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Robert Deaky Obituary

Deaky, Robert N.
Robert N. Deaky, age 52, of Fairfield, beloved son of Robert and Joan Deaky passed away Thursday, July 9, 2015 at Bridgeport Hospital. Born in Bridgeport, Rob had been a lifelong Fairfield resident. He graduated from Andrew Warde High School and was employed as a service technician for various oil companies including Turnpike Furnace, Kaufman Fuel and Gault Energy. Rob loved cars of all kinds, especially classic cars and Mustangs, and racing. He was a member of the Monroe Street Rodders and enjoyed attending classic car shows. He loved heavy metal music. Rob was a kind, generous and friendly individual who was always willing to help anyone who needed it; never looking for anything in return. He will be sorely missed by his family and many friends. Survivors in addition to his parents include four beloved children, Alyssa Peterson and her husband Todd and their children, Avery and Charley of Fairfield, Nicholas Deaky of Stratford, Stephanie Kapell and her husband Taylor and their son Henry of Middletown, and Jessica Deaky of Trumbull; two sisters, Grace Cullen and her husband David of Fairfield and Donna Kerma and her husband Kenny and their daughter Pandora of Fairfield. A funeral service will be held Wednesday, July 15, 2015 at 10:00 a.m. in the Spear-Miller Funeral Home, 39 South Benson Road, Fairfield with the Rev. Judith Rhodes officiating. Interment will follow in Mountain Grove Cemetery, Bridgeport. Friends may call Tuesday from 4-8 p.m. in the funeral home. In lieu of flowers contributions may be made in memory of Rob Deaky to the Monroe Street Rodders (Please make checks payable to Robert L. Deaky), 65 Pope Street, Fairfield, CT 06825. For information or to sign Rob's online guest register please visit www.SpearMillerFunerealHome.com

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Published by Connecticut Post from Jul. 10 to Jul. 13, 2015.

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July 22, 2015

Grace & Family
I am very sorry for your loss; the loss of a very nice person. May all the memories bring comfort, peace, and healing to you as you go through this most difficult time. God Bless.
Cara (Anderson) Marsilio

Shawn Sember

July 15, 2015

To the Deaky family, We are saddened to hear of the loss of Rob. He was a good father and provider. Our deepest sympathy from our family to yours. The Sember family, Trumbull,CT.

mike couture

July 14, 2015

my condolences to the deaky family
i did not know rob really well but use to talk to him when i saw him either doing a dump run or cruising in the mustang was surprised to hear his passing last i spoke to him he was picking up someone to go to the car show in norwalk a week earlier we would always talk about the classic cars once again sorry for the families loss

July 14, 2015

I was shocked and saddened to here of Rob's death. I will miss his visits to my house and seeing that proud face when he was driving the Mustang. I am grateful for having known him, he will be deeply missed.

Whalen Family, Trumbull CT.

July 14, 2015

Grace, I am so sorry to hear this sad news. My condolences to your entire family.
Cyndee (Anderson) Gabris XO

Tom Vigorito

July 13, 2015

My deepest sympathy for the passing of Rob. May you find the strength to get through these difficult times.

Corkie Seaman

July 13, 2015

My sincerest sympathies to the entire Deaky family on your loss. I hope the happy memories of the past help you through this difficult time.

Michelle Dalling

July 13, 2015

To Grace and all of Rob's family.......I am so very sorry for your loss. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. May Rob Rest In Paradise and your family find comfort & peace. ❤ Michelle Dalling

Paul Visconti

July 12, 2015

Was shocked to hear of Bobs passing was with him in June with our cars for a photo shoot very nice guy well liked in car community.I am very sorry for your familys loss.

Rich & Eileen Mishley

July 12, 2015

Steph, Alyssa, Nick, Jessica and family. Our heartfelt condolences on the loss of your dad. You will all be remembered in our prayers.

Debbie

July 12, 2015

To Rob's family and friends~~
So sorry for your loss...Rob was always smiling and conversing with fellow classic car enthusiasts at cruise nights. My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this most sad and difficult time. God Bless you Rob~~RIP.

Robert Tadduni

July 12, 2015

To the Deaky Family,

Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you! Bob was a great friend and he will be truly missed!

Paul and Rob Tadduni

George, Robert and Nicholas Romano

July 11, 2015

Deaky family. So very sorry to hear of Rob's passing. Always a friendly face at the local car shows, he went out of his way to say hello to me and my two kids whenever he saw us there. May the Grace of God comfort you in this difficult time.

Bill & Betty Berlin

July 11, 2015

Bob,Joan,We are saddened by the passing of your son.You are in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.

Richard Stelmaszek

July 11, 2015

To Grace and your family so sorry for you loss Rob was a great guy he will truly be missed thoughts and prayers

July 11, 2015

my condolences to the entire Deaky family Rob was the kindest man I ever knew I am sad beyond words I truly have lost my best friend

debra hayes

Jacqueline Fleming Tuozzoli

July 11, 2015

To Rob's family, I am so sorry to hear about Rob's passing. He was such a great person. Always there to help someone, when they needed it,no matter what time of day or night. A fine man.
God Bless Rob and his family and children that he leaves behind. He will for sure, be watching over all of you, and your memories of him will keep him with you forever.

Dawn Ryzak

July 11, 2015

To Grace & family, so sorry to hear about Rob's passing. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

The Staff of Spear-Miller Funeral Home

July 12, 2015

Offering our deepest condolences during this time.

Lisa Giordano

July 11, 2015

My deepest sympathy to the Deaky family. May the fond memories of Bobby help heal you. Bob was a great guy who will be remembered fondly. Peace,love and light to him and you all.

Sonny Passaro

July 10, 2015

My deepest sympathies. Rob was a great guy, and a good friend to all that was lucky to know him . he will be missed.w/ respect

mary young

July 10, 2015

So Sorry For Your Loss,Send Prayer To The Deaky family

Aimee Kanner-Chen

July 10, 2015

Grace & Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. May you find comfort in family and friends during this difficult time.

Cecilia Rider

July 10, 2015

The Deaky Family: Rob was a really special person that touched the hearts of all both young & old. I will truly miss him-he was a great friend. Rob always went out of his way to help everyone. May he rest in peace. My condolences and prayers are with the family.

Robert Pagliuco

July 10, 2015

Joan,Bob, Donna and Grace, I am deeply saddened to hear of Bobby,s passing. My thoughts and prayers are with your family at this time.

July 10, 2015

The Deaky Family:May ourThoughts and Prayers be with you and your Family,Robert was a fine boy,and may he rest in Peace.

Joe Skubas

Donna (DiPietro) Linnen

July 10, 2015

My deepest sympathies to the Deaky family. I have so many fond memories of Bobby; he taught me a lot while we were kids. Many prayers for healing and peace to all.

David Osterberg

July 10, 2015

Bob, Joan, Grace, and Donna,I'm so saddened to hear of Robert's passing. Wishing you all comfort and peace during this difficult time.

Kathy Mastronardi

July 10, 2015

Grace and family,
You are all in my thoughts and prayers. I am so sorry for your loss. You know that I am here for you if you need anything.

Lucille Rummo

July 9, 2015

I am so sorry to hear of Roberts passing. May he rest in peace

Debbie Makucevich Kerestury

July 9, 2015

I was so saddened to hear of Roberts passing. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.

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