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Joan Wells Birks, 95, of Stratford, passed away peacefully at home on February 14, 2026. Born January 1, 1931, she spent most of her life in Stratford, growing up on Nichols Avenue and later raising her family in her husband's childhood home along the Housatonic River, where she cherished her neighbors and friendships.
Joan was a gentle, compassionate woman who brought warmth and support to everyone around her. She found her greatest joy in family time. She loved reading, old Hollywood movies, fashion (always dressing elegantly), and in her youth, she was a cheerleader at Stratford High School.
Joan is survived by her sons, Kibby Birks (and his sons, Justin and Jonathan), James Birks (and his daughters, Ingrid Hudon and Lily Birks), and Martin Birks and his wife, Rosa; her nephews, Mike Oesau and Tim Oesau; her five great-grandchildren; and her best friend, Aggie.
Joan was predeceased by her husband, Melville Lee Birks (known as Lee), in 2008; her younger sister, Constance Oesau in 2015; and her brother-in-law, Harold "Mike" Thomas Oesau.
A memorial service for Joan Wells Birks will be held on Thursday, February 26, 2026, at 10:00 a.m. at White Oak Baptist Church, 5344 Main Street, Stratford, Connecticut.
In lieu of flowers, Joan asked for donations be made to the Stratford, CT Library.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
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Robin
February 20, 2026
My mother, Joan (nee Lomas), and your mother grew up next to each other on Nichols Ave. I remember your Aunt Connie and grandmother as well. On behalf of the "gang" from Stratford High, I offer my heartfelt condolences and sympathy for your loss. I visited your mom, with my mother, on numerous occasions growing up and remember her very well. Such a nice, sweet woman. May she now rest in peace.
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