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Barbara Olmstead Obituary

Monday, November 8, 2010. Predeceased by her parents, Robert and Helen Olmstead. Survived by her brother, Edward Olmstead; her sister, Mary Ellen Olmstead; her uncle, Richard Kirchgessner; her nephew, Edward Olmstead, Jr.; many cousins, her dear friend, Sister Eileen Ivory, O.P. and her Sisters in Community.
A Vigil Service will be held at the Sisters of St. Joseph Motherhouse on Wednesday at 7 p.m., followed by calling hours until 8:30 p.m. and also on Thursday from 2-4 p.m. Her Funeral Liturgy will be at 4 p.m. on Thursday. Interment will be at 9 a.m. on Friday in Holy Sepulchre Cemetery. Memorial donations bay be directed to the Sisters of St. Joseph Ministry Fund.

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Published by Rochester Democrat And Chronicle on Nov. 9, 2010.

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May 28, 2011

Barb was my classmate at St Joseph's nursing school, my roommate in Rochester where we had our first nursing jobs, and a good friend. I had not seen her in many years, but am so saddened by the news of her death. She will always have a special place in my heart and I will always remember her warmth and her smile. Janice Toczydlowski Chussil, Portland, OR

Julie Dudley

May 18, 2011

I was just informed of Barb's death and was saddened by the news. Barb was a classmate of mine at St. Joseph's Nursing School in Syracuse NY and was a lovely person. She always had a smile, an encouraging word for her fellow students & her patients. Barb was a very caring & good nurse. I'm sure she was inspired as a Sister. My prayers are with her & the family. God Bless. Julie Dudley, RN. SJH 1974

Carol Colvin

November 11, 2010

I have know Barbie for many many years, she was a huge help to me Thur out the years. I am going to miss her very much, I know however that she is still with us. I am very sad for our loss. My thoughts and prayers are with her family and Sisters of St. Joseph.

Fran Pullano

November 10, 2010

Mary Ellen, dear Sisters of St. Joseph and Mel,

I am profoundly saddened by Barbara's passing. She was a fellow classmate at Nazareth Academy and someone I deeply admired for her gentle ways and sincere sense of peace.

I had not seen her in a number of years and we reconnected at the Nazareth Convent for mass, a few years ago. We shared memories and life stories and once again, I was struck by her peaceful beauty.

Although it must be a blow to you I am sure you realize that God had more for her to do, at his side.

My sincere condolences. She was a special and remarkable woman.

November 10, 2010

I was privileged to meet Sister Barbara in our Yoga Class. She was a kind and compassionate woman. Although I briefly knew her, I will remember her warm smile and gentle nature. Jan hill

November 10, 2010

ed and maryellen,my prayers are with you for barbie.

Kevin Stewart

November 10, 2010

Mary Ellen,
My thoughts and prayers to you and your family. May your memories carry you through this time of sorrow.

November 10, 2010

Mel,
Our deepest condolences for the loss of your beloved sister and friend. Barb is at peace now. Our hearts and prayers go out to you, your family and all those who knew and loved her and share in your loss. With loving thoughts, Joanne Bailey and John Chmiel

Margi Magin

November 10, 2010

MaryEllen, I can't even find words to express how terribly sorry I am. Barbie always had that smile that just made your heart smile. Keep and cherish every memory that you have and draw on those memories to find strength.

Carol and David Ilacqua-Samuel

November 10, 2010

Sister Barb was a dear friend whose thoughtfulness and generosity we will never forget. We mourn her passing and hope her family can find comfort in Barb's faith.

Lorraine , Alex & Richard Cerone

November 10, 2010

Grief can be so hard during the holidays, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one this holiday season.

Rosaline Cerone

November 10, 2010

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Walt Steesy

November 9, 2010

We share the loss of Barbara as a member of our greater Olmstead family.

Genealogist, Olmste(a)d Family Association

Carol Cimino

November 9, 2010

I am so sorry about Barbara. She was a special person, a member of my "neighborhood" and a joy to be with. I'll miss her and I miss being at her funeral.

November 9, 2010

Mel....I'm so sorry to hear about your sister. May you find comfort in your many cherished memories that you shared.

Sharon Boccaccio

Marion A. Hoctor SSJ

November 9, 2010

Our SSJ congregation mourns the loss of our dear Sister Barbara Olmstead. She was a model of dedication, prayer and service--an inspiration to us all during these most recent months of great suffering. Our thoughts and prayers are with her family members and friends.

Mary Theresa B. Loftus

November 9, 2010

Dear Sisters at #16, and Sr. Eileen Ivory,

I will miss Barbara very much remembering her beautiful smile and friendship. My prayers and thoughts are with the entire SSJ Community.

Mary Theresa

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