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Jeffrey Chalmers Obituary

CHALMERS Jeffrey A. Chalmers, 52, of Chillicothe, died unexpectedly, Saturday, May 28, 2011 at his residence. He was born July 4, 1958, in Akron, to James K. and Phyllis J. Cottrill Chalmers. On September 21, 2001, he married the former Kathleen A. Van Hise, who survives. Also surviving are his father, James K. Chalmers of Columbus; a step-son, Mark E. McCloud II of Columbus; a brother, Jerry (Stacy) Chalmers of Columbus; several nieces and nephews including, Brielle and Lee Chalmers, both of Columbus; and a sister-in-law, Debra Crompton of Circleville. He was predeceased by his mother Phyllis J. Chalmers. Jeffrey served in the U. S. Army. Funeral service will be held 1 p.m. Wednesday, June 1, 2011, in the WARE FUNERAL HOME, Chillicothe, with Rev. Dr. David E. Brownfield officiating. Burial will follow in Greenlawn Cemetery, where military graveside rites will be conducted by the Ross County Veterans Honor Guard. Friends may call at Wares from 6-8 p.m. Tuesday. You may sign his online register at www.warefh.com

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Published by The Columbus Dispatch from May 29 to May 30, 2011.

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Kathy Chalmers

December 18, 2011

Jeffie

K C

September 28, 2011

I cried when you passed away. I cry today still. Although I loved you dearly, I couldn't make you stay. A golden heart stopped beating, hard working hands at rest. God broke my heart to prove to me he only takes the best.

Kathy Chalmers

September 21, 2011

This is the 4th time I've started this entry; I can't find the right words to express what my heart feels.
September 21. Today is our tenth wedding anniversary, and we had planned to renew our vows today. Since God had other plans for us, I have said them for us both.
Even though we are apart physically, we will never be apart in my heart, mind, and soul. I miss you every day, but I know that we will be together again, in His time, and in His kingdom.

Happy Anniversary Jeff. I love you.

Chalmers

August 9, 2011

A Letter From Rainbow Bridge

A poem describing the beauty of Heaven from the perspective of a loved one who has passed on. =)

To my dearest friends,
some things I'd like to say.
But first of all, to let you know
that I arrived today.

I'm writing this from Rainbow Bridge.
Here I dwell with God above.
Here there's no more sadness.
There is just eternal love.

Please don't be unhappy
just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you
every morning, noon, and night.

That day I had to leave you
when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me
and He said, "I welcome you.

It's good to have you back again.
You were missed while you were gone.
As for your dear family,
they will be here later on."

God gave me a list of things
He wished for me to do.
And foremost on my list
was to watch and care for you.

So when you lie in bed at night,
the day's chores put to flight,
God and I are close to you
in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth,
and all those loving years,
because you're only human,
they are bound to bring you tears.

But do not be afraid to cry:
it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers
unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you
all that God has planned.
But, if I were to tell you,
you wouldn't understand.

But one thing is for certain,
Though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now
than I ever was before.

There are rocky roads ahead of you,
and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it
taking one day at a time.

It was always my philosophy,
and I'd like it for you too,
that as you give unto the world,
the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody
who's in sorrow and in pain,
then you can say to God at night,
"My day was not in vain."

And now I am contented
that my life was worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along
I made somebody smile.

God says, "If you meet somebody
who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to help him up
as on your way you go."

When you're walking down the street
and you've got me on your mind,
I'm walking in your footsteps
only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go,
and from that body you are free,
remember where you're going.
You're coming here to me.

Jesus watch over you.

Me

July 26, 2011

When you left so suddenly, I wasn`t sure how to heal. When I saw this picture, it`s exactly how I see you now, in His kingdom. I'll always love you.

July 25, 2011

I really do miss you bro. i think about you every single day. love you always, your sis Deb

Me

July 13, 2011

It`s been over a month now, and I still see you sitting across from me watching Springer. I don`t know how to begin a life without you in it. I know God doesn`t give us more than we can handle, but I`m not sure just how to handle this one. God I miss you.

June 7, 2011

Thank you for your service to our country.

Blue Star Mothers of America
Buckeye Military Moms, Chapter 9
Worthington/Cols. OH

Lisa McComis

June 1, 2011

Kathy,
I am so sorry to hear about you losing Jeff. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Christine Plasse

June 1, 2011

Uncle Jim & family: I just learned about Jeff yesterday and I wanted to express my deepest sympathy. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Douglas Roach

May 31, 2011

Jeff,
You will be missed but not forgotten. I will see you again when my time is done, May God Bless you.
Life is but a stopping place,
A pause in what's to be,
A resting place along the road,
to sweet eternity.
We all have different journeys,
Different paths along the way,
We all were meant to learn some things,
but never meant to stay...
Our destination is a place,
Far greater than we know.
For some the journey's quicker,
For some the journey's slow.
And when the journey finally ends,
We'll claim a great reward,
And find an everlasting peace,
Together with the lord

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