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Ruth Barber Obituary

BARBER Ruth Simna Barber, age 70 of Fairfield, passed away on December 3, 2009 at Bridgeport Hospital. She was the loving, devoted mother of LeeAnn O'Sullivan and her husband, Kerry of Fairfield, Terry Barber of Sarasota, Fla., and Kim Barber and her husband, Charles McQuade of Fairfield. She will also be warmly remembered by her six cherished grandchildren, Myles, Connor, and Kelly O'Sullivan, Katelyn and William Barber, Tommy Barber; three sisters, Mildred Watcke, and her husband, Albert of Trumbull, Jean Slezak, of Stratford, Linda Schauwecker and her husband, Ronald, of Shelton; one sister-in-law, Sally Simna, of Trumbull; several nieces and nephews including Denise Slezak, Karen Pommills, Tracy Perry, and Kristen DiPalma. She was predeceased by her parents, John and Anna Sekelsky Simna and her brother, Robert Simna. Born and raised in Bridgeport, Ruth had been a resident of Fairfield for 45 years. In addition to raising her family, she worked for 25 years with her sister, Linda as a Realtor with Real Estate Two in Shelton. She was a member of the Greater Bridgeport Board of Realtors, the CTMLS of Fairfield County, and was proud to be a graduate of the Floyd Wickman Master Sales Society. In addition to servicing her clients as a dedicated professional, Ruth filled her life with the pleasure of spending time with her family and friends, sunning at the beach, spinning at the gym, and playing a competitive game of tennis. Calling hour will be held on Sunday from 3 to 6 p.m. in the Lesko & Polke Funeral Home, 1209 Post Road, in Fairfield Center. Her Mass of Christian Burial will take place on Monday at 11 a.m. directly in St. Pius X Church. Her interment will be private. Memorial contributions may be directed to: St. Pius X Church Building Fund, 834 Brookside Drive, Fairfield, CT 06824. To sign an online register, please visit www.LeskoPolkeFuneralHome.com.

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Published by Connecticut Post from Dec. 4 to Dec. 6, 2009.

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December 6, 2009

I was sorry to hear of Ruth's passing. We had been tennis friends when she played at the Milford Club. She was always gracious and fun to be with. My condolences to her family.

Mary Lou Fenick

Jean Cogguillo

December 6, 2009

I knew Ruth during the System One days and we played tennis together and were friends. Altho we have not seen each other lately I always asked for her when I met someone from her sister's office, Real Estate Two. Beautiful, nice woman.She will be missed.

December 6, 2009

Dear Lee Ann,Terry, & Kim,
Your Mother will always be in our hearts.
Love,
Aunt Laine, Uncle John, & Cousins

December 6, 2009

Dear Ron, Linda & Family,
Our love and prayers.
Elaine & John & Family

The Staff of Lesko-Polke Funeral Home

December 6, 2009

Offering our sympathies at this time.

Mary Sekelsky

December 6, 2009

To the Barber Family and
Ruth's sisters very sorry
to hear ofRuth's passing

December 5, 2009

Kim,
I am so sorry for your loss...you and your family are in my thoughts & prayers.
Sue Stonoha

Tony Melito

December 5, 2009

Linda, Ronnie and the rest of Ruth's family, please accept my condolences on her passing.

December 5, 2009

We are so sorry to hear about your great loss.
Deepest sympathy,
Al and Carolyn Samuelman

December 5, 2009

Dear LeeAnn and Kerry,

Our deepest sympathy in the loss of your mother.

Neal and Michelle

Bob DiStasi

December 5, 2009

To the Barber family,

I am so very sorry to hear of Ruth's passing. I've known Ruth for many years
and I would see her from time to time in several places where I worked.
I bought and sold a condo with Ruth in 2004 and she was a delight to work with.
She treated me to a lovely dinner in Fairfield after the closing. She frequently stopped in to Patrick Bakers to buy St. Joseph statues to sell homes and we shared many family stories.
My sincerest condolences.

Bob DiStasi
Bridgeport, CT

Merton and Dorothy (Sekelsky) Morrell

December 5, 2009

Our deepest sympathy to Ruth's family and her sisters.

Deborah Bobola

December 5, 2009

Caring thoughts are with you all at this difficult time. Wishing you peace and comfort. With heartfelt sympathy...

Karen Donnelly

December 5, 2009

Dear LeAnn,
I am so sorry to hear of you mom's passing. My deepest sympathy to you and your family.

Sue Darcy

December 5, 2009

Terry and Family,
My deepest sympathy to you and your family. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Johnny Ivanko

December 5, 2009

Terry and Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Eileen Judd (Harwood)

December 4, 2009

Kim and Family,

My deepest sympathy to your entire family. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Allison Lashar Cottle

December 4, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Shelley Hira-Wilson

December 4, 2009

Kim & family,
my thoughts & prayers are with you now more than ever.

JACKIE VOCCOLA

December 4, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Lorrie DeAngelis

December 4, 2009

Dear Kim, LeAnne and Linda,

My deepest sympathy on the passing of Ruth. She was a wonderful lady - so strong and determined to make things work out no matter what they were!!!!! Please embrace the memories you all have of her - I know I will always - RIP my good friend.... Kim I am here when you want to talk - just call me...

Much Love,

Love

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