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John Jason Harmon passed away peacefully on Wednesday morning, August 18, 2010 at the Episcopal Church Home. He was surrounded by family and dear friends for the last eight months after a fall in his home.
John was born in 1921 in Connecticut. His education included a Montessori School in England; a private school in Italy; public school in Westport, Connecticut; The Choir School of the Cathedral of Saint John the Divine; and Trinity School in New York City. He graduated Princeton University (Class of 1942), and Episcopal Divinity School in 1950.
He served with the American Field Service (1942 to 1945) attached to the British Army as an ambulance driver, mechanic, then 2nd in command of a Company of 132 ambulances. He served in North Africa and Europe. He was in Germany for the closure of the death camp at Bergen Belsen. He left AFS as a Captain and was made an Honorary Member of the Civil Division of the Most Excellent Order of the British Empire.
John took a short leave from the war to marry his true love and life partner, Nicky (Jane Sutherland Tuttle of Atlanta, Georgia). At Nicky's death in 2005, they had been married 61 years.
John was ordained in 1950 at St. Paul's Episcopal Church in Rochester NY. He was Rector of St John's Church, Roxbury MA, then Associate Director, Packard Manse, an ecumenical/social justice organization in Boston MA. In 1970, the Harmons moved back to Rochester and John served as the Patient Ombudsman & Director of Patient Relations, Strong Memorial Hospital.
John was a life time advocate for human rights and peace. As Treasurer of the Massachusetts chapter of the Southern Christian Leadership Conference (SCLC), John raised funds for SCLC chapters in the South. He was driven off the road by the Klan and jailed by the police in Williamston NC. John was one of the organizers of the Fast For Peace in 1970 in front of the White House. In Boston, he was "collared" by the police as he tried to keep the peace in front of Arlington St Church which had granted sanctuary to a draft resister. He continued his social justice work in Rochester, and was active in the Abundance Coop and St Luke and St Simon Cyrene Episcopal Church. Throughout the 1970s, John was a performing member of the Bach Festival Chorus, Rochester Oratorio Society Chorus, and Eastman-Rochester Chorus.
John is survived by his daughters Betsy (Bruce), Cappy (Bill), Sara (Michael) and Peggy (Rick); his grandchildren Jocelyn, Quaker, Merrick, John, and Blanche; and his great grandchildren Samuel, Alex, Talli, Tatum and Nolan.
Many thanks to River Edge Manor, Episcopal Church Home, and Lifetime Care (Hospice).
A celebration of John's life will be held Saturday, August 28th , 10:30 am at Episcopal Church of St. Luke & St. Simon Cyrene, 17 S Fitzhugh St. Rochester NY. Reception and tea will follow. Please make a donation in John's memory to a cause you support.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Rochester Democrat And Chronicle on Aug. 20, 2010.

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August 26, 2010

Father Harmon was a very special person, I met him in 1963 in Williamston, NC..He and my mom were very close friends (Sarah E. Small) president of Eastern NC chapter of SCLC..he and Nikki were an inspiration to us all..I pray that our Lord will comfort you during this very sad occasion..I would love to make and keep contact with the you guys, I first met you when we came to Roxbury one Christmas from Williamston..Blessings, Paulette Small-Speller

Ollie Marshall

August 26, 2010

I met Mr. Harmon when he and a group of clergy came to Williamston, N. C. during the Civil Rights Movement. I was a teenager at the time but I always remembered the group. They were very kind and helpful. We appreciated all that they did. I lost my Dad, August 17. I wish you all love, peace, and strength. God bless. Ollie Mobley Marshall

Scott Fisher

August 23, 2010

I didn't know Mr. Harmon very well, but got into a conversation with him one winter day 3 or 4 years ago at the Abundance Coop. He ended giving me a ride home with my groceries on a cold and snowy day.

Lee Crowe

August 22, 2010

Your father was an amazing man and an example for us all.

Much love to all of you during this time.

From a friend of Cappy's,

Peggy Rosenthal

August 21, 2010

John was one of the gentlest people I've known, yet passionate about social justice. After Nicki died, we'd chat at Abundance Co-op, where he loved to lunch and socialize. He had a joy in life that has always inspired me and will continue to.

August 20, 2010

My many thanks for your life of service to others. You fathered a beautiful daughter in Peggy and will be remembered as a loving grandfather to Blanche. Although we never met, I feel I know you through the legacy you left to these two fine women and to our world. aloha 'oe John.

August 20, 2010

I worked with John in the Director's Office at Strong Memorial Hospital. He was a wonderful, kind and gentle man. It was an honor to have worked with him. Barbara Winter

Deprieshia Speller

August 20, 2010

Wow, I believe Mr. Harmon worked with my Grandmother, Sarah Small. It is sad to hear he as passed on but to live is Christ and to die is to gain. My name is Deprieshia. I would like to extend my love and prayers to his family.

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