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John Wilson Brown

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John Wilson Brown obituary, 1936-2020, La Jolla, CA

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1936

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2020

John Brown Obituary

John Wilson Brown
December 18, 1936 - September 15, 2020
La Jolla
John Wilson Brown passed away unexpectedly on September 15 in La Jolla. He is survived by Barbara Brown, his wife of 61 years, his daughters Alison Brown of Nashville, TN, and Meredith Brown of San Diego, and his grandchildren Hannah Brown West and Brendan Brown West of Nashville, TN. John was born December 18, 1936, the only child of Elizabeth and John Brown Sr. He grew up in Port Chester, NY, where he met his soul mate Barbara Fletcher at the tender age of 14. The two shared a love of music (John as a trumpet player and Barbara as a vocalist) and, while still in high school, they were paired to perform a duet for the Ted Mack Original Amateur Hour. John received his undergraduate degree from Brown University and his law degree from the University of Connecticut School of Law. He began his legal practice in Greenwich, CT, specializing in trusts and estate planning.Serendipitously, John made several work related trips to San Diego in the early 1970s. He was fond of remembering the moment in La Jolla one winter afternoon when, surrounded by flowers and birdsong, he realized his future lay in California. The family relocated to La Jolla in 1974 and John established the estate planning division of Jenkins & Perry. He was later a founding member of the firm Brown, MacDonald & Ravin.John played significant leadership roles in many local professional, arts and charitable organizations over the years. He served as Chair of the Estate Planning Trust & Probate Section of the San Diego County Bar Association and The La Jolla Probate Section. John was a long time member and past president of The Rotary Club of La Jolla and also served on the boards of The San Diego Symphony, The Atheneum Music & Arts Library, The San Diego Brown Club and New Entra Casa.A staunch advocate for female empowerment, John was Barbara's most dedicated champion and encouraged her to make the transition from homemaker to Federal Prosecutor in the 1970s. The two ultimately combined their practices and formed the firm of Brown and Brown in 1988. Their daughter Meredith joined the firm in 1991. John continued to practice with Brown and Brown until his death.

John will be forever remembered by family and friends for his kindness, generosity and tremendous appetite for life. John was passionate about music especially symphonic works and mid-century jazz and delighted in travel and the pleasures of the table, parlaying his knowledge of "restaurant French" into many memorable meals during frequent family trips to France. A celebration of life will be organized in the future when it is safer for people to gather. In the meantime, the family requests friends to consider a tribute gift in his memory to "The Brown Fund" at https://bbis.advancement.brown.edu/bbphenix/give-now. Please sign the guest book online at legacy.com/obituaries/ lajollalight
Published by Encinitas Advocate on Oct. 1, 2020.

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Charles E Foster

October 11, 2020

Such a true gentleman and excellent attorney and advisor. He'll be missed.

Cal Mann

October 8, 2020

My sincere condolences to the Brown family and all of John's many friends. We will all miss his intelligence, dedication and sharp wit.

Kathleen and George Wahab

October 5, 2020

Dear Barbara,
It is with great sadness that we got news of your beloved husband John's passing away.
To you, Alison and Meredith, Kathleen and I extend our sincere condolences. May John's soul rest in peace and that wonderful memories of him will bring you comfort at this difficult time and in the future.
We will miss seeing you both walking arm-in-arm, a frequent encounter we expected on our walks. John will be greatly missed. Please know that we are here for you, let us know if there's anything we can do to help.

With our warmest regards.
George and Kathleen Wahab

Joyce and Paul

October 4, 2020

Paul and I send to Barbara, Meredith, Allison and family our deepest condolences. John will be truly and greatly missed by his great multitude of friends.
May you be comforted by loving memories, and the knowledge that many hold you in their hearts and thoughts.

Jane Reldan, MD

October 4, 2020

I added my photo just now and once again my deepest condolences to Barbara and their children and grandchildren for their loss of John.

Jane Reldan, MD

October 4, 2020

I am saddened for Barbara at the sudden loss of her beloved John, more than 61 years her beloved. John was a fine man and he was blessed to enjoy a wonderful union with Barbara from age 14 on! My sincere condolences to Barbara and the family. I remember John's daughter and adorable grandson playing banjo for LJ Rotary at our meeting years ago. I am a better personfor having known John.

Robin Luby

October 1, 2020

Chuck and I first met John and Barbara when they became members of a group who met to "read" plays for fun and personal growth. In the years that followed, he became our friend and lawyer. When we consulted with him, it was always a certainty that he had our best interests in mind. His clarifying questions and thoughtful advice, his unceasing warmth, and his love of both his profession and the people he served were evident in everything.

Al Potter

September 27, 2020

I met John back in 1988 when I built his office Brown and Brown at the Plaza La Jolla. It was such a joy getting to work with John on his office his kindness and thoughtfulness I left a memory for me I’ll never forget.
Al Potter

jim roberts

September 27, 2020

I am so sad to hear that John has passed. Everything that was said about him in this beautiful tribute is true. He was a man of boundless kindness, erudition and spirit. He lived life to the fullest and blessed all of us with the pleasure of his company. At an era when the loudest and crudest seem to drown out the gentle and thoughtful people, there are still many, including John's friends, who cherish what he stood for as a person and role model. And his pride , love and support for Barbara, Alison and Meredith set the gold standard for a husband and father. While said before of people from his generation, it is still so true, the world will be a lesser place without John.

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