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Jay Baker Obituary

Jay Howard Baker, 61 years, passed suddenly on April 8, 2021 at his home in Arizona. He is survived by his loving wife of 39 years, Dawn Simcox Baker. Jay was the devoted father of Andrew, Matthew and Emily. He was preceded in death by his parents, Helen & Thomas Baker, his sister, Beverly, and brother, Tom. Jay was a lifelong resident of the Media area. During middle school his father’s job took the family to Liberia, Africa where they lived for two years. The experience had a profound impact on Jay’s life and lead to his lifelong support of the Liberian Community abroad and in Philadelphia. Jay ultimately graduated from Penncrest High School and Widener University. He enjoyed a long career as a compliance officer with Penn Mutual Life Insur. Co. He became a Certified Anti-Money Laundering Specialist and most recently began working with Wells Fargo in their Financial Crimes division. Jay was an Elder at Middletown Presbyterian Church and a longtime Coach and Board Member of the Media Little League. He was a loving husband and father who was happiest spending time with his family. Services will be Saturday, April 24th at the Middletown Presbyterian Church, 273 S. Old Middletown Rd., Media, PA 19063. Visitation in church from 9:30 – 11 am. Service at 11 am. Burial will follow at the church cemetery. To livestream the service, please visit the link on Jay’s memorial page on www.haganfuneralhome.com. Memorial donations may be made to Middletown Presbyterian Church, Board of Deacons. Arrangements: Rigby Harting & Hagan Funeral Home. www.haganfuneralhome.com

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Published by The Daily Times from Apr. 21 to Apr. 22, 2021.

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Dave Lawrence

November 25, 2023

Dear Dawn and family,
So sorry to hear about Jay's
passing.
I knew Jay when my family was
over in Africa for the refinery start-up.
My brother Tim and Jay were friends.
Jay was a good friend ,fun to be around.
Our thoughts,prayers,condolences are with you and your family.
Most Sincerely,
Dave & Connie Lawrence

Jeff Nelson

May 16, 2021

Heaven will be a little bit better place when you walk in the door Jay rest in peace buddy

Dan Petrovich

May 10, 2021

One of the good ones. Gone too soon. May his memory be eternal.

Nancy Caramanico

May 3, 2021

So sorry to hear of Jay's passing. His sister, Beverly, was my very best friend. I remember her telling me of her mom being pregnant with him, as well as his birth on May 12th, a birthday Jay and I share. He was always smiling and respectful. His Christian faith and work at Middletown Presbyterian were a source of pride to his family. Tommy/Karen, so shocked by this untimely death. My sympathy to the family.

Carl Baker

April 30, 2021

Hi I'm Carl Baker proud to be 1st cousin of Jay Baker.I'm a longtime resident of Sarasota fl, grew up in Media pa. Where do I start with Jay, I am about 5 years older, always enjoyed the Baker family reunions used to see Jay there, we would swim , play touch football and eat a lot of great food. Jay grew up to be a great person, husband to Dawn and loving father to Andrew, Matthew and Emily. Jay was also very successful in banking, graduated from Widener University. My wife linda and I are so sorry for Jays passing , he left us at the Prime of his life he was way to young. He will be watching over all of us from heaven, especially watching Dawn, Andrew, Matthew and Emily he was a great Christian I was very proud to be his cousin.

Peg Murray

April 28, 2021

Jay was always so nice, and had a smile for everyone he saw!
My condolences, and prayers go out to Dawn, and their children. Rest peacefully Jay.

Mark Ferrell

April 25, 2021

May God bless you now and forever

Coll Scott

April 24, 2021

We worked together in a small training group at Wells Fargo bank compliance. Jay was the life of the party. He had stories that made the sessions fun and enjoyable. So it was surprising and saddening to learn of Jay's passing. Janak Shah joins me in offering condolences to his family of whom he often spoke with love and humility. Rest in peace Jay..
Coll Scott/Janak Shah/Wells Fargo
Connection/ April 24, 2021

Ken Schreffler

April 24, 2021

Memories of Jay put a smile upon our faces, as we reflect on how Jay and his family interacted with ours over the years. Jay was a warm and caring Sunday School teacher, and a strong church leader who exemplified the love of Christ in all his relationships. From coaching to insurance planning, to being a devoted husband, loving father, and loyal friend, Jay will be missed dearly. Sheila, Matt, Katie and I send our sincere sympathies to the Bakers as we celebrate Jay’s life, a life well-lived and admired.

Steve Maloney

April 24, 2021

I graduated with Jay from Penncrest ('77) and always enjoyed his demeanor and kindness. He never had a bad word to say about anyone. In our yearbook he wrote, "I hope it's one of those days". That was Jay. See you again Jay.

John Cunningham

April 22, 2021

A life well lived! Wish more people had your character traits Jay.
RIP Jay.
John Cunningham

Diane Aucott Ward

April 22, 2021

Jay truly was one of the kindest guys in high school. Sharing homeroom because of our last names, I remember he listened to everyone, treated all with respect and was beautifully sincere. Being a widow myself, I share in your sorrow Dawn and wish you the comfort of God’s arms wrapped around you as you adjust to life without Jay.

David Renninger

April 22, 2021

Jay was a good friend and an awesome person. He will be missed by many but understand he is in a really good place now. So many memories starting back in elementary school. RIP my friend.

Susan Shaw(Heller)

April 22, 2021

Jay was the most wonderful classmate , so kind and caring to all. He will be dearly missed.

Todd Robinson

April 21, 2021

I am so sorry to learn of Jay's untimely passing. Jay was so accessible a friendly and deeply concerned about other people. I was so pleased to be connected to him if mostly through FB. As reflected here, Jay was loved and will be painfully missed. My deepest condolences to Dawn and Jay's children. Gone west too soon, Jay. Until we meet again, vaya condios.

Robbie Dunion

April 21, 2021

My deepest sympathy go out to Dawn and family. Jay was a lifelong close friend. I have many memories and plenty of adventurious stories growing up with Jay. He always had a fun loving spirit and truly was a real genuine person. I will cherish my memories of all the laughter we had and events we endured together.

Suzanne Greene

April 21, 2021

Jon and I were shocked and ever so saddened to hear of Jay‘s sudden passing. He was such a kind, loving man who clearly loved his family to bits. To Dawn, Andrew, Matthew and Emily: may the love of your friends and family carry you. Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you all today and always.

Janet Lloyd Murphy

April 21, 2021

As far as I'm concerned, Jay stayed the same since I first met him at Roosevelt Elementary School -- kind, caring, and a friend to all. He loved his community and his family and lived out his faith. Dawn and children, I am so saddened at his passing and will keep you in my prayers.

Janet Berry

April 21, 2021

My deepest condolences to Dawn, Andrew, Matthew and Emily. What a great smile Jay had. Yes, he was a good man. kind, sweet, modest, truthful, funny. Dawn, you are all that too. I got to see Dawn and Jay smile at each other. I caught a glimpse a time or two of how they could just look at each other, and they knew what the other was thinking. These were really beautiful things to see. You rest easy Jay. We'll take care of your sweet girl.

Franklin Moultrie

April 21, 2021

So sorry to hear the news! Working with Jay at Wells Fargo was experience, sharing different stories about what part of the world we travel and both being in AML field. We had stories for days. Lol! Sharing my stories about my son soccer games and highlights to him was always an exciting for him. Every Monday when I come in the office he's like "how your son do this weekend!" LOL!

Rest in peace my friend and your spirit is free to in the Universe!

Love,

Frank Moultrie (Wells Fargo Buddies)

Donald Harriz

April 21, 2021

I am saddened to hear of Jay’s passing. He was a great guy. I remember our time together on the Media Little league board. Unfortunately I will be away and can’t be there in person. Jay will be missed.

Matt Heavens

April 21, 2021

I am so saddened to hear this news. I know Jay would not want us to feel this way.But is is difficult..
It is hard to say enough words about how nice a guy Jay was.
He escorted me in May back to the post office on my final drive back.A moment I will cherish forever..rest easy..my sincere condolences to the entire family.

Janet Mwaura

April 21, 2021

The world has lost a good man and heaven has gained an angel.

Jay was respectful, kind, friendly and full of love. Jay and I were hired on the same day at his place of work and we instantly clicked. I grew-up in Africa and he had so much to share since he lived in Liberia.
My most profound memory of Jay is how he spoke very highly of his family, (His wife, daughter, his late father & mother, sons, his late brother and dogs). He carried with him his Bible and encouraged everyone with the word of God and faith; he never gave-up hope!
Jay always asked everyone for their names and wrote it down; he always said “Good Morning” and checked on everyone’s well been, he was very hardworking and willing to help. He carried his childhood memories of growing up in Liberia with pride and honor. He was a standard-up guy period!
My heart breaks but I know you are in a better place with your loved ones.
Till we meet again Jay!
To Baker’s family I am sending my deepest and sincere condolences to each one of you during this difficult time.

Philippians 4:6
And the peace that surpasses all understanding will guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus.”

Armel Marchaman

April 20, 2021

I will miss you Jay. You were such a genuine, solid man. Your stories about life, family, and faith will be missed my friend. I'll never forget you and your prayer book, asking for a name jotting it down and saying "I got ya bud"

John Dix

April 20, 2021

Rest in peace Jay. Thank you for being a great guy.

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