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Ed Fisher
September 16, 2009
Dr. Ayres -- I always called him "Steve," but the respect was there and his naturalness always recognized and returned respect through casual appreciation without regard for the formality -- more than anyone made my career. When I met him, I was an assistant professor struggling to find myself. He shared with me that twinkle in his eye, taught me to work hard out of joy, not fear, and always made me feel valued, no matter what trouble I got in. Through projects he helped me initiate, I received tenure and have enjoyed, now, 33 more years of feeling that joy in working hard for something worthwhile.
Driving to Washington in 1976 to deliver a report to the NIH on which we had worked, his briefcase -- with the only copy of the cut and pasted report -- was stolen. To explain to the NIH person very anxiously awaiting the report, Rosemary McConkey, he asked, "Rosemary, are you sitting down?" Of course we never felt much angst over this. We just patched it together again and enjoyed the unique experience. Steve could make almost anything that kind of a challenge -- the eyes would twinkle, and you could almost hear him saying to himself and you, "OK, how are we going to get out of this one."
It's interesting, with all the more objective accomplishments, we are best remembered for who we are, whom we touched, more than what we did. Dr. Steve Ayres touched millions with his work and an extremely fortunate thousands with his person. Having been one of those thousands is one of my life's greatest gifts.
September 15, 2009
What a wonderful man! And how fortunate you had each other over all of these years. I know you will miss him terribly but we know he has gone on to a life free of anything but goodness. And that's what he deserves. We will be thinking of all of you because it's obvious that you will miss him dearly. Judi and Ed Call
Flor Yuhas
September 14, 2009
Sister Nancy, was a very sweet sister. Me and my family will miss her very much. Thank God we had the opportunity to meet her and to see her just before we moved to Florida. Our most sencere condolences to all the family.
Love in Christ,
Thomas, Flor, Tommy and Luke Yuhas
September 14, 2009
My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. May your wonderful memories help you get through your time of grief. Steve was a gentleman and had a kind soul. He will be missed by many.
Judy Cotton
September 14, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. As I read Dr. Ayers obituary I saw a moment into a man who spent his life caring for others. May your hearts be filled with wonderful memories as you come to together as you celebrate a life well lived.
With love and respect,
Terry Thompson and
Edward Rhinier
September 14, 2009
May God welcome you home, dear friend. I will always cherish our many trips abroad together. I look forward to joining you on this your last trip some day.
Rev. Charles L. Breindel, Ph.D. (formerly Dir. of Int'l Dev., VCU)
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