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Erik Halldorson Obituary

Erik Sveinn Halldorson

ROSLINDALE, Mass. - Erik Sveinn Halldorson, age 40, ended his own life on the morning of Dec. 7, 2012 in Lincoln, after a long, private battle with depression.

Erik was born Nov. 10, 1972 in Wisconsin. He and his younger brother, Jeffrey, were adopted together in 1976 by Sue and James Halldorson. His family moved to Durham, in his fourth -rade year. While in his early teens his mother gave birth to two boys, giving Erik two more brothers.

Erik attended Oyster River High School where he found an outlet and use for his impressive, 6 feet 5 inches frame in basketball. He was a star player and much loved member of the student body. After high school he attended Plymouth State College where he majored in biology and chemistry and was a member of the Delta Chi Fraternity.

After college Erik did some traveling before settling back in Durham on a friend's family farm while working at Lonza Biologics in Portsmouth. In more recent years Erik had moved to the Boston area where he worked for Genzyme.

Erik possessed boundless intellectual and spiritual curiosity. He grappled with philosophy and immersed his soul into books, music and art, all while searching for answers layered within the human condition. He cherished his friends with his rare gift of empathy, and reached us all in different ways. His unique kindness, humility, and innocence were expressed with a wry sense of humor that was felt by each person graced by his companionship.

Erik is survived by his longtime domestic partner and best friend, Heather Hahn, his brother Jeff and sister-in-law Kelly, their three children Wolfgang, Griffin and Xoey, brothers Christopher and Thomas, mother Susan and many friends from high school, college, "The Farm," work and the world.

A memorial service will be held at the Durham Community Church in Durham, N.H., on Saturday, Dec. 15, at 11 a.m. followed by a post memorial gathering at the Riverworks in Newmarket, N.H.

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Published by Foster's Daily Democrat from Dec. 14 to Dec. 17, 2012.

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Heather Hahn

January 8, 2014

always in my heart. xo

Heather

May 30, 2013

Missing you every minute of every day.

Heather Hahn

January 1, 2013

I love you and miss you, more than you ever thought possible, I imagine. I have faith you are in a better place because you believed there is such a place.

Jenni Gerhard

December 19, 2012

In The End...only Love matters. You are Loved! Fly on Eric. Youre free. Time to go Home beautiful boy. Its ok. Everythings gonna be alright.

Lisa Reinke

December 18, 2012

I worked with Erik at Lonza. He had an artist's soul and great depth of feeling. As an artist myself, we usually found ourselves conversing about topics that don't usually come up in casual conversation like beauty, sadness, joy and life's rhythms. I could tell his well of sorrow was deep, but so was his capacity for wonder. I am a bit stunned the wonder didn't help him pull through the depression, but I suppose when you meet depression over and over the battle gets harder to fight. I will remember always his very humane soul. Rest in Peace, Erik, and may your family and friends treasure fond memories.

Lynn Dupuis

December 17, 2012

Sue, CJ,& Tom: Im so sorry to hear of your loss.Sending my thoughts and prayers to you and your family during this difficult time.

Bobby Judson

December 17, 2012

Erik you will be missed, you have helped shape my career at lonza, you were a great teacher and a good person!!!!

Tawnya Priest

December 16, 2012

So sorry to hear of your loss. I worked with Erik at Lonza in Portsmouth and it was with great pleasure. He will be sadly missed.

Sherm

December 15, 2012

You will be missed Erik. I will not forget the times we shared. See you on the otherside.

David & Mary Ann Roberge

December 14, 2012

Jeff & Kellie: You lived next to us on Pleasant Street and we want to express our sympathy on your brother's passing. Perhaps he finally has peace. May God bless you all.

Woody & Doris Woodruff

December 14, 2012

Sue, Jim, CJ & Tom; So sorry to hear of your loss. Always remember better times with Erik. God Bless.

Woody, Doris, Scott, Tim & Will Woodruff

December 14, 2012

I'm so very sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to all who know and love him

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