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John Peckham Obituary
John was preceded in death by his parents, Thomas Peckham and Lillian Peckham, and sister, Grace Peckham.
He is survived by his wife, Judi; beloved son, David Peckham; daughter, Mary (Lee) Smith; dearest brothers, Thomas (Janet) Peckham, Mark Peckham and James Peckham; and he was a dear uncle of eight.
John was an architect and worked for several firms and last was the architect for the interior design firm, Directions in Design, for many years. He also became a farmer the last 26 years at his and Judi's horse farm in Labadie. He loved to fish on his lake and enjoyed horseback riding with Judi and their many riding friends and groups all over Missouri, including a wagon train ride in upper Michigan. He was a member of the "Wild Bunch"^riders at Kraus Farms. (No one wanted to ride with us because we rode fast and furious). John was a good rider. John was an alum of Washington University School of Architecture and CBC High School, Class of 1961.
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Leddy & Russ Hammock
July 2, 2025
We never knew John to say a mean thing about anyone, ever.
He dearly loved his family, and we knew him to be a creative and patient soul. We were honored to be related to such a fine man. - Leddy & Russ Hammock
Michele Mendyk
July 28, 2022
Judy, I am so sorry you lost the love of your life...57 years is a testament to a beautiful relationship! He was always quick to smile and chat and I remember some fun rides we all took with ORR! I wish I'd known soon enough to attend the Memorial but just got an email from ORR about this news. Judy, please remember while in your grief recovery time to take care of YOU! Thinking of you both fondly!
Joyce Locke
July 13, 2022
Judi I'm so sorry for your loss. I am glad that I got to meet John when you were in a few months ago. He seemed like a wonderful man. Thinking of you with love and hugs.
Jan Booth
July 10, 2022
John was such a happy & kind man! We had many fun &exciting rides with the Wild Bunch! Always generous & a gentleman
Leddy and Russ Hammock
July 9, 2022
John - a fine man of wisdom, patience, faith and compassion. His kind ways, his love for his family and his care for animals are unforgettable.
Marie Scheetz
July 8, 2022
Judy you have my heart felt sympathy. Everyone at Direction In Design loved John! He was such a gentleman and I loved him.
Lyla Turner
July 8, 2022
I've known John for my entire life. He was a kind, gentle, loving man. I have many memories of hundreds of family gatherings. His sweet soul will be missed.
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