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Valari Garcia
December 12, 2011
Benjamin....I know you're the Angel watching over you Mom.
You were the light of her life. Keep the light going by watching her from the edge of your cloud guy :)
Steven Tran
December 7, 2011
Happy Birthday 36th Ben! Your soul and spirit are always with us. Love to listen to our favorite music growing up. Feels like you are right there with us. We love and miss you so much.
Steven and Erica
Yang Dave
December 7, 2011
Sometimes when I'm making music with guitar in hand, I feel you watching over me.
Happy Birthday my friend, my best friend.
December 7, 2011
Happy Birthday my son love you miss you still everyday
Shelley Williams
October 28, 2008
Patty,
I came across this heartbreaking news while searching online for you. I can't begin to express how sad I am for you and for the Ben that I missed knowing. You are in my thoughts often.
Your friend always,
Shelley
Tyler Mezin
October 26, 2008
I have just learned of Bens passing and I am very shocked and sad. I knew Ben in our teenage years and I had some crazy times with him. I spent many mornings surfing ave e with him, spearfishing in kelp beds along pv, creating huge fires with gasoline on his back patio made of wood. Through all the memories that I have of Ben in every one he is smiling, laughing, and having a good time. I want to be more llike Ben. Aloha buddy, I'll miss you in this life.
patricia dragich
December 6, 2007
happy happy birthday baby
i love you and miss you more than i can say i sent an angel to be with you today or was that angel for me
Anonymous
July 16, 2007
Benjamin:
Your Mom is still very sad as are we all but particularly bad for her. Mom has decided to leave the area, please watch over her.
mom
April 26, 2007
baby i miss you sooooo much today as i do everyday but i know i really know are still taking care of me
the mulligan's
April 10, 2007
patricia:
our family is truly saddened by your tragic loss.
you have been in our thoughts and our hearts.
Kreg McMahon
March 30, 2007
Patricia,
Only new ben for awhile doing tile jobs, what a tragic loss. I know that when I see you at joes I am asking you if any of the old timers have passed, not thinking of the young and full of life.
Kreg (Honey-Do Handyman)
Alex Burback
March 22, 2007
Patricia and Ben
I want to thank you two again for taking me under your wing for the past 17 years, I would not be where I am without you. I am having a hard time seeing my future without ben so I am just going to know that he is there in all we do, in our hearts. Patricia, you have always been like a mother to me and probably all of bens friends and I will always be here for you. I am so sorry but I will not say goodbye, just farewell my best friend Ben, I will see you again one day.
Charleen Dere
March 16, 2007
You are in my heart and my prayers.
Bryan Devaney
March 12, 2007
Rest in Peace Ben! I was saddened to learn of your recent passing.
We didn't know each other very well, but I always found your personality to be genuine and engaging during our limited interactions with each other through mutual friends, hanging out at parties over at Alex and Steffan's, or taking in one of Blindside's infectious grooves.
From what others who knew you better have posted here, it appears to me that you managed to pull off rather admirably what most of us can not; balancing levity with purpose. In that sense, I think you will remain timeless in the eyes of those who knew you best as a unique blend of sincere personality and determination.
Brian Salzer
March 11, 2007
Ben wass up buddy, As I have told you in the past U are the man, Thank you for all the killer fun memories and we saw you shining in the water on 2nd street WOW, Patricia you are such a strong loving mom ben is going to be looking out for you he LOVE'S YOU SO MUCH, WE will miss you ben
Joshua Auckland
March 10, 2007
Ben and I shared some great experiences together as teenagers, surfing Ave E.,spearfishing bluff cove, the boston whaler adventures. I have the fondest memories of the Dragich family and the generousity they showed me over the years. Ben was my bro and I will never forget him. I feel truly honered to have been his friend and thank God our lives crossed paths all thoes years ago. Patricia I am so sorry for your loss Ben was a very special person. Ben.....thanks for the memories...I love you bro. Aloha
barry buxton
March 10, 2007
Dear Patricia, Ihave so many wonderful memories with Ben - surfing Torrance beach and El Porto - cruising up and down the coast between San Deago and Santa Barbara looking for the perfect wave - talking with Him about His business/life. I will always remember His passion for life and His spirit of adventure - His honesty. May we all learn from Benjamin and live our lives more like He lived His. Memories of Ben I will keep forever. Your long time friend, Barry
Linda Shoemaker
March 10, 2007
May the love that surrounds you, be a source of comfort during this difficult time. I pray God will give you the strength you need.God is holding Benjamin in His loving arms and He is holding you too. I am Sean Shoemaker's mother.
Tante Els and oom Broer Hekker
March 10, 2007
Lieve Patricia,
We met Benji when he was still a small boy, at the age of four or five at Inka's. It was the first time, but also the lasr time. Tante Els and I were shocked when we got the message. You lost your son and we our nephew. But reading the messages in this guest book, we notice, that Benji was loved and respected by his family and friends. May he rest in peace. Patty, tante Els and oom Broer love you and we hope that you can find the strength to go on.
Tante Els and oom Broer from Tilburg, Holland.
Gayle Albin-Bailey
March 10, 2007
My son Scott went to high school with Ben and Chad lived with us while working for Ben learning to be a tile setter. The few times I met him he was so polite and sincere. I can not imagine the depth of your loss. He was truly a special man.
Anita Lissy
March 10, 2007
I dont know Bens side of the family.... but I do know Lisa's family.... this is such a tragedy to all who knew and loved Ben...my heart just aches for Lisa cause I know Ben was (is) the love of her life... and to be taken away so young and suddenly is tragic.. they had 6 years together and looked foward to a lifetime together... nomatter what happened I know they both loved and cherished each other... and this is the greatest loss...to lose your soulmate so young is just tragic ! my heart just grieves for EVERYBODY that loved Ben...God Bless you all...Love you...
Anita
K & S
March 9, 2007
We went to highschool w/ Ben and although we did not know him very well he always had a bright smile on his face. Ben was always so sweet and happy. God bless you Ben.
Jeremiah Brandon
March 9, 2007
Aunt Patti,
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. Ben is in a wonderful place now. We will all see him again. Ben, God bless you and look forward to seeing you again.
Your Cousin
brianna marquez
March 9, 2007
by meeting ben only once just recently, i knew that he was full of life and it will always live on.for all of those who are dealing with his loss i am terribly sorry.i loved him once he was automaticlly enterd in to our family as i was as well.i love you and may your soul rest in peace on the shore and out on the waves.<3
Ginn Sampson
March 9, 2007
Ben was a great person, and brought a lot to his circle of friends. He will always be remembered, and forever missed. My thoughts and prayers go to those that survived him.
Ben and Friends
Ron Orr
March 9, 2007
Ben, you will be missed by many. My Son, Neill, worked, lived, and was part of Ben's life for decades.
Pattie Macon-Orr
March 9, 2007
Ben came by Ron's house in Redondo during Christmas of 2006. He wanted to take Nell and I out to breakfast like old times. He was talking about his life and how much fun he had at Hill St. in Hermosa. He made a point of treating me because he had eaten at my house so much and appreciated being treated like "another son." I will always treasure his smiling face and his beautiful curly hair. Fondly, Pattie Sue Macon-Orr
Ashley Trigg
March 9, 2007
You will be missed by so many people. I love you with all my heart. You were the best cousin ever. I'm so sorry that this had to happen to a great man. You will never be forgotten.
Love always,
Ashley
Peter Droste
March 9, 2007
Lieve Patricia,
I hope you know what is in my heart for I cannot find words that can convey the sorrow we feel in our loss. I say our loss because Ben was one of us - our family. But I also realize that none can know the depth of your sorrow. I hope you find some comfort in knowing that we, your family, reach out to you with all of our love and prayers.
Go rest high Benjamin.
Your cousin, Peter
Kristopher Brandon
March 9, 2007
The last time I spoke to Ben was a Few months ago,I told him we need to hang out and catch up on old and new times..but we never got around to to doing so,He was my cousin.Ben left something with all of us and he will be missed...
Damon Nicholson
March 8, 2007
I know i did not know him as well as others, but spending time every year at Thanksgiving was very special. I will always remember him and keep those memories in a special place in my heart. Ben was a great man and we will remember him and charish the times we spent togeather.
Jamie Berndt
March 8, 2007
I was deeply saddened to hear the news about Ben. I have so many fond memories of the times we spent together. He was such a special person and will be greatly missed.
Carla Bravo
March 8, 2007
My Dearest Patty,
I am still in stock that Ben is gone, just as you are. I know how much you loved him and how he meant the world to you. He was such a sweetheart and he loved you so. Words could never express the sorrow I know you must feel. He was a great kid who grew up to be a wonderful person. We will all miss him so much! There will always be a special place in my heart for our Bennie. May the heaven he knows now surround him with love, peace and lots of sandy beaches. There will always be candy is my pockets for my little Bennie. If you ever need me, day or night, I am here for you.
Love,
Carla
Carlos, Rhonda and Gillian Ramirez
March 8, 2007
Ben shared holidays, birthdays, and other special family events with us. We enjoyed our time with Ben and felt he was truly a part of our family.
May he rest in peace.
March 8, 2007
I'm so sorry for the loss of Ben. He was always such a fun and caring person to be around. He will be greatly missed around the South Bay.
Marina Aburto
March 8, 2007
Ben always knew how to make me laugh, being his goofy smiles or his wild stories. He was a part of my family for many years and we are truly blessed to have known him. I will never forget Benny Boombox.
Ilke, Niek, Lia en Tuur Hekker
March 8, 2007
Dear Patricia,
I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your son Benji. I remember him as a very nice person. I wish you a lot of strength in this difficult period.
Love from Holland
Carrie and Brenda
March 8, 2007
I didn't know Ben as well as most of you, I'm sure, but what I always loved about him was his simple honesty. The vibe I always got from him was love life and love the people in it. If you can do that with all your heart, then we can be thankful for the life that we were able to live. I'm glad I was able to know Ben and my thoughts are with everyone who loved him.
George Rozenberg
March 8, 2007
My dearest Patty,
Het is niet met woorden te beschrijven maar ik kan je alleen veel sterkte toewensen in de komende dagen.Helaas ben ik in verband met de bypass operatie niet aanwezig zijn op saterdag.
Het plan is om gedurende dit jaar naar LA te komen om je persoonlijk een ''hug'' te geven.
Ook namens Christine, Bastiaan, Jeroen, Jopke en Cynthia nogmaals alle sterkte toegewenst
Cousin George
Anonymous
March 7, 2007
Dear Ben,
We have met twice over the last five years that I have known Lisa. My thoughts and prayers continue to be with you and your loved ones. You will be remembered with respect and admiration.
Deena (Nessa) Rodriguez
March 7, 2007
Patricia,
I am terribly sorry to hear of the loss of your Bennie. I remember him as a small boy. He sure has grown up to be quite the outstanding young man. Please accept my sincerest condolences to you and your mom Louise, Inka, Robert and Andre and to all who had the special honor of being apart of his life. Rest in peace now Benjamin..
Sean Shoemaker
March 7, 2007
Ben was a great friend and I feel blessed that he was a part of my life. I know he is now in a better place.
He will be missed by myself as well as many others.
Petra Kuske
March 7, 2007
Dearest Patricia
I cannot express with words the sorrow I feel in my heart and the saddness I feel that Bennie is gone. I can not imagine how you feel...your only son. My prayers are with you, Inka and your entire family. We have fond memories of Ben from baby until his teenage years and our family loved him dearly. Ryan still has his first surfboard that Ben gave him....so many years ago. He will be greatly missed by many.
Love Petra, Kevin, Ryan and Nicole
Louise Jacobson
March 7, 2007
Dearest Patrice:
I only knew Benjamin as an infant
but you and I grew up together. I
cannot express words to tell you how very saddened I am for your loss as we both only had one child.
My thoughts and prayers are with you. Your cousin,
Louise Emondt Jacobson
Rest now Benjamin xoxo
Lisa Heath
March 7, 2007
After going to school with Ben for so many years and being around each other because of mutual friends I came to expect him to always be a part of "South Bay".
I always found Ben to be a kind and sincere person that was easy to be around. He will be greatly missed!
I extend my condolences to his mother and family.
Diane Brower
March 7, 2007
Ben is loved and missed by our entire family. I am delighted to have known him through his relationship with my daughter, Lisa Valenzuela. He was a kind and loving uncle to Hunter. He will remain in our hearts and thoughts always.
Diane
Art & Nadine Pate
March 7, 2007
Ben,
It was a priviledge to know both you and Lisa and enjoyed the times we had. You are a very special man and I know Art was truly a fan of yours. You will be missed
Inka Marquez
March 7, 2007
Benjamin Ray:
You will always be a part of me, my little Bennie.
Your spirit and abundant personality will be sorrowfully missed by all that knew you.
Tante Inka and Jim
Maria (Borrelli) Correll
March 7, 2007
Patricia,
I was shocked and saddened to learn of Ben’s passing.
I have many fond memories of my time spent with Ben.
Please know you’re in my thoughts.
Christie Prybylski
March 7, 2007
John and I will always love Ben like a brother. Ben has moved on and we will all miss him very much. He was an inspiration to myself and all who knew him. His demeanor was infectious and his smile contagious. He excelled in the things he loved and pushed his friends to new heights with his enthusiasm. I feel very fortunate to have been graced by his friendship and know their are none who don't share the same sentiment. Words cannot explain the sorrow I feel with his passing. We will forever miss his humor and laughter, his style and swagger, the stories he shared and the times we had together. You will always be with us in the water, on the wave, on the trail, in our songs and in our hearts.
I will truly miss you my friend and I am sincerely sorry to all that knew him, as we were all robbed of a very special person.
Love, John R. Hogan
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