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Shirley A. Harkness

1939 - 2013

Shirley A. Harkness obituary, 1939-2013

BORN

1939

DIED

2013

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Archdiocese of Denver Funeral Home at Mount Olivet

12801 W. 44th Avenue

Wheat Ridge, Colorado

Shirley Harkness Obituary

74, a longtime resident of Arvada, died peacefully, September 14th at Lutheran Hospital. Born August 28, 1939, in Ness City, KS. Survived by children; Christine, Cheryl (Kirk), Gary (Rebecca), stepchildren; Thomas III (Carol), Steve, grandchildren; Kelly, Amy, Merissa, Tommy IV, Jake, Sami, Abby, Ashley, Cameron, 6 great-grandchildren & numerous nieces & nephews. Preceded in death by her husband of 43 years, Thomas Harkness Jr., sister Velma, brother Vern, & stepdaughter Karen. Shirley was a professional dancer, instructor & former owner of Carlyle Studio of Dance. She was a long time active member of St. Anne's Catholic parish & was involved in Altar & Rosary, Confirmation, Spaghetti Dinner, making burritos for St. Anne's Bizarre & numerous other church activities. She was very active in school & community activities, serving as PTA president, Cub & Girl Scout leader, Cotillion teacher, Harvest festival & pageant judge. She was also a member of the Red Hat Ladies Society & a long-time Broncos season ticket holder & avid fan. Among many, some hobbies included, reading, writing, traveling, theater, bowling, roller skating, skiing, reunion & cheerleading activities with former classmates, & professional nanny & taxi services for her kids & grandkids. She most enjoyed socializing with friends, family activities & spending time with her grandkids. Services Thursday, September 19th; Viewing 9:30am, Rosary 10am, Mass 10:30am at St. Anne's Catholic Parish in Arvada. Reception following the mass at St. Anne's Parish Center. Burial at Mt Olivet Cemetery.

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Published by Denver Post from Sep. 17 to Sep. 18, 2013.

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Ruth Konda

September 30, 2013

St. Annes' Parish has lost a wonderful member, so dedicated and hardworking and fun to be around. Our only consolation is that she is with God and finally free from pain.

Marilyn Lyle

September 22, 2013

How we laughed through so many times especially when you were my maid of honor in 1956. We cried together many times too, but always were there for each other. How I will miss our lunches and our phone calls. God will be there to welcome you, my friend--just don't talk His arm off!
Love, Marilyn

Kristi Engelking Hollis

September 19, 2013

Having your mom teach us dances for the Lawrence Elementary talent shows is a very fond memory. My thoughts are with your family.

Dale and Toni Harris

September 19, 2013

Quite a few years ago, we regularly sat next to Shirley and Tom in the East stands at Mile High Stadium. They were great Broncos fans, and such fun to be with. We are saddened to learn of her passing, and we send our sympathies to her family.

Cari DeYoung

September 17, 2013

I will be forever grateful for your friendship. Thank you for sharing your love so generously with me, my husband and children. You will be greatly missed, but I know you will be looking over us from heaven! God Bless You, my dear Friend, and may perpetual light shine upon you!!! Love, Cari, Mike, Ryan and Danielle DeYoung

September 17, 2013

I have fond memories of Shirley during our Holy Family High School Days. Our prayers and sympathy to her family and friends. She will be missed.
Dan & Eileen Moriarty
Arvada, Colorado

Marianne Alonzi

September 17, 2013

Heaven has welcomed a very special angel. Shirley will be missed and always in our hearts. My thoughts and prayers are with her family and all the lives she touched.

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