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Gasper "Cappy" Kuhn

1936 - 2023

Gasper "Cappy" Kuhn obituary, 1936-2023, Fairfield, CT

BORN

1936

DIED

2023

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Harding Funeral Home

210 Post Road East

Westport, Connecticut

Gasper Kuhn Obituary

Gasper "Cappy" Kuhn
February 8, 2023 - March 9, 2023
Gasper F. "Cappy" Kuhn departed this life on March 9, 2023 at the age of 87 following a long illness. Cappy was born in Bridgeport, CT on February 8, 1936. He attended St. Stephens elementary school and graduated from Bassick High School in 1953. Immediately following graduation, Cappy proudly served four years in the United States Navy as a radioman on two different submarines- the USS Tigrone and the USS Jallao, traveling from the Mediterranean through the Suez Canal to South Africa and Brazil before returning to port in New London, CT.
After leaving the Navy, Cappy worked as an auto mechanic at Fairport Gulf. During this time, he met his future wife, Barbara Billings and they were married in 1966 at St. Patrick's Church in Bridgeport. Barbara and Cappy welcomed two children, Alex and Gretchen.
Cappy later worked in the insurance industry, first at the Home Insurance Company, followed by a long career with The Hartford. After several failed attempts at retirement, Cappy finally succeeded in 2013 and retired for good.
Faith and the Episcopal Church took a central role in Cappy's life. He loved being busy. As a member of Trinity Episcopal Church in Southport, and later Christ and Holy Trinity Church in Westport, he devoted countless hours to serving on the Vestry, teaching Sunday School, training Acolytes and serving on the Altar Guild. Despite being the only man on the Altar Guild, Cappy always just considered himself "one of the girls," but could always be counted on to do the heavy lifting.
Cappy enjoyed amateur radio, watching the boats at the marina, feeding wild birds, the Boston Red Sox, New York Mets, and the New York Giants, American Idol, talking about politics and being a suitable chair for the cats. He also cherished spending time with his children- flying as a passenger all over the country with Alex at the helm, and trips to New York City and long bike rides with Gretchen. Cappy was known and loved by all, for his good nature, incredible wit, and wicked sense of humor.
Cappy was predeceased by his wife, Barbara Kuhn, his parents William Kuhn and Ethel Toth Kuhn, and his siblings William Kuhn Jr., Emma Walser and Kathleen Kuhn. Cappy is survived by his children, Alex Kuhn and Gretchen Kuhn, both of Fairfield. He is also survived by his siblings-in-law Robert Billings, Martha Billings Ford and Ann Billings, his nieces Bonnie Ford Wojna (Bernard Wojna) and Sydney Billings, his nephew Elliot Billings, Emma's children Kurt, Chris, Jill and Eric, and numerous honorary children who also called him Dad.
Memorial donations may be directed to PAWS – Pet Animal Welfare Society of Norwalk, 504 Main Avenue, Norwalk, CT, 06851, www.pawsct.org . A memorial service celebrating his life will be held at Christ and Holy Trinity Episcopal Church, 75 Church Lane, Westport, CT, on Saturday, April 29, 2023 at 11:00 am. The Harding Funeral Home, 210 Post Road East, Westport, is in charge of arrangements.

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Published by Connecticut Post on Mar. 16, 2023.

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Ed Richter

April 29, 2023

I had the pleasure and honor of working with "Cappy" in both the Hamden and Shelton offices of Hartford Insurance. He was a dedicated employee and a Christian gentleman.
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Paul & Carol Ferensak

April 2, 2023

Paul & Carol Ferensak

April 2, 2023

Paul & Carol Ferensak

April 2, 2023

Alex and Gretchen - Found a couple more pics I thought you might like. They are from Spring 1976

Carolyn Janov Moss

March 28, 2023

Cappy was such a great guy I loved working with him at the Hartford He was someone I always remembered even after leaving the Hartford many years ago my deepest condolences to the family

Betsy Schick Rojas

March 17, 2023

Dear Alex and Gretchen, I am so terribly sorry to hear about the passing of your dad. I have many wonderful memories of both your mom and dad at Trinity Church. My deepest condolences for your loss.

A Fellow US Navy Sailor

March 17, 2023

Fair Winds and Following Seas, Shipmate. Your watch is over, rest in peace.

George Morris

March 16, 2023

Gretchen and Alex so sorry to hear about the passing of Cappy.
He was a very pleasant man and always nice to see him when he'd come into CVS for a visit.

Paul & Carol Ferensak

March 15, 2023

Paul & Carol Ferensak

March 15, 2023

Paul & Carol Ferensak

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Paul & Carol Ferensak

March 15, 2023

So sorry to hear of Cappy's passing. We've known him since 1967 or so and spent a lot of time with him, Barb and their family over the years! So many wonderful memories of our young years together. Thinking of you Alex & Gretchen, and hoping that all the wonderful memories will help get you through this difficult time.

Sue Ryan

March 14, 2023

So sorry Gretchen and Alex. Cappy will always be an outstanding memory of the time we shared at CHT. You and your family are in my deepest heart and prayers.

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