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Vonda Bennings Obituary

BENNINGS Vonda K. Bennings, age 39, of West Haven, died at home on Monday, April 26, 2004. She was born on December 23, 1964, in Derby, daughter of Moses and Roberta Gatison Douglas of West Haven. She graduated with honors from UConn with a bachelor of science degree in design resource management. She worked as manager of sales development for the past four years at Imagistics of Trumbull, a division of Pitney Bowes Office Systems, and worked part time as a model. She had formerly worked for Dictaphone Corp. of Stratford. She was a member of the Living Word Ministries of West Haven, and was formerly a member of the Macedonia Baptist Church of Ansonia. In addition to her loving parents, Moses and Roberta, she is survived by her daughter, Amber K. Bennings; and two brothers, Bryan G. Douglas of Ansonia, and Curtis D. Douglas of Woodbridge. Funeral services will be held on Monday at 10 a.m. from the Macedonia Baptist Church, 243 Pershing Drive, Ansonia. Burial will follow in Pine Grove Cemetery, Ansonia. Friends may call on Sunday from 6 to 8 p.m. at church. In lieu of flowers, donations in Vonda‚s memory may be made to the church. The Jenkins-King Funeral Home, 12 Franklin Street, Ansonia, is entrusted with arrangements.

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Published by Connecticut Post on May 1, 2004.

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Jennyfer Holmes

May 25, 2004

We continue to pray for your family daily.



Love,

Danielle and Jennyfer Holmes

Marsha Diggs

May 15, 2004

My deepest sympathies to the family of Vonda Bennings and her daughter Amber. May you find strength and courage in prayer and love. I am a friend of your Aunt Barbara.

Pat Scott-Pujol

May 13, 2004

To the family of Vonda Bennings and Amber, I am so sorry for your loss; you have my deepest symphathy and I will keep you all in my prayers. I am a high school mate of Vonda's aunt, Barbara.

Al-lyce James

May 11, 2004

To the family of Vonda Bennings and her daughter, Amber, I am sadden to hear about your mother. Always remember that she will be with you. Hold fast to your memories of hear. I am wishing you love and peace.

Frankie & Erica Bradley

May 11, 2004

Uncle Moses, Aunt Roberta, Amber, Bryan and Curtis: A friend of ours sent a card that expressed such a true sentiment: We are mourning our tremendous loss, but Heaven is celebrating its tremendous gain. Vonda was such a gem. She was so much more than a cousin, she was a great friend. I will always love and miss her. Please know that we love you all and will continue to pray for Gods strength and healing. Vonda's light will continue to shine in her beautiful daughter, Amber. She is such a blessing. As you take care of Vonda's little girl, my mom, Auntie Jerry, will take care of your little girl.

Love, Frankie & Erica

Nelson J. Gatison

May 11, 2004

To Moses, Roberta, Bryan & Curtis,



Vonda was a precious gift, not only to you but to the rest of the family and all of those who knew her. She also left a gift (Amber) as well as very warm memories, which we will always cherish. May God bless and strengthen you in our collective loss.



Love,

Nelson

Gail Bain

May 10, 2004

To the Family of Vonda Bennings,



I was so sorry to hear of your loss. May you have peace and comfort in the knowledge that Vonda is with God. And, may the life of Amber bring you great joy.



May God be with you as you journey through these troubled times; and know that the prayers of family, friends and well wishers will be there to support you.



Sincerely,

Karen & Mallory Gatison

May 10, 2004

Dear Uncle Moses, Aunt Roberta, Amber, Bryan & Curtis~



We pray that the wonderful memories you have of Vonda will never fade and that God will continue to strengthen you. Vonda will be missed by all of us who knew and loved her; and know that her light will continue to shine bright in Amber.



With Love,

Karen & Mal

Kenneth & Martha Tavares

May 8, 2004

Our deepest sympathy to Vonda Benning's family. This is such a tragic loss. May God provide you with the strength to get thought this very difficult time.



Our prayers are with you.

Lynda Gervig

May 7, 2004

To The family of Vonda Bennings:

Although we have never met, I am a good friend of your Aunt Barbara, Uncle Len, and LG. Your entire family is in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time. Please take some comfort in knowing that many people hope that in time you will find peace in the memories of Vonda. And that, the love you receive from Amber brings you all comfort.

Ann Louis

May 7, 2004

My Deepest sympathy to the families of Vonda Bennings and to Amber.

I pray that God will provide all of you the Strength to get through this tragic loss.

I worked with Vonda at Dictaphone Corp. and have wonderful memories of her.

I will keep all of you in prayers.

Ann Louis

Dictaphone Corp.

Sina Okeke

May 7, 2004

Vonda you came into my life for a season. You brought me laughfter, joy, love, and peace. I will always have fond memories of the wonderful times we shared here @ Dictaphone. I will miss you very much my dear Sister.

You are in the best of hands now.

God bless you and your families.



Peace and Love always,



Sina Okeke

Mary Ann Comey

May 7, 2004

To the Douglas family and Amber, May beautiful memories give you strenght at this difficult time. Vonda, was a beautiful person, I will always remember her beautiful smile.

Susan Carbine

May 7, 2004

Dear Mr. and Mrs. Douglas and Amber,



Please accept my sincerest and most heartfelt sympathy for the loss of our beautiful Vonda.



She was my dearest friend and has been in my thoughts every day. Her laughter, companionship and insightfulness will be missed by many. Those people lucky enough to have known her and be her friend have truly been blessed.



May the Lord watch over you and provide you comfort during this time.



Love,



Susan

Donna Knight

May 7, 2004

May the family remain strong during these dark hours. With God's grace there will be light. Bless you all.

Linda Day

May 6, 2004

To the entire family of Vonda K. Bennings, please accept my condolences for your tragic loss.

My prayers are for you and may God help you through the times ahead. Take joy in Amber for she is your link to Vonder.



With Best Regards

Linda,

Barbara Gatison's Sister

Gail and Victor Jackson

May 6, 2004

Dear Amber, Aunt Roberta, Uncle Moses, Bryan and Curtis,



No words can express our sadness. Please know that Vonda will always live on in our hearts and minds. Amber is a wonderful testament to Vonda's goodness. We hope she always remembers how much her Mommy loves her.



May you find comfort in the Lord and joy in your memories.

Damon Gatison

May 6, 2004

My prayers and support are with the entire family. Aunt Roberta and Uncle Moses, you raised a beautiful daughter in Vonda and she's always been a great cousin. Her memory lives on in our hearts and through Amber. If I can ever do anything to ease even 1% of your pain, never hesitate. In loving memory of Mama and Papa G., Aunt Gerri, Uncle Nate, and Vonda.

Kelsie mattox

May 5, 2004

To Roberta, Moses, Bryan, Curtis & Amber:



I relooked at the videotape I have of Debra & Donald's wedding and saw beautiful pictures of Vonda dancing, laughing and enjoying herself. These memories will stay with me and I'll cherish them. She was (is) a beautiful person.



Love Aunt Kelsie

Shirley Bolden

May 5, 2004

To the family,

May the memories of joy and happiness that Vonda bought to so many fill your hearts' and minds' at this time. With God's guidance, this will become Amber's endearing legacy. Peace of God be with you.

Rashida Bumbray

May 5, 2004

May god's mercy be with the entire family in this very difficult time of grief and sadness. To Vonda's parents and to Amber, know that your daughter and mother can still watch over you and help you now that she has joined the ancestors and is with God.

Maritza Myers

May 5, 2004

Dear Amber,

My family and I have asked the creator to watch over you as you grow older, and to help you to understand that time and the love of family [and the kind thoughts of a great many strangers] will help you to heal.

Maritza Myers

Lisa Marie White

May 5, 2004

Dear Amber:

I went to high school with your Aunt Barbara (many years ago), but we remain very dear friends. My deepest sympathy on your loss. I hope you have a wonderful life despite your loss and I know you will have as many friends as your mother and Aunt Barbara. Your friends will see you through the hard times and share the joyful times with you. Cherish your life, your family and your friends.

Yolanda Sabio

May 5, 2004

My prayers are with the family. Remain confident that He will comfort you and supply ALL your need.

Charmaine Jefferson-Johnson

May 4, 2004

Deepest symphathies from the Johnson family to the family of Vonda K. Benning. Our prayers go out to you in your time of loss and especially to daughter Amber. Your mother will always be with you.



The Johnson Family

Sherry Bellamy

May 4, 2004

To the entire family, especially to Amber. I am very sad to hear about your tragic loss and you are all in my prayers. May God give you the strength to go on, the blessing to keep the faith and the love to hold you together. Know that your loved one is with him and that she is watching over you.

Pat Jordan

May 4, 2004

I am a friend- we say "sistah-friend" - of your Aunt Barbara Gatison, and although we have never met one another I am your sister, too. Please accept my most sincere condolences at this most difficult time. I will continue to pray for your family.

LINDA & DONNA MARGANSKI

May 3, 2004

DEAR MR. & MRS DOUGLAS AND FAMILY



DONNA AND I(THE TWINS) WENT TO SCHOOL WITH VONDA SINCE KINDERGARTEN. WE WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER VONDA WITH HER CUTE PONYTAILS,BEADS AND SMILING FACE. MY MOM REMEMBERS HER COMING TO OUR HOUSE TO PLAY ON VOSE STREET. YOUR FAMILY WAS ONE OF OUR BEST CUSTOMERS WHEN WE DELIVERED THE EVENING SENTINEL. WITH FOND MEMORIES OF VONDA AND ALL OF YOU DURING OUR CHILDHOOD YEARS WE, THE MARGANSKI FAMILY, EXTEND OUR DEEPEST SYMPATHY. GOD BLESS YOU ALL DURING THIS TIME AND GOD BLESS LITTLE AMBER.

JONI SMITH

May 3, 2004

"My heartfelt sympathy to Brian and his entire family." God is able to keep you through this trying time. Hold on to his hand and keep your faith. It won't be easy but, God will NEVER, let you down. You will gain strength that you never knew you had. Be strong for your Mom and Dad, and especially your neice. "My prayers are with you all, everyday. " Love you, Your friend, Joni

dervalle gandy

May 3, 2004

moses, roberta, brian, curtis and amber:our(myself, michele and kyle) heart felt sympathy is espressed to you at this time. Know that Vonda is resting in the arms of the lord.

Arlene Morrell

May 3, 2004

To my good friend. I will miss you very much and I will always remember your smile. You are beautiful inside and out . I'm so glad we remained friends after Dictaphone. Always making time for me and just so full of life. See you friend when its time for me to leave this earth. May God give you eternal rest and peace.

Ruth Rupani

May 3, 2004

My thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this very difficult time.



a friend from Dictaphone Corp

Monica and Victoria Martinez

May 1, 2004

Some people become friends and stay awhile, leaving beautiful footprints on our hearts and now we are never quite the same because we have lost a great friend. We love and Miss you Vonda.(We'll Always be here for you Amber.) God Bless you.

The Martinez Family.

May 1, 2004

Mr.and Mrs.Douglas and with special prayers for Amber, Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family,We will cherish Vonda's memories for ever, rest in peace our dear friend. Cris, Judy, Monica and Victoria.

Lynn Craska

May 1, 2004

I knew Vonda since 1990. She was my friend and former co-worker. We worked together at Dictaphone for 8 years and continued to stay in touch. Words cannot express what I am feeling right now. It is just shocking and tragic. I will miss her smiling face and beauty both inside and out. She was a wonderful person, a cherished friend, a devoted and loving mother, and dedicated professional. She will be missed by so many people.

Barbara Gatison

May 1, 2004

Moses, Roberta, Bryan, Curtis and Amber -



Our hearts and prayers are with you as you grieve the loss of Vonda. A beautiful daughter, sister, mother, niece and cousin, she will be missed. May you have some comfort in knowing that she is now in God's care and under the wings of Mama G. and Aunt Gerri.



All our love,

Len, Barbara & LG

Elena Mckoy

May 1, 2004

Vonda; My dear sister in Christ Jesus, I will deeply miss you here at Living Word Ministries. I'll miss your warm presence;your beautiful smile along with the gifts that you willingly gave to our children,here at Living Word Ministries. Your church family will miss you deeply, but will see you again in Glory. My condolences to all family members. May you know God's peace that will comfort your hearts and His strength that will help you through it all. To Amber; I uphold you before the Lord our God who shall keep thee in all thy ways to protect,guide,deliver and restore you all the days of your life. May you always know and feel the Father's burning love Amber....I love you; We love you, your family in Christ Jesus here at Living Word Ministries.



Elena Mckoy

ROBIN EDMONDS-SILVA

May 1, 2004

2 CORINTHIANS 1:3 (NIV) (PRAISE BE TO THE GOD AND FATHER OF OUR LORD JESUS CHRIST, THE FATHER OF COMPASSION AND THE GOD OF ALL COMFORT). TO ROBERTA AND MOSES, I AM DEEPLY SADDENED TO HEAR OF YOUR DEVASTATING LOSS, AND SEND MY HEART FELT CONDOLENCES TO THE ENTIRE FAMILY. RELY ON GOD'S WORD AND PROMISES FOR STRENGTH AND COMFORT. SINCERELY, ROBIN EDMONDS-SILVA AND FAMILY.

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