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Robert Wilder Obituary

WILDER Robert Thomas Wilder, age 64, passed away peacefully on November 9, 2011, at Grant Medical Center after a courageous battle with prostate cancer. He was preceded in death by parents William and Ruth Wilder and brother Charles Wilder. Survived by sons, Robert A. Wilder (Merele) and Marc A. Wilder; former spouse, Iola M. Wilder; aunt, Louise (Norman) Montgomery; grand-children, Ariel, Jacqueline, Chaz, Dameze, Olivia, William, Kristopher, and Isaiah; great-grand-son, Kaidyn; faithful dog, Spaz; and numerous friends. The family thanks you for your thoughts and prayers throughout this time. Out of respect for Bob's wishes, there will not be a formal memorial service. However, there will be an informal gathering in his memory at the Tremont Lounge, 708 S. High St., Columbus, OH 43206 on November 27, 2011 at 3 p.m. Arrangements entrusted to DIEHL-WHITTAKER FUNERAL SERVICES, 720 E. Long Street. To sign the online guestbook, please visit www.diehl-whittaker.com/obits

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Published by The Columbus Dispatch from Nov. 17 to Nov. 23, 2011.

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Jeffrey Johnson

March 4, 2021

I've know Bobby since the seventies when he worked at Lazarus downtown. I still have the Fisher speakers I bought from him all six of them. He was a nice man who made me feel welcomed at the bars since I was one of few blacks who went out to the clubs. I miss his presence and many people loved and respected him.

bellomy

November 30, 2011

I love you bobby, thanks for giving me a chance.

Joseph Moriarty

November 28, 2011

From the day I met Bobby as a wine salesman, to the days at Lazurus and till the day of going home to be with the Lord, he has always been in my heart.
Will miss you "little sammy davis jr."
Joe Moriarty

Brian Guffey

November 24, 2011

Bobby and I shared many wonderful moments through the years and I will cherish them forever. I'm so sorry for the Wilder family's loss. He was a great man and forever in my thoughts.

Matt Goldner

November 23, 2011

Bobby made my partner Billy and I feel so welcome to Columbus after we moved here from Atlanta 7 years ago. His smile and cheer will be greatly missed by us.

Ron and Tim

November 23, 2011

Our greatest sympathies to Bobby's family and his family of friends. We will miss this loving, generous hearted, fun to be around man of strength, integrity, and so much more to all who loved him. God bless you forever. Your mark will not be forgotten. Peace.

Your friends, Ron Shelton and Tim Wolfe

Toby Bristol

November 23, 2011

My friend and high school running buddy along with Sonny Moman. One of the original Berkeley Boys. My prayers go out to the Wilder Family...Toby Bristol

Carolyn Williams

November 23, 2011

Bobby and I went to high school together and I will always remember his big smile and fun ways. My prayers to his family at this time.

Rona Moore

November 23, 2011

Robert & Marc Wilder and Family; my condolences. You are in my prayers.

Dougie Jones

November 21, 2011

Bobby was a super gent. When I would come to Columbus to visit, he always took the time to chat with me and try to get me to move back to Ohio. May we all remember his gentle ways and kindness. My thought to his family. Rest in peace Sammy!

tracy morgan

November 21, 2011

may the god of of all comfort, hold the wilder family close,Bobby will be missed by many ...

Danny Baker

November 21, 2011

Bobby will be greatly missed by those who knew him! He was a rare jewel and I feel so blessed to have known him. Every time I hear the song "I'm Beautiful Damn It!" I will forever think of him!!!! Rest in Peace Dear Friend!

Michelle Green

November 21, 2011

To the Wilder Family, my thoughts and prayers are with you all during this sorrowful time. May the Lord be your refuge during this difficult time.

November 19, 2011

I would tell him he reminded me of Sammy Davis Jr. May he rest in peace.
Wendell H Williamson and family

November 19, 2011

Will miss you greatly, especially my
"Candy Man" song.

"BOO"

Sherri and Susan Williamson

November 19, 2011

To the Wilder Family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this time. Bobby always had a way to make you smile even if you did not feel like it. We had a great time this PRIDE even though he said he did not feel well, he was Happy that others were Happy. That was always our Bobby. Or as my Mom called him "Sammy". Our memories are endless and always will be. Until we meet again our wonderful friend. Rest In Peace

Billy Hockman

November 18, 2011

So sorry to hear of Bobby's passing. Blessings to his family and all his friends!

Tomas Lopez

November 18, 2011

Bobby will be missed by so many people. He was so a gentile soul.

O.G. Smith

November 18, 2011

The most tenacious man and biggest supporter of the Columbus community.Many years and many happy moments will be remembered of Bobby.His sweet nature and his entertaining ways will always keep this "Candy Man" in our hearts and prayers.Our condolences to all his family and especially to the Tremont family for a tremendous loss. He will be missed.

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