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Lucy Blackman Obituary

Lucy Blackman LAKE KATRINE- Lucy Blackman, age 88, of Willow, passed away on Sat. June 22, 2019, at Ten Broeck Center, Lake Katrine, N.Y. She died due to complications from breast cancer. Born on Long Island, she graduated from Skidmore College in 1952. She taught school for a number of years until moving to Willow in 1968 at which time her entire life changed. She went from being a polyester suit housewife, to an overall wearing, shall we say “liberal” kind of gal. Although she officially stopped teaching, Lucy was always a teacher in life, leaving those of us who knew her with an abundance of lessons. Lucy’s love for the out of doors and the sea, as well as her love of music fed her soul throughout her entire life as well as her love for sports and animals. In 1980 Lucy lost one of her two children, her daughter Wendy, in an accident. The support and love she received from her community enabled her to become the compassionate and caring person we knew and loved. As opinionated and irreverent as Lucy could be, she could also be as unconditional in her acceptance of people. Her kindness for humankind made her truly loved by all who ever met her. On the other hand, she was a force to be reckoned with. She would hold court where you couldn’t escape her telling a joke or story, often for the umpteenth time. Her nickname “Mayor of Willow” will stay with her forever. Lucy leaves behind so many remarkable friends and family including her son, Jack Blackman; grandchildren, Cassie, Luke, and Colin Pustilnik; great-grandchild, Riley; and her partner of many decades/lifetimes, Muffin Johnson. Whether it be years on their boat in Florida, making jams and jellies for the flea market, or any adventure being in the out of doors, they were both the odd couple and soul mates forever. Donations in Lucy’s memory can be made to the Wendy Blackman scholarship fund through the Onteora Central School District, Family of Woodstock, or an animal rights organization. In her honor light a candle, plant a flower or tell a joke to make someone laugh. Please go to www.gath eringus.com to see and add photos and stories an online memorial. There will be a gathering to celebrate Lucy’s life on Aug. 25, 2019, from 11 a.m. to 2 p.m. at the Lake Hill Firehouse.

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Published by Daily Freeman from Jun. 24 to Jun. 28, 2019.

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Leah Wesselmann

August 6, 2023

Omgosh, I just thought of dear Lucy as i sit here. I don't know what made me think of her, but seeing this and that I missed her services makes me so sad... she was THE dominant memory of my years of umpiring the Woodstock women's softball league. So . Much. Fun... Her arguing a call-- every single game! HA!
I love thinking of those days. Muffin was always right there... such a beautiful love story. .
May you be arguing the umps calls every Sunday, Lucy. I thank you for your presence in this world.

Lynn Sanders

April 5, 2020

Thinking of Jack missing his Mom & Sister! I have often thought of Wendy over the years! Too young, too soon! Together, may they wrap their souls in peace!
Love, Lynn Sanders/Darmstadt

AMBASSADOR LOGAN

June 30, 2019

REST IN PEACE MY DEAR OLD FRIEND ...I WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER THE SUPER TIMES WE SPENT TOGETHER AND ALL THE WONDERFUL LAUGHTER WE SHARED...I LOVE LUCY!!!
LOGAN

June 29, 2019

I'm so sorry for your loss. Lucy sounds like such a happy, lively woman who led a full life surrounded by loving family and friends. May you find comfort in reflecting on all your cherished memories with her and look forward to the beautiful hope of seeing her again (John 6:40).

Esther (Essie) Ecklund

June 27, 2019

My Aunt Lu (Lulu, as we called her as we were growing up), will be greatly missed. I always looked up to her and never remember her being angry. I'm sure she's on Eagles' wings in heaven now with her parents, her brother (my father), my cousin Wendy, my mom and other loved ones. May God bless her soul. xo

Esther (Essie) Ecklund

June 26, 2019

Missing my Aunt Lu (LuLu, as we called her when we were growing up). I always looked up to her. She was always good to me and I don't ever remember her getting angry. I'm sure she's on eagles' wings in heaven now with her parents, my cousin Wendy, my father (her brother), my brothers, my mom and other loved ones. She will be greatly missed! May God bless her soul!!! xo

Kathleen Stockwell

June 26, 2019

Dear aunt Lulu, a big part of my life when I was young, and much loved sister of my uncle John McDermott❤❤

Debra Rauschendorfer

June 25, 2019

Cheryl,
So sorry to hear about Lucy's passing. Sending condolences to you. I didn't know she was at Tenbroeck Commons or I would have paid her a visit, my Mom is also there.

I will miss her jokes and positive spirit.

Warm Regards,

Debra Rauschendorfer

June 24, 2019

My dearest Lucy,
Your true and loving nature will inspire all of us forever.
I know you are in heaven making the angels laugh. You bring joy.
Love,
Merle

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