Search by Name

Search by Name

Rita Bourdeau Obituary

BOURDEAU Rita (Bennett) Bourdeau, age 92, formerly of Brookfield and St. Petersburg, Fla., wife of the late Roland Bourdeau, died on Friday, February 12, at Filosa in Danbury. She was born on December 29, 1917, in Waldon, Vermont, daughter of the late Meda and Elizabeth (LaMora) Bennett. Rita was a talented harmonica player, and taught lessons at the Brookfield Senior Center as well as in St. Petersburg, Florida. She was a past member of the American Contract Bridge League and attained the rank of National Master. In her later years, she enjoyed painting and drawing. Rita was well known for her quick wit and was an avid writer, contributing many pieces in the senior publication in her Florida community. She is survived by her son, Rodney L. Bourdeau of Danbury; her two daughters, Regina O'Connell of Venice, Fla., Renee Drake and her husband, Thomas of Winsted; her grandchildren, Elizabeth Cambras and her husband, Bill, Teresa Oxboel and her husband, Peter, John O'Connell and his wife, Janet, Michael O'Connell and his wife, Mary, Richard Bourdeau and his wife, Michelle, J. Randall Bourdeau and his wife, Jane, Robert Bourdeau and his wife, Sarah, Melissa Frisch and her husband Steve, Tania Porta and her husband, Alfredo, Jason Bourdeau and his wife, Sarah, and Kelly London; and many great grandchildren. She is also survived by her sisters-in-law, Agnes Antoniak, Mary Bourdeau, Antoinette Bourdeau, and Jenny Bourdeau; as well as several nieces and nephews. In addition to her husband, Roland, she was predeceased by her son, Richard, her grandson, John F. London, III, her daughter-in-law, Wilma S. Bourdeau, and her son-in-law, Arthur O'Connell; as well as her six siblings. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Saturday, February 20th at 10:30 a.m. Sacred Heart of Jesus Church, Cottage St., Danbury. Burial will follow in St. Peter Cemetery. The family will receive friends at the Cornell Memorial Home, 247 White Street, Danbury, on Friday, February 19th between the hours of 4 and 8 p.m. Rita's family would like to express their gratitude to the staff at Filosa for their kind and compassionate care for the past seven years. Memorial contributions in her memory may be made to Sacred Heart of Jesus Church, 18 Cottage Street, Danbury, CT 06810 . To light a candle of hope and remembrance please visit our website at www.CornellMemorial.com

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Connecticut Post on Feb. 16, 2010.

Memories and Condolences
for Rita Bourdeau

Not sure what to say?





Tom Spegnolo

February 18, 2010

Rodney and family,
I just heard of the passing of your mother. I'm so sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you all

Joe & Gail Bourdeau

February 17, 2010

Rodney, Regina, Renee, Our deepest sympathy to all of you and your family. You all will be in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.

Jeanne Pancurak

February 16, 2010

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

February 16, 2010

To, Regina, Rodney, Renee and famlly. Our prayers and thoughts go out to you all and to our "Aunt Rita". ..Love... Ellsworth & Carol Bennett... Manhattan, Montana

joe falis

February 16, 2010

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Pat Gallo

February 16, 2010

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Ethel Omasta

February 16, 2010

Dear Rodney and family, I want to extend my sincere sympathy to all of you! Your fond memories will keep your Mom in your hearts for ever! I am in Florida now trying to keep warm.

Bernie & Nancy Reidy

February 16, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Al & Doris Kosloffsky

February 16, 2010

To Rod and family, our condolences. Your mom was a nice lady, always had a smile for everybody.

Showing 1 - 9 of 9 results

Make a Donation
in Rita Bourdeau's name

Memorial Events
for Rita Bourdeau

To offer your sympathy during this difficult time, you can now have memorial trees planted in a National Forest in memory of your loved one.

How to support Rita's loved ones
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Poems of Mourning and Comfort

The best poems for funerals, memorial services, and cards.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
How to Cope With Grief

Information and advice to help you cope with the death of someone important to you.

Read more
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
Ways to honor Rita Bourdeau's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more