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David McNemar Obituary

McNemar Sr., David S.
David Stanley McNemar, Sr. age 83, the lovable husband of Eleanor (Perellie) McNemar, entered into eternal rest on Sunday, February 19, 2017 with his loving family by his side. Born May 24, 1933, in Clarksburg, WV, Stan (as he was known to his family) moved to CT at age 16 and has been a resident of Bridgeport and then Fairfield ever since. He attended Central High School in Bridgeport, where he met his lifelong love Eleanor Perellie; they were married June 14, 1952. He held various positions at local companies, finally retiring from Shell Oil Company, in 1995, after 25 years of service. His focus on family was evident every day. He loved singing, even when he didn't know the words to the songs. He found humor in everything. He liked to tell jokes and Eleanor always laughed at them. He enjoyed cooking for his family; his chili was phenomenal. He loved working on projects around the house, listening to country music, golfing, writing poetry and walking 5 miles daily with Eleanor. Their journey through life together ended on February 19, 2017; their love affair will never end. He passed away with his wife and family by his side. Stan is survived by his loving wife Eleanor; daughter Diana Sisler and husband Ray Sisler of Bridgeport, CT; son David S. McNemar Jr. of CA, daughter Beth McNemar and partner Marisa Scotti of Bridgeport, CT; grandson Jeff Sisler of Phoenixville, PA; grand-dog Lucky; brother Thomas McNemar of Bridgeport, CT; sister-in-law Ann McNemar, and many in-laws, nieces, nephews, great-nieces and nephews, cousins, and friends. The family would like to thank the staff at Grasmere By the Sea, the staff of Vitas and VNS/Partners in Care, and his aides who helped care for Dave (as he was known to all outside his family). Our family would like to specifically thank Aldene, Angela, Angie, Dorothy, Jean, and Sandy for their care and compassion. He is going to be missed and loved forever. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in honor of David S. McNemar, Sr., to the following organizations; Jewish Senior Services "Grasmere By the Sea Fund", 4200 Park Ave., Bridgeport, CT 06604, or the Alzheimer's Association, 200 Executive Blvd., Suite 4B, Southington, CT 06489. Friends are invited to attend the funeral on Saturday, February 25, 2017, at 10:00 a.m. in Oaklawn Cemetery, 1530 Bronson Rd., Fairfield, CT, for a Graveside service. Friends may call on Friday from 4:00 to 7:00 p.m. in the Parente-Lauro Funeral Home, 559 Washington Ave., Bridgeport. To sign an online guest book or to send private condolences, please visit www.parentelauro.com

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Published by Connecticut Post from Feb. 23 to Feb. 24, 2017.

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John & Marge DePalmer

February 19, 2019

Eleanor, Stan was a very Special man, who loved you unconditionally an never hesitated to show it. I'm sure he is greatly missed.

Frank Chambers

November 27, 2017

Dear Eleanor - I am sorry for your loss. Dave was a kind man. I met him at the poetry readings Sunday afternoons at the Westport Barnes & Noble. I was glad to know him and enjoy the small booklets of poetry he shared with me. I don't think we had ever met - but he would talk of you and read the poems he wrote for you. So I felt the love shared between the two of you. He is missed. -

Patti Harrison

February 24, 2017

Dear Eleanor, Beth and the McNemar family,
Our condolences to you on the passing of Dave. We remember him as a kind and gentle man with his gift of poetry so often shared with us in Cara. He will be missed. Love, Patti and Don Harrison

Sharon and Jean

February 24, 2017

Eleanor... Jean and I sends our condolences. Mr. David will truly be missed. It was a pleasure serving and having him in our lives. We will keep you and your family in our prayers. Much love from Jean Bug and Sharon (bus drivers)

John & Marge DePalmer

February 24, 2017

Eleanor & Family, we are so sorry for such a great loss, he was a very special man. Our love & prayers are with you.

Michael Riccio

February 22, 2017

My sincere condolences to the entire McNemar family.

February 22, 2017

Dear Stan, We will miss you forever, all your funny little quirks, that beautiful smile and warm laugh - you will always be an important part of us - we shall hold our memories close to our hearts all our love Tony and Arlene

February 22, 2017

Dad/Grandpa - from all of us - rest in peace - love always - Ray, Diana & Jeff

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