whenever a Beatles song plays I immediately think of you.Some day we’ll meet again.Hope the slopes where you are keep you busy.Until we meet again my friend.

AA Rivera

October 31, 2019

We are all still missing you one year later at Hannaford's. So many people are still talking about you including customers who saw you as more than an employee of the company.We reminisce about our short time spent with you , kidding around, having fun even though we were working . You sure had an impact on everyone around you and we can't not listen to a Beatles song without thinking of you (especially Dear Prudence) . Rest in Strawberry Fields forever dear friend. Some day we shall meet again......

November 8, 2018

Peter will be missed by all including me, his incredible family, his dear Kim, Ruth, his co-workers and every one whose lives he touched. Rest in Peace Peter. I will miss your smiling face.
Wendy Keeler

Claire Hussey

November 7, 2018

My thoughts are with the entire Arnold family during this unbelievably difficult time. I always thought the world of Peter and the entire clan. I had only seen Peter briefly within the past couple of years at Shaw's and it was good to say hello and reconnect for a minute. I always remember how he was the one friend who would pick up one of my babies when he came to visit without any hesitation. Fond memories of a Beatles tribute band at the Capital Center and of dinners, board games and time spent together in the 1980's. The obituary was so well written and detailed what an extraordinary man he was.
My deepest sympathies to all.

Cliff Bolt

November 7, 2018

Dear Ruthie and family,
We are So sad to hear about the loss of your son Peter. He will be missed, I enjoyed our time together when he came for visits! We are thinking about you and send our prayers and thoughts. Sincerely Cliff and Family

Lawrence Labrie

November 7, 2018

To Bob,Heidi,Ben and the entire Arnold Family. My sincerest sympathy and condolences for your loss. Be at peace Peter. Larry Labrie

Greg Hood

November 7, 2018

So very sad to hear that you are gone. Countless hours we spent together as childhood freinds at Conant, Rundlett and then CHS. The last time We chatted was at my Dads funeral service, you were so genuine and kind. My heart pours out to you Mrs Arnold, Tom and Bobby, and all that were close. Goodbye friend, may you Rest In Peace.

November 7, 2018

Simply, way too soon.. lots of good childhood memories.. you will be missed.. you were always my Mom's favorite cub scout..

karen p

November 7, 2018

My compassion to Ruth, Karen, Chris, Brittany, Kim, and the remainder of Peter's family, and friends. This is such a sad and tragic chapter. Peter shall be remembered as, and with joy. KarenP

November 7, 2018

My heart goes out to Ruth, Karen, Brittany, and Chris...all of the Peter's family.Thinking of you...wishing you hope in the middle of this sorrow, comfort in the thick of this pain. The Peter I recall was joy. God bless, Karen P

November 7, 2018

Bob, Tom and family - so sorry to just read about Peter. It's been a while since growing up in the south end, and all the good times at Weeks during those high school/college years. Always great to see Peter and always good for a few laughs about the past. Sorry to read this. Just wanted to send my condolences to you all, and to say you are in my thoughts.

Brian Comolli

November 7, 2018

My deepest condolences to the family of this fine young man. Peter was a great childhood friend with many good memories! You will be missed.
God bless you all

Kaitlyn Bilodeau

November 6, 2018

I didn't know Peter personally, but we were all there when the store first opened, and he was thoughtful to everyone around him. I learned so much from him with being a lead and how management works in these 2+ years. I remember as well how he always offered chocolate to people at work to help them through the day, and I would always deny it for have it melt in my pocket later. He cared so much for his department, and did his best to help his coworkers grow. So many customers enjoy their time together with him while he prepared their meal. He put the effort in each day to make everyone smile and laugh. Rest peacefully.

Chris and Ginger Christiansen

November 6, 2018

We are saddened to hear about Peter. We shared many LBC (little British car) stories in the club. He will certainly be missed by all who knew him. Our condolences to his family.

Debra Davis Thum

November 6, 2018

My thoughts and prayers are with the family and friends of Peter during this difficult time. We lost one of the kindest individuals that I have known. God bless you Peter.

Nathan Pike

November 6, 2018

Peter and I met when I was, for all intents and purposes, still a child at 22. He was more than a boss to me. He took me under his wing and showed me how to grow up. He taught me how to be a man and still be just a big child. Bosses at big chains don't need to go out of their way to be friends with their associates, but Peter made me feel special the whole year I worked with him. He made sure I knew I always had a place to come back to, and that I could always use him as a reference or for help. I'm not sure that he knew how deeply and profoundly he impacted my life, but I will never forget him. Playing tennis and cribbage after work, and all sorts of odd jobs together brought us closer together, but his infectious smile and good nature, his leadership and mentorship, and his firm handshakes in an effort to make me flinch, all while having a smile on his face, will be how I remember him. The world is a sadder place without Peter's light in it, but I am eternally greatful to have had him in my life to show me the way. I hope to be able to live a life worthy of such an amazing role model. My prayers go to his family.

November 6, 2018

I am deeply saddened to hear about Peter. Like others have said, I to have many wonderful, happy memories of Peter and the Arnold family from my days working at Weeks, (and many years later when our kids were in school together). Lots of good times we had and I cherish those memories to this day. My thoughts are with you all.

Scott Wells

November 6, 2018

Condolences to the Arnold's.

So long Pete. It was great knowing you since childhood. We sat together at Conant school drawing pictures of WW2 sea battles until the teachers had to separate us. Always a blast. Thanks. Will miss you.

November 6, 2018

My sincere condolences to your family, Peter.
May you rest In eternal peace.

Philip Nadeau, Loudon, NH

Melinda and Bob Tocci

November 6, 2018

Our thoughts and prayers go out to the Arnold Family. I always loved his smile.

Mary

November 5, 2018

My deepest condolences to your family.. Going to miss you and that genuine smile. RIP Peter❤

Doris and Paul Karle

November 5, 2018

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. You will be missed.

Mini Cooper

November 5, 2018

Having only known Peter for a short amount of time, I can say he was a genuine person. I wanted to share my condolences from all of us in the MINI and automotive community. Thank you for sharing Pete with us.

Mike Hogan

November 5, 2018

Peter we worked so many years together at Shaws and Hannafords and I am still in shock and you will be forever missed - Thank you for giving me your time at work and out of work- RIP my friend - my condolences to the Entire family- Hoagie

Rose Hodgdon

November 5, 2018

This makes me so profoundly sad. I looked forward every morning to seeing his smiling face and enjoying his sense of humor. Everyone at Hannaford was so much more than a customer to him - always going above and beyond for everyone. Rest easy my friend.

Diana Harrison

November 5, 2018

Peter your spirit, good nature,generosity and special gifts will forever be in our memories.

RIP the Harrison Family

November 5, 2018

To all the Arnold family, Kim and her family and Peters many many friends you are all in our hearts and prayers during this very difficult time...Peter was always young and fun in heart. I will miss our glass of wine and peanuts at the end of a long day and the amazing drives on the hills in the MG...
Best wishes to you all Diana (Di according to Peter) and the rest of the Harrison Family

Bob Dougherty

November 5, 2018

Please accept our heartfelt condolences from all the members of the British Cars of New Hampshire, such a shock, Peter will be remembered and always missed.

Bruce Bairstow

November 5, 2018

Pete was just a wonderful person who's love for all things people, skiing, vintage car related, music, etc just seemed to make him glow. As a previous Morris Garage owner, I was just elated to hear that Pete had got himself one (a daring young lad indeed)! I just knew he'd have the best time with it just we I had.

Our most sincere condolences to the greater Arnold family. I'll never forget Pete's beaming smile! RIP my friend.

Bob Goldthwaite

November 5, 2018

Please except our Sincerest condolences to the Arnold family. We are saddened by your loss. Peter will be missed.

Gary Wood

November 5, 2018

I never had the pleasure of meeting Peter, but have heard many stories from my good friend and e-mail pal, Ruth. Our thoughts and prayers go out to the entire family, friends and community for your loss. Might I suggest "time in a bottle" by the late great singer/songwriter Jim Croce.

Julie Fournier

November 5, 2018

My first love. We all love Peter and this is such a loss for everyone whom he touched.

November 5, 2018

Deepest heartfelt condolences to all of the Arnold family. My your memories give you comfort. I have lots of wonderful memories from the Weeks days (dressing up as the 3 musketeers with Pete and Deb and going for ice cream at Weeks after a Halloween party only to have the Concord Police knocking on the window to see if we were supposed to be there in the middle of the night eating ice cream) to him taking my yoga classes at the club when he lived in Laconia. Pete was there for me during a very difficult time in my life, I will be forever grateful to him for that. We all felt like family working at Weeks and even with all the time that passes those memories and relationships are a part of us! Sending you love, prayers and friendship.

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Brian @Loon Mt

November 5, 2018

MG show

Brian @Loon Mt

November 5, 2018

Pete'e pride... meet "Prudence"

Brian @Loon Mt

November 5, 2018

Mike Philbrick

November 5, 2018

I send my deep sorrows to the entire Arnold family with the sudden passing of Pete. Pete and I were friends and fellow drummers at RJHS. Pete's love for music especially The Beatles was very strong. Pete had a fantastic warm personality and was fun loving guy. I am sorry to hear this news. Pete Rest In Peace buddy. Bomber.

November 5, 2018

Please accept my heartfelt condolences on the death of your dear love one may God give you strength to endure this most difficult time please read John 6:40

Richard Jenisch

November 5, 2018

I work closely with Peter's son Chris at Nottingham School and admire and respect him as a teacher and as a friend. His innovative and creative approach to working with students is a testimony to his father and the lessons Chris learned and interests he developed growing up. My deepest sympathy to the entire Arnold family.

skip graham

November 5, 2018

Such sad news. My condolences to the Arnold family. RIP my friend.

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Paul Makris

November 4, 2018

Deeply saddened by the news that we lost Pete. Friends since Rundlett, we formed our first band with Pete playing bass. Both our love of the Beatles made it easy to play together, though it was Pete's easy going attitude that made it fun.
I didn't see Pete as often as adults, but when we'd run into each other, we'd always pick up right where we left off. In fact, I'll never forget the day I was admiring this meticulously restored MG in the Hannaford parking lot. About 10 steps beyond I looked up and saw Pete walking toward me smiling... I immediately knew the car was his. We had a great visit and not only talked about the car, Pete was proud to share that he now had Hofner violin bass. (Of course, the very model McCartney plays). So many more memories bring a smile to my face.
One of the nicest people I've known, we lost one of the good guys... I'll miss Pete dearly.
My thought and prayers go out to his family.

RAYMOND SMITH

November 4, 2018

BOB SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS

Lee-Anne Smith

November 4, 2018

To the entire Arnold Family. My heart breaks for all of you tonight. Peter was taken from all of you far too young! I knew Peter best as one of my first bosses at Weeks Family Restaurant. Throughout life when I saw Peter he always greeted with a big smile. His memory will live on in all who knew him. May the memories you have as a family help you through this difficult time. My thoughts & prayers are with all of you. Lee-Anne Rubin Smith

Tina Gobin

November 4, 2018

My warmest thoughts to his family and friends. I will miss his smile that brighten the salon when he came in, his joking and good nature always made my day.

Matt Gagnon

November 4, 2018

You left us way too soon Peter. It was a pleasure working with you. No matter how busy you were, you always had time to say hello and made sure everything was ok. You will be missed. My condolences to your family, friends, and loved ones.

Stephen Platkin

November 4, 2018

I knew Peter as a customer at Hannafords in Bedford, NH. Peter was a great person and always treated me as a valued customer. I considered him a friend even though I did not know him very long, that being less than two years. He use to tell me about his skiing trips and his love of skiing. He was a great asset to Hannafords and one of my favorite people there. He used to make me laugh alot sometimes when he was joking around. I truly find it very upsetting to me that such a great person is gone. I will miss him as well as everyone else. Stephen

Darren Sabean

November 4, 2018

So sorry to hear of this. Thoughts & prayers to all your family.

Matt Fortuna

November 4, 2018

You left us way too soon Peter. It was a pleasure getting to know the great man you are and working with a dedicated leader. I will miss your one line quotes I think the most! Sending my deepest condolences to your family, friends, and loved ones.

Mary Margaret and Rolfe Bryant

November 4, 2018

Our very deepest and heartfelt sympathy goes out the entire Arnold Family. Peter, you will never know how loved you were by so many. Rolfe and I will truly miss our "Happy Hour" times in North Port while you were visiting your wonderful Mom. Rest in peace you dear sweet man. Thoughts and Prayers to you all. Love you

Tim Thomopoulos

November 4, 2018

Rest In Peace Peter :( you will be missed.

Karen Fudala

November 4, 2018

I will miss your smile and humor at work. You always made my day. Death is not the end, just another door we will all walk through.

Debbie Moore

November 4, 2018

Prayers and hugs for all. Rest peacefully, Peter.

Susan and John Wadsworth

November 4, 2018

To the Arnold family:


John (Sleepy) and I send our most sincere condolences on the passing of Peter. May his memory live on in your hearts, thoughts and memories. God bless.

November 4, 2018

There are no words to describe how much he will be missed by all who knew him! Our thoughts and prayers go out to all his family! Love, Joe and Carol Alosa

Sherry

November 4, 2018

To the entire Arnold family I am sincerely sorry for your loss. My sincerest and deepest sympathy, condolences, and payers, to all of you during this very difficult time.

Audrey Rivera

November 4, 2018

I'm going to miss you and all of our fun times we had working together at Hannaford. Still can't believe that your gone. My deepest sympathies to your family.

Michael Mercier

November 4, 2018

I met Peter at a young age . We were friends throughout our school years. Having known him changed the trajectory of my life, from having fun and making memories at the beautiful Arnold family home where I felt honored to be invited to working at Weeks and making lifelong friendships there. Those memories are the foundation of my life. Peter once brought me to the hospital in Lincoln after I unsuccessfully tried to impress him with my skiing abilities at Loon Mtn. Damn he was a good skier and I never could keep up but he waited. Another time he happened by when my mothers dog , (she's a huge pet person) got hit by a car and was bloody by the roadside. He stopped and without hesitation offered to load the bloody dog into his meticulously clean car and brought it to the vet saving its life and solidifying him on my mothers list of heroic people thus giving me plenty of opportunity to escape house rules by simply saying "I'm hanging out with Peter tonight" . As we grew older I ran into him from time to time and we would reminisce about the foolish things we did in our younger years with each trying to decide which of the other was still doing them :-) that morphed into us trying to outdo each other with good deeds. I thought I had him at "I bring extra gas on my truck driving route in case I see somebody in need" and he threw down " I play scrabble with homeless people ..you should come"... point set match . I already miss that sort of banter. RIP my friend .I'm forever grateful for the friendship we enjoyed early on and the memories made . In your honor I intend to make a donation to the coalition to end homelessness.

Renee LaFrance

November 3, 2018

Working for you was a lot of fun back in my SHAWS days.You will be missed

Brenda Korach

November 3, 2018

Love you, Cousin. Rest in Peace. Brenda

A M

November 3, 2018

May you rest in peace, peter. You will be dearly missed.. sending comfort to kim, and your whole family during this difficult time.

Kellina Wall

November 3, 2018

I really dont know what to say.... youll be missed for sure Peter Arnold (saying his name in my terrible schwarzenegger voice like i use too)
Sending my condolences to your friends and family.

Minnie Goodrich

November 3, 2018

Oh Peta! How much you will be missed by so many.. devastating loss to everyone! Sending my prayers to all of your loved ones during this extraordinarily difficult time.
Love minnie

Kim Dubey

November 3, 2018

November 03, 2018
Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved ones today and always. It was wonderful working with you.

Kelly Grassi

November 3, 2018

I am still in shock of the news. You were not only my boss but my friend. I will never forget your laugh and your smile. I hope you knew how much love I have for you.

The Entire Staff of Waters Funeral Home

November 4, 2018

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