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NEFF Rhonda E. Neff, 41, Tacoma, Wash., passed February 21, 2011. Born September 27, 1969, raised in Columbus and London, OH. Preceded in death by father Ralph E. Neff. Survived by son, Gavin; fiance, Brian Wagner of Tacoma; twin brother, Ralph Jr. of Tacoma; step-mother, Leslye "Tiki" of Grove City; step-brothers, Jason Haimerl of Cincinnati, Frank Haimerl of Tenn.; many aunts, uncles and cousins. There will be no service.

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Published by The Columbus Dispatch from Feb. 28 to Mar. 6, 2011.

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Sean Sanborn

February 22, 2025

Can see your big smile shining down, watching over your son, family and friends. You are in many people's thoughts and prayers

Mabel Nathan

May 17, 2024

Thought about you today Rhonda.You were a beautiful person

Carolyn Howard

February 22, 2024

Will never forget your smile. Such a sweet person.

Sean

February 22, 2024

All that got to know you are blessed. Keep looking over Gavin to protect and guide him everyday. You will always remain in our hearts.

Lisa LaFond

February 23, 2023

Rhonda, You're always in my thoughts. Still can't believe it's gone I miss so many things about you. You were one of a kind you'll never be forgotten.
Always Lisa

Sean

February 22, 2023

You are very missed by all that knew you. We keep you and your family in our prayers

Sean

June 25, 2022

My heart, life and family all has been blessed by you. Your smile today still outshined the sunrise and highlights the sunset.

Lisa LaFond

February 25, 2022

Not a day goes by that I don't think about you my friend I miss you so much more than words could ever say life just isn't the same without you girl I wish to God you were here. Think about your beautiful smile your kind heart just a beautiful you that you were. I love you Rhonda

Sean

February 22, 2022

You are missed by many every day. May you bless and guide Gavin through this challenging world today.

Sean

April 25, 2021

Still remember you smile and laughter to this day, you not only lit up the room but the world. You Gavin and Brian are in our prayers.

Lisa LaFond

March 4, 2021

Rhonda, Thinking of you and missing you so much!! Still can't believe that your gone. Love ya, Lisa LaFond

Mabel Jo Nathan

December 15, 2019

It's been years, but I still think of you Rhonda. REST IN HEAVENLY PEACE.

brian wagnerneff

August 25, 2017

i will always be yours my love ,we miss you...gavins 15 now and is starting his second year in hi school,i no you see him and how proud of him you are.we love you forever ,i can feel you alive in me baby,i love you

Mabel Jo Nathan

September 26, 2015

Rhonda,People leave ,
Memories don't.Resting in Heavenly Peace ♡

Carolyn Bentley

June 17, 2015

Thinking of you. RIP Rhonda, FLY high and wear those Angel wings with pride.

Rhonda's smile was life

June 14, 2015

Carolyn Bentley

April 10, 2015

Rhonda, you was a sweetheart. I miss and think about you. You will never be forgotten!!

Mabel Nathan

November 16, 2014

Rhonda, I haven't forgotten you. I wish you were still here. Bless you Rhonda.

Mabel Nathan

May 16, 2013

Today,I thought about you Rhonda,you told me I should use a gold shade eye shadow,I still have that eye color pen.I miss you .Rest in peace .

January 24, 2013

youll always be my girl,gavin n i love you ,,always thinkin of you rhonda ellen neff..

May 20, 2012

gavin just had his first double digit birthday wensday the 16...we love and miss u honey..you will always be my only girl my true love 4 ever!

April 14, 2012

me your bro,alana&gavin went for a bike ride today honey...i miss you so much

April 13, 2012

Brian she lived for you and Gavin please let's all live for her. This includes friends, family and friends that resepected Rhonda. She was born special made us special and she lived special.

B N G NEFF N WAGNER

March 31, 2012

I LOVE U RHONDA ELLEN NEFFWAGNER AND YOUR SON LOVES U,,,,4EVER

brian&gavin neffwagner

March 20, 2012

we love you hony,im alway thinking bout you.our lovegrows more every day even thoe your not hear your still hear with me n gavin.i no you dont wont to be in this house but were still hear n i cant wait eny longer so im going to bring you home..was waiting to get new place first...ill wait no longer u have to come home.this is 4 rhonda n to others reading this im talking about here ashes!its still her and i need here sooo bad!!!!

inseattle

gavin&brian neffwagner

March 20, 2012

at the river

gavin&brian neffwagner

March 20, 2012

you were at work

gavin&brian neffwagner

March 20, 2012

glaciar point on mt.rainier!

gavin&brian neffwagner

March 20, 2012

on the trampoline at bills house

gavin&brian neffwagner

March 20, 2012

gavs this years school pict..

gavin&brian neffwagner

March 20, 2012

gavin was branew

gavin&brian neffwagner

March 20, 2012

remember canon beach

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March 20, 2012

david mcmullen

March 19, 2012

I do not understand it but god does. Thats why he took you to his Kingdome in Heaven!you already know how much you are missed and loved Rhonda tell Stuart hello!Now you guys are Angels!!!!!

gavin brian

March 19, 2012

baby i thinkabout wen i wake up n all day long we miss you WE LOVE YOU!

March 7, 2012

Sean Sanborn

March 6, 2012

Rhonda you will always be with us. I am greatful that you were a part of my life. God bless over you and keep your Son healthy and safe. I miss you and think of you often.

BRIAN GAVIN WAGNER NEFF

March 4, 2012

Hony illalways love you,and your always with me.gavin and imiss you so much.WE NEED YOU!!!!!!!!

Lisa LaFond

February 23, 2012

Rhonda,
It's been just over a year since you passed, I think of you daily. I miss you girl.. more then in could of imagined. Love you always Lisa

February 14, 2012

Dearest Rhonda,today I found out you were gone,I loved you Rhonda.May you rest in peace.Prayers and much love to your family.You are missed,I've thought of you often;that's why I asked about you today.

Mabel Nathan

February 14, 2012

Dearest Rhonda,today I found out you were gone,I loved you Rhonda.May you rest in peace.Prayers and much love to your family.You are missed,I've thought of you often;that's why I asked about you today.

November 16, 2011

Dear Rhonda I tried contacting you and just found out today that you had passed. I was missing you lots and now even more. I love you my friend. Lisa

Steven E Dillon II

July 16, 2011

I'm shocked and saddened to hear about Rhonda. I knew her in middle school. My thoughts and prayers are with the family.

Matthew Caldwell

May 17, 2011

Rhonda, I was so so sad to hear about this today. RIP. My thoughts your son. Tony, Dave, Cindy..We are all thinking of you.

Tony Jordan

April 19, 2011

0:-)> My Dear Rhonda I'll Always keep a space in my heart for U!!! ~;-(>And Im Sorry You had To Leave Us All.~;-)> We Shared a Space in time that I will Never Forget(*__*) ~:-)> We had Soooo much Fun Together!! Fly On My Shooting Star!!! (*__*)

Jolena Goodling

March 29, 2011

I remember Rhonda she lived down the street from me and we went to Hamilton together. She was a wonderful person. My prayers go out to her son and family.

jennifer johnson

March 4, 2011

my prayers and thoughts go out to the family remember she is now a angel that walks beside you in life

misty duffield

March 4, 2011

R.I.P

Dana Zimmerman

March 3, 2011

Rhonda was a close friend and was present not only on my wedding day but was my confidant and consort when my mid life crisis drew me to get the breast enhancement surgery I had always wanted. She was there every step of the way helping calm and comfort even through the worst of the pain. My prayers and thoughts go out to her family and to Brian and Gavin. May your memories of the good times and all the laughter you shared with Rhonda help to ease this hard time.

Chrissy lang

March 3, 2011

Hey babe, I just want to say how much you will be missed and will never be forgotten. You will for ever live on in your son. When we see him laugh, smile and play we will aways see you. I will miss you.

Kelli Nicodemus

March 2, 2011

My deepest sympathies to go out to her family... May her presence be felt by her loved ones in times of need and in times of remeberance and her spirit be forever captured in the actions of her child.
Rest in peace Rhonda, knowing memories of you, in the lives you've touched, will last forever.

Naomi Paige

March 2, 2011

Rhonda was the first employee I met at ACE Cash Express. She trained me a few times and we have worked together a few times. She was always nice and always had great advice and a good work ethic that I will never forget! Rhonda, you will be missed. My prayers go out to the family and especially Gavin. Rest in peace Rhonda.

Darlene DeVolld/Coleman

March 2, 2011

I too have fond memories from our school days at Hamilton. To the family, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. May you find comfort in each other and your memories. Thoughts and prayers of many are with you.

Rene James

March 2, 2011

You will be missed Rhonda but never forgotten. My thoughts and prayers are with the family and your son. Remembering the fun times we had in class at Hamilton.

John Young

March 1, 2011

I was good friends with her brother Ralph and i remember her in school.Rhonda was always laughing and smiling.R.I.P

Matt Bradley

March 1, 2011

My prayers to the family. i remember Rhonda to be sweet and real. She will be missed.

Sean Sanborn

March 1, 2011

Rhonda was an amazing person with a heart of gold and a smile that could brighten any day. I will miss you and my prayers are with your son and family. (Sean Sanborn, WPB, FL)

Linda Baisden-Shepherd

March 1, 2011

My deepest sympathy. Many memories @ Hammy High. What a wonderful lady . Cols., Oh

Mary Borders

March 1, 2011

My thoghts and prayers are with her family..I grew up down the street from Rhonda and was a classmate at Hamilton High. She was a sincere person and very good friend. She will be missed.

Teresa Bass

March 1, 2011

You will be forever missed Rhonda. Praying for the healing of the family and friends who all loved her so much. (She was a longtime friend of 16 yrs and a fellow employee of Ace Cash Express)

LISA HOLLAND STRIDER

March 1, 2011

SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS , I REMEMBER OUR CHILDHOOD, A BEAUTIFUL FRIEND WE WERE CLASSMATES AT HAMILTON TOWNSHIP

Judy Peitsmeyer

March 1, 2011

You have my deepest sympathy in the loss of Rhonda. My prayers are with you.

Deanna Joseph/Pruitt

March 1, 2011

Please accept my heartfelt sympathy on the passing of Rhonda. I was classmates with her at Hamilton Township. Prayers and thoughts go out to the family and friends.

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