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Steven Hlywa Obituary
Steven Arthur Hlywa (Sleepy) , born on Feb. 6, 1964 ,passed away suddenly on Friday , March 20 ,2015. He was the beloved son of Arthur and Annette Ziomek Hlywa and a great brother to Art and Tom Hlywa. He was the proudest uncle of Alex, Kate ,Mia, and Annika Hlywa . They were his pride and joy , and Mia would like everyone to know that Uncle Steve was her roller-coaster buddy. Steve was employed by the state of Ct. for many years but most recently was working at Slocum and Sons wine and liquor distributor in North Haven, where he developed lifelong friendships. Most importantly, Sleepy was who he was ! He was a farmer, a fisherman, an accomplished golfer and musician. His time was well spent at Schreibers farm in Oxford with his adopted brother Paul and his wife Lyle .He was also a member of the Ct. Hurricanes Drum and Bugle corps for many years . "Walk proud and think of thunder" . He also marched with his father over the years in the Ct. Alumni Drum and Bugle Corps ,and more recently with the Park City Pride Alumni Drum and Bugle corps. Steven is also survived by his cousins Anthony, Adrienne ,Stephanie , Claire and Audrey Ziomek , Uncle Whitey and Aunt Chris , Aunt Nancy , Uncle Rich and Aunt Joan , and his Godmother Frances Tracz (Frania) ,and many other cousins , uncles and aunts. Steven was predeceased too early by his loving godfather Thomas Ziomek and his grandparents Mani and Pop Ziomek , John and Mary Hlywa. Steve's was a life that wasn't his ,but it was a life that was about all the people that he lived to touch! Friends may call on Wednesday from 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. at the Edward F. Adzima Funeral Home, 253 Elizabeth St., Derby. On Thursday, friends are invited to go directly to St. Michael Church, 75 Derby Ave., Derby for his Mass of Christian Burial at 11:00 a.m. The family requests that memorial contributions may be made to St. Michael Church, 75 Derby Ave., Derby CT 06418. Friends may leave condolences at www.adzimadfh.com.
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Memories and Condolences
for Steven Hlywa
George Tamborini
September 24, 2023
Steve, miss you buddy! Came across this pick from when we worked together at DOT in Orange. When we all got together after work to go down to the Yale baseball games...RIP Brother!
Sue & Donny Ward
March 31, 2015
So very sad to hear this news. Steve you will certainly be missed. I have nothing but fond memories of a great guy! To the Hlywa family - peace be with you during this very difficult time. I send you all a very big hug. And Tom, you know I will always care deeply for you and your family. Please accept my deepest sympathy for your loss.
Eric Schreiber
March 29, 2015
We'll all miss you Sleepy. We're still trying to come to terms with your loss but you'll always be in our hearts.
Rich Dziekan
March 28, 2015
Just found out about Steven. Tom and Art in very sorry for your loss.
Chandra Das
March 27, 2015
I wanted to offer my deepest condolences to Steve's family and loved ones.
Jessica Kuncik
March 27, 2015
I am very sorry for your loss. My mother Kathy has wonderful memories and so much love for Steven. I send thoughts and prayers to your entire family at this sad time.
Richard Levine
March 26, 2015
Dear Art & Annette
We were so sorry to hear of the passing of your son Steve. It's surely a parent's greatest heartache. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Love Rich & Kathie Levine
Stephanie Madura-Savery
March 26, 2015
My deepest condolences to all of you. Though we drifted apart as adults, I have fond memories of all the cousins spending time together as children. Tommy--as I told you last night--your words were simply beautiful. Love to you all. Rest in peace dear cousin.
Kathi Lesnick-Grabowski
March 26, 2015
So sorry to hear of Sleepy's passing.
He was the guy everybody knew, and everybody liked.
I'll remember him with a smile.
Walt & Pat Gadsky
March 26, 2015
Art and Annette, we are deeply saddened to hear of the loss of your son Steven. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Jerry Lee Buswell
March 25, 2015
My regards and sincere condolences for your loss. I will keep Steve in my prayers for you. Sincerely Buzzy, Jerry Buswell.
Dolores Rose
March 25, 2015
Artie and Annette: Our thoughts and prayers are with you in the loss of your son. Ray and I have both lost children so we know the road ahead will be tough. We will be thinking of you. Our love to you both. Dolores and Ray Rose
Rich + Paula Dube
March 25, 2015
Sleepy....You gave me memories that will be with for a lifetime.Steve even though the miles separated us you were often talked about in the Dube household.My girls would always talk about my friend who drove them to get pumpkins and ask how you got the name SLEEPY...I told them long story.To the Hlywa family, I am deeply sorry for your loss,you have a great son and brother.I'll miss you Sleepy watch over me from above....Love ya kid!!! Doobs
John & Ann Marie Fisher
March 25, 2015
Our heartfelt condolences to Art, Annette and the Hlywa family. Steve was a co-worker, drum corps brother and trusted friend. May he rest in peace...
Ed and Lauren Yagovane
March 25, 2015
So sorry about Steven's passing. Our thoughts and Prayers are with you all
Russ McGill
March 25, 2015
My condolences to Tom and the Hlywa Family. I am very sorry for your loss.
Anthony Fortunato
March 25, 2015
Very sorry for your loss but find comfort in knowing he is reunited with other loved ones and will rest in peace now and forever. The lord only takes the truly special ones young like my son Dylan he is needed up there more than we need him down here.
The Selick Family
March 25, 2015
R.I.P. Steve (Sleepy) Remembering Good times in Ct.
Jo-Lynn Price
March 25, 2015
Tom,
I am so sorry to hear about your brother. My thoughts and prayers are with you and and your family.
Craig Witzke
March 25, 2015
I am so sorry to hear about the passing of Steve. My deepest sympathies to his whole family. He delievered to my store for many years and I enjoyed seeing him each week. He always had a smile on his face (even on a bad day) and would, without fail, take a minute and chat about whatever. He ended every visit with a "Have a wonderful!" Right back at you, Steve...
March 25, 2015
~~~Love and Light~~~
March 25, 2015
So sorry to hear of your loss. May the peace of God help all of you find your way threough this sad time. Our thoughts & prayers are with you .
Bob Rose & Samantha Bomba
Stanley Bomba Jr.
Rick Baker
March 24, 2015
RIP Sleepy. Condolences to the family.
A Jameson
March 24, 2015
Tom....So sorry for your loss. Steve will be greatly missed.
Anna Jameson
Vincenzo DiNatale
Mario DiNatale
March 24, 2015
Ed Bennett and I are so very sorry for your loss
Nancy Chudoba Bauer
March 24, 2015
So sorry to hear of Steve's passing. May God comfort you in this difficult time
Jack DeRosa
March 24, 2015
My deepest sympathies go out to the Hlywa family for their loss.
May your memories give you peace and comfort.
Walt Skowronski
March 24, 2015
My deepest sympathies go out to the Hylwa family for their loss.
Steve was an enjoyable young man who shared his enthusiasm and love of life with everyone..
mardel james and lucas stochmal
March 24, 2015
I don't know Steve as much as my family does but I know he was a great guy and well loved he lived below us in Derby and I remember him when we went to his brothers for parties I wish the family peace and remember the good times find comfort in knowing we are all there for you
Evelyn Niestemski
March 24, 2015
Tom, I am sorry to hear about your brother. May he rest in peace.
Donna Cadoret
March 24, 2015
I cut Sleepys hair for along time what a good friend.R.I.P. Sleepy
Donna Cadoret
March 24, 2015
I cut Sleepys hair for many years He's gonna be missedR.I.P
David Miccinello
March 24, 2015
Dear "Hlywa Family" may God's grace and peace be with you and yours.
I worked with Steven in Milford as his back up clerk and later we were on the road in Trumbull.Steven was a very patient,meticulous person and dedicated to the department.
We were coworkers and friends,my sincere condolences.
David Miccinello
anthony & susan DaFala
March 24, 2015
sorry for your loss
mike piscioneri
March 24, 2015
sorry for your loss
Michael Martino
March 23, 2015
Sleepy, Your memory and the memories I have stored in my heart will be cherished forever. You touch the lives of the Martino family and we are all better for knowing you for over 40 years. We were friends from a young age, even prior to our arrival in the Carriage Drive neighborhood. We shared many "firsts" in our lives from adolescence, through our teenage years, into adulthood, and I am proud to have had you as another Brother. Remembering many of these events has brought a well deserved smile, followed by many tears. You have left us way to soon, but the impact you had on everyones life will not be forgotten. Sue Ellen and I were honored to have you in our wedding, and could always count on you showing up on cue at the birth of Talia, Julian and Olivia. You got to know Julian well at the farm. He, Brandon and their gang all have fond memories. Personally I could write a long book capturing the fun we always had playing softball, basketball, football, golf and Bocce. For 20 years you were my right hand organizing Thanksgiving Bocce. "The best leadoff man in the game", Stephano Squeezello could always be counted on to be the first arrival, bloody mary's in hand, while starting the fire to keep us all warm. You were priceless in your "Soprano" Gear; matching sweatpants with jet black hair, muscle tee and extra chest hair. Our only triumphant year you styled the Bocce pitch with your light blue leisure suit, wide lapeled yellow short sleeve button down shirt with crimson sweater. At the opening of the Apple Drive coliseum, you strolled down the red carpet carrying yourself like a champion with your oversized Martini glass, spilling nary a drop the entire day. The brown jug was yours for the taking each and every year, but in true fashion you allowed others to bask in the glory from time to time. Those few memories we shared with everyone and we will laugh as we recount them each time we are together. You were a gentle soul who never caused trouble and never hurt anyone. Please look over each of us from heaven, watch out for your nieces and nephew and keep them safe as they navigate this life. Raise your glass with Pop and Uncle Tom as they welcome you to heaven and we will do the same remembering our lives together. Until we see you again, Sleepy. God Bless and I love you.
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