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for Matthew Eckstein
Janet Scott
April 21, 2004
Carol and the rest of the Eckstien Clan,
My family and I were saddened to hear of Matt's passing. He was always a new smile and cozy feeling when we saw him. I can't tell you how much he helped me pass microbiology. We know he is now with God and all of us watching and helping through the good times and bad. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Rob Barden
April 9, 2004
To Carol, Tom and Lorrie, Jay, Chris and Brian and families;
When we first learned of Matt’s cancer, we were devastated. But we knew Matt was strong and we prayed for him constantly. Through a number of people at various churches, many faithful individuals were praying for him.
After his surgery, we prayed for and thought we would see a miracle…
During his chemotherapy, we prayed for and thought we would see a miracle…
And then, after his final diagnosis, we prayed for and thought we would see yet another miracle…
On this Good Friday, and as we approach Easter Sunday, we can be assured that we did, in fact, witness a miracle with Matt. We know that he is in heaven right now because of a sacrifice made two thousand years ago by God’s own son - Jesus. And we know that we can join him in heaven, if we have faith as Matt did, and we can look forward to a day when;
“…He will wipe away every tear from their eyes, and death shall be no more, neither shall there be mourning nor crying nor pain any more, for the former things have passed away.”
We know this time for you is difficult, although we cannot fully appreciate the sorrow and pain you are experiencing. We look back at many fond memories of Matt, and are thankful for the time that he was here with us.
We thank you for the time you allowed us to be with Matt during his illness and express our deepest and most heartfelt condolences.
God Bless you and your families.
Uncle Paul and Aunt Carol, Tom, Rob and Colleen and families.
Steve & Virginia & Family Bowcock
April 9, 2004
Carol, Tom & Family,
Our prayers are with you and your entire family in this time in your life. Be comforted to know God will keep Mathew safe and loved, as you did, until you can all be together once more.
Peg has written an entry in this book already for the family but we wanted to let you know how deeply we feel your loss and how glad we are to know that your son was such a wonderful person and that you must know he will always be with you.
All our love & comfort
Steve, Virginia, Gregory & Jessica
Jay Eckstein
April 7, 2004
On March 28, 2004, Matt went to be with the Lord. Because of this, he feels no more pain and sheds no more tears. God is always with us and now so is Matt. I would like to say to Matt's nieces and nephews, Christopher, Thomas, Heather, Ashleigh, Adam, Emily, and Megan, that anything they do, baseball, football, cheerleading, Matt is there watching you. I had the opportunity to be with Matt the last three weeks of his life. I helped his wife, Carol, take care of him. I need to say those three weeks were very special, but also mentally and physically draining. Carol did this for three years. If that's not love, I don't know what is. Carol, I want to say thank you for being a wonderful wife to my brother. Matt always called me Nizzle, so I called him Snizzle. So on that, I would like to say: Snizzle, I love you and will miss you.
Your brother,
Jay
Kristen Eckstein
April 7, 2004
Carol,
For 3 long years we watched you and Matt suffer. You have handled yourself with a dignity we cannot describe in words. You followed your heart and honored yours and Matts love to the highest degree. To say that you and Matt are an example of unconditional love is an understatement. Thank you for always hoping, always believing. Chris and I want you to know that we are here for you: to cry with you, to talk with you, to share memories with you. We thank God everyday that Matty had you. Please know that you are forever a member of our family ~ our sister. Hold tight to your memories and keep talking to us. We grieve with you for our loss.
ALWAYS~ Chris, Kristen, Ashleigh and Baby Adam.
Patrick Garrow
April 5, 2004
My condolences to the family for the loss of Mathew Thomas Eckstein.
Shaungela Blackwell (Washington)
April 5, 2004
Carol & Family, I am sorry to hear of your loss, my family and I will keep you in our prayers.
Shavette Randall-Wilson
April 5, 2004
To Carol & the entire Eckstein family
When I heard the news about Matt's passing, I could not believe it. We had several classes together, & he always had me laughing about something. His sense of humor & his love for Carol are two things I will never forget. I still have a picture of Matt & Carol at our Class of 1990 prom. God Bless!
Craig and Jennifer Cannon
April 5, 2004
Dear Carol,
We are so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Even though we just lived down the street, we did not know you guys other than seeing you outside from time to time and giving you some extra mulch we had one time. May God bless you and help you through this tough time.
Gevonya Evans-Fennell
April 4, 2004
To Carol & Matt's family: I was so sorry to hear of your loss. Immediately when I saw his obituary online, my memory flashed back to the times I would see him and Carol in the hallway at YHS and we would stop to talk. Carol, you and Matt were visibly in love and I was not surprised to see that you two had wed. I know this is a difficult time for you and I am praying that God will sustain you and Matt's entire family.
Tracy Hill (Westcott)
April 4, 2004
To Carol and the Eckstein Family: I remember Matt and his brothers from high school. I am so sorry for your loss. May you lean on the everlasting arms of Jesus our Savior during this time of loss and know that Matt is safe and at peace in the arms of the Lord.
Peg Swiconek
April 3, 2004
Carol, Lorraine, Tom, Carol, Paul and the entire Eckstein Family,
Mom, Peg, Butch, Marion & Rey, Gin and Steve, Gregory & Jessica were all very saddened by the news of Matthew's passing. Carol, you were blessed to marry the man who loved you so very much! I am so sorry your path here leaves Matthew in your heart and not by your side. We were all praying so very hard for his miracle to happen. Many a night I visualized an angel who had wrapped her wings around Matt and was silently praying, asking God for his life to be spared. We were sad to hear the answer was no. He was so young to have endured such a difficult struggle for life. He fought the good fight for 3 years. we constantly asked about his well being and his progress, hoping some miracle, in Mom's words: "I asked God to place His hand on Matthew's head and remove the cancer, so he could live, love and participate in life fully." Perhaps at this holiest of times when Jesus is accepting his fate to bear the sins of the world for His Father and all of us on earth, he looked down and saw all the love and prayers going out to Matthew and decided to bring him home to a place of peace, no pain and suffering and into the arms of all those who have gone before him, including Auntie Jean. Matthew surely was a very special man. From all the wonderful messages in the guest book, I can see that, although I never got to personally know him. Our prayers go out to all of you during this difficult time. We want you to know we love all of you very much and we will keep you all in our prayers and pray that God will find it in his heart to comfort all of you and to celebrate Matthew's life rather than be saddened by his passing. Mom shared a very special time with you all last summer and feels a very special connection to you all. We will keep in touch and keep you all in our hearts and prayers. WE LOVE YOU ALL!
Michelle Switzer
April 2, 2004
Dear Carol,
I remember after Matthew was diagnosed and you came with Matthew into the office to see Dr Reagan for his appointments, we all remarked at how well you were taking care of him and how devoted you were to him. You were a shining example of how a wife and life partner should be! God be with you and your family in this time of sorrow. God Bless You.
On behalf of all of my co-workers at Hampton Roads Neurology we extend out deepest sympathy. Be Strong and know that God is with you every moment and will see you through.
Steve and Heather Singleton
April 2, 2004
The Lord has taken one of the good ones. There is a bigger and better plan for Matt serving in the Lord's house. Rest in peace my friend. Our support goes out to the family and friends of this extraordinary human being.
Gary Evans
April 2, 2004
Upon coming to York High School in October 1989, Matt was one of the first people I met when I went into the guidance counselors office. He was always a friendly and energetic individual. I have fond memories of the track meets that we went on. May God bless and keep you during this time.
Catina King Burrell
April 2, 2004
Carol and Family, I offer my deepest condolences during your time of sorrow. Matt was a good friend in high school and I will always remember his sincerity and his sense of humor. Matt could also be very serious. I can remember many times when he would "level" me out!! I also remember what a great couple Carol and Matt were and I know that love will live on. Carol, stay strong and know that Matt is resting peacefully where he feels no more pain. I believe we will see him again some day and what a rejoiceful day that will be. I will keep you and his family in my prayers.
Dave, Anne, Chris & Lisa Stover
April 2, 2004
Dear Carol & the entire Eckstein Family,
We extend our deepest sympathy and prayers. We will always remember Mafew with a smile that could light up the world.
Love always, Dave, Anne, Chris & Lisa Stover-Matt's Yooper Family. (Gwinn, MI)
Lisa Garner West
April 1, 2004
Carol and Family -
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Please find comfort in knowing that Matt is now at peace and no longer suffering. God Bless you and your family.
LaRhonda Fluker (Mason)
April 1, 2004
Carol and the Eckstein Family,
My heart truly goes out to all of you. I just found out today and instantly started to reflect on the great personality and character of Matt. He was a dear friend to me in high school and he will truly be missed. May God continue to keep you in his perfect peace and know that Matt is in a place where there is no suffering. God Bless.
Libby and Louis Smith
April 1, 2004
We are so sorry to hear of Matt's death. He was a fine young person who suffered more than his share. He will be always in the hearts of his family and friends. Our prayers are with all the family at this time.
Sincerely,
Brian and Kristin Weaver
April 1, 2004
Carol and Family,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Although we never got to meet Matt, it seems we know so much about him through Uncle Tom. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. God Bless.
Melissa Johnson Williams
April 1, 2004
Carol and the Eckstein family...I am so very sorry for your loss but take comfort knowing that Matt suffers no longer. Please know that you all continue to be in my thoughts and prayers.
Lisa Singleton
April 1, 2004
God saw he was getting tired, and a cure was not to be, so he put his arms around him and whispered, "Come with me," With tearful eyes you watched him suffer and saw him fade away, although you loved him dearly, you could not make him stay. A golden heart stopped beating, hard working hands to rest. God broke your heart to prove, He only takes the best.
During a diffcult time in my life last year, this poem appreared in this newspaper and touched my heart. I thought I would pass it along.
Your family is in our prayers.
Lisa, Jeff, Casey, Sarah
the Moshers
April 1, 2004
Our prayers are with you. And if there is anything you need we are right next door.
Ron Michaud
April 1, 2004
Brian and family, We were so sorry to hear of Matthews passing.Please know that you all are in our thoughts and prayers.God Bless you all.
Greg & Jennifer Lare
April 1, 2004
To Carol and the Eckstein family:
Matt will always be an inspiration to us all. Please accept our deepest sympathy.
Cathy Hamilton (Hemphill)
April 1, 2004
Carol and family,
I was deeply saddened to hear of Matt's passing. You are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
Jamie Revere
April 1, 2004
Sorry for your loss and my prayers are with you.
Leslie Fowler
April 1, 2004
I am so sad to hear of Matt's passing. I have fond memories of him in high school as such a fun-loving person with a big heart. May God be with you Carol and all of the family during this very difficult time. My prayers will continue to be with you.
Dick Smith
April 1, 2004
I know that no words can help the pain at a time when such a loved one departs. Matt was a great joy to be with and will truly be missed. I only hope that I can live the rest of my life with the courage and strength that he had.
John, Mary Anna & Jack Bryant
March 31, 2004
To the Eckstein Family,
We are deeply saddened to learn of Matt's passing. May the Lord's Peace be with Matt & Carol and your entire family.
Bonnie and Dave Carlson
March 31, 2004
Dave and I offer our sincere condolences to your family.
Holly Rust
March 31, 2004
Carol and the Eckstein family,
I am saddened by the news of Matt's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this time of sorrow. My memories of Matt during high school will remain with me for the rest of my life. God bless all of you.
Joanne Bryant
March 31, 2004
Though I didn't know Matthew personally, Tom Bond shared lots of stories about his life and the love Matthew displayed. Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Dave & Donna Huey
March 31, 2004
Please accept our sincere sympathy and prayers in your time of need.
Antionette Maxwell
March 31, 2004
you are in my prayers, my deepest sympathy
Velton Shaw
March 31, 2004
Know that you family members are in my prayers.
Glenn Mantell
March 31, 2004
My sincerest condolences on your loss. My prayers are with you and your family asking for God to comfort you in your time of grief.
Joe Dabbs
March 31, 2004
My prayers for God's deepest strength to see you through and return you once again to still waters of peace and understanding,
John Wheeler
March 31, 2004
To Carol and the entire Eckstein family:
My deepest thoughts and prayers are with you during this very difficult time.
Coke, Lisa, Blakely, Logan Coughenour
March 31, 2004
Our prayers are with your family.
Anna
March 31, 2004
I'm with you all in mind and spirit! All my love to each of you ~ Anna
Winfrey & Penny Diggs
March 30, 2004
You will remain in our thoughts and prayers.
Mike, Kerri and Michael Garrow
March 30, 2004
Our deepest thoughts are with you during this time.
Tommy,Brandy, and Megan Garrow
March 30, 2004
Our deepest sympathy to the entire Eckstein family. Your family in Georgia is thinking about you.
Guy Buchanan
March 30, 2004
To the Eckstein Family,
Please accept my deepest sympathy.
Tom & Ann Mullen
March 30, 2004
God be with you.
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