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Melissa McCarthy Obituary

McCarthy Melissa McCarthy, age 50, went home to be with the Lord July 11, 2015 at the Kobacker House. Member of Circle of Power Ministries. Predeceased by father Ben Carpenter, step-father Fred Stabler, brother Jeff McCarthy, aunts Alethea McCarthy and Pauline Coles. Survived by loving family, daughter, Shnell McCarthy; mother, Beatrice Stabler; siblings, Lisa (Mark) Baldwin, Rebecca (Dexter) Morgan, Netta McCarthy, Fred McCarthy, Denver McCarthy, Terrence Cupe, Juan Cupe, Billie Bates, and Nitta Jeffries; nieces and nephews, Kendra, Bennisa, Benjamin, Marquise, and Dijon; special niece, Andrea; soul mate, Tim Coleman; best friends, Donald Stroud and Lolita Brown; host of great nieces and nephews, cousins, and friends. Visitation 11 a.m. and Home-going Celebration 12Noon at Southfield Baptist Church, 1355 Augmont Ave. Arrangements entrusted to SMOOT FUNERAL SERVICES, 614/444-1GOD (1463). Monique L. Smoot, Funeral Director.

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Published by The Columbus Dispatch from Jul. 16 to Jul. 17, 2015.

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Kesha white

July 10, 2023

It was a honor to spend time with u when u was on earth. I was very kind, loving, good spirit, always showing ur strength everyday. U was always smiling even through the pain... I know u looking down on everyone and continue too...tell grandmo I said hey...

July 18, 2015

Stay strong....if u feel the need to call on him do so...

kesha gravely

July 18, 2015

I want to wrap my arms around you and let you know I'm here for you sis. Keep your head up she here with you everyday she wouldn't want you crying she want you rejoicing. I know this is going to be the toughest day of your life. I know it's going to seem like everything is moving in slow motion.just know god and ur mom is with u everyday walking beside u...

Michele Turner

July 18, 2015

To my sister from another mother LOVE YOU ALWAYS RIP LAY

Galen and Caitlin Fuller

July 17, 2015

Auntie lay you are missed daily... the last time we saw you you were so happy we were there to see you and for you to meet my girl.. god has truly gained an angel..such a sweet woman and such a big heart.. we have so many memories that i will always cherish.. although you are extremely missed.. your smile..your laugh..and just the presence of you, would light up an entire room every single time... you were a strong woman and put up a big fight...now you're in heaven..watch over all of us, auntie lay..we love you and miss you more than words could ever describe... until we meet again, rest peacefully ... love for eternity...

Suerathia Turner

July 17, 2015

My prayers are with the entire family of Melissa. The race isn't given to the swift, nor to the strong but to those who endure until the end. God has blessed Melissa to be "Free At Last". There is no more pain, no more sleepless nights, now she's resting in the arms of Jesus and everything is alright. Rest on sweetheart you've finished your course and past the test. Though we loved you dearly it is God who loves you best. God has spoken it is finished.............so let the church say Amen!

Love to the entire family,

Suerathia C. Turner & Family

July 17, 2015

I am so sorry for your loss Beatrice and family. You know Melissa was my favorite. I will keep all of you in my prayers Susan Vogel - I was her homereach nurse for several years and it was a pleasure.

Carolyn Dixon

July 17, 2015

Melissa, man you are totally missed right now. When I first met you through our baby girl Sh'nell I remember calling you the woman with 9 lives, then after you made it beyond the 9 lives, teasing you that you were the only person I knew that had more lives than a cat. We would laugh and joke about it. Today I can no longer tease you about the stubborness you had and the strength through your fight tht you endured. Rest now, you don't have to fight anymore, no longer in pain, no more hospitals. Know there will never be another Melissa who can fight death the way you did. We will continue to watch over Sh'nell, she will be alright. Say hello to my Mama for me. Love and miss you.

Michelle Stultz

July 17, 2015

Words can't explain how I feel at this moment. But KNOW GOD Makes NO MISTAKES and THAT YOU ARE PAIN FREE IS WHAT KEEPS SH'NELL GOUNG and KEEOS ME SANE! I KNOE You Will soon be the ANGEL to Sh'nell and will Watch Over Here and Protect Her! Love You and UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN... TELL MY MOM HELLO and LET HER KNOW IM ALRIGHT CAUSE YOU WERE ON EARTH WITH ME! I LOVE YOU MOMMA MELISSA AND WILL NEVER FORGET YOY!

Chantal Dixon

July 17, 2015

Mom, you made it got your wings now...no more suffering here. Missing you much, it's just Sh'nell and I now...but don't worry, I will always be there for her and make sure your #1 is ok...we love you...love your other daughter Chantal..grandsons Didier and Dahon

loretta Dean

July 17, 2015

I am Sorry for your loss the family is in my Prayers

James and Carla Clay

July 17, 2015

Tim, we are so sorry about the passing of Melissa. We will keep you and the family in our prayers.

Marchae Wheeler

July 17, 2015

Hey auntie
I cant believe that your gone its really hard to know when i drive im up north i wont see u on the porch drinking your coffee
Words cant express how this feel u was like a mother to me and i thank u for everything u taught me im glad we had that talk and i will keep my promise to u. I love you and is going to miss you so much you are the strongest person know more. Rest peacefully my love.

Netta Mccarthy

July 17, 2015

R.i.h lay! You touched the lives of so many and will be deeply missed every minute of each day. I know your not in pain any more you fought along and hard fight. I will always have the memories of all our wild adventures and road trips. You are my sister and my ride or die road dog. Your now so many peoples guardin angel. I love you sis. God has. Another wonderful angel !!!

Rebecca Stabler-Morgan

July 17, 2015

It just seem so freaking unreal right now.Just four years ago we lost Jeff and now four years later were loosing you. Both of mommas first born gone to glory.For the last 16 yrs you battled diabetes.Such a terrible disease. Lay the doctors had said you should have been gone long before now. BUT GOD!! Through it all I bless and praise God that you are no longer suffering or in pain.I can only imagine what your thoughts were and how you were feeling. But through all that you were going through, Lay I truly believe that you had a little talk with Jesus and made it all right.Momma, Sh'nell and all of the family is hurting right now, but with time and prayer we all will make it through and will be alright.I take comfort in knowing that on last Wednesday July 8th 2015 when I walked in your room gave you a kiss on your forehead looked you in your eyes and told you I LOVED YOU. If we all live right we shall see you again. So big sis sleep on and take your rest until we meet again in that great getting up morning. Love your baby sister.2 Timothy 4:7 "I have fought a good fight, I have finished my course I have kept the faith". Come Sat big sis we ate going to send you to Glory RIGHT!!!!

Mimi Robinson-Bruce

July 16, 2015

Praying for the family.

Shnell McCarthy

July 16, 2015

What do I do now? No words can express how much I am missing you. All the things we never got to do, you are not here to say it will be alright this time. Lost is an understatement to what I am feeling but I know you want me to keep going. The thought of knowing you are not in pain anymore is what brings me comfort! Look after me Mom as I face this world alone. Love you and missing you

Michelle Stultz

July 16, 2015

She was MORE THAN just my Friends Mother but My Mother. I KNOW She is Finally at Peace. She will FOREVER have a Special Place In My Heart! Love You Momma Melissa! To The Family and My Dear Friend Sh'nell, Stay Strong ad She would Want! CRY For a Moment bug Smile for An Eternity!

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