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Helen Shell

1923 - 2019

Helen Shell obituary, 1923-2019, Bartlesville, OK

BORN

1923

DIED

2019

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Stumpff Funeral Home & Crematory - Bartlesville

1600 Southeast Washington Boulevard

Bartlesville, Oklahoma

Helen Shell Obituary

Helen McKinney Shell was born in Watonga, Oklahoma, on February 26, 1923 to Gladys and Jim McKinney. Helen went to be with her Lord on February 14, 2019 surrounded by loved ones. Her memorial service will be at East Cross United Methodist Church, Bartlesville, Oklahoma, on Friday, February 22, 2019 at 1:00pm.
Family will receive guests at Stumpff Funeral Home from 5:30 to 7:30 pm, Thursday, February 21. Private committal rites will be accorded Mrs. Shell in the Memorial Park Cemetery.
Helen completed her elementary grades in Watonga, OK, and her high school education in Medicine Lodge, Kansas, where she met her future husband, Francis J. Shell. In high school she was a cheerleader, manager of intramural teams for her class, and held various class offices. She graduated as Valedictorian of her Senior Class in May 1941.
After graduation from high school, she attended Fort Hays Kansas State College where she graduated with a degree in Economics and Business Administration. While in college she worked in the College Business Office. She was actively involved in Women's Leadership Organization, Y.W.C.A., W.A.A., Tigerettes (pep squad), Debate. Orchesis, Delta Sigma Epsilon and was in Who's Who in American Colleges and Universities.
Helen married Frank J. Shell on January 20, 1944 after he returned from flying 35 bombing missions in the ETO. They returned to Hays to complete their degrees. After Hays and Lexington, KY, they moved to Bartlesville, OK, where they both lived until their deaths.
To this union were born three children: Barbara Walker, retired professor at OSU Tulsa; Fran Barton, retired teacher at McGuinnis High School in Oklahoma City; and Bob Shell, retired Financial Advisor at Edward Jones in Bartlesville. Helen was very devoted to her husband, children, and all her family and friends.
Helen's working career consisted of 21 years of service with the Bartlesville School System. She retired as Manager of Data Processing, Payroll, and Personnel Services in February 1985.
Helen was a member of East Cross United Methodist Church, Rachel Circle, Tuesday morning prayer group, and the Hospital Visitation Ministry. Helen was active in Girl Scouting, and loved being a hospital volunteer. In her retirement she enjoyed playing bridge with her family and friends. She loved working at Tuesday House. In her spare time, she enjoyed playing golf with the Adams Women's Golf Association.
Helen and Frank enjoyed traveling and having friends over for bridge or conversation. They especially enjoyed their grandchildren: Sharon Walker, the late Chris Walker, Rory Addington, Drew Addington, and Christie Hewitt.
In lieu of flowers it was Helen's request that donations be made to the Frank J. and Helen M. Shell Scholarship Endowment Fund at the Oklahoma United Methodist Foundation, Inc., 4201 Classen Blvd. Oklahoma City, Oklahoma 73118 or to a charity of the donor's choice.
Helen is survived by children Barbara Walker of Owasso, Oklahoma, Fran Barton and husband Craig of Oklahoma City, Oklahoma, and Bob Shell and wife Mary of Bartlesville, Oklahoma; four grandchildren: Roy Addington and wife Celene, Sharon Walker, Drew Addington, Christie Hewitt and husband Jamie; four great grandchildren: Raleigh Addington, Benjiman Hewitt, Emilie Hewitt, Eliana Hewitt; and many nieces, nephews, and friends. She was preceded in death by her grandparents, parents, four sisters, three brothers-in-law, aunt, uncle, grandson, granddaughter-in-law, great grandson, and her dear husband Frank.
Friends who wish may sign the online guestbook and leave condolences at www.stumpff.org.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Examiner-Enterprise from Feb. 17 to Mar. 16, 2019.

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Bob & Ginny Pahl

March 6, 2019

We are so sorry to hear of Helen's passing. We knew her from the hencwe joined East Cross in 1974. She was such a mentor in our Christian walk & was one of the sweetest ladies we've ever known!!! We loved her and Frank so much!!

Jack & Mary Ann Clark

February 21, 2019

Our prayers and thoughts are with your family as you celebrate Helen's wonderful life. She was always a ray of sunshine to be around. Sincerely, Jack and Mary Ann Clark

Pat Dunn

February 21, 2019

We love you Helen, Barb, Fran and Bob. Pat Dunn and Family, Shawn, Shane and Shannon, Brett, Orlean, Rex and grandchildren, Bri, Makenna, Colin, Josh, Teagan and Declan. We will miss you here on earth but the memories of your smile and vivacious personality will stay with us for a lifetime. JESUS CHRIST is now holding you and Frank is smiling. Your Mom, my Mom are waiting to hug you as is all of your sisters, brothers in law, cousins and most of all Granny and Uncle Vernon and your two wonderful Fathers plus my Dad, Keith Dunn , who loved having all of you visit the farm.

Lisa Kwaterski

February 21, 2019

To Fran: You are in my prayers today in remembering your dear mother. She raised a wonderful, talent daughter and friend. May your family and friends comfort you at this time. Sincerely, Lisa

Pat Dunn

February 19, 2019

I love you Helen, say hi to Frank and all of our wonderful family in Heaven. We will miss your beautiful smile and personality.

Dolores Merrill

February 18, 2019

Helen was more like a mom then a friend, she was always there to encourage, support, and show her love of each and all of us.

Frank and Kim Kelley

February 17, 2019

Kim and I send our condolences to the family as members of Bobs Heartland District Civitan famil.

May C

February 16, 2019

Please accept my heartfelt sympathy in the loss of your loved one. May the God who comforts all who mourn sustain your family during this difficult time. Isaiah 61:1,2

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