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Memories and Condolences
for Robert Toopes
Jenn Cole
May 18, 2022
I was so shocked to hear of "Coach Toops" passing just recently. I first met Robert in middle school at Gahanna. I was new to the school and as I was walking down the hall, I remember him coming up to me and asking, "You're going to try out for the basketball team, right?". I hesitated at first, because I wasn't much into sports, but thanks to his nudge of support, I went on to become a part of a wonderful family of basketball friends. Coach helped me in so many areas of my life, including discipline (we were always in trouble lol- he would say "take off" and we would have to start running suicides), unconditional love, and a man that cared for his players as his own children. Thank you Coach Toops for your support and dedication to bettering my life. You will absolutely be missed! My thoughts and prayers are continually with your family and those that knew you. Rest peacefully.
Mickie Gebhardt
May 28, 2017
We have known Bob his whole life. We played together as kids. We, Carolyn, Mickie, Vonnie and Paula were so shocked and saddened to learn of Bob's death all these years later while researching family history. Bob was our 1st cousin on his dad's side. Our mom and Bob's dad were brother and sister. Again, we are so saddened to hear about his death. You were loved and respected by many. A good man that we are proud to call our cousin. We wish we could have been there to say good-bye but we didn't know. Love you.
Barbara Meacham
September 10, 2010
I was one of his student teachers in the fall of 2008. He was one of the best mentors I had. I was also a member of the Gahanna Keep Moving Team, and along with him participated in the New Albany Walkathon in 2009. I am so sorry to hear about his loss, and my heart goes out to his family. He will be sorely missed.
grace bonilla
June 19, 2010
Mr.toopes was my homeroom teacher and by far one of my most favorite teachers. i will never forget when i was at camp and got down on myself and was crying.that was when he came and gave me a big hug. but there was always fun times too. he already knew me because he had my brother jonathan or "jonny bo." so did ms.lewis. that was fun. almost everything we did in class was fun. he was a really great teacher and he will be deeply missed. i love you mr. toopes!!!!!!!!!!!!! <3<3<3<3<3<3<3<3<3<3<3<3<3<3<3<3<3<3<3
love,
one of your homeroom students and friends that care,:):):):):)
gracie/gracie b
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Courtney Adams
May 18, 2010
My mind is blank, My heart does not know how to feel, My mouth is speechless. All i can say in words are Rest In Peace! May your memories stay in my heart and prayers! I LOVE YOU <3
-COURTNEY ADAMS
GAHANNA LIONS
Grace English
March 25, 2010
Mr.toopes,
you are greatly remembered here at south. we have done so much to raise money for a memorial for you. i love u soooooooooo much
Kelly Roberson
December 25, 2009
i miss him he was so amazing! i love u mr toopes!!!
D Brown
November 23, 2009
Mr. Toopes was one of the best teachers I ever had. I'll never forget the life lessons I learned from him. Even today, SYC is still in my head. He was a great man and teacher, and will be missed.
taylor g
November 11, 2009
Mr.toopes was awesome. Everyone loved him and i still cant beleive that hes not around. Monday when we got back to school i was so sure that it was a mistake, That our Mr.toopes was still alive but i was wrong. I only knew him for maybe a month or two but it hurt so much losing him. I'm so sorry for your loss and even though hes gone hes still there and will always be in our hearts. I love you Mr.toopes. Let your memory always live on.
Katlyn Klink
November 11, 2009
I will always miss you Mr. Toopes and you were the only teacher that ever called me kernal and I really love that you were funny in your own way. Ill always miss you and never forget you. I love you Mr. Toopes. this is making me sad writing to you and all i can remember is on Friday when on facebook i noticed that people were sayin RIP Toopes and thats when I found out that you were dead. Mr. Toopes i will always mis syou no matter what and you were the one teacher i wa sgoing to actually like very much and im very sorry for your family. ='( I LOVE you Mr.Toopes
From your caring
6th grade student,
Kaitlyn klink
Grace English
November 11, 2009
dear mr.toopes,
i luv u very much.u will always be missed here at gahanna middle school south.u were a great positve man.u will always staying positive.1 thing that u have taught me is always to show my class or my school so i am going to stay stong.i had a nick name it was English.i will miss being called that.u are always in my heart.i luv u dearly
<3<3<3<3<3<3<3<3<3<3<3<3<3<3<3<3<3<3<3
Your student,
Grace E.
November 7, 2009
i love you
man awsome
November 6, 2009
i love mister toopes
i made a group on facebook
search:mister toopes i love ya
Mike Cummins
November 2, 2009
Teri,
Please contact me...Your son and i discussed getting him some tix to the UD games and there are some available tomorrow night...
Kijera a.k.a. KI Hatfield
November 1, 2009
Dear Mr toopes family. Everyone at south loved him.I went to his showing and couldn't take it, as tears poured out of my eyes and past my cheeks i thought of toopsie and what he would be telling me "your killin' me chief." I was in MR. Toopes 6th grade science class JUST LAST YEAR.This is a hard thing to talk about.How could my FAVORITE TEACHER IN THE WORLD die!!We all loved him and wish this tragedy never happened.How could this happen i took a deep breathe or tried to at least.I didn't believe it when it happened then i came to school waiting to prove everyone wrong, anticipating to go to his room and give him the biggest hug in the world i watched the morning announcements and my world started to crumble. I LOVE YOU TOOPSIE <3!!! YOU WILL BE MISSED AND ALWAYS REMEMBERED!!
Cheryl Martinez
October 29, 2009
AT the beginning of my daughter's 6th grade year her father died in a car accident. I think "Mr. Toopes" filled a little of that void for her. She always spoke of him with great affection. We are so sorry for your loss.
kristin skamfer
October 27, 2009
To the Toopes Family
Im so sorry for your Loss
mr. Toopes was very Nice man i know Him
when i was at GMSS
you all are in my Payers
From Kristin Skamfer
Kelly (Twiss) and John Hanley
October 26, 2009
My husband John and I went to Ready with Bob. John played baseball with him and remembers his athletic spirit. I didn't know Bob very well. But, during the '70s, the Diocese conducted a series of weekend retreats called Teens Encounter Christ. One part of the weekend was a Saturday evening prayer service where those who had made earlier retreats came back to surprise and support their friends making the current retreat. Bob and I had made earlier retreats and returned to support someone (I'm embarrassed to say that I forget who), but I do remember that I drove my parents' white station wagon and we talked, laughed and sang on the way home. (Or I sang and Bob laughed.) It has occurred to me several times over the past week and a half that Bob is among the first of us to truly encounter Christ, which we believe is an extraordinary reward. But, as evidenced by the outpouring here and the never-ending line winding through the parking lot at the calling hours, his sudden death has had a profound effect on a lot of people and created a huge void in the lives of those closest to him. We pray that your family finds strength and peace in the days ahead. And to paraphrase a portion of an Irish blessing which was a favorite of my dad's (who was also named Bob and who encountered Christ in April of this year), "...until we meet again, may God hold [us] in the palm of His hand."
Kristy Beyer
October 24, 2009
To the Toopes Family:
We were deeply saddened to hear the news about "Coach" Toopes passing. My son Griffin had him as a teacher at GMMS and my daughter Chloe was on his 8th grade girls basket ball team at GMMS. Toopes was loved by one and all. His passion for the kids was evident from the moment I met him. We count ourselves blessed to have had our lives touched by him and know he touched so many others as well. He made a positive impact on both of our children's lives and is someone that we will never forget.
With All Our Love,
The Beyer Family
Bill, Kristy, Griffin & Chloe
Nancy Tongol
October 23, 2009
God Bless you, Toopes Family! I was so sorry to hear that Bob had passed! I have known him for many years, through my children and through my job as a school bus driver for Gahanna Schools. Bob was a wonderful teacher and coach. Anytime I drove Bob and his class or team, he remembered me and my children, asked how they were doing... I have always had the utmost respect for Bob because he just knew how to be a good teacher and coach. I respected that he remembered me and my children and that he seemed truly interested in how we all were doing. My heart aches for you and you are in my prayers. If there is ever anything I can do to help you, please do not hesitate to call on me!
All my regards and respect,
Nancy Tongol
John, '97 and Kelly, '99
October 23, 2009
My prayers and thoughts go out to you and your family. I had Mr Toopes for my 5th grade teacher and my middle school basketball coach. He was a wonderful teacher and man. He was one of my favorite teachers that I have always remembered. He will be missed.
Jamie Ulbrich (Klamfoth)
October 22, 2009
Hi Teri,
I am sorry about your loss. I went to Ready with Bob. Actually, the last time I saw the both of you is when you had a bunch of people over some 30 years ago for a movie (The Deer Hunter) and lasanga. Take care of yourself.
Tom Passero - Perrysburg, OH - Bishop Ready class of '75
Tom Passero
October 22, 2009
Hi Teri,
I am sorry about your loss. I went to Ready with Bob. Actually, the last time I saw the both of you is when you had a bunch of people over some 30 years ago for a movie (The Deer Hunter) and lasanga. Take care of yourself.
Tom Passero - Perrysburg, OH - Bishop Ready class of '75
John Julian
October 22, 2009
Teri and family - I am sorry to hear about your loss. I only met Bob a couple of times and he was always very friendly. I have heard many stories since his passing about what a great guy he was, I'm sorry I did not get to know him better. You can take comfort in knowing that he left quit a legacy and he will always be remembered. I will keep you and your family in my prayers, take care. Sincerely, -- John Julian
Vicky Graham
October 22, 2009
Dear Dave and Ruth,
I was so shocked and saddened to hear of Bob's death. He worked with my husband Jerry at Kroger many years ago. We both send you our sympathy and prayers. I remember Bob as such a positive and friendly person. I'm sure his family, friends and students will miss him very much. God bless you all.
Vicky Capretta Graham
Bethany Norman
October 22, 2009
Mr.toopes even though i didnt have you as a teacher, I i still cried when we had the drive by expeshily when the car drove by that you were in. I know people are so up set that you passed away so soon.It was not your time to go but i guess things just happen at the wrong time.If we were able to bring you back we would.You were such a big part of gahanna a teacher, coach and summer school teacher i bet you did more that that but thats all I can think of.You and You're family will be in our thought and prayers and ill never forget you.
Jessica (Wainer) Wagner
October 21, 2009
Mr. Toopes was my 5th grade teacher at Jefferson Elementary. I have fond memories of him shouting, "SYC!" (Show Your Class) , and I also remember us always bugging him for Extra Recess, which we abbreviated "ER." When we would aske for an "ER" he would act like he had no idea what we were talking about and would dramatically ask, "An ER? Is somebody hurt?" I hope that my daughters get to have a such a kind, spirited, and gifted teacher as Mr. Toopes.
My heartfelt condolences to his family.
Sara Smith
October 21, 2009
So sorry Katie, Mr Toopes was the best had him in 6th grade!!! Terrible loss!!!!
Mary and Michael Harris
October 21, 2009
Teri, Katie & Ryan -
Bob had such a zest for life and it was infectious. If ever there was someone who appreciated and knew how to make the most out of each and every day, it was Bob. We feel blessed to have lived next door to you all.
Laura DeMark
October 21, 2009
Bob always went out of his way to ask me "How you doin, kid?" everyday. He made me feel so welcome here at GMSS in my first 2 years of teaching. I always walked away from a conversation with him with a smile on my face. His genuine interest in people's well-being and kindness will be remembered forever. I am glad to say he was my friend.
My deepest sympathy for the Toopes family and friends during this difficult time.
Tom Skladany
October 21, 2009
Toopes was a man among boy's when it came to personality and honesty. He always had praise for my girls and he always had a smile. My favorite times with him were at basketball games where me and Toopes would talk about the Buckeyes and how our girls were doing in their sports. He genuinely loved people . I will miss him. We lost a good man. My sympathies, prayers, and thoughts are with his family. Let's grieve for him a short while...but remember him...forever.
TS
Jason Izolt
October 21, 2009
Mr. Toopes was my 6th Grade Teacher at Middle School East, and to this day I thank him for the inspiration and motivation he gave me. He was always so positive and always smiling. The picture in the obituary really shows his spirit.
Although I haven't seen Mr. Toopes in over 15 years, I am truly saddened by his loss and I will always remember him.
Stephanie (Hagood) VanTilburg
October 21, 2009
Teri, Katie, Ryan, Dave, Ruth and Family,
My memories go way back to the Westside. When Bobby and Uncle Tim use to babysit me, hanging out at my Grandma & Grandpas house or at Helen & Ed's house. What a great time we all had the laughter was so heartfelt - true belly laughs, smiles all around what a great family and great person. I enjoyed seeing Bobby at the soccer games when Ryan and my son Cameron played against each other (DeSales & Ready) good games and fun hearing Bobby's laughter again.
You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Now heaven will ring with great laughter and wonderful stories. He can keep an eye on Ed, Helen, Rita and Foster.
God Bless you all.
Maria Nader
October 21, 2009
Mr. Toopes was a shining light for my son when he attended GMSS. My son had a difficult time adjusting to the crowd at school yet Mr. Toopes went out of his way to bring out the best in my son. I will always be grateful for his dedication to the students. His legacy of molding, forming and making these young minds grow and develope is a testament of his wonderful spirit and heart.
Our deepest sympathy to his family and you are in our heart and prayers. We will miss his gregarious spirit and infectious smile!
The Nader Family (Maria & Nicholas)
Peyton Wallis
October 21, 2009
Mr. Toopes was my teacher in middle school. He always had a smile on his face and such a positive attitude. He influenced so many lives in such a positive way. He was one of my favorite teachers. I am so sorry for your loss. He will be greatly missed.
Alyson (Ramsey) Ray
October 21, 2009
Mr. Toopes was one of my 5th grade teachers at Jefferson Elementary. I will never forget all the nicknames he had for us! He made an impact on so many lives. Everytime I saw him at church he remembered who I was! Even after all these years! What an amazing individual. He will be missed but never forgotten!
Angela Stull
October 21, 2009
Mr. Toopes always belived in me, and what I could do. I don't ever remember him having a mean thing to say about anybody. I am glad I had the oppertunity to know him. Though I was too young to really appreicate him as a person, but he has been forever in my mind, there he will remain. He will be missed by many. I will see him once again someday.
Chad Kilhefner
October 21, 2009
Mr. Toopes was my Fifth-Grade Teacher (at Jefferson Elementary), and a very good one at that! We had a lot of fun joking with each other about football (Steelers vs. Browns). During college I was able to spend some time observing him, as I ended up becoming a teacher. He will be deeply missed.
Donald Smith-Merz
October 21, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Bryan Hicks
October 20, 2009
I have had the honor and privilege to work with Bob over the past 25 years at Gahanna Middle School East and South. Bob was dedicated and passionate about teaching and coaching our students about life long learning and about life's lessons. The thing I will miss most about Bob is his genuine and hearty laughter. We will miss Bob on our teaching team at South but we will always know he is with us. God bless Bob Toopes and his family.
Nicole Kellner
October 20, 2009
Many smiles as I think back on that time in my life at Jefferson Elementary. You are one of those smiles:) Thank you for your energy, your caring, and for creating so many wonderful memories for so many. You will be missed but never forgotten.
Ashlee M.
October 20, 2009
Mr. Toopes was definitely the highlight of my middle school years. There was nothing like entering GMSS as a 6th grader - afraid of everything - and seeing Mr. Toopes bright,smiling face! We had so many memories that year. The girls bathroom having a fire and Toopes running out in the middle of class to put it out, dancing during our math bingo game, and laughing at his goofy interactions with other students. He was my favorite teacher.
My thoughts and prayers go out to the Toopes family. We all know how much he'll be missed.
Vicki Dunlevy
October 20, 2009
I met Bob about four years ago at a Science workshop and our paths crossed in classrooms and basketball courts throughout those years. Our relationship grew from being colleagues to become friends. At our last meeting he shared his love for and pride in his family. He did mention he was beginning to consider retirement. I am sad that you all did not get to share in this venture with him. He touched many lives, leaving quite a legacy... impossible to forget. My deepest sympathies go out to his wife, his children, his colleagues, and his students.
Sharon Hofacre
October 20, 2009
Bob left an indelible print on the Hofacre family - what a kind,genuine, and inspirational coach and teacher. My 4 kids were lucky enough to have him as a teacher and a coach. He always inquired about them as the years passed and remembered each of their names. We were blessed to have known him. Sharon Hofacre W
Andrew McGovern
October 20, 2009
To my cousin Katie, Ryan and aunt Teri I wish so badly to be with you through this, I wish there was something I could say or do to take some of the heartache away. You are in my minute to minute thoughts and in my heart each night.
Bob to me was one of those rare people you meet that has the innate ability to make you feel comfortable and special for just being "plain 'ol you" Bob is one of the most selfless and understanding people I've ever had the privilege of having touch my life. I was fortunate and lucky to be able to call him a family member.
There are several moments that have been racing through my mind each day and night since his loss. Moments of great times shared together with him and my cousin Katie during our child hood, moments in which I was blessed to be able to experience his selflessness and understanding during my late teenage years and early 20's.
But the moment that stood out to me and has always had an important place in my heart for many personal reasons was during my sr. year of high school at DeSales for our sectional wrestling tournament. I had recently gone through an injury and this was my 1st attempt at wrestling again, I was in the finals wrestling a close match and the person I hear over the entire crowd is BOB screaming away, yelling and hollering like it was the Cleveland Browns in the super bowl. 4th quater, ball on the ten about to take it home. He was the person I looked to through out the entire match the person I could hear over everyone else. The match was nearing an end, it was close and on the line (I'm getting chills now thinking about the impact it had on me then as it does now writing this) I think Bob knew inside himself what I needed to pull this off, some how he not only in the end inspired me to win the match but inspired the entire gym to start a "chant" for the last min of the match which I dont think I ever saw happen at any Desales sporting event I've been apart of football,baseball wrestling in the 4 yrs I attended.
I'm sure I rambled, I just want everyone to know what a special person Robert Toopes is, Not only could he inspire one person to believe in themselves but he could inspire an entire gym full of people along the way...
Bob you will forever be in my heart and mind I will do my best to take what you've brought into my life and bring into others along this journey of life.
I love you and you will forever be missed.
David Long
October 20, 2009
You will be missed. Thanks for all the lives you touched. GO BROWNS !!!
Judy Ratzenberger
October 20, 2009
Toopsie,
We at GMSS will miss you! You are an inspiration to us all! You were always willing to give your spirit and enthusiasm to the students of GMSS and all of the Gahanna School District....Jefferson Elementary, Gahanna Middle School East, Gahanna Middle School South and Gahanna Lincoln High School. A teacher, coach, and exceptional human being.....
At South we would ask you to participate in various situations such as dressing up as a frog, eating marshmallows and then singing a song, doing the hula hoop, getting a pie in the face....all for the good and fun of encouraging us all to reach our best and finest potential. You are one in a million. I always could count on you for a smile or good story. Your passions were lived each day. You are an inspiration to us all. I know that the word Toopsie has a meaning that will be far reaching as all of us try to live in the moment as you did.
My heart goes out to your family. What a rich and loving life you lived.
Love,
Judy Ratz
David Long
October 20, 2009
I had Mr. Toopes for my 5th grade teacher in the mid-80's at Jefferson. He was a great teacher and person. I will always remember when he would tell the class that if the Browns won there would be no homework the next day. He made us all Browns fans!!!! Thanks again for being a great teacher. You will be missed.
Allison Montgomery
October 20, 2009
We have lost not only a great teacher and coach, but also a great man.
You will be dearly missed!
"Martha Mae" Hunsucker
October 20, 2009
Mr. Toopes, you will be greatly missed.
Rick Henne
October 20, 2009
To the Toopes family:
Our thoughts and prayers go out to you in this time of sadness. Bob was a truly wonderfull person who will be greatly missed. I always looked forward to Monday's and our golf league. It was even more of a pleasure being paired up with Bob as he made your round enjoyable whether you were playing good or bad. I'll miss you Bob and know that your hitting them straight in heaven.
Till me meet again, rest in peace dear friend.
Rob Hite
October 20, 2009
I had Mr. Toopes for sixth grade. He made such a difference in my life. Mr Toopes always believed in me when i was having problems with sports, school work, and even problems from home. There was nothing you couldnt go to him for help with or just to have a vent you knew you could trust 100%! He helped me get through physical rehab from a blown knew a few times and even came to my house once after my surgery to bring my work and explain it for me since i was unable to get to class. Even after graduation I always knew I could go to him for advice, and often did. Bob will be greatly missed, he was one of a kind, the greatest teacher, coach and mentor I could have ever imagined. My thoughts and prayers are with his family everyone else whose lives he touched so deeply.
liz plott
October 20, 2009
My deepest sympathies to Bob's family. I was saddened to hear the news. I have enjoyed walking with Bob for the last
few years. He was definitely fun and entertaining to walk with on Saturdays. He could always make me laugh even when my feet were hurting and I was really getting tired. Loved the way his group (The Tyznik Group) would have such a good time and he and his brother would tease each other. Myself and the Gahanna Get Moving Team will surely miss Bob. God Bless all Walkers.
Heather Hofacre
October 20, 2009
Coach Toopes will be missed by all of his former players no doubt. He taught us what it was to play well and fair- but more importantly how to be a good team and good people. My prayers are will your family who have lost such a great man
Heather Hofacre
saMya Greathouse
October 20, 2009
mr.toopes used to be my science teacher until he passed away. he was the sweetest man that i have ever met. he would always joke around and give people funny nicknames. we love u mr.toopes and u will always be missed sincerely mrs.debneys class.
patty "tyz" roboski
October 20, 2009
I am shocked at the news of Bob Toopes dying..I remember him from high school...as always being a very nice person.This world will not be the same or as good, without his presence.May the peace and love of Christ be with Teri and their 2 children during this very sad time.Patty Tyznik Roboski
Beverly Green-Sanford
October 20, 2009
Hi Teri,
My prayers go out to you and your family. My God give you the strenght to take one day at a time.
God Bless,
Bev
Jennifer (Hixon) Hoeffel
October 20, 2009
I had Mr. Toopes in 5th grade at Jefferson in 1980, his second year at the school. I was so excited to have him for a teacher. He had a wonderful ability to understand his students strengths and weaknesses. 5th grade was my favorite year in school greatly because of Mr. Toopes. We actually convinced him to let us produce the play Annie during our recess. I'm pretty sure we only did it so we didn't have to go outside. We actually ended up performing it in the gym for some of the younger students that year. It takes a special teacher to extend the boundaries a bit and that was who Mr. Toopes was. He was very special and will be missed.
Kyle Miller
October 20, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with the Toopes family at this time. He was my teacher in 6th grade at GMSE and I've got many memories from that year. Toopes Troopers at 6th grade camp, the Hunt for Red October was written on our chalkboard when the Reds were in the World Series,his love for the Browns and most especially SYC. Thanks for all you taught me, sir! You will be missed!
Go Browns!
Kacey Grady
October 20, 2009
You will be missed!
Amy LaDu
October 20, 2009
Our most heartfelt sympathy and sorrow goes out to Teri, Katie, Ryan and all who know and love them. We are praying for your strength and comfort.
Love, Keith, Amy, Carley & Kyle LaDu
Jennifer (Hixon) Hoeffel
October 20, 2009
I had Mr. Toopes in 1980 for 5th grade at Jefferson, his second year at the school. I remember how excited I was to know he would be my teacher. I consider my 5th grade year one of or the best year of school I had. I do remember we convinced him to let us produce our own play during recess. I think it was so we didn't have to go outside. But he actually had us perform it in the gym for some younger students, not many teachers would have done that. He was a wonderful teacher and he had the ability to have an impact on everyone single student he taught. He really took the time to understand each and every one of us. He will be missed deeply.
Chrsity Anderson-Dean
October 20, 2009
I was fortunate enough to have known Bob, both as a student in his class at Jefferson during his first year of teaching and then as an educator ,working with him during my time teaching and subbing in Gahanna. He was a wonderful man that God graced us with during his 30 year career as a coach, teacher and mentor. He will be forever missed. May happy memories help you through this difficult time.
Nicole Sullivan
October 20, 2009
I didn't know Robert well but I went to school with his son Ryan. Ryan I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers.
Erin Clark
October 19, 2009
Mr. Toopes was my favorite teacher. I am so sorry to hear he has passed but know he is celebrating in a better place. I will miss seeing his smile and passion for basketball.
October 19, 2009
we will remember Bob always and have fond memories of GMSS when he coached our daughter many years ago. He was her favorite as well as ours. He will be missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Cheri & Dick Leopard
Thompson Family
October 19, 2009
Grace & Peace be unto you, the Family of Coach Toopes. Our Prayers & Our Hearts are extended to you the Family of 'Toopes'. An educator (my sons teacher), A Coach (my daughters bball coach), A Good man. The thoughts of GOD manifested through the life of Coach Toopes, as HE sowed into the lives of so many. In the words of Coach Toopes..."that's good stuff". May you his family find comfort in knowing his life was that of a servant of Our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ.
The Thompson Family
Valerie Leopard
October 19, 2009
My thoughts are with the Toopes family. Mr. Toopes was my soccer coach for many, many years as well as my 6th grade teacher and middle school basketball coach (when GMSS went undefeated!). He was a BIG part of my life during those years, and I always respected his passion for teaching and coaching. I cannot explain the impact he has had on my life, and he will be truly missed.
Jacob Herron
October 19, 2009
"Im sorry Mr.Toopes passed away. He was my 6th grade teacher. He made a big difference in my life. He touches everybody he meets. Mr.Toopes is the gratest teacher I will ever have. I will miss him forever."
Kathleen Carrithers
October 19, 2009
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts are with you, your children and all the family.
Your cousin,
Kathleen Mulligan Carrithers
Aaron Byas
October 19, 2009
All of Mr.Toopes kids were like his son and daughters.All the great spirit that he carried when he came to class. always just joking around even if you didn't have for teacher no matter what he will always he will touch your heart by calling you a funny name that he only knew what it meant.
GOD BLESS GO BROWNS
Jennifer Hollett
October 19, 2009
Teri and family,
We are so sorry for your loss. Please know that you are in our family's thoughts and prayers.
The Hollett Family. Dennis, Jennifer, Gavin, Jillian and Lauren
Sharon Brown
October 19, 2009
I am so sorry about your loss. Mr. Toopes was my 5th grade teacher, my 7th grade girls basketball coach at Gahanna Middle School East, and my co- worker when I coached with him at Gahanna Middle School South. It was my first year coaching girls and he was so helpfull and not only did he teach me in school but in life. I will miss him very much.
God Bless
Amy Fox Banbury
October 19, 2009
I am so sorry to hear of Mr. Toopes passing. He was and always will be my favorite teacher. He made learning fun for me. But he was more than just a teacher. He was a good man and adored his family-always talking about them. Thank you Mr. Toopes for all the great 5th grade memories. You will be surely missed.
Doug Strait
October 19, 2009
I had the priviledge of knowing Bob through school. He had all 4 of our kids in his class and they all loved him a lot. My son, Kyle, had a special connection with Mr Toopes and I appreciate everything he did for my children. You will be missed by the Strait Family and all those kids whose lives you have changed for the better. My God ease the pain his family feels but I hope they know he did his job here and will have a place for us in Heaven.
Kennedy Sonya
October 19, 2009
Coach Toopes was a fantastic person and will be missed by many, many people. He coached my daughter in basketball this summer and she always said that she could tell that Coach Toopsie cared about the girls on and off the court. My daughter would always see Coach Toopes in the Kroger and they would talk, joke and laugh. She always walked away happy and smiling because of Coach Toopes. We were all so blessed to have him in our lives! To his family, I am so sorry for your loss. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
Alyson Shaw
October 19, 2009
I had Mr. Toopes as a 6th grade teacher. I remember Mrs. Lewis and him always joking around with each other! The first time i met Mr. Toopes was at a Gahanna basketball camp he called me little bit! Then in 6th grade i got him as a teacher and he called me squirt! Mr. Toopes taught me to always show my class. Mr. Toopes made everyone smile and was a great man. I'm really going to miss him. The Toopes family will be in my thoughts and prayers. I will always remember you Toopsie! I luv u!!!
Janiece Boesch-Miller
October 19, 2009
I am so sorry to hear of Mr. Toopes passing. He was my first student teacher back in the mid 70's at Beechwood Elementary in Whitehall and ironically worked with my father(John Boesch) at Krogers. I was in trouble for failing algebra. Needless to say, Mr. Toopes made sure that I learned what I needed and more before he left our classroom that year!!! I was so sad to see him go. What an awesome teacher. I will never forget him and all the things he taught me. Anyone who had him as a teacher is very blessed to have known him and learned from him. I balled my eyes out when I learned of his passing, but we all have an angel watching over us now! God bless your family.
Janiece Boesch-Miller
October 19, 2009
I am so sorry to hear of Mr. Toopes passing. He was a wonderful teacher for both Denise and Robert. The entire Gahanna school system has lost a wonderful and caring teacher. May God Bless you and the entire family. Chris Makar
Myia Clemmons
October 19, 2009
Mr. Toopes or as you may say toopsie pop was the best teacher any student could ever ask for. He touched the lives of all of his students with his funny dances,great personality, and compassion towards all of his students. Mr.toopes did not just touch the lives of his family at home but his family at gmss. WE LOVE YOU MR.TOOPES
Carrie Whatley
October 19, 2009
I loved Mr. Toopes so much. He was the teacher that made me excited to come to school every single day. I'll never forget the crazy fun science experiments that we did (burning laffy taffy!). I never had a class with him that I didn't laugh or smile in. And of course, he had his rampages against the Steelers, and his love for the Browns. After sixth grade, I visited him as much as possible, loving when I came in and he would call me "Bear" (short for "Care Bear"). He gave all his students nicknames, which I think everyone enjoyed. Although Mr. Toopes has passed, I think his life on earth will forever be cherished by the ones that knew him. God has truely been blessed to be with Mr. Toopes again, and my prayers extend to his family and friends. Love you, Toopsie. I'll never forget you.
--Bear
Janiece Boesch-Miller
October 19, 2009
I am so sorry to hear of Mr. Toops passing. He was my first student teacher back in the mid 70's at Beechwood Elementary in Whitehall and ironically worked with my father(John Boesch) at Krogers. I was in trouble for failing algebra. Needless to say, Mr. Toops made sure that I learned what I needed and more before he left our classroom that year!!! I was sad to see him go. What an awesome teacher. I will never forget him. Anyone who had him as a teacher is very blessed to have known him and learned from him. We all have an angel watching over us now! God bless your family.
Janiece Boesch-Miller
Mayme Gigl
October 19, 2009
Dear Teri,
Or "T" as Bob would lovingly refer to you. It is with great sadness that I send this note to you and your children. Please accept our deepest sympathy. It was always fun teaching with Bob. He, Eric Vaas, and I had many special moments teaching fifth graders at Jefferson Elementary. The kids loved him and so did we. He was born to teach and inspire those students each and every day. He was dedicated to them and loved them all as his own and they eagerly flocked around him knowing they had a teacher who cared. God be with you all and may He grant you courage and peace. Bob will always be remembered lovingly by all who knew him. He was a good man.
Fondly, Mayme and Paul Gigl
Kerry Joseph
October 19, 2009
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. Mr Toopes will always be remembered as a thoughtful, dedicated man, teacher and coach and will be greatly missed.
Kelly McNulty
October 19, 2009
What lovely words to describe an even more wonderful person. I have not seen Mr. Toopes in several years, but he has been described over and over again exactly how I remember. Smiling, laughing, dedicated, and proud. He was an inspiration to us all, and will be forever in our hearts.
Kelly (Joseph) McNulty
Jassmine Mitchell
October 19, 2009
Mr.Toopes is a well known man and many people loved him. I have never met anyone that ever said that they hated or didn't like him. My brother who is now a sophmore had him as a teacher and loved going to his class. I didn't have him as a teacher but i got to know him just by going through the Halls. I thank him for giving me the nick name Jazzy-Jass. He might not be here in the flesh but know he is still here, and it's shown through every student that knew him in any kind of way. Gahanna Lincoln (Freshman)
R.I.P. Mr. Toopes another soul gone, but never forgotten.
Michael Tyznik
October 19, 2009
I'm so sorry to hear about Mr. Toopes. I was lucky to get to spend time with him in Charleston. I've never known a more outspoken fan of my guacamole. His family and friends are all in my thoughts.
Paula Bourne
October 19, 2009
My sons were students of Mr. Toopes and all of our family adored him. His generous spirit and energy will be missed by many. I hope that happy memories will provide you with peace during this difficult time. With Love,
The Bourne Family
Kristine smith
October 19, 2009
Teri and Family
My thoughts and prayer are with you all. So sorry to hear of your loss.
Cousin
Kristine Mulligan Smith
Maria Peirano
October 19, 2009
We are so sorry for your loss of such an amazing man. My daughter, Alyssia, is in his 6th grade homeroom this year at GMSS. She adored him as a teacher. Mr. Toopes was able to get her to understand and like Social Studies, which has been a struggle for her in the past. Now, thanks to Mr. Toopes, she has straight A's instead of that dreaded B or C in Social Studies she usually got! I know that he made a wonderful, positive impact in her life and he will be greatly missed. I am glad that she had the honor to know such a kind, caring man and extraordinary teacher. She is having a very difficult time dealing with the loss of her favorite teacher. Our family will be keeping your family in our prayers during this difficult time.
annabelle
October 19, 2009
mr. toopes was an awesome man. he was great. he was an awesome teacher for 6 weeks until he passed away. he will always be in my heart and my familys. he will be greatly missed by many espically me. i luv u
Angie Herron
October 19, 2009
My son is a current student at GMSS and had Mr. Toopes as his teacher for Science & Social Studies as well as homeroom. My family was just getting to know Mr. Toopes, but we could tell right away how good he was with the kids. After reading so many of the other entries, it seems that everyone felt the same. I'm sorry that my son will not get the benefit of being with Mr. Toopes for the remainder of the year, but I am grateful for the time he did have. He will be truly missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends. This is a tremendous loss, both personally and to the community. He's touched so many lives.
kevin smith
October 19, 2009
Mr toopes was the best teacher you could ever have
love kevin smith
Tricia Guenther
October 19, 2009
Katie and Ryan - I don't know if you remember me or not, but I used to babysit you when you were little. I lived in Woodside Green too. I am saddened to hear of your loss. I remember your dad as a sweet and kind hearted man. I am sorry for your families loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Kimberly Koons
October 19, 2009
I remember when my daughter was coming in to South and how nervous she was to have Mr Toopes as her teacher and through out the year how she grew to love him! What an amazing influence he became in her life! He was a great teacher, extremely funny and was loved by so many! He will be missed in so many ways! My prayers are with his family, and for all of those at GMSS, and all of the students that loved him! May he Rest In Peace.
Maria Huck
October 19, 2009
Dear Katie and family -
You are in my thoughts and prayers. I am so sorry for your loss. What a wonderful man your father was - so many amazing memories have been shared by his students and players. He truely made a great difference in the lives of many. Katie, you also are a shining example of his greatness by the wonderful person that you are.
Please know that your friends and
co-workers are here for you to support you any way that you need!
Kim Cowman
October 19, 2009
I had Mr. Toopes as a 8th Baskeball coach at GMSS. He was not also a great coach but he was a great teacher. I remember him when I was in 6th grade ad GMSE. He will be missed. My thoughts and prayers go out your family.
Paul,Katie, Ryan, Ty and Rachel Schroeder
October 19, 2009
Terri,Katie and Ryan,
We are so grateful for the years we had living by you in Woodside Green. We have such fond memories of the fun we had.
We cherish our memories of Bob --his hearty laughter, his pride in family and his warmth towards all he met.
We're sending our most heartfelt condolences.
Paul Johns
October 19, 2009
I had the pleasure of knowing Bob through the Gatsby Golf League at the airport. Bob loved playing golf and always hated hole no 3 due to the double water. He will be missed by all of us in the Gatsby Golf League. May God comfort his family in this time of sorrow and provide peace during your loss.
Bob may you rest in peace!!!
Tara Schlosser
October 19, 2009
Katie,
I am so sorry to have just learned of the loss of your dad. He was such a sweet man. I remember the first time I met him at your house for the big 4th of July party. He made me feel so welcome. And I can't think of your dad without thinking of him eating burnt popcorn in the garage! You will be forever grateful for the short time you moved back home and spent with him. You have accomplished so much in your short life and I'm sure your dad was and is very proud of you. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Tara (McQueen) Schlosser
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