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Tammy "Loving Mother" Graves

Tammy Graves Obituary

Tammy Graves “Loving Mother” Tammy Graves, 36, of Erie, passed away at home. Born in Erie, February 12, 1971, she was the daughter of Robert T. Graves of Collins, Miss. and the late Hattie M. Pikney Graves who died in 1994. She graduated from Academy High School in 1989 and attended the Erie Business Center. She was a cafeteria worker at Gannon University. She enjoyed spending time with her 2-year-old son. She was preceded in death by her mother, her grandparents and her brother Gregory who died at birth. Surviving are her son, Thomas Graves; five brothers; Robert Graves, Jr. of Erie, Eric Graves, U.S.A.F. of Dayton, Ohio, Kevin Graves, wife Monique, of Pittsburgh, Shawn Graves of Erie and Janson Williams; her sister, Pamela Graves-Piglowski, husband Anthony of Erie and several aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews and cousins. Calling Wednesday 5 to 9 pm at A. Brugger & Sons Funeral Home, 845 East 38th at Pine Avenue. Services Thursday at 1:30 at Morning Star Baptist Church, 327 East 23rd Street. Pastor Amos Goodwine will officiate. Interment at Lakeside Cemetery. Condolences at www.bruggerfuneralhomes.com Sign the guestbook at www.GoErie.com/obits

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Published by Erie Times-News from Jun. 26 to Jun. 27, 2007.

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Julie Logan

July 23, 2007

I am so sorry to hear the lost of Tammy. She was a sweet and kind young lady. I went to Academy High School with her... and there will never be a person like her. To the entire Graves family, may God Bless each and everyone of you!!!! Much Love to you all.
Julie Logan Class of 89'

Lorine Lewkowicz

July 9, 2007

To the Graves family,
Tammy will be sadly missed. I hope you can take comfort in all of the wonderful memories of the times with her and know that she is watching over all of you and will always be with you. Please let me know if any of you need anything.

My Love always,

Betty Graves

July 3, 2007

We are so sorry to hear of your loss. I know that all of heavens' angeles will continue to watch over young Thomas. Our prayers and affection are with you all always.

Betty, Brie, Myles and Elizabeth
Wife and childern of Eric Graves
Dayton, Ohio

marshall jones

July 2, 2007

GOD bless all of Tammy's family members! Shawn stay strong!

dj primo 4 real!

Dave & Chris (Fantasia) Pesch

June 30, 2007

Dear Shawn:
We were shocked and saddened to hear of your tragic loss. We had no idea (we don't get the paper everyday), but we saw Bill and he told us. Shawn, if we had known we most certaintly have come by to pay our respects. Please know that you are in our prayers and we are thinking about you. May God give you the strength you need. Again, you have our deepest deepest sympathies.

Valarie (Ace) Moser

June 30, 2007

To the Graves Family,
I am truely sorry for your loss. I knew Tammy in school, we went to Academy together and also Erie Business Center. My prayers are with all of you.

Kristy Bilski

June 29, 2007

Pam & Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

Greg & Jackie Kiddo

June 28, 2007

We are so sorry to hear about your loss and wanted to express our sympathy to the entire Graves family in this time of sadness. Always remember the good times and cherish every day. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Deborah Clinton

June 28, 2007

Kevin,Monique and Family.
May God be with you at this time of sorrow

Shay

June 28, 2007

No words are adiquate for such a tragedy, but my prayers are with you and your families.Tommy has a special guardian over his shoulder then,now and always.May Tammy rest in peace.

Shawntrell (Stewart) Williams

June 28, 2007

Graves Family,
I am truly sorry about the loss of Tammy. I remember Tammy from Church (Morning Star) and we graduated from Academy together. She was always nice and she always carried a smile on her face. Although she is not here physically she still lives in the hearts of all of us.

SHARON H.

June 28, 2007

Be Still

Be still like the grass on a melancholy summer day
Be still like desert shrub.

Be calm and you will hear your loved one speak, in the stillness, in the calm, their love resounds.

If you are still this promise I make, you will hear the voice of your loved one helping you along your way.

L B

June 28, 2007

I did not know Tammy at all, all I know of her is from the media, it doesn't matter as we are all of gods children and my thoughts and prayers are with Tammy and her family.

Denise Grove

June 27, 2007

I knew Tammy from when she first started bringing Thomas to KinderCare. She came in each morning with a smile on her face-as did Thomas. Rain or shine, she was there with a smile. She was a very determined individual and loved Thomas very much. She will be sadly missed.
My thoughts and prayers are with the Graves family.

Michelle Horvath

June 27, 2007

To The family of Tammy,

I knew Tammy as the mother of Tommy who went to Kinder Care. Tammy was always so happy when she would bring Tommy in and when she would come back to pick him up. Tammy always showed her love to Tommy all the time even when she was in a hurry. Tammy would ask questions about things she was not sure of when she came in. I will never forget Tammy's smile when she would stand by the door waiting for Tommy. Tammy would always put a big smile on my face. May you always know that Tammy is watching over you all right and will never leave your side.

Larry & Paulette Gates, Sr

June 27, 2007

Blessed are they that mourn, for they shall be comforted. May you find comfort in knowing that the love of friends and family shall help you through your time of sorrow.

Tamara (Epps) Lyons

June 27, 2007

To the family of Tammy,

I didn't know her well but she was kind and sweet and always had a smile on her face when I would see her. She will be missed.

Patricia Jones and Family

June 27, 2007

To Pete,Shawn, Janson and entire Family
Our prayers are with you in your time of sorrow.
May God Bless and keep you.

Greg and Ray and Pam Graves

June 27, 2007

Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead.

Christine Johnson - Drew

June 27, 2007

I am so sorry for your loss. She was such a nice person. I will keep your family in my prayers. God Bless

Cliff and Gloria Lyles

June 27, 2007

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

renae hicks

June 27, 2007

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2007

Jacqueline Elston

June 27, 2007

TO THE GRAVES FAMILY,

I offer my deepest sympathy to you during this time. I had the pleasure of attending school with Tammy. May GOd's love comfort you.

Philomena Hunter

June 27, 2007

"Pete and Janson,
So sorry to hear about your loss. I pray you have great memories to get you through the bad times.

Philomena Williams Hunter & Family

June 27, 2007

so very sorry about your lost
iam sure tammy was a very loving person and she well be missed by her little boy take very good care of him and gave all your love to that little one god bless to the family
erie pa.

June 27, 2007

May God Bless Tammy and forever watch over her little boy, Tommy. He is a "Miracle" child and may he have peace in his lifetime. God Bless you and your whole family.
CAMI

STACYAND MIKE SMITH

June 26, 2007

BOB, DIANE AND FAMILY
WE ARE THINKING OF YOU AND YOUR FAMILY IF THERE IS ANYTHING WE CAN DO GIVE US A CALL.

Frankie Morales

June 26, 2007

To The Graves Family
My hope and prays are with you and your whole family I know that we all have a limited time but god know Have faith and may god bless all of you at this time of need your friend always

Char Riddle (Brawn)

June 26, 2007

I attended high school with Tammy and recall some of the nice conversations we had in classes together. I am very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to her family and her young son at this difficult time.

James Skelly

June 26, 2007

Pam, Anthony and Graves Family,
I am so very regretful to learn of your beloved Tammy. If you should be in need of anything during your difficult times please call me. Tammy walks with Jesus now! God bless her.

ANGELIA ROGERS (EVANS)

June 26, 2007

MY DEEPEST, SINCERE SYMPATHY GOES OUT TO THE FAMILY. TAMMY WAS A KIND, SWEET, QUIET AND PEACEFUL WOMAN. I ENJOYED THE CONVERSATIONS WE HAD TOGETHER IN THE CLASSROOM OF ACADEMY. SHE WILL BE DEEPLY MISSED.

Gwen Cooley

June 26, 2007

Shawn know the I am here for you and the family at this time. My prayers are with you, know that "weeping may endure for a night but joy will come in the morning."

June 26, 2007

To The Graves Family:

It is so sad to hear of a loss of a young woman. I am praying for the family and her dear child. My heart aches with so much sympathy.

God bless.

A friend Class of 1989-AHS

June 26, 2007

To the Family of Tammy Graves:

My deepest heartfelt sympathies to you during this very difficult time. I attended grade, middle, and high school with Tammy. She was a very gentle and kind soul. Rest assured that she is in heaven not suffering anymore, and watching over all of you...especially her little boy. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Christine Davis

June 26, 2007

To the family of Tammy Graves,
I am so sorry for your loss. Its so sad that this happened to such a young mother. My deepest sympathy goes out to you. You all are in my prayers. And God Bless that little boy for being so strong. He is truly a miricle!

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