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for Steven Merrihew
John Piro
September 14, 2006
While I had only met your brother (and son) once at the Costa's party during the summer of 2005, I remember him as an energetic, fun loving guy who seemed to bring quite a bit of happiness to those he touched. My prayers are with your entire family and anyone who is close to Steve. I'm sure you recognize how lucky all of you are to have him as one of your angels. While he may not physically be here I'm sure you all realize he is always with each of you each and every moment of every day.
Ellen Jenkins
September 12, 2006
Although it's been years since I've seen Steven, I can still vividly remember him dressed as a Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtle, karate-chopping through the house as a 7 year old. My thoughts are with the whole Merrihew family and all of those that knew Steven.
Tracey Loh
September 12, 2006
To the Merrihew Family, I am sending my deepest sympathies and wishing you strength for the days ahead. I haven't seen you for almost 20 yrs but I have never forgotten any of you. I look back so fondly on all of my days babysitting for Jackie, Christy and Steven. I will never forget little Steven's huge smile, it was truly contagious. Needless to say, my heart broke when I heard the news. I attended his service and was unbelievably moved...I only regret that I never knew Steven, the young man. What I do know is that he was an incredibly special person who touched so many...I really believe we are all better off for having known him, no matter for what length of time it may have been. Steven is now truly an an angel.
September 12, 2006
I did not know Steve by name but when I saw his picture in Starbucks my heart sank. I remember him as such a fun, happy guy who made a great latte. He always knew what I wanted as soon as entered the store. He had such a great smile that would make you feel better when you left. My thoughts are with your family in this time and you are in my prayers. He will be your angel watching over you.
September 11, 2006
I didn't know your son by name, only as the young man who worked at Starbucks and greeted all with his beautiful smile. He treated everyone who walked into the store like he was happy to see them; I was always amazed by this. I am sure you are so proud of him and I hope time helps ease your pain
Christopher Poisella
September 10, 2006
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Michael Levin
September 8, 2006
Dear Annette, Brydon, Jackie and Christy
I am deeply sorry and saddened by your loss. I will remember Steven as someone who was wise beyond his years. He was funny, energetic, and outgoing; in many ways he was like a “little brother” to those who spent time in the Merrihew household. My prayers and thoughts are with all of you in this difficult time.
Roxanne Rivers LaCasse
September 7, 2006
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. You and your family will be in my prayers.
Roxanne LaCasse (Lyman and Jeannine's daughter)
Tom Goddu
September 7, 2006
The Goddus are getting together this weekend and we'll be thinking of you, praying, and shouldering a part of your burden. The search for Meaning seems frustrating right now, but we hope to build on what you and Stephen and God have created. With love,
Rachel Boles
September 6, 2006
I remember working at the Sports Camp at the JCC with Steve. We had a lot of fun and maintained a great friendship throughout high school. He could always put a smile on everyone's face. I send you all my deepest sympathy in this time of sadness.
The Boles Family
September 6, 2006
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. We are so sorry for your loss. With heartfelt thoughts and deepest sympathy.
Debbie, Lanny, Jason, Rachel, and Michelle Boles
Rob Goddu
September 6, 2006
Dear Annette, Brydon, Jackie and Christy - I was in Starbucks in Westport today and saw a beautiful tribute to Stephen on the chalk board and asked about him - and the reaction from the crew there was very touching - and for me, became one of profound shock and sadness. On behalf of all the Goddu's - all around the country - our hearts are with you all. We are deeply sorry and moved by this loss. While very few of us had the privilege to have ever met Stephen, our parents' and family friendship bring childhood memories of Brydon and his siblings; and especially, the Merrihew's infectious love of life that would certainly have been part of Stephen's DNA. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you all. God Bless.
Franklin Menkin
September 6, 2006
Dear Bry, Annette, Jackie, and Christy,
I am deeply sorry for our loss as a family. As you comfort each other, know that Steven will always be alive in our hearts and minds. My thoughts are with all of you.
With love-
your nephew and cousin,
Franklin
September 5, 2006
To the Merrihew family,
Our prayers and thoughts are with you at this difficult time.
Gerry & Sandy Pfannkuch
Lew Lerman
September 5, 2006
All of Jackie's friends and co-workers at Bai, Pollock, Blueweiss & Mulcahey are thinking of and praying for her and her family during this time of sadness.
Noelle Lo Presti
September 5, 2006
Merrihew Family,
My heart was broken when I heard this most tragic news. Why do these things happen to such great people. Steven spoke fondly of his family to me, stating that they were "beautiful people". That touched me. I will miss his energy and smile. Please know that my sincere prayers are with you. He is among the angels.
Peace and respect.
Susan Hurley
September 4, 2006
To the Merrihew family,
My heart is broken to learn the news of your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers during your time of sorrow. I will always remember Stephen as a handome, bright, and lively little boy with a bit of a mischievous streak. My deepest sympathies are with you and your families.
Vivian Cololn
September 4, 2006
Steve lit up a room when he walked in. He will truly be missed by his family, friends, and co-workers at Starbucks. God bless and may you rest in peace.
Erin Macura
September 3, 2006
We have nothing but the fondest memories of Steve as a little boy! Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this difficult time. - The Macura Family (Dennis, Laurel, Kiersten, Erin & Dennis)
David Levin
September 3, 2006
I am so deeply sorry to hear about your loss. I have nothing but fond memories of Steven growing up and spending time in the Merrihew house.
Christy & Jackie, my thoughts are with you and your family. Be strong.
Dan Levin
September 3, 2006
Merrihews:
My deepest condolences go out to you. I remember the times Steve and I hung out growing up. He had a an amazing outlook on life. He had a great heart and was a good friend to all. He will be missed.
Mary Watters
September 2, 2006
I am Mary Watters, I used to be the staff coordinator for "CHEERS" Butler service, where Christy, now Jackie and Steven have worked. I know I can speak for all the office staff and staff who have worked with Jackie and Christy that we offer our condolences and wish the family some peace in their thoughts. What a great kid Steven was and such a fantastic smile! It was my pleasure to have met him. My prayers go out to you.
Michael Marrocco
September 2, 2006
My thoughts and prayers go out to the Merrihew family.
Jennifer Voight
September 1, 2006
Steve had such an infectious smile, he will truely be missed. Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. My deepest condolences.If the future seems overwhelming, remember that it comes one moment at a time.
May the blessings of love be upon you
May its peace abide with you
May its essence illuminate your heart... Now and forever more.
Janet DiPrisco
September 1, 2006
Bry, Annette, Jackie & Christie:
We love all of you and always will. Call anytime any of you need anything. Please!
Home 203-270-6967
Janet work 203-226-1211
Love
Bob & Janet
Eric Michel
September 1, 2006
Our deepest sympathy to you Bry and your family during this difficult time. Steven sounds like he was a very special person.
September 1, 2006
Dear Annette and Family,
We were so saddened to hear about the tragic loss of Steven. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time.
Linda, Craig and Brent Rydin
tonishia sampson
September 1, 2006
You were the type of person that changed people's lives. The world lost a really special person but now you have your place among the angels.
Gina Epifano
September 1, 2006
To the Merrihew family-
Steve was a very close friend to me, and though I couldn't make it to the service this morning, please know that my deepest sympathy goes out to you.
September 1, 2006
It doesn't matter so much how many people you know or what you do for a living, but how you treat people . . . cause it's the little gestures in life that make the people you encounter remember you forever . . . Steve is one of those people that will always be remembered! RIP
Diana Silverstein
September 1, 2006
Steve was an amazing person . . . No matter how I felt walking into Starbucks on a given day that he was working I always had a smile on my face when I left.
Vadim, Veronica, Edward, Emma, Galina, Micheal, and Michelle Zaltsberg/Aptekin
September 1, 2006
To The Merrihew Family. I am deeply sorry for your loss. Steve was the greatest friend any person could ask for, anyone will tell you that. Since the day I met Steve I have had nothing but good memories with him. Steve will never be forgotten, even though he cannot be with us in the physical, he will always be in our hearts, minds and memories.
R.I.P. Steve Andrew Merrihew
Michelle Diamond
September 1, 2006
My deepest sympathy goes out to all of you during such a difficult time. I can remember Steven as a young boy and was so devastated to hear about your loss. Please know that all of you are in my thoughts and prayers.
With love,
Michelle Diamond
John Kichinko
September 1, 2006
Jackie and Christy,
You and your family are in my prayers. I am so sorry I could not be there in person to see you both. May God bless you both as well as your family.I am so glad I had the chance to be so close to Steve during my Trumbull years...
September 1, 2006
Our deepest sorrow and sympathy are with you all. Steve was an incredibly charismatic individual and touched the lives of many. Patrick sends condolences and love to you all as he is in the Air Force and unable to attend. His and our thoughts and prayers are with you all. May God be with you and provide you with strength and courage.
Deborah Trevett, Patrick and Christopher Webster
The MacKeil Family
September 1, 2006
Dear Merrihew Family,
We are sorry to hear of such a tragic loss. Please know that you are in our prayers. We will always keep the memories of young Steven growing up on Edgewood Avenue.
M&E Devore
September 1, 2006
To the Merrihew Family-
We are so saddened by your loss. No words can be of real comfort, but please know we are thinking of you.
Fondly,
Michael & Eileen Devore
Mark MacKeil
September 1, 2006
To the Merrihew family.
Our deepest sorrow and sympathy go out to you at this time of loss.
Your friends.
The Mackeil Family
kristy and ally
September 1, 2006
Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
Kirsten Mason
September 1, 2006
To the Merrihews:
We were so shocked and saddened to hear the news about Steven's accident. We remember him fondly and send our love and support to you all at this time.
Love,
Kirsten, Seth, Hunter, Ethan, and Maddie
Bryan
September 1, 2006
To the Merrihew Family,
I am deeply sorry for your loss, Steve was truly unique and an amazing friend to us all. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Kyle McAuley
September 1, 2006
All of you will be in my thoughts and prayers. I am so sorry this happened to such a wonderful family.
Dawn Guerriero
September 1, 2006
Jackie,
We worked together at Bai Pollock years ago (remember you bought my couches?). I am so sorry to read about your brother, why do these things happen? I pray that God gives you and your family strength to get through this. Take comfort knowing that he will be smiling down on you throughout your entire life, like a guardian angel. My thoughts and prayers are with you Jackie.
Barry Richelsoph
September 1, 2006
No words can express the feelings on a loss such as this. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Gail Merrihew
September 1, 2006
I sit here reading the condolences left by the many people whose lives Steven has touched. He touched many during his short life. The memories will continue to bring a smile to the hearts of those who knew him. May you find comfort and strength through these heartfelt messages during this sorrowful time.My heart goes out to all of you.
Jessica Fahy Quinn
August 31, 2006
Dear Merrihew Family,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Susan Feliciano
August 31, 2006
Our daughter, Melissa, worked with Steve at Starbucks and so I had the opportunity to meet him through her. However short the period of time was that I had known him, I want you to know that my heart is broken by his passing.
The absolute throng of mourners at his wake this evening is testimony to his life --and to you-- his family.
May God bless you in this most difficult time and give you His peace; the same peace that Steve now enjoys.
With loving prayers.
Heather Duckworth
August 31, 2006
I am so sorry for your loss. Steve was an amazing individual who had a great heart. He lived everyday to the fullest always smiling. When I worked with him at the station, he always made me smile no matter what mood I was in. He touched everyone that came into his life, and will be greatly missed. RIP Steve.
The Westport II Starbucks family
August 31, 2006
Our deepest condolences go out to the family and friends of Steve.
We will always remember his beautiful smile, big heart, and all of the good times we had. He was a very special part of our team and will be dearly missed.
Suzette Harris
August 31, 2006
I would like to express my deepest sympathy to the Merrihew Family. May God continue to comfort you in your time of mourning. My thoughts and prayers will be with you always.
laura braverman
August 31, 2006
To the Merrihew family,
Wishing you our deepest sympathies at this most difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Laura and Bruce Braverman
August 31, 2006
i miss you steve :( SM FLEX forever
Gina Manoni
August 31, 2006
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. May God give you strenght in this time of need. Steven will be truely missed.
Our Deepest condolences
The Manoni's, Gina, Doug, John, Nick and Justin
The Staff of Spear-Miller Funeral Home
September 1, 2006
Offering our deepest condolences during this time.
Carissa Heinrich
August 31, 2006
To Annette, Brydon, Jackie and Christy - I am so sorry for your loss. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
With love, Carissa
Jessica Martinelli
August 31, 2006
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Susie Kriewald
August 31, 2006
My thoughts and prayers go out to everyone in the Merrihew family. Steve was a thoughtful, kind individual. I was priviledged to have worked with Steve at Starbucks. He never let a day go by without sharing his incredible smile with everyone he met.
Elyshia Menkin
August 31, 2006
"Those we hold most dear never truly leave us... they live on in the kindnesses they showed, the comfort they shared and the love they brought into our lives."
-Isabel Norton
I am sorry to hear about your loss, you're all in my thoughts.
The Miller Family.
August 31, 2006
Dear Merrihews:
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Lenny, Gale, Todd and Dana Miller
Amy Braverman
August 31, 2006
It is impossible to believe what has happened to Steven. He was my close friend for a long time and such a special person to me. He will always be in my heart. I wish I could be with you at this difficult time. My prayers are with you.
Alana Milazzo
August 31, 2006
I am so sorry for your loss. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Jim,Judy,Lindsay & Stephanie Cooper
August 31, 2006
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the family at the loss of Steven. God Bless
Angela LeMoult
August 31, 2006
I want to send my deepest sympathy to the friends and family of Steve Merrihew. I used to hang out with Steve and he was always a wonderful person. It is a shame tragedies like this occur to good people. God only wants the good. My family and I have gone through a great loss where I gave birth to my stillborn daughter after carrying her for 9 months. I can just imagine the pain Steve's family is going through after having 20 years of memories. At least you do have memories and they will always stay alive. His soul will always stay alive. God bless you all and my heart goes out to you.
With deepest Sympathy,
Angela LeMoult
Kassy Fox
August 31, 2006
My prayers are with the Merrihew Faimly...your son was an amazing person and will never be forgotten...he brought a smile to everyones face...R.I.P. steve and watch down on all of us...although your not here with us...we gained another angel...rest in peace
Sandra Bordash
August 31, 2006
My deepest sympathy to the entire family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Warm Regards,
Sandra Bordash
Paul and Sharon Aiello
August 31, 2006
Our deepest sympathies.
Natasha Clarke
August 31, 2006
I worked with Steve this summer at Congas and he was an incredible person. Always so happy and full of life. I want to send my condelences to the Merrihew family & friends and let you all know that you are in my prayers.
Davina Pollak
August 31, 2006
I am very sorry for your loss. Love you all.
Rachel
August 31, 2006
I am so sorry for your loss.
Heather Liberman
August 31, 2006
May time soften the pain until all that remains is the comfort of your memories and all of the love you share.
With all of our deepest sympathy and love, Ken, Heather, Sarah and Kyle
Jonathan Claydon
August 31, 2006
My condolences and prayers go out to all of you. I have fond memories of Steve as a young boy. May God be with you through this difficult time.
Danielle DelMoro
August 31, 2006
Annette and Family,
My heart aches for you as you mourn the tragic loss of Steven. Though I only knew him for a few short years, I'll never forget his beautiful smile or kind eyes. I know there is nothing I can say or do to ease your pain, but I hope you find comfort in knowing that you're in the thoughts and prayers of everyone that knew him.
With heartfelt sympathy,
Danielle
Ryan Arthur Menkin
August 31, 2006
I am very sorry for your loss, it is horrible to loose someone at such a young age, he is just one year older than me. I wish all of you the best of luck through this.
Tiffany Goulette
August 31, 2006
Our deepest condolences to your family.
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this difficult time.
Steve was a great friend and will be missed.
~Tiffany, Jasmine & Krystal Goulette
Tina Martin
August 31, 2006
Dear Annette, Bry, Jackie and Christie,
It is with heavy hearts we send our love to each of you. There is no making sense of this horrible tragedy. Steven will be dearly missed by all the family. We send you our deepest sympathy and strength during this impossibly difficult time.
Tina and Dano
Kyle Liberman
August 31, 2006
To the Merrihew's..My heart goes out to all of you on this day..I will always remember the days going up with steven and he will be in my heart forever.
Tracy, Chris & Morgan Keating
August 31, 2006
Our hearts are heavy for you. We are so very deeply sorry for the loss of Steven. We are praying for all of you at this most difficut time. You can count on our love and support in the days, weeks and years to come.
Carla George
August 31, 2006
I am deeply sorry for your loss...
Carla George (a.k.a Menkin)
Jess Fraioli
August 31, 2006
I am so sorry for your loss and my thoughts and prayers go out you. I will be trying to get home to attend, if I can not get there Christy please call when you feel up to it 516-993-0809. Again I am so sorry.
Margie,Wayne,Michael, David and Daniel Levin
August 31, 2006
May your family be blessed with cherished memories of Steven, your beloved son and brother.
Aggie and Don Nelson
August 31, 2006
May your many beautiful memories of Steven give you comfort at this most difficult time.
With heartfelt sympathy,
Cheryl Gould
August 31, 2006
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Cheryl, Sarah and Renee Gould
Elisabet Cerquozzi
August 31, 2006
My hearts go out to the Merrihew Family... I had spent one week with Steve this Summer for vacation. He was such an awesome individual, so ambitious and motivated. I am especially grateful that I had the honor to meet Steve along with the vibrant energy and character that he displayed. Defiantly, ONE of a Kind!... My deepest condolences and sympathy. He will be greatly missed. RIP...
Thomas Rubino
August 31, 2006
My prayers are with Steve and the Merrihews. I am so sorry for your loss. This is a terrible tragedy. Steve was a great friend and will not be forgotten.
Lexi Del Valle
August 31, 2006
My deepest condolences to your family. Steve was an amazing person, and will forever be in my heart, and my prayers.
Always,
Jessica Falcon
August 31, 2006
To the Merrihews.
Steve is an unforgettable person. His memory will linger forever in our hearts and thoughts. We will miss him like no other. My prayers go out to your family and friends.
Joe LaChance CT School of Broadcasting
August 31, 2006
We are very sorry to hear about the loss, our sympathy goes out to the Family. Steve was one of a kind, he will be missed.
Jaime Cahill
August 31, 2006
I'm am very sorry for your loss. Steve was an amazing person and a good friend. He will never be forgotten.
ashley & paul
August 31, 2006
My condolences go out to The Merrihew Family:
I am so sorry for your loss. Steve was an amazing person who will be deeply missed by everyone who was lucky enough to be apart of his life. He will never be forgotten. He will live in our memory forever.
SM FLEX:
your in a better place now. Dont stop freestyling. I wanna hear you from above.. Rest In Peace
Laura Wicklund
August 31, 2006
Jackie and Family - My deepest sympathy. Please know you are in my prayers.
Laura Wicklund
Sarah Vigneron
August 31, 2006
Our hearts are heavy as we contemplate why this tragedy happened to Steve. We will always remember him as the wonderful young man that he was. He will live on in all our hearts and minds forever.
with love, his uncle Andy, aunt Sarah, cousins, Kelly and Blair
ashley
August 31, 2006
you will live in everyone's heart and through the music we hear till the end of time.. Your in a better place now. God Bless You SM FLEX and your family.
Joe LaChance & Ct School of Broadcasting
August 31, 2006
Our thoughts go out to the family. Steve was one of a kind. He will be missed
August 31, 2006
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
The Gould Family
Lisa Schrimmer
August 31, 2006
We are so sorry for your loss. Our hearts and thoughts are with you and your family.
The Schrimmers - Lisa, Bruce, Adam, Annie and Bryan
Terry Kalfus
August 31, 2006
Dear Annette & family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time. We know there are no words that can bring you comfort. May your sweet memories of Steven sustain you.
Fondly,
Terry and Randy Kalfus & family
Eric, Rita
August 31, 2006
To the Merrihew family,
I am very sorry for your lost. We would like to send our condolences.
Anna Marini
August 31, 2006
My thoughts and prayers are with you all. I am so sorry I can not be there. God bless.
Brian Gittings
August 31, 2006
With our Deepest sympathy, our hearts go out to all the family.
Brian Gittings & Sean Miller
yvonne poster
August 31, 2006
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this difficult time. Steven will always live on in the hearts of those who have loved him....all our love..Yvonne, Donny, JeanMarie, Donny Jr and Jamie
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