Search by Name

Search by Name

Timothy J. Lewis

1966 - 2024

Timothy J. Lewis obituary, 1966-2024, Westport, CT

BORN

1966

DIED

2024

FUNERAL HOME

Harding Funeral Home

210 Post Road East

Westport, Connecticut

Timothy Lewis Obituary

Timothy J. Lewis
July 17, 1966 - July 27, 2024
Tim Lewis, 58, of Westport, CT, passed away peacefully on July 27th from complications of cancer, surrounded by his adoring family. He is survived by his cherished wife of 23 years Alisyn, his twin daughters Ale and Cessa, his son Nate, his parents Karen and Stan, his sister and brother, Catherine and John, their spouses, Alex and Suzanne, his nieces Sadie, Zoe, Sasha, nephew Eli, and his brother-in-law Andrew. Tim was a true gentleman and scholar, virtues that were apparent anytime anyone discussed politics or world issues with him.
Tim loved his Kansas City roots, returning often to watch his beloved Chiefs with his high school friends, reveling in childhood stories of playing D&D, Risk, and all you can eat taco nights. In high school, Tim was part of a multitude of cliques and clubs: playing clarinet in the orchestra, singing in the chorus, joining the swim team, and starting as center on the football team, as they went to States in 1984. At Yale University, Tim's knack for accumulating tight-knit friends continued, thanks to his genuine curiosity, warm smile and raucous laugh. To experience one of Tim's frequent belly laughs was pure delight. At Yale, Tim was a proud member of the a cappella singing group, the Spizzwinks, a talent that his family both admired and teased him for. His singing tradition continued into adulthood and was on full display at annual family Christmas caroling and birthday parties, during which Tim still belted out a booming bass line.
Tim had a deep commitment to community service, established during his childhood while canvassing for his mother's election to the Kansas City School Board in the midst of a heated battle over desegregation. After college, living in Washington, DC with friends, Tim would often peel away at night to volunteer at a local homeless shelter. More recently Tim served as the Westport Soccer Commissioner for 4 years (a fulltime job in itself). He coached soccer and basketball for his kids' teams, served on the St. Luke's Board of Directors for their school, and volunteered with Social Impact Partners of CT. Tim gave generously to many educational and scholarship funds, so other kids could have the advantages he and his children did. Tim's unique touch was connecting with people from all walks of life and with all points of view. He firmly believed in and practiced the art of civil discourse, even in these divided times.
After graduating from Kellogg School of Management, Tim had a long, successful career in private equity and business consulting. Tim served as a Principal at the The Keystone Group, followed by CRG Partners, and Atlantic Street Capital before joining Southfield Capital where he was a Partner for nearly ten years.
But nothing topped his devotion to his family. Alisyn, Ale, Cessa and Nate were his top priorities. He loved them deeply, actively and tirelessly. Tim was famous for coordinating play-dates, soccer schedules, date night, violin and drum lessons, all while ordering fall clothing for the kids (often to their chagrin) and making high-stakes work conference calls. He was a memory-making mastermind, relentless in his pursuit of family time through neighborhood walks, vacation hikes, and beach days in Nantucket. He particularly cherished their family trips, from Northampton to Sedona, Machu Picchu to the Galapagos Islands, Italy, Scotland and beyond. Even if it was just sitting at the kitchen table playing Yatzee or doing puzzles, being with his wife and kids was the life experience Tim most valued and a lasting legacy his family will continue.
In Tim's honor, please consider a donation to https://letswinpc.org/in-memory-of-tim-lewis/
which offered hope and ideas throughout Tim's challenge, as well as the Whittingham Cancer Center of Norwalk, whose doctors and nurses provided comfort to Tim every day.
https://www.nuvancehealth.org/services-and-treatments/cancer-care/support-cancer-care
A memorial service for Tim will be held on August 17, 2024, at 2:00 p.m.at the Saugatuck Congregational Church in Westport, CT, 245 Post Road East. Reception to follow at the church.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Connecticut Post on Aug. 2, 2024.

Memories and Condolences
for Timothy Lewis

Sponsored by Harding Funeral Home.

Not sure what to say?





Joe Huyett (Dan)

June 16, 2025

Tim and I spent a lot of our childhood together. God bless you, Tim. Good memories.

Single Memorial Tree

Daphne Murray Butler

Planted Trees

Brenda McCullough

January 11, 2025

Alisyn & Family
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Cheweeta Richardson

December 15, 2024

My heartfelt sympathy to family. Your husband and dad and son was such a kind person no matter what I will always remember how kind he treated people.

Debbe Makowski

November 30, 2024

Alisyn,
I have followed you for years, just came across this story.
In 2008 my husband thought he had an appendix attack. He died of pancreatic cancer nine months later at 54. I feel your pain, more must be done for early detection of this most lethal cancer.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Jeff Alvis

October 30, 2024

Hi, Alisyn and family:

Andie and I are so sorry for your loss. It was a blessing to have worked with Tim for several years and become friends. He was an amazing guy and will surely be missed by many. What a great legacy he left for your children. May God bless you all as you mourn Tim´s passing while celebrating his full life.

Dr. Angel L Salaman

October 22, 2024

So sorry for your lost. I've been follow you in CNN since I moved to the states from Puerto Rico. My condolences to you, your kids, family and friends...

Veronica Richardson

October 22, 2024

So sorry I know I missed Alyssn on CNN and didn't know where she was I'm so sorry my prayers are with you all.

Shirley simser

October 14, 2024

So sorry for your loss

Marion Baudoux

October 14, 2024

sorry for the loss of your special and greatly loved husband, father and community participant

Sari Gordon and Marc Hildebrand

October 13, 2024

I just read about this . We admire Ms
Camerota tremendously and have loved her reporting on CNN. We miss you very much and you have our heartfelt condolences.

Nutan Patel

October 12, 2024

Such an extraordinary human being shared by his wife Alisyn. May shared memories bring comfort during this difficult time. May his memory be a blessing.

Yale Spizzwinks

September 23, 2024

Tim Lewis - for Spizzwink Newsletter
By John Englander and Charlie Lord
September 22, 2024
They are the guys who are more important to the group than our pitchpipes or tour managers. More foundational and integral than our best soloists or the most musically gifted among us. They are the special ones who everyone refers to with four simple words: "What a great guy." The ones who are miraculously able to get along with everyone; the ones about whom not even the cattiest among us would think to utter an ill word; the ones whose big smiles light up our rehearsal space; the ones who unabashedly love the friendship and camaraderie - and never take for granted the pinch-yourself privilege - of being part of a group of friends who also happen to be able to fill a space with beautiful harmonies. (No doubt you are picturing in your mind´s eye right now one or two of these guys from your own Spizzwink years.) Guys who are the heart and soul of our singing groups. They are the ones, who, decades later, conjure up our most cherished, joyful memories of times together; of friendship.
Tim Lewis was that guy. Simply to know him and to have been able to call him your friend is a blessing, and those of us lucky enough to be members of that club will cherish it for the rest of our days. And he was a great friend throughout his life, staying in touch, sharing ideas, making certain to see his friends when he came to town and always reminding us how much we mattered to him. He also never failed to reach out when his beloved Chiefs or Royals beat a New York or Boston team.
Tim led an accomplished business life in private equity and consulting. He brought his brilliant business mind and expert relational skill sets - his remarkable ability to connect with all types of people - to his work. He was respected and admired by his colleagues.
But Tim´s greatest and most cherished role - and the one he excelled in even more masterfully than in his career - was that of father to twin daughters Ale and Cessa, and son Nate, and husband to his wonderful wife of 22 years, Alisyn Camerota. Alisyn has had a long, successful career as a broadcast journalist and political commentator. Her jobs often demanded that she leave the house each weekday at 3:30am. Tim, therefore, was the one who most often got the kids ready for school, dealt with carpools to sports and rehearsals, coached their teams, scheduled their playdates, helped with homework. And, he absolutely loved it. Like everything else Tim Lewis did, he did it really well.
When Tim was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer, he approached it with strength and pragmatism. He only had one item on his bucket list for whatever time remained for him: to spend as much time as he could living a "normal" life with his family - to fit in as many precious moments as possible, connecting authentically as a father and a husband. And of course, he did this as he had always done: with integrity, joy, competence, and a huge smile.
All of us who were lucky enough to be part of Tim Lewis´ circle will forever miss that million-dollar smile, his friendship, passion, and kindness.

Mark

September 22, 2024

I had the privilege of having Tim on one of my flights. I'm a crew member for major airline. He was very nice to myself and my crew. Sorry for your loss. Mark C.

Elizabeth and Tim Franson

September 22, 2024

We are so sorry for your loss.
Praying for you all.
Tim and Liz Franson

wayne jackson

September 22, 2024

Did not have the pleasure of meeting this man only watching his wife on TV: but what a Guy and True Gentleman. I'm just regular guy sending this message have seen this information on the internet...I would add that it makes my time Serving in the Marine Corp--and getting 2 Purple Hearts in Vietnam worth it knowing that guys like Tim put so much good in the World..I'm really really sorry this Hero is gone...wayne Jackson/ Lansing-Michigan...

Sarah

September 22, 2024

I´m so sorry for your loss. May God comfort you and give you peace forever and ever.

Regina Shorter

September 21, 2024

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Ernie Hughes

September 21, 2024

I've lost so many in my family to this dreaded disease, 3 aunts and an uncle to pancreatic cancer. I myself have Chronic pancreatitis and risk of cancer. I pray for his family, I have seen the pain of pancreatic cancer, my hope is one day there is a cure found.

Catherine and Rudolph Fiorillo

September 21, 2024

Such a beautiful person as shared with us from his wife.
God bless his family and may all remember his wonderful contributions to life.

Neal Hugh

September 21, 2024

Very very sorry.

leslie mcneill

September 21, 2024

Tim will be singing in heaven with a fellow spizzwinks, from the Yale class of '67.... may angels harps. welcome you...bless your family...family of Doug McNeilll

Sandra Cambra

September 21, 2024

My deepest condolences to you Alisyn and family on your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers. May God be with you now and in all your days and give you peace and strength. Sandra Cambra PhD, CNN viewer

Ruby Gomez

September 21, 2024

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Trish Little, a CNN fan from Park Ridge, IL

September 21, 2024

I did not know Tim, but I´m aware if his well-known wife on CNN. I read Tim´s obituary a few times, and was left inspired by his amazing participation in "life". Condolences to his family. Stay strong Alison-you can do this with your 3 children and 23 years of memories with Tim.

Michael and Pam Wood

September 20, 2024

My wife and I never met Tim but had the privilege of knowing Alisyn. We are saddened by her families lose.
Prayers to the family.

Group of 10 Memorial Trees

Agassi family

Planted Trees

Susan Patton

August 19, 2024

Tim was truly a special man and I send condolences to his family and networks of close friends. We were in St Elmo´s together at Yale and I have wonderful memories from his supportive spirit during vulnerable bio nights to more rambunctious times around the pool table. Although he preceded me at Kellogg, he was kind enough to mentor me through my consulting job search.

The picture his family chose for this site captures him so well. He was honest, wise beyond his years, playful, generous with his time and had such a calm curiosity about him. He always made me feel like a million bucks, even if we hadn´t talked for years. His spirit will forever be a blessing.

Cluster of 50 Memorial Trees

Craig and Lindsay Melvin

Planted Trees

Erin Kelly

August 15, 2024

I'm so sad I won't be able to attend Tim's memorial. We are flying our son to college that day. Tim was such an important person for me. We met when we were 15 at a Missouri high school leadership conference. He introduced himself, asking if I was a cheerleader. I bristled. Tim pivoted, saying he played football. Oh, boy, I thought, being narrow-minded.
I certainly wasn't prepared for the wildly intelligent, warm, thoughtful, and multi-dimensional friend Tim would become. He'd laugh about our first meeting, signing his letters "Biff Studley." He'd talk passionately about his mom's work on the KC school board. He'd talk about his dad's art. And when we both ended up at Yale, he became a goofy, warm, and fun brother figure to me and my three roommates. He'd drop by to hang out, or to do one of his funny but never unkind imitations of one of us, or to ask quietly if a tough situation had improved. You go through life looking for people who are touchstones. Tim was one of my first. My heart breaks for his family. His light was just so bright.

Eternal Affection Arrangement- BASKET INCLUDED

Brian Gallagher

Sent Flowers

Single Memorial Tree

Iris Rosken

Planted Trees

Michael Landsman

August 11, 2024

I was fortunate enough to have met Tim a few days after our twin daughters were born in March 2005. We maintained a friendship over the past 19 years. Tim was a consummate gentlemen, model father and friend. I admired his extraordinary ability to manage a successful business and demanding family life. He also managed to exercise every day and grill with the best of them. His quick wit and superior intelligence ensured our meals and other gatherings over the years were always interesting and memorable. He was also game for new dining adventures even when that meant a brief detour to gluttony such as the epic meal we shared years ago at Daniel. Godspeed Tim. I hope our paths cross again in the afterlife.

Delia Boylan

August 1, 2024

As I will very sadly not be able to attend Tim's memorial, I thought I would share some memories here instead.

There are friends you forever associate with a particular period in your life. even though you've known them for decades. Although I first met Tim when we were both still in college, it was the years we spent together in Chicago, along with my husband Lloyd, that remain etched forever in my memory. Along with Ted Keim, Michael Willrich and later on - Marielle (Ted's wife), Wendy (Michael's wife) and others - our merry band of friends spent countless hours in our mid to late 20's running around the city drinking, talking and laughing.

Most weekends, we met up at The Bongo Room for brunch, back when it was still a hole in the wall in Wicker Park. Evenings, we could often be found at The Athenian Room in Lincoln Park. Tim and Lloyd adored the Taramasalta and the Kalamata chicken. I still remember vividly the night Tim introduced us all to a beautiful and sharp journalist he'd begun dating at a dark bar with pool tables somewhere on the North Side. Alisyn joined right in with the group was an instant hit with all of us.

I'm including a photo of Lloyd and Tim taken together at a Paris cafe during a long weekend in 1999 when we all flew over for Ted and Marielle's wedding. This photo hangs in the hallway of our home in London. What I love most about this shot - in addition to Lloyd's full head of dark hair - is the way Tim is studying the menu, almost certainly while carrying on a conversation about international affairs with Lloyd. He was endlessly curious. Since his diagnosis, Ted, Marielle, Tim, Alisyn, Lloyd and I talked about reprising that Paris trip one of these days. Alas, we never got there.

Tim was smart, vibrant, funny and a delight to spend time with. We loved his laugh - how it would sometimes extend a beat longer than you expected - because he found something particularly surprising or mirthful. Lloyd and I are filled with sorrow for his loss. But also with gratitude. As Lloyd put it,"Having known Tim, having been his friend, was such a privilege. He made me a better human, and he will always, always, be with me."

Rest in peace Tim. We'll always have Paris.

Group of 10 Memorial Trees

Foster and Amy McKeon

Planted Trees

Group of 10 Memorial Trees

Ken and Gretchen Sheirr

Planted Trees

Joe (Dan) Huyett

July 31, 2024

I was a close friend of Tim's throughout elementary school. I was one of the D&D and Risk players in many games with him through our childhood. I knew his parents, his brother and sister well. I was at their house frequently as a child. His father instilled in me a love for art, specifically charcoal drawing which I took up in college, always remembering his patient teaching. I also played in the orchestra with him in high school. I loved it the obituary described him as, "a gentleman and scholar". That was Tim, even as a child. He was polite, well-mannered, sensitive and deeply intelligent. He was also quite humble and shunned the lime light. He was a good man, physically strong yet always had a gentle heart. He will be missed by many. The world needs more like him.

Showing 1 - 37 of 37 results

Make a Donation
in Timothy Lewis's name

Memorial Events
for Timothy Lewis

Aug

17

Memorial service

2:00 p.m.

Saugatuck Congregational Church

245 Post Road East, westport, CT 06880

Funeral services provided by:

Harding Funeral Home

210 Post Road East P.O. Box 321, Westport, CT 06880

How to support Timothy's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor Timothy Lewis's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more