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Thomas W. McDougal

FUNERAL HOME

James R. Gray Funeral Home

1530 Buffalo Road

Rochester, New York

Thomas McDougal Obituary

McDougal, Thomas W.
Gates: June 24, 2007. Survived by his loving wife Margaret, daughters Laurie (Guy) Perry and Christine (Randy) Earwood; sisters Judy (Floyd) Kuhns, Bonnie McDougal; brothers Timothy (Mary) & Robert McDougal; grandchildren Alex & Julia Perry and Allison & Emma Earwood; nieces; nephews & cousins.
Friends may call at the James R. Gray Funeral Home, 1530 Buffalo Rd. @ Howard, Wednesday 4-7 pm. Funeral Mass Thurs. 11:30 am at St. Helen's Church, 310 Hinchey Rd. Entombment Corning, NY at the family's convenience. Expressions of sympathy may be sent to James P. Wilmot Cancer Center, PO Box 23029, Roch., NY 14692, in his memory.

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Published by Rochester Democrat And Chronicle on Jun. 26, 2007.

Memories and Condolences
for Thomas McDougal

22 Entries

Julia Perry

July 12, 2008

My grandpa was my hero. Actually, he was more to me than words can desribe. He was an extremely handy guy. He could fix anything, anywhere, anytime. I still look up to him now and I will forever. He was a great role model, grandfather, father, and husband. I miss him terribly but when I think of him I think of all the good times our family has had together. He could alwlays put a smile on my face. I love you and miss you Grandpa, you will forever be in my heart.

I love you so much,
Julia.

Mary & Tim McDougal

October 17, 2007

Marge,Laurie,Crissy,
Sometimes There are No
Perfect Words,
Only Thoughtful Silences
That Whisper Softly
Of Caring.
Tom Will be missed by all.

The Briggs Family

August 10, 2007

Dear Aunt Cookie, Laurie and Chris,
Uncle Tom was a loving husband, father, Grandfather and Godfather. Hold dear the memories of your time together and realize that he left a living legacy in each one of you, and in us, that goes on as the days pass.
He was genuine and kind and I'll bet right now he is smiling from ear to ear because he has a few nicer golf courses to choose from than the rest of us :-)
We Love You Beyond Words,
Tracey, Dave, Ben, Zack and Jessy

Florence Cecce

August 9, 2007

Cookie, Laurie and Crissy
What can I say.
Tom was more than just a brother-in-law to me. After having lived with him and Cookie for so many years, I'm sure he thought that he had two wives instead of just one to put up with. He was one of the easiest going people I ever met. If Cookie and I called him to say we were going to be late because we were still shopping, his answer would always be "That's Ok".
In all that time, I don't remember him getting upset with too many things. He was always there whenever I needed to be taken to or picked up from the airport, along with helping me with everything else I may have needed.
I will miss our going out to dinner on Friday nights and I will always be grateful for letting me be such a big part of your lives.
I love you all,
Flo

Henry Cecce

July 26, 2007

Cookie, Chrissy and Laurie.
There are many good things we can say about the way Tom lived,but I was more inspired by the way Tom accepted death.

He never once said, Why me? or how bad he felt.His main concern was if he had done enough for his family.
I hope that I will accept my time with the same strength and dignity that Tom did.

Alex Perry

July 23, 2007

"My Grandpa"

I would like to take a couple moments to describe my grandpa from the point of view of one of his grandchildren. He was the jolliest, proudest, and strongest man you will ever meet. He enjoyed many things in his life. More than anything he enjoyed helping others. To give a few examples one time my dad came up with an impossible idea to build an in ground pool. Well to say one thing this definetly was impossible until my grandpa agreed to help. Being the miracle maker he is over the next four weekends my grandpa would wake up every morning saying one of his famous lines "well let's get to it" until the pool was finally complete. Some other things my gradpa enjoyed were fishing, golfing, and watching racing. I only know a few people that can say this but my grandpa greatly enjoyed his work. Along with work though were computer problems. I cannot count the number of times when my grandpa would say to my dad "well Guy I got a couple of things you need to fix in here." Another way I would describe my grandpa is a great family man. He would always take me to my lacrosse tournaments and football games. Since football was one of his joys he would proudly wear my number on the back of his sweatshirts and help out with the chains. Also my grandpa accomplished everything he was put on this Earth to do. He achieved the greatest goal in life which was he raised a great, close-knit family. He has two very successful daughters and four thriving grandchildren. Also my grandpa left a part of him with all of us. To give an example he left his mechanical advice with my dad. As for myself he taught me a very valuable life lesson which is to always enjoy life, no matter what is thrown at you. Since I loved him so much and respected the type of person he was, he had a great impact on my life and the decisions I've made. The last thing I will say is he is the best grandpa I could ever ask for and he will be greatly missed.

Love,
Your grandson "Al"

Carol and Nick Ferratella

June 28, 2007

Cookie, Words can't express the sincere sympathy we want to express to you during your loss. Tom was such a great person; he always made one feel so comfortable with his warm, boyish smile. Our youngest son, Chris, is getting married Friday night so we won't be able to attend the services. Please know you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

Linda & Lena Faulisi

June 27, 2007

Cookie, Laurie & Chrissy,
Lena and I wanted to say how sorry we were to hear about Mr. McDougal. We have so many great memories of him during our softball years! Not to mention all the pool parties. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Tom Gee

June 27, 2007

Cookie, Laurie, Chrissy, Flo, and the family,

I am so sorry to hear of Tom's passing. I understand how hard these times are for everyone; my dad passed 2 weeks ago. Cookie, you and Tom took me into your home and helped me during my greatest time of need and I cannot thank you enough for that. Tom was a great man who lived a wonderful life and he will be sincerely missed. Please accept my deepest sympathies and please let me know if there is anything I can do to help at this time.

The Gee family's thoughts and prayers go out to all of Tom's loved ones.

Maureen & Harvey Miller

June 26, 2007

Cookie, Laurie and Chrissy,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your families at this time. We are sure you have many good memories of the years while the girls were growing up and with your grandchildren.

Ann Collins

June 26, 2007

Mrs. McDougal, Chrissy & Laurie,
I have nothing but fond memories of Mr. McDougal. I heard of his recent illness and kept you all in my prayers! It saddens me to know that you all had to deal with this. He was a wonderful man and I have great stories that bring a smile to my face of my times with you all growing up! I know he was a hard worker who put his family first. He will be so missed! Please accept my deepest sympathies!

Russell Miller

June 26, 2007

When we think of what a father should be, Tom comes to my minds eye. I remember his calming presence and his strength. He is as hard as stone and as soft as silk. As a younger man, I looked up to him as someone to emulate. His life is an example to all of us that it is about the journey and how you touch the people around you in a positive way. I know he will be watching over those people he loved, and when they miss his company, the thought of him alone will bring them comfort and they will feel his presence again. We all make this journey, few do it as well as Tom.

Marilyn Ling

June 26, 2007

Dear Mrs. McDougal, I have thought of Mr. McDougal and you so often since he finished his radiation treatments. My heart, thoughts, and prayers go out to you and your family at this time. In the brief time that I knew Mr. McDougal, it was so apparent that he was an amazing and remarkable person, and that he partnered with a wonderful wife and had a loving family. It was a pleasure to get to know you both, and a privilege to participate in his medical care. Mr. McDougal is now comfortable and in a better place. This is sent with warmest personal regards. Please take good care of yourself, as you have so many others.

Lisa and MaryAnne Hughes

June 26, 2007

Margaret,
Our Thoughts and Prayers are with you and your family. You have always been a special person to our family and I could only imagine how special your husband was to you and your family by the stories you told. Our thoughts and prayers are with you always.

Gerrie Storch

June 26, 2007

Cookie, Laurie, Chrissie, Flo and families. My thoughts and prayers are with you. I am in Corning briefly for a wedding so cannot get to Rochester. Tom's sense of humor and all-around great person leave lasting memories. May your memories keep you through this difficult time and know that I think of you often. Come down to NC when you can.

Patrick Kuder

June 26, 2007

Margaret,
It's not often in this life that I can say that I have run into a genuine nice guy. Tom was the definition. I will miss him. No words can express my sympathy to you and your family. Sandi and I are here if you need anything.
Pat Kuder

cathy nagle

June 26, 2007

Laurie, Guy, Alex, and Julia-

You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Greg and Cathy Nagle

Missy and Jake Horvat

June 26, 2007

Cookie,Laurie,and Chrissy-
We are so sorry for your loss. "T" will be forever in my fondest memories. Heaven has truly gained one of the best! May the Lord give you his comfort at this difficult time. With Deepest Sympathy~

Marsha Johnson

June 26, 2007

Margaret and Family
I am so sorry to hear about Tom, my prayers are with you and your family.

Carl Brownscheidle

June 26, 2007

I can't say enough about him. He was just a terrific guy, a great family man, and a good friend. I'll always remember him for the kindness he extended to me along the way and for helping me transition to the truck parts business. He was the most knowledgeable guy I knew in the business and was always willing to share and help out where he could. I can't thank him enough.

My sincere sympathy to you Cookie and the entire family. Tom spoke of you guys all the time to me. There was no question Tom was a loving husband, father and grandfather. You were always uppermost in his mind. I admired him for it.

Needless to say, I will miss him. But I rejoice at how he lived his life and know God will reward him accordingly. He was a good man.

"Jesse" James W. Olyslager

June 26, 2007

good memories of days gone by . Fairwell

Tony Ulgiati

June 26, 2007

Tom will always be with me as he taught me so much about life. He was one of my very few friends, I will miss him always. Wish I could be with in your time of need Cookie, but know that I am with you in spirit.

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